"Your mind exists somewhere altogether different It lives in a world where feelings simply cannot be defined by words."

My philosophy is that there are multiple soul-mates. In a sense, everybody can be your soul-mate - we all are pieces of the same energy and together we create the whole, so we are all inter-connected. Yup, some pieces feel closer than others because they have shared past lifetimes and meet again in this one, but for what reason?

I think the reason we meet someone or sth happens to us is basically "development". Our soul needs to learn and experience things in order to advance/evolve.
Everybody who i feel inspires me in a way, creates a conflict in me in a way or just represents "movement" (internal or external) is here to help me advance and to get help advancing.
In that context, i believe that "the one" is the person who you feel so attracted you know you want to be with him/her. (Has to be mutual i suppose). "The one" can change in your lifetime. But they are all "the one".

Btw im aqua moon as well. Cheers
I feel akward too. I have insecurities and problems with my self-esteem. Im also perfectionist. I have to learn to give myself some compliments and love, otherwise im projecting my problems on people who appreciate me more than i appreciate myself. #trtrkedUp.
I have great time with Geminis. We joke a lot, have a good laugh, i can talk deep butter with them. They think they are intelectually superior and need to be, thats why most people dislike them imho. Its sth to do with their integrity as well.
Im very subtle at challenging that in them, very respectful and in the same time helful for their development. They challenge me as well. Whats not to like?
In conclusion: people probably dislike them because they feel intimidated by their wit or because they feel disgusted by their arrogance in regard of their wit. Gems arent arrogant tho, imho, they just have an inherent need to be regared as intelligent by others.
Posted by Noni05
Okay so as we all know no one is perfect my man is also this way and something's drive me crazy and I love him dearly so I really try to just accept him as he is flaws and all but sometimes I just smh. I know I'm not perfect and maybe some of my things drive him crazy too but he's a hand full and he admits to it pretty often.

His quote "I know I'm a pain in the butt"...

Do any of you relate with people your dating ??!! How do you keep your patience under control and continue to love him for who they are without strangling them half of the time.


When i like someone i like her with her "flaws". If i dont like the "flaws" i dont like the person. In that sense what others see as flaws i see as perfection.

You can do it too
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Posted by Weeds
Theres an old Jewish technique for that exact thing.
Once a week find a quiet spot.. relax, close your eyes and visualize a black chalkboard.
Keep that board blank for 10 seconds.
Simple.
Over time you'll find your far more focused and far less overwhelmed with your thoughts.


I have attempted meditation but my mind just wonders


Reaching a moment in which your mind stops wondering during neditation takes years of practicing meditation on a daily basis.




I watched eat pray love the other night. I felt really good after watching it. I could relate to it in a way. I've got the headspace app so I'm doing 10 minutes a day at the moment.
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I havent watched it! Good for you! With time you'll get better and you will be able to meditate for longer periods and reach deeper into your self. I am also at the beginning of this path.
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Posted by Weeds
Theres an old Jewish technique for that exact thing.
Once a week find a quiet spot.. relax, close your eyes and visualize a black chalkboard.
Keep that board blank for 10 seconds.
Simple.
Over time you'll find your far more focused and far less overwhelmed with your thoughts.


I have attempted meditation but my mind just wonders
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Reaching a moment in which your mind stops wondering during neditation takes years of practicing meditation on a daily basis.
I can not believe what i just read.
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Posted by Seraphlight
No i don't think she is intrigued. No i don't think she likes you in that way. And yes you are making this up in your head.

Renata be like


Calm down. I know you were rooting for them. But cupid has other plans for this one.
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I dont believe you!
Posted by Seraphlight
No i don't think she is intrigued. No i don't think she likes you in that way. And yes you are making this up in your head.

Renata be like
Gotta be kidding us! :O
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^ Lol

Do you know her chart? That's exactly how I act when I like someone, I just can't stop smiling at them, it's a subtle smile tho like Mona Lisa's



i think its
Sun Aries
Moon Sagittarius
Mercury Pisces
Venus Aries
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Aries
Asc node Scorpio



We share same sun, venus, mercury and mars
Can't say whether she likes you but she's definitely intrigued!
That's the awkward Aries venus chasing when you have fish influence, plotting ways to be near you and initiating a conversation but so gawkily lol
A good deal of Aries females are bi, fascinated by other girls, yet it doesn't necessarily mean they want to be with you
You're a female right?

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So that's the secret!
Posted by mzmee
Don't know why I feel like complete butter. I wanted this divorce, right? So why do I feel so messed up that the day out divorce was final, he got remarried the day after?

He married his former side chick. All of his family was in attendance. I feel like a fool. Half of his family didn't show to ours. I don't have the words to express what I want to say but I feel treetrunked up.


Your ego has been hurt. It is normal, don't feel guilt or pitty about it. You feel how you feel and it's perfectly normal, no need to fight it. Try to understand it, it will help understand yourself better.
*Gives a hug*
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Posted by Seraphlight
It's sexy.


tell me something I don't know
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#ProudMom
Im vegan.

Some of the vegans are mentally and psychologically disturbed individuals that have deep inner problems on which they should work before trying to change the world.

Others are awesome and inspiring people trying ti make our planet a better place.
I have blocked several people which i dont feel help me progress in any way. I think it is normal
Posted by DonJohn
the world would be a better place. 100% serious.


3 great industrial powers that would've ushered in stability, honesty and hardworking ethics. Instead of the empty empires built on lies and deception on the back of anti-intellectualism... all set up by bankers to rob the sheeples blind.




Building anything on rotten foundation will always result in a collapse at some point.