Been dating a Capricorn for 15 months, she bought me ring and told me we basically married(and she wants 30years at least with me). We still stay in separate houses and she hasn't met my family (seems she doesn't want to, makes excuses). How do I know if she is serious about me? She says I am her last relationship, but some how I wonder if she feels insecure due to me still studying. She has changed her whole life to fit in to my world and I have adapted to her controlling nature. It seems that I am the most stable relationship she has ever had and this causes het to wonder when I will show my demons.
Her drama seems to never stop. Either she has stalkers or work issues or financial issues or family drama. Do Capricorns strive for crisis mode?
I love her, would like to grow old and grey with her. But I don't understand the continuous crisis mode followed by the not meeting my family? Could someone help me?
I am a Gemini. NO DRAMA person. No issues. Try and support her all the way. Just wondering if I am wasting my time? She is perfect for me and together we make a dynamic team. I don't mind riding another Tsunami out bit I am getting older not younger.
Dear Gemini_1986 Think I am replying way to late, but I thought I will give me Gemini opinion to you. I have been dating a very complex capricorn for more than a year.
In my opinion Capricorns are sometimes very direct, very rude, very insensitive, but thats because we Gemini take everything to heart, we are sensitive, sometimes to sensitive. Grow a thicker skin and ask your Capricorn what he meant, if he is anything like my Capricorn, then he was making a joke.
They have a dry, sharp sense of humor and if you don't find the humor in there comments, your relationship will die an early death.
Don't be scared to talk to him. Be yourself. If he doesn't love you for that, his not meant for you.
I am a Gemini female and my closest friends are Capricorn, my true love is Capricorn, my first crush was a Capricorn... Male or female alike. I agree, also attract them like crazy... Or they attract me...
The last Capricorn seems to be the real deal, she has captured my attention, even got me to be jealous and commit 100% . We seem to match perfectly. What she lacks, I have and what I lack, she has. She inspires me to work harder, be better and to think differently!
Gemini are diverse people, having the potential to develop into anything we put our minds too... As all people we have a good and bad side, it depends on how you treat us and what has happened to us, that determines which side of us you will meet. Or as we grow up we realize we can be the person we want to get along with, instead of the bad ass. (speaking out of personal experience)
I can, if I want to be, be exactly what this gentleman says we are... Or I can be the best version of myself and show people how great we are... Unfortunately we can't make people fall inlove with us, they just do.
But... I myself would rather be alone at home, then play the fool to attract attention. To avoid people and uncomfortable situations suit me way better then being everything ever said about a Gemini.
I was so hidden, that people in my town didn't even know I moved back, and when they started finding out, I wad back for nearly 7years. We choose what or who you see...
So gentleman, with the nasty comments about Gemini. Maybe you should look back and wonder what happened to that Gemini to be like she is?
And I am a full blown Gemini, not a crusp... I am scared of being hurt, due to always being someone's fool, always coming last and always loving to much.
We choose, who we are and we choose who we want you to see...