Ohhh that's make sense. Well, I wouldn't let that happen or at least try my hardest to be aware of it...I don't like people doing things for me anyway lol.
Interesting about how you feel you can't trust 8th H synastry placements. I can't say I've never felt that but usually it's just been a deep deep connection and sexual. I can't trust when their stuff falls in my 12th...it's a weird sense of knowing but not knowing...like you feel like their lying but you also know that they aren't....so fogging and confusing. 8th H is like real, raw right in front of you. At least to me.