Posted by Gemitati
You don’t want to wait forever? How long had it been since you communicating again?
And if you screwed up - you’ll have to wait!
If you don’t want to wait - just end it.
No one can speed up the process for you.
It would be too easy to say wait for 23 days and let go. It doesn’t work like that.
Posted by AgentP911
See previous post and also this one in addition now you’ve revealed the post again.
I think he saw a side to you that made him step back and re-evaluate things. Taurus are generally not stupid people and neither do they take things lightly. It’s a fixed sign after all.
You were dating for four months and saw each other almost everyday. This is a HUGE chunk of time and energy to have spent with someone who you do not consider a boyfriend and who you don’t want to have a relationship with. He may feel you did not value this or him and that you are too volatile or insecure for him - hence the backing off situation. You didn’t seem to care about him when you were having your week long paddy and if this is how you deal with things then he might be giving himself some thinking time. Plus if you both have things going on it doesn’t make for good timing to be involved with each other. He clearly still has an interest in his ex partner otherwise he wouldn’t have ‘grazed’ on her.
What changes have you made in your life to be a more stable, secure person who is now emotionally available for a relationship?
Posted by HankJWimbleton
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There's your problem.