Posted by Gemitati
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It's okay girl. It's not your fault. These Scorpios are obsessed with us Gems, we are their favourite sign and replaced Tauruses. They come to us like kids run to the ice cream truck on a hot summer day!

Stay tuned you guys for my new YouTube video: True Life - Scorpios Obsessed With Me


Not her fault? You do realize they are both cheating on their spouses. For years.

lol yep. Just having my little troll moment x



I am having it for soon almost decade.
And it's funny when these now not much about love people come to remind me how to behave!
Like have you ever had what I have? No!so please shut up!
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See it's been a decade and he hasn't left his wife, and he never will. So let her enjoy her wet ass that's all you get from a married Scorpio.
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It's okay girl. It's not your fault. These Scorpios are obsessed with us Gems, we are their favourite sign and replaced Tauruses. They come to us like kids run to the ice cream truck on a hot summer day!

Stay tuned you guys for my new YouTube video: True Life - Scorpios Obsessed With Me


Not her fault? You do realize they are both cheating on their spouses. For years.


There you go.
How about accepting it a as a FACT that's not going to change or forget this? And go on as if nothing was behind? Relax would you?
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Yeah relax, triple Scorpio here.. he is never leaving his wife.. Never, never, ever. Especially for a chick who for any reason will cheat on her husband. You have nothing to worry about. EVER.. ever. ever.

Posted by dolluxe
He's moving on by detaching himself from you.

This right here... yep
Naw, she's not interested, when a person is interested in you they ask you questions.
Posted by DeadStool
She wiped right, she's into you.


Why isn't she asking questions? How are you? How was your day? Etc? She calls quite often and sends lots of pics. Does she just want someone to be into her?

What are the signs a Taurus woman from a dating app is into you?

She calls quite often, she listens, but doesn't ask any personal questions.
Usually 21-year-old guys are not thinking about having a relationship.
However if a guy does want a relationship with you there will be no doubt.
There will be no mixed signals.
It will be clear, and straightforward.
If it's not, he does not want a monogamous relationship with you like most 21 year old guys.
A unmarried single man
Actually all guys do this in the beginning for sex; it means absolutely nothing. If after 3 months he is still doing these things and you have not had sex, THEN he's into you.
Jealousy is a serious emotion and if left unchecked it can get out of control. So I will think rationally about the circumstance that triggered the incident; if I feel she purposely triggered it, I would stop seeing her because I don't have time for childish pranks, plots, games, or bullbutter. Jealousy for me is an indication it's time to go, this woman isn't making me feel secure and there is someone better out there. I will start to distance myself and find a more secure stable woman.
I found out he was talking inappropriately with another female and having her send him inappropriate photos and when I confronted him he flat out tried denying it to me even though I had proof.

Are you two married? You are acting like you have the ranking of a wife. He owes you nothing, marriage means fidelity not boyfriend. Do you have an engagement ring? Why are you acting as if this guy owes you fidelity? Are you under the delusion that a single unmarried man is going to be with one woman? Where do you chicks get this fantasy butter? Lol, He did nothing wrong, you did. You violated his boundaries by going through the phone of a man who is not your husband or fiancée. He owes you nothing. Nothing.. girlfriend just means the chick I bang more than any other chick at his moment. To expect a single unmarried man to give you the fidelity we give our wives is ridiculous. WTF?
A Libra without water, will get over it in about 3 weeks, if we really loved you maybe a month and a half. Then proceed with the person we had waiting in the wings.
Male - Libra Sun, Libra Venus

Typical Libra player moves - he wants to get laid for New Year's Eve. After sex, you will be ghosted.
If a Libra man is into you - he would be talking less and by your side more! A Libra man in love will move mountains to be next to the woman we so-call want to marry. For instance, he has seen you ONCE!!!

You wrote. "This weekend all he kept saying is how much he wanted me there with him and how much he misses me." Yeah? Did he make it happen? All he had to do was drive down to see you or take an hour plane flight. A man will move mountains, flip worlds to be next to the woman he so-calls wants to marry. We will find the money to get there!

More than likely you are too transfixed from the mind-altering effects of the bullbutter to hear anything but his words. I will be waiting for your post about the Libra ghosting you soon after he hits it. I know you think you are the exception but you are actually like every other woman that falls for our bullbutter and gets played.
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I think at any moment, a man can and will up and leave you. Have others, etc.

Doesnt matter if you are his wife or girlfriend.

Doesnt matter how much youve done for him or how much hes done for you.

No one is under any obligation to be with you or treat you right.

People have to make a decision every day to stay 100.

I do believe and trust in marriage and relationships.


This point has already been addressed read the posts before you sound redundant.



Youre feathers are so ruffled from defending yourself that you dont even know when someone is agreeing with you.

I agree with you but you come 4 me.

Duly noted.
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LOL, My feathers weren't ruffled in the least bit, I spent most of the time laughing so hard I turned bright red. I am just tired of this thread....

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I just don't see what the big deal is with marriage. If you can't offer commitment and stability in a relationship, why get married? A marriage is still a relationship at the end of the day and if marriage is the goal then youre missing the point of a relationship period.


Yes, if you were not socialized in your environment or culture to respect marriage I can understand.



Hey no need to get personal. I was raised in a married household and ive seen both sides of marriage. Its a personal belief. I see that youre on your soapbox tho and feel that because you've been married for umpteen years that your beliefs are the standard. My apologies for being practical and not wanting to lose the passion in my relationship. You got your view I have mine. But a ring doesn't signify butter. A relationship takes work. You seem like the type that thinks because youre married you don't have to try anymore. A man will marry a woman he loves but a real man is already working towards building that. You kept dating until you weren't insecure. I push me n mines towards our goals and helping her go to college. If your foundation is weak your marriage will be too. You settled, but I rather be in love for real n not for show like u



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Why would you fight to be a side piece? But hey whatever blows your head back.



Who's fighting? I wouldn't be involved with a man who has to wait for a piece of paper to have morals. It takes time to fall in love and truly get to know and accept someone for who they are. You don't jump from meeting someone to getting married, and skip all the in between.


A single man is unmarried, and there is nothing immoral about a single man dating to find the best fit. During the process of getting to know you, he will sleep with you and others. Single means he can do that! Men know that women don't like that, so men do the best they can to shield you from it. But for the record a woman with a bad attitude is a dime a dozen. Any man can find that, and if he is dating a pool of women, he will begin to weed out the ones with the bad attitudes. Who wants to be married to that?


You are talking in circles. You make it seem as though men like you are gods gift to women, one in a million.Get over yourself. You're telling me that your wife was one of many "side pieces". She turned a ho into a husband. I am not impressed.


Sorry I didn't impress you. LMAO


Don't be sorry, be enlightened.
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I have been enlightened ... by The New York Times:
42% of African-American women have never been married
3 out of 4 of African-American women have babies out of wedlock
I could understand how you would disagree with this thread.

Believe whatever you want - whatever blows your head back. LMAO

Posted by DMV
I think at any moment, a man can and will up and leave you. Have others, etc.

Doesnt matter if you are his wife or girlfriend.

Doesnt matter how much youve done for him or how much hes done for you.

No one is under any obligation to be with you or treat you right.

People have to make a decision every day to stay 100.

I do believe and trust in marriage and relationships.


This point has already been addressed read the posts before you sound redundant.

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I am in awe at the naivety of my female friends. Boyfriend does not mean exclusive monogamous relationship that's called marriage! A verbal understanding is only to make you feel better about having sex with a single man. The federal government refers to an unmarried man as single. Therefore a single man is under no obligation to you. However Men will tell you what you want to hear if that means we get sex.

The wife gets the commitment, not the girlfriend! Girlfriend does not have the same ranking as a wife. When an unmarried woman says the unmarried guy is "cheating" that is ridiculous. Expect an unmarried single man to have other women.

Until you are his wife he is under no obligation to be faithful. And until you are the wife I suggest you don't offer monogamy. Tell him you will stop seeing other men when you are married, until then, like him, you are single. That's the quickest way to be the wife. Women commit to us after a couple of months of pretty words and dinners. If you are already monogamous with us, what will be the reason to marry you?????


Don't be naive in assuming a marriage means there's not other women.

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We have already discussed this on page 4 you are late.

Posted by Undine
The subject of this thread is irrelevant for a woman like me (high earner,high sex drive and disregard for conventional, boring life)

I think most of you forgot what is the most important thing in a relationship.It is the attention, love and quality time your partner is spending with you.

Most of you in your 20-30ies are the side pieces anyway. His career, job, boss, competitors, clients and co-workers come BEFORE you. They represent what he will be doing and thinking about 80% of his time. The remaining 10% is spend with his (and hopefully your) children.

If he also spends 0.1% of his spare time to put his well protected dick into another bleep, and makes sure you are not going to find out, what difference does it make to your life? Absolutely nothing! Yet for some bizarre reason (probably increasing insecurity due to fading looks/misjudged career/increasing waistline) everyone seems to be obsessed about the 0.1% . Not seeing the forrest because of the trees comes to my mind.

Marriage is an insurance policy for low income females and the only way they will earn a decent income....mostly after the divorce.



"Marriage is for the Rich" - New York Times

The rich are different from you and me: they’re more likely to get married.
A new report, by Michael Greenstone and Adam Looney of the Hamilton Project, looked at the decline in marriage rates over the last 50 years and found a strong connection to income. Dwindling marriage rates are concentrated among the poor — the very people whose living standards would be most improved by having a second household income.
The trend is especially pronounced among men.

For the bottom 70 percent of middle-aged working women — the women who, a generation earlier, would have needed a husband to support them — marriage rates declined by more than 15 percentage points in the last 40 years. But marriage rates for the top 10 percent of female earners either held steady or rose.
It’s not clear why marriage rates for the top-earning women rose. Perhaps the highest-paid female workers in the 1970s achieved that status by forgoing a personal life. And perhaps today it’s more socially acceptable for well-paid women to hire nannies and other household help so that they can maintain a family life, making marriage a more practical possibility.
Whatever the case, the concentration of marriage among the richest Americans is amplifying the increase in income inequality.

http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/02/06/marriage-is-for-rich-people/