Dastardly

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Dastard2020

Posted by LadyNeptune
Such a hot take

So you agree with it?

lol that's not what that phrasing means

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I didn't imply that's what it meant. I wasn't addressing your irrelevant, off topic response.

I asked you a question and you still haven't answered.

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Posted by Dastard2020

only in our times would someone coin social justice warrior

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Of course. A little over a decade ago most people were like "I don't like labels..."

Posted by LadyNeptune
Such a hot take

So you agree with it?

Posted by newtothis

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Posted by newtothis

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Posted by newtothis
The thing is I would give her all sorts of attention. She was let go and working two part time jobs. She had to move back in with her parents. I make good money and she could have stayed home and be comfortable. Why lead on a decent guy?

How exactly did she lead you on? I am genuinely asking here
Cause you said you met on a business forum and were building a friendship.
At any time did she verbally indicate she was looking for more than friendship from you?

Also yuck this isn't the 1950s. Not all women wish to be kept at home on someone else dime. If you met her on seeking arrangements I could understand your mindset. But, again, you met her on a business forum so she has some interest in building her skillset, working and earning for herself.

Yes we met on a business website, but we got to talking and discovered similar interests outside of business. Books, family, personal sadness, etc. we shared a lot of private, personal information that goes into building a personal relationship.
She initiated texts and zooms. She made comments like how I am a very refined man, etc. She knew I was single.

I did not mean to indicate that this was the 1950's style relationship. I was saying she was working really hard for almost no money. I would have offered her stability. She could have taken her time finding a job, if she wanted to work.

So you would be willing to 'offer stability' aka send money to a someone you've never met in person who is in another state? Seeking arrangements is the place for you my guy. The could really use a man of your generosity and caliber.

Taking about books, family, personal info, common interests is exactly how one builds a report and friendship. You read more into it then was there. There's no shame in being horny. But its a little bs to claim she led you on because your expectations for more weren't met.

Definitely not being a sugar daddy. Just saying if it worked out romantically that could have happened. Why are you trying to start an argument and be rude? You keep pushing and then twist things to be "witty."

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Ignore that worthless, stupid ass flippant bleep. This miserable cookiemonster is always trying to play smartass to get an ego boost. She's an imbecile.

She constantly goes out her way to attack an OP and purposely misrepresents their positions in order to keep attacking them in hopes of being seen as edgy and like she's calling out butter and presenting an alternative or opposing point of view. It's pathetic.

As for this Leo woman. It does appear like she is playing games to feed her ego and vanity. She can't be that stupid and if she is, is it really worth pursing someone so clueless? Imagine you in a relationship with her while she does the same thing she did to you but to other guys.

Posted by Easha23000us
He clarified to me yesterday, that he said that because he cannot have me walking around with my head all big, because he knows that I am beautiful...He said that I thought that you could take a joke...

Another red flag. He wants to condition you to take verbal and emotional abuse by indirectly shaming you for not being able to take a 'joke'.

Why make a comment to bring down someone's looks when that's generally known to be a sensitive spot to most people? Why do it to his significant other?

He's creating drama and pulling the strings, baiting you, lowering your self-esteem and making himself live rent free in your head for all the wrong reasons.

Eventually you will snap at him at some point and confront him and he will find a way to make you look like the crazy one and put all the blame on you.

You may like him a lot but based on what you've told us he isn't making you happy, he isn't adding value to your life. He is making you doubt yourself and your reactions to ridiculous and easily avoidable situations created by him.

You're getting the short end of the stick in this relationship and you're upset but you still won't let him go. That's how much you care. Want to find out if he cares just as much? Give him the short end of the stick and see if he sticks around for long.

Or you can take the high route. Constantly check in with yourself and ask yourself, does he makes me feel good most of the time? How am I feeling right now in this relationship? If the answer is not good most of the time.. you know it's time to dump him.

Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by Dastard2020
I think Jennifer and Ben make a more interesting couple. It feels more genuine cause it's interracial and they've dated before and just seems like there's a real connection there.

I couldn't stand hearing about her relationaship with Alex Rodriguez. Glad that's over. It seemed so cliche and annoying, "omg we are both two huge latino stars, we sooo have to date each other and be the first latino power couple".

Girl may not be the best singer in the world but I think she was really in love with Ben.

Told you this woman is a serial monogamist and would be with someone else within a month.

Leo/Leo rarely works out, so I predict this one will end, too.

She sure is!
It’s like she wants an engagement ring every time she gives up her Kitty 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I wonder if she still has the one he got her lol.

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Probably threw it away during the making of this video.


*I need to throw away some jewlery that I don't really care about to recreate a scene from my 'Love Don't Cost A Thing' music video.*

*bracelet... check*
*Necklace.... check*
*Umm.. what else...*
*Ben's ring! *

Posted by saggurl88
Currently dating a Scorpio moon and I really love how effortless it is. They are so decisive and let me know what they want, where they stand, I love it.
Just tell me what you want me to do, so I can do it

Hopefully Jlo has grown and isn't as petty. She kicked him to the curb way too early and both of them ended up having kids with others and then coming back together again. Talk about life altering decisions!

I'm only rooting for the Scorpio Moon part of them. Lmao.

I think Jennifer and Ben make a more interesting couple. It feels more genuine cause it's interracial and they've dated before and just seems like there's a real connection there.

I couldn't stand hearing about her relationaship with Alex Rodriguez. Glad that's over. It seemed so cliche and annoying, "omg we are both two huge latino stars, we sooo have to date each other and be the first latino power couple".

Girl may not be the best singer in the world but I think she was really in love with Ben.

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Posted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.

She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.

I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.

You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.

I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that

I disagree. I think it shows strength of character to be open and vulnerable. Don’t ever regret that. To be so closed off only roots from ego and fear. Don’t ever regret having that ability to be so honest with expressing how you feel. It’s not stupid.

It’s called self respect

Treat yourself like Beyoncé tickets and not a plastic shopping bag

Know your worth

Let’s talk about homegirls ego. How she could feel that confident, that secure to dip in and out of his life. Let me go play around with this guy. Ooh look a better guy. Bye first guy. Hello new guy. Eh, new guy not that great. Grass not the much greener. I’m
Bored, need some attention. Oooh I bet first guy still likes me. Let me try to get back over there and just hang out till something I really want comes along. Yes, he answered and wow dummy still likes me after I did all that. Definitely not the one for me, but the one for me right now.

Some men have done this to woman time and time again.

When a woman does it, she gets a pass??????

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I sometimes let myself be disrespected out of curiosity. I usually test and try new approaches with people I'm not invested in at all. I act a little desperate, spill my guts out, withdraw, go from too predictable to impossible to read, start behaving completely out of character. I treat it like a fun experiment and when I get bored I just ghost. They deserve it anyway even if it didn't hurt me, they still took me for granted.

It's different when I really like someone. It's almost like I resent them for liking them a little too much and suddenly there's a wall protecting me from possibly being hurt. They now have to compete (read your post about competing) with my self-worth, my priorities, my time, my hobbies, my interests. And whenever I think about them, another thought creeps in... "why should I give you (person of interest) the time of the day?" "prove to me that you're worth the time, don't just meet me half way, go to hell and back for me, bend over backwards for me, make exceptions for me, make me feel truly special, don't lose interest by my apparent lack of reciprocity."

I know that I'm being unreasonable and unfair yet I always find myself inclined go that route whenever I come across a guy I really like. The struggle is real.

7:05 - 7:24

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Dastard2020
I'm feeling UNIVERSAL

This looks very selfish and impersonal! 😝

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Girl, I'm selfish af. Being universal is only a side job.

Posted by xiongmao

Posted by Hamsthetics
Many Scorpios faced their demons early in life and often coming out victorious. Coz you know, they are like the strongest sign ever.

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Ikr.

There's plenty of toxic asf Scorpio markers out there. They still have a lot of work to do.

Posted by Easha23000us

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F*ccccccck.....listen, Sags are not for the thinned skin.
#Facts Lol......

I am a Sag also... It's my Leo moon, that is offended..

I know hon. Clearly you don't get a pass from Sags brand of communication despite being a part of the astro family lol.

He really probably didn't mean it in a bad way. Like my last post said, he was just being honest in his opinion, and it's just that his opinion. My boyfriend thinks I have a fat bumpa, while my ex thought it was meager. Meager mi rass....the next man can hold on to it then.

Similarly, the next (or last) man sees more when he looks at you. I do truly think your Sag was just sharing his piece and didn't mean it as a slight.

I believe so too...He then followed up with "you are beautiful...No blemishes on your face"...LOL!

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I'd still be highly skeptical of him. Based on how you reacted he knows that bothers you and he had the audacity to say it in the first place and early on.

What if a few months or years down the road he starts saying stuff like "oh and you're treetrunking average btw" (as in you're replaceable or you're just whatever) every time he's upset. He'd be manipulating you and controlling your behavior by devaluing you, in order to get you to always be on his good side and agree with him. Otherwise he'll punish you with emotional and verbal abuse.

Posted by Easha23000us
We were on the phone, after I had just left him, and he said that you are average; then he said, no you are beautiful, after I stated "Average?" He thanked me for visiting him, and said that my skin is flawless...I was speaking about his freckles, and how it made him look more handsome, I am still trying to remember what made him say average. I do not know if I should be offended or not.

You should be offended and disgusted. He is being manipulative and playing with your self image and self-esteem by bringing up looks.

Posted by blackphvse
He better not be your man no more

The audacity!!

She didn't provide context though.

We don't know if she overheard this, if she asked him to give her an honest answer or if he blurted that out in an argument.