DecFemCap
joined December 16, 2016
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  • DecFemCap
    female
    My Pisces moon is showing excuse me, but I don't see any woman saying I adore you with other sweet nothings and does not want to be claimed.. go get your woman.
  • DecFemCap
    female
    OMG!! She blew you off but considered you enough to tell you today didn't work...she even said "said have a good game baby" cmon!! Tell her!! If you are so nervous (we have all been there my friend) plan a romantic evening something simple but creative but don't be intimate that night tell her you are serious about her this time and you want to be sure she feels the same way. Give her a tight hug and kiss on the cheek (close to the mouth) LOL shes gonna tell you to come back lol! Keep us posted!

  • DecFemCap
    female
    Hey Jay,
    Why not? Im curious lol

    Posted by Jayc3on
    I can't speak for all of us Fishmen but I don't deal with caps.


  • DecFemCap
    female
    So us! Communication is what we fight about! We got into it and I won't lie I can be mean because I question his sincerity. I wasn't sure because of the disappearing crap and me not being a chaser. He came back full of passion and I tried to act like I didn't care but he saw through me. Now our last fight I told him don't come back and hurtful things because I felt he wasn't hearing what I was saying about him not communicating. After a week....I realized I miss my boo and my friend even more. But my pride waits to see if he will text me to see if I calmed down and if I miss him.... he probably swam away. Damn lol

    But your good! Thank you, honey.

    Posted by chickenatiel
    I actually knew a couple like this!! As far as I know, theyre still going pretty strong. But that's because they balanced each other out somewhat. He helped her look on the bright side and look for opportunity, and she kept him pretty grounded and emotionally stable.

    In your guys' case, i think its pretty nice that you have a earth sun and water moon, and vice versa for him. I think itll keep you guys on level ground. He may already be kind of stable on his own because of his Taurus moon, and he may recognize when his emotional thinking gets out of hand. He probably gets really sentimental though

    And now to the venus/mars signs..
    In love, he wants emotional intimacy and for his lover to be happy (which may lead to self-sacrifice) and shows love by being adventurous/spontaneous. He likes being upfront about problems
    .
    You want stability and to be able to have a partner that you can rely on. (good with his taurus moon--less emotional ups and downs) You show love by intellectually stimulating them and promoting self-expression. (You may be one of those people who REALLY like the idea of "weird love")

    You guys seem pretty stable and there may not be many emotional issues because you guys know how to keep it under control. You may also understand his mindset whenever he can get emotional. However, if youre the kind of person who tends to keep distance or just cant really.. er... communicate it properly? (Your Mercury in Cap, Venus in Aqua), he may get a little frustrated and could get under the impression that you don't care. He also may not want to talk about this if this does ever happen. (His Mercury in aqua)

    This is just my own reading of this so its prolly not 1000000% true... just make sure to communicate!!! C:


  • DecFemCap
    female
    If you want to test his waters be direct and just text him. Texting his mom is passive. Do you want to know if love is still there? Text him and his response will have the answer.
  • DecFemCap
    female
    I say tell her. You both realize you want to be together...so why not. Tell her you both were unsure the first time around but now you know that you should really give it your all. Good luck
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Do Pisces men like pushing Capricorn women to the edge so they can be little boy'd like we are their mommas? Is this a fetish?
    I like this guy I have been dating and being that I was lonely being new in a new state and not being lucky on love I was excited to start something new.
    How we met was seriously like a fairytale we bumped into each other. Wow.

    Can someone compare our charts

    HIM:

    Zodiac : Tropical
    Sun Pisces 24°53'
    Moon Taurus 2°13'
    Mercury Aquarius 27°28'
    Venus Aries 8°51'
    Mars Pisces 6°30'
    Jupiter Scorpio 14°18' R
    Saturn Pisces 5°29'
    Uranus Capricorn 25°28'
    Neptune Capricorn 22°55'
    Pluto Scorpio 28°02' R
    Lilith Aries 27°25'
    Asc node Scorpio 25°59'

    Planet Aspect Planet Orb Orb/Value
    Sun Sextile Uranus 0°35' 230
    Sun Sextile Neptune 1°58' 145
    Sun Trine Pluto 3°09' 100
    Moon Sextile Mercury 4°45' 22
    Moon Sextile Mars 4°17' 56
    Moon Sextile Saturn 3°16' 117
    Mercury Conjunction Mars 9°02' 54
    Mercury Conjunction Saturn 8°01' 95
    Mercury Square Pluto 0°34' -122
    Mars Trine Jupiter 7°48' 3
    Mars Conjunction Saturn 1°01' 108
    Uranus Conjunction Neptune 2°33' 149
    Uranus Sextile Pluto 2°34' 59
    1138 -122 1016



    ME:
    Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
    Sun Capricorn 6°02' Ascendant Libra 8°19'
    Moon Pisces 29°29' II Scorpio 4°50'
    Mercury Capricorn 24°22' III Sagittarius 5°42'
    Venus Aquarius 8°01' IV Capricorn 9°44'
    Mars Capricorn 21°16' V Aquarius 13°22'
    Jupiter Sagittarius 28°38' VI Pisces 13°14'
    Saturn Pisces 19°09' VII Aries 8°19'
    Uranus Capricorn 29°09' VIII Taurus 4°50'
    Neptune Capricorn 24°34' IX Gemini 5°42'
    Pluto Sagittarius 1°51' Midheaven Cancer 9°44'
    Lilith Cancer 10°07' XI Leo 13°22'
    Asc node Libra 23°27' XII Virgo 13°14'



    Planet Aspect Planet Orb Orb/Value
    Sun Conjunction Jupiter 7°23' 235
    Sun Square Ascendant 2°17' -62
    Moon Square Jupiter 0°51' -180
    Moon Sextile Uranus 0°20' 224
    Moon Sextile Neptune 4°56' 3
    Moon Trine Pluto 2°22' 70
    Moon Opposition Ascendant 8°50' -3
    Mercury Conjunction Mars 3°06' 502
    Mercury Conjunction Uranus 4°47' 230
    Mercury Conjunction Neptune 0°12' 392
    Venus Conjunction Uranus 8°52' 45
    Venus Trine Ascendant 0°18' 67
    Mars Sextile Saturn 2°07' 150
    Mars Conjunction Uranus 7°53' 99
    Mars Conjunction Neptune 3°18' 279
    Uranus Conjunction Neptune 4°35' 108
    Uranus Sextile Pluto 2°42' 37
    2441 -245 2196
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Update:

    It's been two weeks since I told him I'm interested in him...nothing.
    So I assumed that you win some you lose some and began to move on.
    But every time I post anything on social media he likes it!
    Which I know that doesn't mean that he's interested necessarily but.
    I posted a lot today and he liked everything! which I think was intentional to get my attention.
    IDK.. I just needed to come out here and type it out to avoid doing something stupid like texting him.
    I mean.. I gave him the ball in his hand by saying HEY OVER HERE! I like you! But he still hasn't texted me to even try to get coffee to see where this could go.. as friends or just taking this slow..wtf.

    Anyway, I don't want to text him but I want to hear from him. I feel like he is playing games. I'm starting to learn if it its too difficult to get off the ground it won't fly well... but boyy I felt a connection with this man and man did I want it to at least get this tension to the airport you know? See if we could catch us a flight. LOL

    But I think I just needed to come here to release it.
    Comment if you like or just leave it be.
    Peace.
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Not quitting just not holding my breath either
  • DecFemCap
    female
    If you want something you'd go for it right? Like me wanting to get to know him better. But at the same time if he wants me ..he would have had a better response.. or at least try to keep in touch. So I'll just leave it there. Thank you for your input and I still feel great that I didn't let my fears stop me from asking a man out. I feel empowered either way!
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Posted by breterpan
    also.. not trying to bum you out or anything, but from my Virgo perspective, if I'm into going on a date or hanging out with someone new, I usually don't give such a vague response like "we can chill sometime." if I'm busy at the time you propose but I'm into it, I'd be like.. damn!! I can't make it this weekend but what are you doing (day that I'm free).

    I usually say yeah sure, we can meet up sometime when I'm not enthusiastic about it at all


    This the text:
    Me: Hey I enjoyed talking to you the other day, are you single?
    Him: Hey my name! Yeah I'm single
    Me: Cool! You busy this weekend? Let's go kick it some place still new to the area.
    Him: Okay cool. This weekend is a little busy weekend but we can chill sometime.
    Me: Okay cool. Well just hit me up and we play it by ear.
    Him: Okay cool

    You: Thoughts??
    Exact words and puncuations
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Posted by Sunsetvirgo
    ^ she's a pisces


    I'm a Pisces moon..and?
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Posted by P-Angel
    Posted by DecFemCap

    How long would be a good time to wait for a response to see if he is interested?




    Or what?

    There is no wait time. You make it sound like you gave him an ultimatum and now it's up to him to perform for you according to an expectation of yours, and now how long do you wait until you do what? exactly?

    You haven't even gotten his attention yet, and already you're trying to control his movements.

    You must be a living hell to date.

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    Calm down babyboomer..I'm as fun as dating as you are..
    And there is no or what or ultimatum. I'm simply asking what would a time frame to hear from someone to see if they are interested. Never asked a man out before so I was jus anxious I guess.
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Posted by Weeds
    I don't know how I feel about that response he he gave......


    Yes for me it wasn't like he said "I'm busy this weekend but next Tuesday would be good" right? But I do know that he does get the most gigs on the weekends. I think it is either he didn't have the funds or he's dealing with multiple women but... I don't hold either against him being that we haven't even gone on a date yet and we both are single.
  • DecFemCap
    female























    I finally found the courage to ask my Virgo crush out.
    I had a crush on him for 4 months and would see him at his workplace maybe twice a month.
    Every time I would see him he would get quite around me. But talkative with the guy friends.
    Even a couple of his coworkers would try to flirt or talk to me but it was him that had my eye all along.
    After 3 months I finally started short conversations with him which were nice he's very smart!
    So the other day when I went in there and he tried to not speak but I started a conversation, made some jokes which he engaged in to break the ice.. the next day I texted him telling him I enjoyed our talk are you single. He texted me back "Hey! Yeah, I'm single." So asked if he was busy this weekend and that she go out some place I'm still pretty new to the area. He texted me back that "he was busy this weekend but we can chill sometime"
    How long would be a good time to wait for a response to see if he is interested? The ball is in his court and I don't plan to text him again if I don't hear from him..which I hope isn't the case.

    I am a Capricorn with Pisces Moon
    He is a Virgo with Gemini moon
    ..Thoughts and experience for Capricorn Women Dating Virgo men
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Posted by AdmiraI
    Posted by DecFemCap
    Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

    But this guy seems to be so much more..stable ?..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
    But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


    You want everything don't you. What do you have to offer though? If you want him to be direct show him and tell him. You'll see. It's like women who never tell men how to please them in the sack and then are dumbfounded when they actually tell them what they want and have a good treetrunking time. donkeyes.
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    You damn right I want everything I desire name one human who doesn't!
    When first started hanging out I did the most of the chasing and even now I did text him.
    What do I have to offer..something more than a box with a hole in it!

  • DecFemCap
    female
    Posted by AdmiraI
    Posted by DecFemCap
    Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

    But this guy seems to be so much more..stable ?..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
    But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


    You want everything don't you. What do you have to offer though? If you want him to be direct show him and tell him. You'll see. It's like women who never tell men how to please them in the sack and then are dumbfounded when they actually tell them what they want and have a good treetrunking time. donkeyes.
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    You damn right I want everything I desire name one human who doesn't!
    When first started hanging out I did the most of the chasing and even now I did text him.

  • DecFemCap
    female
    Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

    But this guy seems to be so much more..stable ?..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
    But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Posted by marshmallow
    My mother is a capricorn and father a cancer man. They seem to be fine with each other. But i feel my mother is much stronger mentally than my father .

    I (also a capricorn) am not too fond of cancers . Have had a few guy cancer friends and i like them (generally) but when i see cancer guys otherwise (other than those i personally am fond of - my father and 1-2 friends ) I havent liked them . Unfortunately i know few things about some cancer guys around . They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .
    Another important thing i dont like about cancer guys is they are not strong and self dependent completely. I have always like those guys who are stronger than me mentally so cancers have never been my choice .


    They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .

    I feel like I can see right through this man which intimidates him or attracts him but he is still studying me.
    I also feel like Cancers know who they can pull that cheating butter on...well anybody for that matter. If you know your wife is crazy as hell..I would not risk getting caught up in some fling.
  • DecFemCap
    female
    Posted by DivaCanLeo
    No. Just no.

    Why would a cancer choose to live the life of a Capricorn.

    Why not just bury yourself dead.


    I dated a cap for two years. Snooze fest



    Cap men and women are two different sides to the same coin.

    Cap men are sneaky and whenever I think of a Cap men I think of R.kelly...its the truth.

    Cap women are more outgoing and adventurous at least myself and the ones I have met.