Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
Leo Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Merc, Libra Venus, Capricorn Mars, Aries Asc.

It's pretty clear that he liked you and even though he pushed you away, it's not like you two had had a major blowout. As he mentioned, he admitted that he grew tired of your aloof nature. He felt you were too detached and didn't care about him (which I mentioned a while back would probably be the issue between you two).

To be fair he WAS done with you. If you had not contacted him, you would have never heard from him again. However because you decided to be direct and honest, instead of playing mind games, he chose to engage you in conversation. As I mentioned many times before, Leos respond best to the direct approach. We loathe passive aggressive behavior and become stubborn when we feel we're being manipulated.

He is definitely still mad if he's cold and giving you very little emotion. The idea is you're going to need to open him back up emotionally. As he already stated he didn't think you were actually into him. As a result it will take some time for him to trust your words. For Leos actions (or inaction) speak louder than words. A Leo knows that a person who is interested in us will want to be around us (that's because we have that mentality when we like someone too).

Fortunately for you, he hasn't completely iced over yet. When a Leo truly goes cold, we will ignore/block the other person indefintely (or forever). You caught him before that happened, which is why he was willing to talk to you. Deep down there was some emotion left. This is true for all fixed signs. When we say we are done with a person, there may still be some lingering emotion that keeps us vulnerable before we go completely cold. This is the last chance to reconcile with a fixed sign if you are hoping to get them back. The real question is, do you have what it takes to open him back up?

Just remember that fixed signs can be very serious about our approach to romance. You should know this since you have a fixed moon. Also know that your rebellious nature (Aqua Moon) and need to balance out your scales (Libra Sun) will rub him the wrong away. Also know that since he felt neglected/rejected the LAST thing you want to do is to give him space. He'll think you're still not interested and he'll burn the bridge. The best solution is to give the Leo the attention he desires. That way he'll actually be able to see your interest in him. Like I said before, be direct.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!


It's for your own good


Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!


You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.


That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!


Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?


Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power


I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,


I'm not talking about the short wearing

I'm talking about independence


K, but still not understanding how independence plays into this particular scenario.


Whelp if she wants the freedom to dress how she'd like. Don't you think being independent of her parents might be the solution


I think that while she's under her parents' roof, her parents' rules apply. If mom says, "Don't wear short shorts around Dad," that's the long and the short of it. The reason for the rule is unimportant and really doesn't have anything to do with OP's independence. If OP wishes to do her own thing, then she can get her own place too.


Can you admit the situation is super gross

I've never heard of such a thing
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That's assuming OP is being told not to wear short shorts around her dad because of sexual reasons. I think OP is misinterpreting a pretty normal request. This is why I said to OP that she's missing the point.

If I were a father, I would tell my daughter to put on clothes as well. It's the same reason I don't walk around in my underwear when I'm around my parents. Granted I'm aware that some families are more comfortable than others, but in OP's case it sounds like the rules have been set regarding what is appropriate attire in the house around her parents.

I also don't think OP's mother is saying this for the father's benefit or to infringe upon OP's independence. When the mom says, "There are men in the house" she is talking about more than one person (even if the father is the only one present at the time). Sounds like the mother is setting a standard of dress in the house for a reaon (I would assume for when other men are present as well).

I don't doubt that OP's mother is also setting standards for what she feels her daughter should be wearing outside oft he house as well. Again I doubt this has anything to do with OP's father's mentality around her.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!


It's for your own good


Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!


You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.


That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!


Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?


Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power


I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,


I'm not talking about the short wearing

I'm talking about independence


K, but still not understanding how independence plays into this particular scenario.


Whelp if she wants the freedom to dress how she'd like. Don't you think being independent of her parents might be the solution
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I think that while she's under her parents' roof, her parents' rules apply. If mom says, "Don't wear short shorts around Dad," that's the long and the short of it. The reason for the rule is unimportant and really doesn't have anything to do with OP's independence. If OP wishes to do her own thing, then she can get her own place too.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!


It's for your own good


Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!


You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.


That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!


Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?


Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power


I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,


I'm not talking about the short wearing

I'm talking about independence
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K, but still not understanding how independence plays into this particular scenario.
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!


It's for your own good


Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!


You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.


That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!


Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?


Come on dawg. Let's empower her.

Rape isn't about clothes. But power
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I never said anything about rape. Also not sure how wearing short shorts around one's father is empowering,
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!


It's for your own good


Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!


You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.


That's the whole problem Chuck he does I've seen the print already. I just don't know why I have to be less comfortable because the guy whose sperm I literally am can't keep his men part down!
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Do you ever want to face the awkward (potentially traumatizing) reality of that situation? Or would you rather just wear gym shorts?
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Being told 'there are men(my dad) in the house' when I want to be comfortable in short shorts. Like how disgusting! Who objectifies their daughter like that??!


It's for your own good


Yea but Its gross and sucks that you would even have to tell your daughter that it's your own kid!!!
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You're missing the point. Why would you even want to wear short shorts around your dad? Would you want your dad wearing tighty-whities around you? You know, the type of underwear that leaves very little to the imagination? Think about that the next time you feel the need to wear short shorts around family.
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WOW thank you so much for your very long explanation... that makes things a lot CLEAR for me...

ok we both wanted to try and observe.. and the idea of the swingers was yes his idea and to be honest..there was alot of cancelling and not so sure from my part....
but we had a fight about me keeping my words so i had to stick with it..

even 2 nights before i askedh im * like...are you going to be sexing another girl infront of me? because i need to be mentally prepared? and hes like yes babe thats the idea of a swinger ....* andi 'm like ...* ok....then i'm like, and u wont b mad or feel hurt if i sex with another guy infron of u ? * and he's like * again thats the idea babe its to see how we will feel about it *...

so that was his answer so i went with it eventhough i wasn't ok or happy but i forced my mind to be PREPARED coz it sounded to me that he didn't care... lol...ofcoz the actions shown other wise..

during the night, we both we very nervous yes and i was the run of the show.. i didn't have sex with any guy..or girl but in the end yes....i did pretty much go to the hot girl we both liked and jumped in... haha i didn't sex with any guy or anything but i know its his true fantasy to see me with another girl..or whatever... but that was all we did together....i didin't sex with a man...he didn't kiss a girl.. he just kissed her boobs lol....

then we had sex just the two of us and it was rocking.. haha

and since the party,...he was even sweeter than normal... like truly sweet and pretty much said sorry to be the whole entire time !!! and i told him... * no babe its ok, its kind of sweet lol *

..that was us that night.. he then drove me home and caught and uber back...

during our romance talk moments at this place.. i asked if he can stop flirting with all the girls online i know he says hes not sleeping with them..but hes like.. no babe i can't coz i'm not ready for a girlfriend...dah dee dah dee dah..then i'm like ok.. and he spent another 2 hours talking and wudn't let me go while i try to detach and get away lol...

its like a typical game he plays or something..

anyhow, on the way back i asked him about his past babes but he kept mentioning about his ex griflriends....so in a way, he acts like i'm his girlfriend yet sometimes scared of the topic...

he also tells people we r dating...

so god knows what goes on in that head and i'm tired of figuring that out hehe

my moon in aqua is exhausted....

he also said we have emotional connection... lol whatever that means...
since then i am the one who decide i can't b an option anymore u know...i'm kind of exhausted about it...

but what do u think i shud do?

is he testing me again to c if i will go n f around?

aqua brain is insane.. and u r right, whats the point of the idea if its not put into action HAHAHAHA

thank god its not our thing at all....

thank you for your input i truly appreciate it....



Knowing that informaiton, it sounds to me that you actually passed his test. Sounds like he's a little too rebellious, even for his own mind. The fact that he talked up this whole thing, but wasn't prepared for the reality of the swinger's party shows that he probaby bites off more than he can chew.

You going through this probably sent a very real signal to his brain that you can push the limit as well. To be fair, the whole thing may have even turned him on, but I will suggest not getting too emotionally wrapped up in this guy. His excuse as to why he "can't" stop flirting with random women online is nonsense.. Sounds like he's just another boy who is afraid of commitent. Just let him know that you like him and it hurts you when he flirts with other women. If he likes having you around, he can't be willing to cause you pain. (Also let's not forget that you're having sex with him.)

If he's dumb enough to let you go, that's his problem. If he cares about you, he'll come running back the moment a new man enters your life.
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do i know who youre talking about?lol


Aries and Leo guy ... lol ... but I was talking to @Chuckcem and this convo came up ... so I was 'inspired' ... I'm hella bored at work ok? give me a break


The easiest way to make an Aqua jealous is to get some REALLY good food, then eat it in front of them while doing a happy dance.


evil to the core



seriously though... that BBQ looked bomb lol and I ... H A T E bbq


Hahahaha, I was originally going to make wings, but the prices were terrible. So making BBQ drumsticks made a lot more sense. One guy made baby back ribs and salmon (phenomenal) and another guy came later and made carne asada (also phenomenal).


looove carne asada, with guac, nopas, and frijoes! lol........im gonna have to invite you to a carne asada... none of this BBQ nonsense hahaa


I love carne asada as well. Basically if it's meat and you can grill it, I'm down. When I was in college we had a few places to grab food on campus. At one of the locations you could order carne asade with rice and beans. The college actually had a solid culinary staff, so the food was BOMB.

Also you can't dislike BBQ until you've tried the different variations. There's unfortunately not a lot of quality American BBQ here (just like cajun food). There's some but they are PRICEY. So I usually wind up making my own.


hahaha, way to economize! #virgomoon for the win! .... lol ..... yeah this is around the time Carne Asada season is in heat! ... I need to find a good restaurant...if not ask big sis when she's doing a BBQ
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Yeah let me know. My favorite Mexican restaurant closed its doors a few months ago because the family who ran it for the last 60 years got offered MILLLIONS to sell it (including the recipes). Fingers crossed that the new owners bring back the restuarant, but who knows.
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So Geminis don't do well with too much emotional weight. Once they feel that a friendship has run it's course, they'll let it fade. They don't get hung up on sentimentality or history. If the relationship comes back organically, then great, but normally they move on with their lives.

One of my Cancer friends had a Gemini housemate who I was friends with too. The Gemini guy was more hyperactive and sometimes bratty because he could be pretentious. The Cancer guy was more laid back, though he could be moody at times. They eventually got on each other's nerves and the Gemini guy moved out when we got into med school out of state. They continued talking here and there, but I don't think they communicate much anymore. The friendship that they had for a decade basically fizzled.

I talk to the Cancer guy every day and haven't heard from the Gemini for a couple of years. Geminis tend to come and go. If they don't feel like there is a reason to stick around, they don't see the point in wasting their time an maintaing those relationships.

Also Geminis will cut ties of things seem off in the relatioship/friendship. They don't easily forget things either. Yelling at her was one tihng, but leaving her over the holidays was probably the final blow.


i thought they were teflon, i mean jfc people just throwing friendships away like underwear

i don't think i did was bad.

it was somewhat selfish, but not bad, plus i apologized and owned up to it

oh well what makes me really angry is now i wont have a place to stay in NYC

more selfish


They're not so much teflon, they're needs are just different. They work more from a logical standpoint, but that doesn't mean that they don't feel. Besides in nature there's always a certain amount of water in air. In fact water uses air as a method to move itself around.

Geminis can get VERY emotional once you know them. They can be hurt, they just don't dwell on it. Instead they choose jettison that person out of their lives. Their duality therefore makes it harder for people to peg them. They can be cold one moment and hot the next (instantly). It doesn't mean they don't care though, they are just are harder to read if your outlook tends to be more emotinoal.

I say this because aside from knowing a bunch of Geminis in the past, my mom is one (as was her father, my grandfather).


ya i know geminis aren't cold and can be emotional

but this detachment has me very confused

but okay


Have you tried calling her up?


no. not yet.
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Hm, well good thing is, Geminis are communicative typically. If she doesn't pick up and/or call you back then there's your answer. Might as well clear the air.
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I found this awesome site where you can check someones planets without putting their details in to calculate the planets. Just click on the year they are born, then on the month and it will apear their position of the planets. And that goes up to 2037.

http://www.signsbystars.com/ephemeris-en-18-0.htm


Maybe toss this into the How To boards (before it gets pushed down and lost forever). Seems like an interesting way to reverse search a person's placements.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology-how-to/
Well that sounds like more of a managerial aspect. What about sales or marketing?
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So Geminis don't do well with too much emotional weight. Once they feel that a friendship has run it's course, they'll let it fade. They don't get hung up on sentimentality or history. If the relationship comes back organically, then great, but normally they move on with their lives.

One of my Cancer friends had a Gemini housemate who I was friends with too. The Gemini guy was more hyperactive and sometimes bratty because he could be pretentious. The Cancer guy was more laid back, though he could be moody at times. They eventually got on each other's nerves and the Gemini guy moved out when we got into med school out of state. They continued talking here and there, but I don't think they communicate much anymore. The friendship that they had for a decade basically fizzled.

I talk to the Cancer guy every day and haven't heard from the Gemini for a couple of years. Geminis tend to come and go. If they don't feel like there is a reason to stick around, they don't see the point in wasting their time an maintaing those relationships.

Also Geminis will cut ties of things seem off in the relatioship/friendship. They don't easily forget things either. Yelling at her was one tihng, but leaving her over the holidays was probably the final blow.


i thought they were teflon, i mean jfc people just throwing friendships away like underwear

i don't think i did was bad.

it was somewhat selfish, but not bad, plus i apologized and owned up to it

oh well what makes me really angry is now i wont have a place to stay in NYC

more selfish


They're not so much teflon, they're needs are just different. They work more from a logical standpoint, but that doesn't mean that they don't feel. Besides in nature there's always a certain amount of water in air. In fact water uses air as a method to move itself around.

Geminis can get VERY emotional once you know them. They can be hurt, they just don't dwell on it. Instead they choose jettison that person out of their lives. Their duality therefore makes it harder for people to peg them. They can be cold one moment and hot the next (instantly). It doesn't mean they don't care though, they are just are harder to read if your outlook tends to be more emotinoal.

I say this because aside from knowing a bunch of Geminis in the past, my mom is one (as was her father, my grandfather).


ya i know geminis aren't cold and can be emotional

but this detachment has me very confused

but okay
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Have you tried calling her up?
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So Geminis don't do well with too much emotional weight. Once they feel that a friendship has run it's course, they'll let it fade. They don't get hung up on sentimentality or history. If the relationship comes back organically, then great, but normally they move on with their lives.

One of my Cancer friends had a Gemini housemate who I was friends with too. The Gemini guy was more hyperactive and sometimes bratty because he could be pretentious. The Cancer guy was more laid back, though he could be moody at times. They eventually got on each other's nerves and the Gemini guy moved out when we got into med school out of state. They continued talking here and there, but I don't think they communicate much anymore. The friendship that they had for a decade basically fizzled.

I talk to the Cancer guy every day and haven't heard from the Gemini for a couple of years. Geminis tend to come and go. If they don't feel like there is a reason to stick around, they don't see the point in wasting their time an maintaing those relationships.

Also Geminis will cut ties of things seem off in the relatioship/friendship. They don't easily forget things either. Yelling at her was one tihng, but leaving her over the holidays was probably the final blow.


i thought they were teflon, i mean jfc people just throwing friendships away like underwear

i don't think i did was bad.

it was somewhat selfish, but not bad, plus i apologized and owned up to it

oh well what makes me really angry is now i wont have a place to stay in NYC

more selfish
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They're not so much teflon, they're needs are just different. They work more from a logical standpoint, but that doesn't mean that they don't feel. Besides in nature there's always a certain amount of water in air. In fact water uses air as a method to move itself around.

Geminis can get VERY emotional once you know them. They can be hurt, they just don't dwell on it. Instead they choose jettison that person out of their lives. Their duality therefore makes it harder for people to peg them. They can be cold one moment and hot the next (instantly). It doesn't mean they don't care though, they are just are harder to read if your outlook tends to be more emotinoal.

I say this because aside from knowing a bunch of Geminis in the past, my mom is one (as was her father, my grandfather).
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i dated a Leo and he constantly needed attention.. he would even text me asking me for attention lol... i couldnt deal with it.. i felt like he was too emotional for me... two emotional people does not mix well in my opinion. i can be cold and emotional...but when i do have my emotional moments i want someone to lift me up... not someone who is also having an emotional moment lol.... when i was sad, he was too. when i was frustrated, he was too... it was like come on! i need you to help me get out of it not fall in the butter hole with me hahahaha



Right, that sounds like your Leo was a bit more on the emotional side. Do you remember is placements? A Leo will reflect your emotions back to you when we think we are the target of those emotions. This is something an emotionally confident/mature Leo wouldn't do. Capricorns can be moody when upset, so a Leo who doesn't understand that will become moody or even retaliate.

I have a few Capricorn friends, a couple of whom I'm really close to and have known for a long time. They can get VERY moody when upset and even lash out. I however try to lighten the mood with logic and humor because I know the phase will eventually pass. It's also the same method I use with Cancers.
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do i know who youre talking about?lol


Aries and Leo guy ... lol ... but I was talking to @Chuckcem and this convo came up ... so I was 'inspired' ... I'm hella bored at work ok? give me a break


The easiest way to make an Aqua jealous is to get some REALLY good food, then eat it in front of them while doing a happy dance.


evil to the core



seriously though... that BBQ looked bomb lol and I ... H A T E bbq


Hahahaha, I was originally going to make wings, but the prices were terrible. So making BBQ drumsticks made a lot more sense. One guy made baby back ribs and salmon (phenomenal) and another guy came later and made carne asada (also phenomenal).


looove carne asada, with guac, nopas, and frijoes! lol........im gonna have to invite you to a carne asada... none of this BBQ nonsense hahaa
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I love carne asada as well. Basically if it's meat and you can grill it, I'm down. When I was in college we had a few places to grab food on campus. At one of the locations you could order carne asade with rice and beans. The college actually had a solid culinary staff, so the food was BOMB.

Also you can't dislike BBQ until you've tried the different variations. There's unfortunately not a lot of quality American BBQ here (just like cajun food). There's some but they are PRICEY. So I usually wind up making my own.
So Geminis don't do well with too much emotional weight. Once they feel that a friendship has run it's course, they'll let it fade. They don't get hung up on sentimentality or history. If the relationship comes back organically, then great, but normally they move on with their lives.

One of my Cancer friends had a Gemini housemate who I was friends with too. The Gemini guy was more hyperactive and sometimes bratty because he could be pretentious. The Cancer guy was more laid back, though he could be moody at times. They eventually got on each other's nerves and the Gemini guy moved out when we got into med school out of state. They continued talking here and there, but I don't think they communicate much anymore. The friendship that they had for a decade basically fizzled.

I talk to the Cancer guy every day and haven't heard from the Gemini for a couple of years. Geminis tend to come and go. If they don't feel like there is a reason to stick around, they don't see the point in wasting their time an maintaing those relationships.

Also Geminis will cut ties of things seem off in the relatioship/friendship. They don't easily forget things either. Yelling at her was one tihng, but leaving her over the holidays was probably the final blow.
Oral sex is a very easy way to express comfort/trust with your partner. It also shows how generous a partner can be and how serious they about meeting their partner's needs. It's also just fun, so it doesn't make sense to not incorporate it into the bedroom.

From my own personal experience, Ive never been with someone who didn't appreciate it. People I've known who've admitted to not liking oral sex viewed it as "gross". To which I'd respond, the act of sex is "gross" so what's the difference really? If someone finds oral sex disgusting it just comes off as prudish to me.

Also oral sex brings a certain creative flare ot the bedroom. It can also be an efficient way to "control" sexual stimulation. There's an odd power that comes with oral sex. I've found that when people have issues in the bedroom, they don't incorporate oral nearly as much as they could.
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do i know who youre talking about?lol


Aries and Leo guy ... lol ... but I was talking to @Chuckcem and this convo came up ... so I was 'inspired' ... I'm hella bored at work ok? give me a break


The easiest way to make an Aqua jealous is to get some REALLY good food, then eat it in front of them while doing a happy dance.


evil to the core



seriously though... that BBQ looked bomb lol and I ... H A T E bbq
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Hahahaha, I was originally going to make wings, but the prices were terrible. So making BBQ drumsticks made a lot more sense. One guy made baby back ribs and salmon (phenomenal) and another guy came later and made carne asada (also phenomenal).
Posted by mer-eye-uh
wow i feel like you nailed it... i find the Leo's that i have met so far as needy and they dont give me space.. is that a normal thing for leo's?



It's pretty common, but it also depends on the Leo. Leos are warmer creatures than Capricorns. We enjoy outward displays of affection and passion. Whenever I've dated women with Capricorn placements, they were shocked at how affectionate I could be. (This is also because my Mars is in Capricorn, so I can seem aloof/stoic until a woman gets to know me.)

So it depends on what you mean by "needy". Leos are known for wanting attention, more so from our lovers/objects of our affection than anyone else. A Leo who has low self esteem may be more needy as well. This can be true for other signs as well.

However Leos also like the space to be ourselves. So there are plenty of Leos who will be completely fine with giving you your space. We do like consistency though, so even when we're away, we won't be gone for long. In fact we tend to stay more than we leave. If you're the type who does not like a lot of physical interaction though, then a Leo isn't the right choice.

Also know that every fixed sign wishes to "own" their partner in some way. Leos want our partner's hearts to ourselves more than anything else. So if your Leo feels appropriately love, they will also be less clingy.