Nameless Nemean

Chuckcem
joined August 24, 2011
maleFour neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
Leo Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Merc, Libra Venus, Capricorn Mars, Aries Asc.
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
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    Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    Posted by Chuckcem
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    Posted by Chuckcem
    You've been with a Leo for four years, there's no point in asking complete strangers about how your relationship is supposed to go based on your zodiac signs. Try getting to know him better.


    That’s the point of this site though. So harsh.

    Leo are not easy to figure out so I don’t blame her. So much hidden with these natives.


    It's not harsh to say that OP has more information about her own relationship than we do. She doesn't need anyone here to tell her how the Leo should act based his zodiac sign. OP hasn't mentioned any real issue in the relationship. What possible information could she glean from random stangers? Any information she gets here will more than likely make her paranoid for no reason. Leos are direct when people are direct with us. OP doesn't need to overcomplicate the situation by bringing in outside "help" if there's no issue in her relationship.


    Dude you need to chill
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    If OP wants to figure out her Leo, she should talk to him.
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    Posted by Chuckcem
    You've been with a Leo for four years, there's no point in asking complete strangers about how your relationship is supposed to go based on your zodiac signs. Try getting to know him better.


    That’s the point of this site though. So harsh.

    Leo are not easy to figure out so I don’t blame her. So much hidden with these natives.
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    It's not harsh to say that OP has more information about her own relationship than we do. She doesn't need anyone here to tell her how the Leo should act based his zodiac sign. OP hasn't mentioned any real issue in the relationship. What possible information could she glean from random stangers? Any information she gets here will more than likely make her paranoid for no reason. Leos are direct when people are direct with us. OP doesn't need to overcomplicate the situation by bringing in outside "help" if there's no issue in her relationship.
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
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    You've been with a Leo for four years, there's no point in asking complete strangers about how your relationship is supposed to go based on your zodiac signs. Try getting to know him better.
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by Berzerker
    @Chuckcem the leos in my facebook do a status for every butter they are doing in daily routine, and 90% of their fb friends are totally unknow people


    They sound lonely, the types without real human relationships/connections. Most of the Leos I know (myself included) barely post and rarely have more than one or two forms of social media.
  • Chuckcem
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    Immature people in general tend to do this, it's usually called vague booking (at least when it's on Facebook). However for the most part Leos tend to care less about social media than most other signs. It simply isn't real to us, so we tend not to take it too seriously. Posting pictures of ourselves? Sure, a Leo may do that often. However using social media to get attention? We don't really need to do that when we already know how to get attention in real life.
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by Lin0629
    What’s wrong with your face??😂😂😂😂


    How do you mean?
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by heliumfiasco
    I'd love to see the responses for "If your man was treetrunking another dude would you be upset?"

    I bet women would be more upset than if he was banging another woman.

    The double standard is HUGE.


    Very true. It all has to do with our base drives and what the sexes each consider important.
  • Chuckcem
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    I'll be honest, I'd probably be less offended and a bit more open to talking about it if the other person was a woman. While the acts of lying, cheating, and secrecy would rub me the wrong way, I typically don't see women as sexual competition. The way I see it, you're either into my half of the species or you're not. If you're into women as well, then be honest and we can talk about it.

    Obviosuly another woman brings something to the table that I as a man I literally can't provide. Also I wouldn't have to worry about my partner getting pregnant by a woman. If somehow opening up the relationship resulted in my benefit in the bedroom, then I'd be less upset. However you said there was no potential for a threesome, so I'd be more likely to burn the bridge.

    My biggest concerns would be the break in trust and intimacy. I'd have a hard time putting energy and time into a relationship with a person who was stepping out on me. I'd be concerned that a partner who felt the need to sneak behind my back wouldn't be trustworthy in general. So regardless, I'd still end the relationship (or at least the exclusivity) so that I cold focus on finding a more suitable partner.

    As a Leo I'm not trying to share my partner or be with someone dishonest. If I was being put on the backburner by my partner for someone else, I'd do the self respecting thing and end it.
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by Snowx3
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    Posted by Chuckcem
    Leo and Aqua is confusing indeed, however I think in this case the Leo wasn't emotionally ready. Likewise Leos and Aquas have a pacing issue when dealing with each other. Both expect the other to divulge their emotions first. This can create some strange miscommunication between the two.


    Yeah, I did sensed that in general he weren't really ready but he wanted to push himself. I did tell him to take his time on things or even message his ex at the very start. But he was dead strong he wouldn't go back to her and she's dead to him. So I obviously knew, he weren't over but it was nice to have some company. click to expand


    He could actually mean those words, but he's probably coming more from a place of hurt rather than logic. In reality his emotions are still raw. We Leos seek to move on from our pain as quickly as possible, so having a new romantic partner can help with that. However this all appears to have happened too quickly and the Leo may have tried to force himself to move faster than his heart was willing to allow.

    I think the ex is still on his mind, if not still in the picture. More than likely she or he are trying to rekindle things. click to expand


    Yeah it’s true, he did seem broken at the start. But it was something assuming for me, just a bit bizarre and dramatic right now even though my ego is hurt a bit like makes me think was it me or did I do anything wrong? But hope he really heals somehow because I don’t think this is the right way, plus it will repeat again click to expand
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    This fortunately has really nothing to do with you. Everything between you to was just too early and too fresh for the Leo to pursue. I wouldn't waste too much time thinking about this guy if I were you.
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by Snowx3
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Leo and Aqua is confusing indeed, however I think in this case the Leo wasn't emotionally ready. Likewise Leos and Aquas have a pacing issue when dealing with each other. Both expect the other to divulge their emotions first. This can create some strange miscommunication between the two.


    Yeah, I did sensed that in general he weren't really ready but he wanted to push himself. I did tell him to take his time on things or even message his ex at the very start. But he was dead strong he wouldn't go back to her and she's dead to him. So I obviously knew, he weren't over but it was nice to have some company. click to expand
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    He could actually mean those words, but he's probably coming more from a place of hurt rather than logic. In reality his emotions are still raw. We Leos seek to move on from our pain as quickly as possible, so having a new romantic partner can help with that. However this all appears to have happened too quickly and the Leo may have tried to force himself to move faster than his heart was willing to allow.

    I think the ex is still on his mind, if not still in the picture. More than likely she or he are trying to rekindle things.
  • Chuckcem
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    Leo and Aqua is confusing indeed, however I think in this case the Leo wasn't emotionally ready. Likewise Leos and Aquas have a pacing issue when dealing with each other. Both expect the other to divulge their emotions first. This can create some strange miscommunication between the two.
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by EnvyYi
    Just wanted to give an update on this. I ended up not asking him out but I did ask him if he ever wanted to meet and he said it was too soon. He told me he is very picky about who he meets in real life. We continued to text for a couple more weeks. He wanted more and more pictures. He was extra intense and flirty. Literally we texted all day on a Sunday, and then Monday I didn't hear from him. I did reach out but got really brief texts and I stopped reaching out and I didn't hear from him.


    Sounds like this guy was a catfish unfortunately.
  • Chuckcem
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    Only if you're trying to constantly annoy them.
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by Meowpie
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Depends on how things ended. I think anyone would be open to going back to an ex if things ended agreeably between both parties and the Leo didn't find someone more suitable for him/herself. HOWEVER know that just because things ended amicably, doesn't mean the Leo will return (at least not in a romantic way).

    I personally got tired of relationships ending poorly, so I made it a mission to end things on a light note as much as possible. However in light of that if certain exes were to try and return, I'd either be extremely skeptical or have a few choice words for them. It wouldn't be easy to get my heart back at all because I would feel too much time was wasted by that individual. I would question their ability to maintain a solid relationship.

    The easiest way to get a Leo back is when the fire is still lit in our hearts. If we're still holding a torch for you, then there's still hope. The problem is most people take far too long to rekindle things after the breakup. The time apart allows us to reflect on the relationship, and possiby even grow resentful toward it. If we're allowed to reflect we may come to the conclusion that the breakup was for the best. That's especially true once we start engaging new love prospects. We won't be resentful, but instead appreciative of the breakup. However if we are resentful, the time apart will turn us cold. At that point it's incredibly difficult to turn things around (though not impossible). Most people don't have the sheer force of will to overcome a Leo's stubborn mindset once we're cold.

    Also know that as a fixed sign, Leos don't forget hurts. We're not vengeful like some other signs, but we have long memories and do not forget past pains quickly.


    *claps* rings true.

    What are your placement, I am very curious.
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    Me? Leo Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Mercury, Libra Venus, Cap Mars, Aries Rising.
  • Chuckcem
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    Depends on how things ended. I think anyone would be open to going back to an ex if things ended agreeably between both parties and the Leo didn't find someone more suitable for him/herself. HOWEVER know that just because things ended amicably, doesn't mean the Leo will return (at least not in a romantic way).

    I personally got tired of relationships ending poorly, so I made it a mission to end things on a light note as much as possible. However in light of that if certain exes were to try and return, I'd either be extremely skeptical or have a few choice words for them. It wouldn't be easy to get my heart back at all because I would feel too much time was wasted by that individual. I would question their ability to maintain a solid relationship.

    The easiest way to get a Leo back is when the fire is still lit in our hearts. If we're still holding a torch for you, then there's still hope. The problem is most people take far too long to rekindle things after the breakup. The time apart allows us to reflect on the relationship, and possiby even grow resentful toward it. If we're allowed to reflect we may come to the conclusion that the breakup was for the best. That's especially true once we start engaging new love prospects. We won't be resentful, but instead appreciative of the breakup. However if we are resentful, the time apart will turn us cold. At that point it's incredibly difficult to turn things around (though not impossible). Most people don't have the sheer force of will to overcome a Leo's stubborn mindset once we're cold.

    Also know that as a fixed sign, Leos don't forget hurts. We're not vengeful like some other signs, but we have long memories and do not forget past pains quickly.
  • Chuckcem
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    Posted by ilsepardalis
    @chuckcem how do I know if he is/was truly interested in my ???? So now he wants to train my horses ???? eventhough he has a full work load ???? Maybe I should just invite him over for a drink to discuss that ????


    Well it's early, so you won't really know until you actually get to know him (which takes time). It sounds like the only reason you're confused is because this guy isn't throwing himself at you. That's normal. Leo men will flirt, even initiate, but we won't necessarily chase you. Ask him out for a drink and see what happens.
  • Chuckcem
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    So you're concerned that the Leo didn't flirt with you while he was working? Have you considered that he may have had other things on his mind? You barely even know this gut. It's possible he was simply in work mode. Likewise it's possible that he was only casually flirting with you or just being friendly. If the Leo is texting you consistently, then that means he possibly has some interest in you. Instead of worrying about the little stuff, why don't you just ask him out?