Not quitting just not holding my breath either
If you want something you'd go for it right? Like me wanting to get to know him better. But at the same time if he wants me ..he would have had a better response.. or at least try to keep in touch. So I'll just leave it there. Thank you for your input and I still feel great that I didn't let my fears stop me from asking a man out. I feel empowered either way!
Posted by breterpan
also.. not trying to bum you out or anything, but from my Virgo perspective, if I'm into going on a date or hanging out with someone new, I usually don't give such a vague response like "we can chill sometime." if I'm busy at the time you propose but I'm into it, I'd be like.. damn!! I can't make it this weekend but what are you doing (day that I'm free).

I usually say yeah sure, we can meet up sometime when I'm not enthusiastic about it at all


This the text:
Me: Hey I enjoyed talking to you the other day, are you single?
Him: Hey my name! Yeah I'm single
Me: Cool! You busy this weekend? Let's go kick it some place still new to the area.
Him: Okay cool. This weekend is a little busy weekend but we can chill sometime.
Me: Okay cool. Well just hit me up and we play it by ear.
Him: Okay cool

You: Thoughts??
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by DecFemCap

How long would be a good time to wait for a response to see if he is interested?




Or what?

There is no wait time. You make it sound like you gave him an ultimatum and now it's up to him to perform for you according to an expectation of yours, and now how long do you wait until you do what? exactly?

You haven't even gotten his attention yet, and already you're trying to control his movements.

You must be a living hell to date.

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Calm down babyboomer..I'm as fun as dating as you are..
And there is no or what or ultimatum. I'm simply asking what would a time frame to hear from someone to see if they are interested. Never asked a man out before so I was jus anxious I guess.
Posted by Weeds
I don't know how I feel about that response he he gave......


Yes for me it wasn't like he said "I'm busy this weekend but next Tuesday would be good" right? But I do know that he does get the most gigs on the weekends. I think it is either he didn't have the funds or he's dealing with multiple women but... I don't hold either against him being that we haven't even gone on a date yet and we both are single.























I finally found the courage to ask my Virgo crush out.
I had a crush on him for 4 months and would see him at his workplace maybe twice a month.
Every time I would see him he would get quite around me. But talkative with the guy friends.
Even a couple of his coworkers would try to flirt or talk to me but it was him that had my eye all along.
After 3 months I finally started short conversations with him which were nice he's very smart!
So the other day when I went in there and he tried to not speak but I started a conversation, made some jokes which he engaged in to break the ice.. the next day I texted him telling him I enjoyed our talk are you single. He texted me back "Hey! Yeah, I'm single." So asked if he was busy this weekend and that she go out some place I'm still pretty new to the area. He texted me back that "he was busy this weekend but we can chill sometime"
How long would be a good time to wait for a response to see if he is interested? The ball is in his court and I don't plan to text him again if I don't hear from him..which I hope isn't the case.

I am a Capricorn with Pisces Moon
He is a Virgo with Gemini moon
..Thoughts and experience for Capricorn Women Dating Virgo men
Posted by AdmiraI
Posted by DecFemCap
Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable 😍..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


You want everything don't you. What do you have to offer though? If you want him to be direct show him and tell him. You'll see. It's like women who never tell men how to please them in the sack and then are dumbfounded when they actually tell them what they want and have a good treetrunking time. donkeyes.
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You damn right I want everything I desire name one human who doesn't!
When first started hanging out I did the most of the chasing and even now I did text him.
What do I have to offer..something more than a box with a hole in it!

Posted by AdmiraI
Posted by DecFemCap
Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable 😍..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?


You want everything don't you. What do you have to offer though? If you want him to be direct show him and tell him. You'll see. It's like women who never tell men how to please them in the sack and then are dumbfounded when they actually tell them what they want and have a good treetrunking time. donkeyes.
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You damn right I want everything I desire name one human who doesn't!
When first started hanging out I did the most of the chasing and even now I did text him.

Whats crazy is that ex was a Cancer and he was holding on by a thread..he just was not stable to be in a relationship emotionally. It was like having a child. He had a rough childhood and a drugged out mother. Sad to say I didn't want and refused to take lashes of his built emotions from being in a situation like that all his life.

But this guy seems to be so much more..stable 😍..with family, work, and social life. He seems happy.
But a downside he isn't very direct with his intentions. Like I haven't heard from him in a week but today he liked old pics on my two sources of social media.. (I hate when people do that) but still didn't call/text. Was that a sign that he wanted me text/call first?
Posted by marshmallow
My mother is a capricorn and father a cancer man. They seem to be fine with each other. But i feel my mother is much stronger mentally than my father .

I (also a capricorn) am not too fond of cancers . Have had a few guy cancer friends and i like them (generally) but when i see cancer guys otherwise (other than those i personally am fond of - my father and 1-2 friends ) I havent liked them . Unfortunately i know few things about some cancer guys around . They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .
Another important thing i dont like about cancer guys is they are not strong and self dependent completely. I have always like those guys who are stronger than me mentally so cancers have never been my choice .


They are those with dual face . They behave perfect and calm but selfish to the core . I pity their wives. They have no idea how many extramarital affairs they are having .

I feel like I can see right through this man which intimidates him or attracts him but he is still studying me.
I also feel like Cancers know who they can pull that cheating butter on...well anybody for that matter. If you know your wife is crazy as hell..I would not risk getting caught up in some fling.
Posted by DivaCanLeo
No. Just no.

Why would a cancer choose to live the life of a Capricorn.

Why not just bury yourself dead.


I dated a cap for two years. Snooze fest



Cap men and women are two different sides to the same coin.

Cap men are sneaky and whenever I think of a Cap men I think of R.kelly...its the truth.

Cap women are more outgoing and adventurous at least myself and the ones I have met.
Posted by clippityclop
I just don't think that the cancer/cap cliche of balancing each other out works. I like them, but its hard to understand each other I find. Or maybe we just understand each other too much and that's what irks us. HrmmmMmm
This cap girl I used to work with, we kind of clashed but at the same time I think we both knew what the other was thinking/up to. It was weird.


Yeah its like holding something hot.. who will say it burns first?!
I think it depends on your age.. if you are in your early 20's 8 is max for me. If you are your 30's maybe more like 15. It all depends on what you can handle. Screw everyone else's opinion as long as you are happy age seems so irrelevant tbh.
20 years didn't last long we are still friends. I just didn't like the fact that he always kept saying you'll learn.
Like..shut up. I will learn and be better than you. So I couldn't take it anymore. But like I said we are still friends.
Posted by Seraphlight
No my bro likes em!


Happy New Year Boo!

I can't seem to understand this guy I have a feeling he feels the same way about me.. Idk Im cool with being friends for now.
People always say that Caps and Cancers should get along great but with the men I always seems to have a hard time even getting off the ground.. Like..hmm.. nothing bad..but nothing to make me look deeper into.

I met a Cancer Man and we were cool until we BOTH parties just stopped talking less and less. I do feel like he is always throwing the ball in my court even when it is his turn to initiate or take lead of the conversation.

I've heard of Cancer Men Disappearing as well.. my thing is I'm not upfront going to tell you my deepest secrets. Take your shoes off get comfortable. Damn.

Not Sure if he left because I wasn't feeding into his transparent traps or because he wants to see it will take for me to reach out..

I've also noticed ( not trying to be mean IJS) that I'm moreee attractive than a lot of girls he has dealt with. Not saying I'm to hot to handle but I know men who date less attractive women to feel superior or get the king treatment from women with low self esteem.

Capricorn Women what are your experiences with Cancer men when it comes to a relationship getting off the ground? How about being friends not with benefits but maybe sexual tensions? Thoughts/suggestions?
First and foremost this statement is completely..................





FALSE!
I do not think Cap women are boring but most people think we are. Hence most of these articles to be about the double life of a Capricorn man (jk but cmon it common) I feel like Capricorn Women have a lot to offer so we take our time before investing into people we will have to take care of (lol another jk)

I'm just saying...are we boring? If you have gotten to know a Capricorn Women who changed your world leave a comment because we freaking rock! We are loyal and we are straight forward no time for the B.S

P.S yes everyone has flaws but really every article online seems to have NOT have the true Capricorn Women down to the T.

P.S Happy birthday Caps (Dec .28) 😘❤️
Until he shows you that he is willing to commit. Do not play into it
Cancer men are some...they love women and attention.
They will get it where they can find it so don't entertain into it.