Posted by AdmiraI
Posted by DecFemCap
Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable 😍..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


You want everything don't you. What do you have to offer though? If you want him to be direct show him and tell him. You'll see. It's like women who never tell men how to please them in the sack and then are dumbfounded when they actually tell them what they want and have a good treetrunking time. donkeyes.
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You damn right I want everything I desire name one human who doesn't!
When first started hanging out I did the most of the chasing and even now I did text him.
What do I have to offer..something more than a box with a hole in it!

Posted by AdmiraI
Posted by DecFemCap
Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable 😍..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


You want everything don't you. What do you have to offer though? If you want him to be direct show him and tell him. You'll see. It's like women who never tell men how to please them in the sack and then are dumbfounded when they actually tell them what they want and have a good treetrunking time. donkeyes.
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You damn right I want everything I desire name one human who doesn't!
When first started hanging out I did the most of the chasing and even now I did text him.

Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable 😍..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?
Posted by marshmallow
My mother is a capricorn and father a cancer man. They seem to be fine with each other. But i feel my mother is much stronger mentally than my father .

I (also a capricorn) am not too fond of cancers . Have had a few guy cancer friends and i like them (generally) but when i see cancer guys otherwise (other than those i personally am fond of - my father and 1-2 friends ) I havent liked them . Unfortunately i know few things about some cancer guys around . They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .
Another important thing i dont like about cancer guys is they are not strong and self dependent completely. I have always like those guys who are stronger than me mentally so cancers have never been my choice .


They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .

I feel like I can see right through this man which intimidates him or attracts him but he is still studying me.
I also feel like Cancers know who they can pull that cheating butter on...well anybody for that matter. If you know your wife is crazy as hell..I would not risk getting caught up in some fling.
Posted by DivaCanLeo
No. Just no.

Why would a cancer choose to live the life of a Capricorn.

Why not just bury yourself dead.


I dated a cap for two years. Snooze fest



Cap men and women are two different sides to the same coin.

Cap men are sneaky and whenever I think of a Cap men I think of R.kelly...its the truth.

Cap women are more outgoing and adventurous at least myself and the ones I have met.
Posted by clippityclop
I just don't think that the cancer/cap cliche of balancing each other out works. I like them, but its hard to understand each other I find. Or maybe we just understand each other too much and that's what irks us. HrmmmMmm
This cap girl I used to work with, we kind of clashed but at the same time I think we both knew what the other was thinking/up to. It was weird.


Yeah its like holding something hot.. who will say it burns first?!
I think it depends on your age.. if you are in your early 20's 8 is max for me. If you are your 30's maybe more like 15. It all depends on what you can handle. Screw everyone else's opinion as long as you are happy age seems so irrelevant tbh.
20 years didn't last long we are still friends. I just didn't like the fact that he always kept saying you'll learn.
Like..shut up. I will learn and be better than you. So I couldn't take it anymore. But like I said we are still friends.
Posted by Seraphlight
No my bro likes em!


Happy New Year Boo!

I can't seem to understand this guy I have a feeling he feels the same way about me.. Idk Im cool with being friends for now.
People always say that Caps and Cancers should get along great but with the men I always seems to have a hard time even getting off the ground.. Like..hmm.. nothing bad..but nothing to make me look deeper into.

I met a Cancer Man and we were cool until we BOTH parties just stopped talking less and less. I do feel like he is always throwing the ball in my court even when it is his turn to initiate or take lead of the conversation.

I've heard of Cancer Men Disappearing as well.. my thing is I'm not upfront going to tell you my deepest secrets. Take your shoes off get comfortable. Damn.

Not Sure if he left because I wasn't feeding into his transparent traps or because he wants to see it will take for me to reach out..

I've also noticed ( not trying to be mean IJS) that I'm moreee attractive than a lot of girls he has dealt with. Not saying I'm to hot to handle but I know men who date less attractive women to feel superior or get the king treatment from women with low self esteem.

Capricorn Women what are your experiences with Cancer men when it comes to a relationship getting off the ground? How about being friends not with benefits but maybe sexual tensions? Thoughts/suggestions?
First and foremost this statement is completely..................





FALSE!
I do not think Cap women are boring but most people think we are. Hence most of these articles to be about the double life of a Capricorn man (jk but cmon it common) I feel like Capricorn Women have a lot to offer so we take our time before investing into people we will have to take care of (lol another jk)

I'm just saying...are we boring? If you have gotten to know a Capricorn Women who changed your world leave a comment because we freaking rock! We are loyal and we are straight forward no time for the B.S

P.S yes everyone has flaws but really every article online seems to have NOT have the true Capricorn Women down to the T.

P.S Happy birthday Caps (Dec .28) 😘❤️
Until he shows you that he is willing to commit. Do not play into it
Cancer men are some...they love women and attention.
They will get it where they can find it so don't entertain into it.

1 month
Posted by LoisLane
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.


I haven't insulted him..maybe he's trying to still feel me out. But we seem to hit it off. Idk
Posted by InLoveWithLife
Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by Capri-sun
The one leo I can recall, was direct, no hot & cold.


What was your experience?


Always wanted to spend time together and talk. It wasn't a relationship though. I didn't get any cold behavior from him. Leos are usually very verbally expressive and they enjoy that in return. Warm (unless you piss them off), outgoing, and fun

Gotta agree with you! Wish you could make my Cap understand the same. We love it when we get it in return (verbal expressiveness, openness to at least a considerable extent, especially when you're in a relationship with us)!

OP, I don't think I understand the 'hot and cold' behaviour from a Leo, either. But I'd like to suggest that you get it clear to avoid misunderstanding because that's what killed the relationship in my case.
He was the one playing 'hot and cold' initially (don't know if he realised it or not), but when I began reading many posts on Capricorns' needs, behaviour and wants, I began giving him his space (staying out of touch for days or even weeks till he'd initiate a conversation). He then perceived this as me going cold on him. This is one of the areas where misunderstandings began! Good luck to you, though!
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Capricorn woman are affectionate in secret!
Yes we love to nurture and be all lovely like a romance movie but..we need to know that we are not being taken for granted. It just makes being affectionate more meaningful at least to me! The hot and cold is on the Leo's part. I hate not being consistent! Rather FWB or a relationship! This is not double dutch choose one and stay in your lane. But I try to not come off as so aggressive even though that's what I be thinking.

I cant help it sometimes. Sun-Capricorn Moon-Libra
Posted by marshmallow
Posted by DecFemCap
What is your experience with this type of relationship?
There is a 20 year age difference with him being older.
I have dated Leos before they seem hot and cold to me but so far we are just taking it slow.

Soo shoot.


So with the age gap of 20 years do they behave little calmer ?

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Hmm. More mature and very sweet when you do have a conversation.. which draws me in right?
Then I don't hear from him in a couple days or he will text me and it will be very short. It's like he wants me to keep interest in him but he is taking his sweet time to step up and be consistent.

This is what I'm referring to when I say hot and cold.

Like he planned a date and everything for after the holidays. But shidd. He makes me feel like he's debating if he really wants to wanna go!

My inner "Dianna Ross" is telling me to not play much into until we have our official first date.

I feel that if you are gonna talk to a Leo man as a single Capricorn Woman or just Woman, you would want to have others interested in you as well even if you like him the most just you don't cringe when he's go on his ego vacation trips of not calling or texting for a few days.

Also, he thinks he knows my mind. Like yeah your 41 and I'm 21 but I hate texting! Call me say your peace and have a great day. Don't text me all the fudging time. It's annoying. But since I stated that he has made calls more often.

I'll just see where this goes but honestly I think the first date will be nice but will make him realize what he is in for.
Posted by Capri-sun
The one leo I can recall, was direct, no hot & cold.


What was your experience?
What is your experience with this type of relationship?
There is a 20 year age difference with him being older.
I have dated Leos before they seem hot and cold to me but so far we are just taking it slow.

Soo shoot.