DATING EXPERT STARZ AND LOVE
SHUMICU Series of dating ebooks serve as a fantastic selfhelp tool when you need help for breakup trauma and complicated relationships patterns.They are available for purchase on Kindle Store (https://www.amazon.com/s?ie=UTF8&page=1&rh=n% 3A133140011% 2Cp_27% 3AShumicu)
and are specifically aimed at audiences whom feel like
If in your dating years in your 20s you have been wondering why in the world you do not get to keep your men around even thought you don’t have a problem to attract them
If you have had bunch of interesting and HOT man flirt with you, hit on you, call you, overall approve of your attractiveness and sexiness without doubt, showering you with the gifts and attention, drool over you in the beginning, ask you out on million dates, glorify every second spent with you, to around 3 months time start backing off, losing interest and attraction for you, dragging their feet to come see you
If your man says you are intense and overreact
If your man thinks you are bullying those wanting answers
If you are feeling hurt and betrayed
If your boyfriend cheated on you with someone so you don’t trust anyone
If your boyfriend has not proposed and it feels like ages you have been together and nothing new is happening and you are stuck
.If the moment when you feel he is backing off, closing down emotionally, pulling away, becoming distant, getting more aloof and dragging his feet to come see you, you react by displaying panic, fear, anxiety and freaking out
If you controlled him, were doing his job, called him, pursued him, tried to treat him like a kid, lecturing him, criticized him don’t be surprised he left and don’t say he is bad person cause you don’t know cause you were doing his job he wasn’t even present in this relationship at his very potential.
If you usually respond to your man with emotional reactions instead of logical calm explanation and detached attitude, overreacting, calling him bad names, yelling, kicking , screaming, crying, criticizing him , threatening, telling him he doesn’t deserve you and your company and explaining in million ways and million sentences how and why you see he is taking you for granted more and more If you feel and oftentimes think your man has been very ungrateful and after all that you have done for him he is being consistently unappreciative
If you feel that you have not set the things right from the get goes and YOU HAVE unconsciously MADE HIM TREAT YOU BAD
If you feel you cannot reverse things now and same old patterned behavior repeats itself
If you started dating your man right away and the connection was merely sexual
If you are overly clingy and needy, overly invested in the relationship, if it feels like you are doing all the relationship work yourself and feeling all the emotions
If you have been lied to and if your boyfriend or husband has cheated on you or betrayed you severely
If you feel that only if you had a ring you would be able to finally relax and be cool and grant your man all the freedom he needs and all the time with his buddies he desires.
If Working toward happily ever after and wondering whether it will even happen overwhelms you and drains you 100% of the time
If you start being worried and anxious about the outcome of relationship when you start thinking whether he will propose or not and whether he cares enough to spend the rest of his life with you.
If dreadful thought that you will stay SINGLE and ALONE forever while all your other friends have found SIGNIFICANT OTHERS gets you so out of balance that you became victim of your own worse self where you expose all you weaknesses and chase your men away.
If you are thinking that your life can NOT be complete, fun and exciting because you do not have love of your life handy
And more disappointments in MARRIAGE. Even if you married this man LIFE will still be pursuing him, he will be keeping his interests.
IF you worry because your men meets exciting woman
If your man is working at a busy industry where he meets thousands of women who are there to seduce him
If you often catch yourself thinking “Aw this one is not the right one either, he will hurt me too, he doesn’t care enough, and he is cheating”
If you feel like your relationships so far have been more work than FUN.
If your relationship have been draining you where you think and analyze and worry when you are apart from your boy /hubby
If you’re Relationships are NOT EASY
If you cannot identify with:” Love is easy and happiness attainable. “I am happy, and in love always, I am pleasant, smiley bubbly my best self ALWAYS, not only if things are going well for me”.
SHUMICU Series of dating ebooks serve as a fantastic selfhelp tool when you need help for breakup trauma and complicated relationships patterns.They are available for purchase on Kindle Store (https://www.amazon.com/s?ie=UTF8&page=1&rh=n% 3A133140011% 2Cp_27% 3AShumicu)
and are specifically aimed at audiences whom feel like
If in your dating years in your 20s you have been wondering why in the world you do not get to keep your men around even thought you don’t have a problem to attract them
If you have had bunch of interesting and HOT man flirt with you, hit on you, call you, overall approve of your attractiveness and sexiness without doubt, showering you with the gifts and attention, drool over you in the beginning, ask you out on million dates, glorify every second spent with you, to around 3 months time start backing off, losing interest and attraction for you, dragging their feet to come see you
If your man says you are intense and overreact
If your man thinks you are bullying those wanting answers
If you are feeling hurt and betrayed
If your boyfriend cheated on you with someone so you don’t trust anyone
If your boyfriend has not proposed and it feels like ages you have been together and nothing new is happening and you are stuck
.If the moment when you feel he is backing off, closing down emotionally, pulling away, becoming distant, getting more aloof and dragging his feet to come see you, you react by displaying panic, fear, anxiety and freaking out
If you controlled him, were doing his job, called him, pursued him, tried to treat him like a kid, lecturing him, criticized him don’t be surprised he left and don’t say he is bad person cause you don’t know cause you were doing his job he wasn’t even present in this relationship at his very potential.
If you usually respond to your man with emotional reactions instead of logical calm explanation and detached attitude, overreacting, calling him bad names, yelling, kicking , screaming, crying, criticizing him , threatening, telling him he doesn’t deserve you and your company and explaining in million ways and million sentences how and why you see he is taking you for granted more and more If you feel and oftentimes think your man has been very ungrateful and after all that you have done for him he is being consistently unappreciative
If you feel that you have not set the things right from the get goes and YOU HAVE unconsciously MADE HIM TREAT YOU BAD
If you feel you cannot reverse things now and same old patterned behavior repeats itself
If you started dating your man right away and the connection was merely sexual
If you are overly clingy and needy, overly invested in the relationship, if it feels like you are doing all the relationship work yourself and feeling all the emotions
If you have been lied to and if your boyfriend or husband has cheated on you or betrayed you severely
If you feel that only if you had a ring you would be able to finally relax and be cool and grant your man all the freedom he needs and all the time with his buddies he desires.
If Working toward happily ever after and wondering whether it will even happen overwhelms you and drains you 100% of the time
If you start being worried and anxious about the outcome of relationship when you start thinking whether he will propose or not and whether he cares enough to spend the rest of his life with you.
If dreadful thought that you will stay SINGLE and ALONE forever while all your other friends have found SIGNIFICANT OTHERS gets you so out of balance that you became victim of your own worse self where you expose all you weaknesses and chase your men away.
If you are thinking that your life can NOT be complete, fun and exciting because you do not have love of your life handy
And more disappointments in MARRIAGE. Even if you married this man LIFE will still be pursuing him, he will be keeping his interests.
IF you worry because your men meets exciting woman
If your man is working at a busy industry where he meets thousands of women who are there to seduce him
If you often catch yourself thinking “Aw this one is not the right one either, he will hurt me too, he doesn’t care enough, and he is cheating”
If you feel like your relationships so far have been more work than FUN.
If your relationship have been draining you where you think and analyze and worry when you are apart from your boy /hubby
If you’re Relationships are NOT EASY
If you cannot identify with:” Love is easy and happiness attainable. “I am happy, and in love always, I am pleasant, smiley bubbly my best self ALWAYS, not only if things are going well for me”.