Virgo Sun,Mercury and Mars Libra in the 9th house Moon in Sagittarius in the 1st house with ascendant Venus and jupiter in the 8th house

ambitious hell yeah I wanna get everything out of life must be my Sagittarius moon and Sagittarius Ascendant Mars in Libra and midheaven in Libra
Posted by pooface222
I have had a very severe depression which started about 3 years ago but only got really bad over the last year. And now very very bad earlier this year.
And sadly I have destroyed my marriage as a result! My marriage was difficult anyway as my husband doesn't ever communicate. It caused me to stop communicating too.

However he finally tried to fix things last year. He finally started trying! But as he was trying, I was so Angry lonely and frustrated that I started destroying our relationship at the same time he was fixing It!
Now he is divorcing me. We have a child of 3 and I am devastated!
I still love him and I don't want divorce! I want our little family!
I can't stop crying!
He moved out 2 months ago too and won't tell me where he is living!
I have finally woken up to what I have done and it's killing me.
Anyone ever had this happen to them?


I know the feeling don't blame yourself maybe it's for the best he needs to accept you for better or for worse depression can also come from your partner making you feel less or doing less then you used to do it can be many things never blame yourself for it you're allowed to feel you need to take time I sense that you've never taken the time to heal but you just tried to push it away to not break your relationship where as when you do that things will get worse let it out of he truly loves you he'll come back if not he's an markeree


1 month

1 month
Posted by hellosaggy
I focused on education and being financially capable. Now that I’m ready to settle down a lot of women my age have kids already. I love kids but I’m not into the whole step dad thing.


so you're gonna be a babymaker now 😂😂
finding the right woman is not easy these days relationship last short most of the times because people do not try to get deeply and emotionally involved with people anymore and they rather move on to the next then sort things out. My Sagittarius is a babymaker I think I loves the idea even though he's too young I know he would want it. like as a man the time doesn't matter for woman it's a different story
Posted by hellosaggy
Lol I’m up and down the age spectrum. I’ve dated 10 years older. My previous serious scorp ex was 3 years younger... Ive just started talking to a cap that is 8 years younger. I was talking to a sag but she lied about her age said she was 24 and is actually 20. She was afraid I wouldn’t talk to her. She’s very cute and I don’t look my age but I am apprehensive in dating someone so young from a maturity standpoint.

I attract all ages because I have so many different facets to me

I meant type

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Posted by dewiklaessen25
what are sign a man will never do it again and really regrets. and no it never happened to me


U always say this in these threads

Do you want it to happen

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no because I think it would be painful I'm trying to figure out man lol even though i know most man it's just that I always wanna know more

Posted by hellosaggy
Lol I’m up and down the age spectrum. I’ve dated 10 years older. My previous serious scorp ex was 3 years younger... Ive just started talking to a cap that is 8 years younger. I was talking to a sag but she lied about her age said she was 24 and is actually 20. She was afraid I wouldn’t talk to her. She’s very cute and I don’t look my age but I am apprehensive in dating someone so young from a maturity standpoint.

I attract all ages because I have so many different facets to me



the strange thing is the Sagittarius I know most of the time fall for older women as they age they like younger. You probably don't have a since you're a Sagittarius hehe the more exotic the better or not ? I don't know if it's my Sagittarius moon but I attract older men always have don't know why either married or just having a girlfriend. Because of my Venus and Jupiter in the 8th house I always please my partners very easily and can easily get into relationships what is nice but at the same time I attract my opposite most of the time where I have intense chemistry

Posted by hellosaggy
Men get more handsome???🤔 I must be like 1000 then lol


confident so since we're honest with eachother did you always have younger women or older women sorry just curious
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Posted by dewiklaessen25
Posted by hellosaggy
@dewiklaessen25

I have absolutely NO problem with you. Everybody expresses themselves differently. Granted they aren’t all productive. Which is always fair to constructively criticize. Even if the other individual chooses not to or to take it.

I don’t like people attacking someone for saying how they feel.



thank you!

I'm maybe explosive and expressive but I don't like to keep things for myself.
sorry if I talk so much I'm 26 btw how old are you if I may ask?


I’m 33...34 in a few weeks




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oldie 😋 no joking they say men get more handsome as they get older we women only get older and uglier luckily I'm Asian

Posted by lisabethur8
or do you hate some cancer moons today?


no some not all of them you know that I like you I follow your account haha don't mind me I'm on a rage just some people need to stop judging and first look at themselves because i can become very salty. specially if they don't know anything

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well I myself as a woman have cheated in the past and I think it's the same for me although i wasn't happy with my ex and i didn't know how to leave back then it was my first relationship ever of 5 years long now 2 years and 8 months together with my Sagittarius and I haven't been unfaithful although I had moments where I was tempted when I was angry but that was more in the heat of the moment @hellosaggy I did blackmail out of anger and yes that's wrong if he wouldn't give me sex or we had a huge fight I would tell him someone would pick me up or I would go treetrunkkk someone else and if I didn't say anything I would just think of calling someone or talking to calm down before I would make a stupid decision. so far I've been able to hold myself in,


So when you get angry at your bf your first impulse is to treetrunk someone else? What's he suppose to do with that? Walk on eggshells so you don't accidentally treetrunk butter up? You should wear a sign or seek proffessional help.






typical answer for a cancer moon petty as trtrk the other way around it's the same so stop judging with your shadow attitude my boyfriend is no angel neither so stop talking at least I'm honest you probably only criticize people but can't be straight yourself if that gives you a good feeling go ahead but I don't need help.



It's one thing if you cheated, butter happens, learn from your mistake(s) and move on.... but this seems to be a pattern according to you; Impulsive behavior with blackmail and manipulation as result, the inability to control your emotions. It's pretty much as bad as it gets in my book.

And so what if your bf is "not an angel"? Bc he's an marker it means you have to resort to being one yourself?




and again you're wrong read again I have never cheated on him it's called growing up it takes time. I did that's once and you don't even know what happened at that moment. he is a cancer moon with a Taurus Ascendant that's also why I say this I'm a Venus Leo he's a Venus in Scorpio of theirs anybody manipulative and blackmailing it's him not me




ummmm...aren't you an 8th houser? i've seen alot of your posts/topics on you being strongly plutonic.

if you know manipulation, then it stares right back at you. that's the only way to be with one, you "get" eachother in a deep ..very deep level.


hey sorry I'm pissed lol yes I am Venus in the 8th house but I'm tired of it what I've said was 2 years ago. my Sagittarius and I are the same when it comes to that since his sun is in the 8th house and he has his Venus in Scorpio plus my moon in his 8th house and his mars in my 8th house and through composite astrology we are

Sun 9°17' Scorpio
Moon 24°40' Virgo
Mercury 3°02' Scorpio
Venus 1°55' Libra
Mars 20°15' Virgo
Jupiter 16°19' Libra
Saturn 18°45' Aquarius
Uranus 17°17' Capricorn
Neptune 18°03' Capricorn
Pluto 23°38' Scorpio

don't know if that's good



is this another chart system?


through astrotheme.com I didn't put the picture



i thought you said your man is born in december and is cancer moon? sag sun? that's why i thought maybe you're using a different system.

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yes he is a Sagittarius sun the composite is both of his and my chart together I just found this out the other day don't know much about it to be honest hehe

Posted by hellosaggy
@dewiklaessen25

I have absolutely NO problem with you. Everybody expresses themselves differently. Granted they aren’t all productive. Which is always fair to constructively criticize. Even if the other individual chooses not to or to take it.

I don’t like people attacking someone for saying how they feel.


thank you!

I'm maybe explosive and expressive but I don't like to keep things for myself.
sorry if I talk so much I'm 26 btw how old are you if I may ask?


Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by dewiklaessen25
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Posted by dewiklaessen25
Posted by enfant_terrible
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Posted by dewiklaessen25

well I myself as a woman have cheated in the past and I think it's the same for me although i wasn't happy with my ex and i didn't know how to leave back then it was my first relationship ever of 5 years long now 2 years and 8 months together with my Sagittarius and I haven't been unfaithful although I had moments where I was tempted when I was angry but that was more in the heat of the moment @hellosaggy I did blackmail out of anger and yes that's wrong if he wouldn't give me sex or we had a huge fight I would tell him someone would pick me up or I would go treetrunkkk someone else and if I didn't say anything I would just think of calling someone or talking to calm down before I would make a stupid decision. so far I've been able to hold myself in,


So when you get angry at your bf your first impulse is to treetrunk someone else? What's he suppose to do with that? Walk on eggshells so you don't accidentally treetrunk butter up? You should wear a sign or seek proffessional help.






typical answer for a cancer moon petty as trtrk the other way around it's the same so stop judging with your shadow attitude my boyfriend is no angel neither so stop talking at least I'm honest you probably only criticize people but can't be straight yourself if that gives you a good feeling go ahead but I don't need help.



It's one thing if you cheated, butter happens, learn from your mistake(s) and move on.... but this seems to be a pattern according to you; Impulsive behavior with blackmail and manipulation as result, the inability to control your emotions. It's pretty much as bad as it gets in my book.

And so what if your bf is "not an angel"? Bc he's an marker it means you have to resort to being one yourself?




and again you're wrong read again I have never cheated on him it's called growing up it takes time. I did that's once and you don't even know what happened at that moment. he is a cancer moon with a Taurus Ascendant that's also why I say this I'm a Venus Leo he's a Venus in Scorpio of theirs anybody manipulative and blackmailing it's him not me




ummmm...aren't you an 8th houser? i've seen alot of your posts/topics on you being strongly plutonic.

if you know manipulation, then it stares right back at you. that's the only way to be with one, you "get" eachother in a deep ..very deep level.


hey sorry I'm pissed lol yes I am Venus in the 8th house but I'm tired of it what I've said was 2 years ago. my Sagittarius and I are the same when it comes to that since his sun is in the 8th house and he has his Venus in Scorpio plus my moon in his 8th house and his mars in my 8th house and through composite astrology we are

Sun 9°17' Scorpio
Moon 24°40' Virgo
Mercury 3°02' Scorpio
Venus 1°55' Libra
Mars 20°15' Virgo
Jupiter 16°19' Libra
Saturn 18°45' Aquarius
Uranus 17°17' Capricorn
Neptune 18°03' Capricorn
Pluto 23°38' Scorpio

don't know if that's good



is this another chart system?
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through astrotheme.com I didn't put the picture

Posted by hellosaggy
Why beat up on a 25 year old that hasn’t had the opportunity to be in a healthy relationship?

We learn as we get older. I did, as will she.

It’s easier to learn from someone else’s mistakes, but we have to make our own too. Staying in a repetitive cycle is the issue. I haven’t seen anything she’s posted that has shown this.


I had my first relationship when I was 18 for 5 years now I'm together for 2 years and 8 months my relationships are both different I see everything as a lesson

Posted by hellosaggy
@dewiklaessen25

No point in arguing. Ton of closed minded people around here... and hypocrites. They will complain about you cheating and then be emotionally abusive and down right have a dry as a board personality that they get cheated on themselves and come here and be self righteous.


I understand what you are saying. Sometimes it’s just so not worth it you want to go out there and just be with someone else. But you Stick it out. You shouldn’t have to feel like that though


must be my moon in the 1st house I approach aggressively no but lately I've been losing my patience

Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by dewiklaessen25
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Posted by dewiklaessen25
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by dewiklaessen25

well I myself as a woman have cheated in the past and I think it's the same for me although i wasn't happy with my ex and i didn't know how to leave back then it was my first relationship ever of 5 years long now 2 years and 8 months together with my Sagittarius and I haven't been unfaithful although I had moments where I was tempted when I was angry but that was more in the heat of the moment @hellosaggy I did blackmail out of anger and yes that's wrong if he wouldn't give me sex or we had a huge fight I would tell him someone would pick me up or I would go treetrunkkk someone else and if I didn't say anything I would just think of calling someone or talking to calm down before I would make a stupid decision. so far I've been able to hold myself in,


So when you get angry at your bf your first impulse is to treetrunk someone else? What's he suppose to do with that? Walk on eggshells so you don't accidentally treetrunk butter up? You should wear a sign or seek proffessional help.






typical answer for a cancer moon petty as trtrk the other way around it's the same so stop judging with your shadow attitude my boyfriend is no angel neither so stop talking at least I'm honest you probably only criticize people but can't be straight yourself if that gives you a good feeling go ahead but I don't need help.



It's one thing if you cheated, butter happens, learn from your mistake(s) and move on.... but this seems to be a pattern according to you; Impulsive behavior with blackmail and manipulation as result, the inability to control your emotions. It's pretty much as bad as it gets in my book.

And so what if your bf is "not an angel"? Bc he's an marker it means you have to resort to being one yourself?




and again you're wrong read again I have never cheated on him it's called growing up it takes time. I did that's once and you don't even know what happened at that moment. he is a cancer moon with a Taurus Ascendant that's also why I say this I'm a Venus Leo he's a Venus in Scorpio of theirs anybody manipulative and blackmailing it's him not me



I'm not talking about cheating, I'm talking about how your mind works or rather doesn't work when you get angry

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I am allowed to express myself as I said its the past

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Posted by dewiklaessen25

you're 32 and still have to reply clearly not wise enough to just shut up when you need to I only reply like this because you don't have to tell me who I am you are bad at judging character plus being young and having to grow up is a part of life everybody is different so don't judge we all have something we are not proud of or something we have done you're not my partner so you get nothing to say about me plus you're an outsider. mind your own business


Don't share if you don't feel comfortable others commenting. Save it for the shrink. Of course I have right to judge, if you want to call it that. I just call it as I see it.

And btw this is not about doing SOMETHING you are not proud of. According to you this is how you roll, it's a destructive behavioral pattern. In which case you need to address it as more than just "something" that happened. As if it's only a one-time thing

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if you can't even show your face don't even talk I don't hide behind a picture

Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by dewiklaessen25
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by dewiklaessen25
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by dewiklaessen25

well I myself as a woman have cheated in the past and I think it's the same for me although i wasn't happy with my ex and i didn't know how to leave back then it was my first relationship ever of 5 years long now 2 years and 8 months together with my Sagittarius and I haven't been unfaithful although I had moments where I was tempted when I was angry but that was more in the heat of the moment @hellosaggy I did blackmail out of anger and yes that's wrong if he wouldn't give me sex or we had a huge fight I would tell him someone would pick me up or I would go treetrunkkk someone else and if I didn't say anything I would just think of calling someone or talking to calm down before I would make a stupid decision. so far I've been able to hold myself in,


So when you get angry at your bf your first impulse is to treetrunk someone else? What's he suppose to do with that? Walk on eggshells so you don't accidentally treetrunk butter up? You should wear a sign or seek proffessional help.






typical answer for a cancer moon petty as trtrk the other way around it's the same so stop judging with your shadow attitude my boyfriend is no angel neither so stop talking at least I'm honest you probably only criticize people but can't be straight yourself if that gives you a good feeling go ahead but I don't need help.



It's one thing if you cheated, butter happens, learn from your mistake(s) and move on.... but this seems to be a pattern according to you; Impulsive behavior with blackmail and manipulation as result, the inability to control your emotions. It's pretty much as bad as it gets in my book.

And so what if your bf is "not an angel"? Bc he's an marker it means you have to resort to being one yourself?




and again you're wrong read again I have never cheated on him it's called growing up it takes time. I did that's once and you don't even know what happened at that moment. he is a cancer moon with a Taurus Ascendant that's also why I say this I'm a Venus Leo he's a Venus in Scorpio of theirs anybody manipulative and blackmailing it's him not me




ummmm...aren't you an 8th houser? i've seen alot of your posts/topics on you being strongly plutonic.

if you know manipulation, then it stares right back at you. that's the only way to be with one, you "get" eachother in a deep ..very deep level.
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hey sorry I'm pissed lol yes I am Venus in the 8th house but I'm tired of it what I've said was 2 years ago. my Sagittarius and I are the same when it comes to that since his sun is in the 8th house and he has his Venus in Scorpio plus my moon in his 8th house and his mars in my 8th house and through composite astrology we are

Sun 9°17' Scorpio
Moon 24°40' Virgo
Mercury 3°02' Scorpio
Venus 1°55' Libra
Mars 20°15' Virgo
Jupiter 16°19' Libra
Saturn 18°45' Aquarius
Uranus 17°17' Capricorn
Neptune 18°03' Capricorn
Pluto 23°38' Scorpio

don't know if that's good

So I'm always honest and straightforward what doesn't always do me good 9 out of 10 times I'm very diplomatic (Libra Mars) unless you piss me off lately my patience has been running out with people I get more aggressive and temperamental because some people can't appreciate honestly but have to cry all the time even when I bring it in a nice way.