Posted by sugaries
Are these your only aspects with this person? Just curious. I usually have 30-40.
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Here's something you may find of interest
Posted by Goddessproxy
Its kind of sad to be that disconnected with someone that you can't even FEEL it.
Why do you give so much important to simple words? Just feel the vibe and expect nada.
Posted by spica
I'd stab it
sounds like an easy college friendship
Posted by 25thDecan
Ah, the steady friend called time..seems that getting to know him is likely going to tell you all about him and how either of your intentions match your goals much better than what we could. We'd be pretty myopic to assume his virgo-ness is just talking to you to hear himself wax poetic. And..we are not legion....
Posted by ellessque
you are making alot of excuses for him.
nobody is holding a gun to his head to spend time with the exes. he is doing it all himself.
nobody makes a cap man do anything they don't want to do, especially a woman. they aren't virgos
Posted by ellessque
Don't pigeon hole yourself like i did. i became nothing more than a place where he felt safe and accepted. when he needed that feeling, he ran straight to me for it. he got his recharge and went away again. i know now, i wasn't more than a fix to his self esteem when he needed it. something tangible to keep him from being swallowed up from his perceived black hole. i was never looked at as relationship potential, even with the words he spoke that implied that.
He may be so broken that he will be content living the rest of his life like that. That's probably a choice he's already made and you don't know it.
As a scorpio, you have to straddle that line carefully. we want to save, fix and martyr. he screams "help" in everything he says and unfortunately, to us...duty calls. just be aware that you need to take care of yourself first. ALWAYS. weigh what you are able to give and what you are not. also weigh what you need in return and if you don't get it, do not feel bad about having to walk away.