Its my initial gut reaction that gets me in trouble. It's not like romantic stuff, just everyday things. Like, for example, he is sharing all his financial stuff with me(good and bad) and I know that is what couples do, it's called good communication... but my past partner's, even my husband, were not good with that. So I'm left here thinking "what do I say" or "how do I react" or with the bad stuff I have to stop from making a joke or saying something off or mean(because I'm used to the bad popping up unexpectedly last minute when things are already in motion or over and I had no clue it was going on). But I know, he is actually being good by communicating with me about it. It's a foreign concept to me. I like it tho and it's refreshing.