Posted by saggurl88
There are 7 billion people in this world. Too many opportunities to get rid of un-invested guys!!! You can meet someone else more worthwhile.
This is how you treat un-invested guys. Fight fire with fire!
Posted by DonnaLibra
What sign are you?
IDK my father is a Scorpio and was quite the player back in the day. One thing he's always told me is he can't stand weak women who would let him use them for sex (even though he would). He said he likes strong women who don't mind telling him to go to hell and refuse him because that let him know that she wouldn't be the type to fall easily for another guy and he could trust her to be strong. That said it sounds like this guy is using you for an ego boost while scoping out the other girl. He will get to know her. Trust that he will. Stop saying weak butter like "I can't give him up". Impossible.
Posted by saggurl88
Next time make oral more interesting for the Scorpio
Posted by peachy06
"A lot of people said Scorpio doesn’t fall in and out of love easily."
It depends. We're good at making you think we're in love even if we are not. You already know the answer or you wouldn't ask yourself if what he wants is intimacy or a genuine relationship.
But that aside, ladies, if a guy treat you like butter LEAVE. Don't let yourself be used like that, that guy scream red flags.
Posted by bmoon8Then we broke up a few days ago as it turned out he just want to have intimacy with me, but not commitment. We can’t have a commitment due to some restrictions. Then he said he just wanted to be friends but he still keeps me around and even asked for a blowjob, it was the first time we did it. We never had anything more intimate than that, no sex yet. During our “friendship” phase, he was cruel to me that I almost cried. It’s impossible to erase my love for him as it was so deep and being treated that way really makes me sad.
There’s nothing confusing about him. He has told you where you stand. You are just a pushover/doormat. Do you think he really cares that you “can’t erase your love for him”? He’ll rip your heart out.
He now says that you are a gf to keep you around doing sexual things.
1. Yes. You are just being used for intimacy.
2. He will spend time with her.
3. Yes, he is just toying with you.
4. Yes, a Scorpio can have sex with you with no feelings. Any sign can.
Posted by Hypnotoad
If you're not full Geminati about your Scorpio then don't even bother.
Posted by ScorpioDreams
You have to be careful with some men (and women) regardless of sign. There are players of every zodiac sign. I recently went on a first date with a Scorpio man…. The chemistry was insane, the conversation flowed naturally and there were lots of laughs. After the date he walked me to my car and we made out for a good ten minutes in the parking lot. Later that night he texts me trying his hardest to get me to come back to his place for sex. I declined. I look him up later online and find out he’s in a relationship and has been for seven years. I wanted to puke! 🤢
Posted by WarAngel
1. Yes, you are being used and not in a loving way.
2. If his attention changes towards her, he's attracted.
3. He IS toying with you. If he had a solid answer you would know.
4. It is very possible to use a woman like a human condom and NOT have feelings towards her.
Based on what you've written, this man does NOT love you. I'm sorry.
Posted by Dastard2020
Your hope is that things go back to the way they were at the beginning. That was his mask, this is the real him. Accept reality, take it or leave it and stop chasing a fantasy.
You're fighting for crumbs and a spot in his life which no one should have to. Grow a treetrunking self-esteem and walk away you dumb bleep.