Posted by TxOgal

Posted by DragonSag
Girl...do you really need a guy you have to wait for months just to see him? You know that saying - who want so see you makes time to see you, who doesn't makes up excuses. And it applies to that Gemini and any other person on this planet.

They change their minds, behavior and attitude like hourly, but that is not an excuse not to see you for so long if he really wanted to. To point out just what I'm referring to I'll tell you that one situation with "mine". It was Friday and since everyone else was in another room we were alone and talked a bit and he's saying how he really wishes nice weather for the weekend and how he would LOVE to go somewhere in the nature where there are no people at all. And guess what he DID do on the weekend? Got drunk with some friends while at clubs.

As you can see they can say one thing and do exact opposite, I'm sure they have reasons for that, but do you need that? Or is it better to deal with someone who says something and actually goes through with it?

I don't know why I keep giving him chances.. n excuses.. I will back off now, it's only frustrating me

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Because you really wanted to seek out possibilities with him and he spiked your interest. Your signs are very different, neighbor signs don't usually get along too well. Tauruses are persistent and Geminis are inconsistent. You set your mind and focus on thing you want, Geminis shift between numerous interests they have. If you really want to give it a try with him still your only option is to be direct in what you want but first be sure with yourself that it is what you want - to be with him. So it's either all in or pull back, you know yourself best what you are capable of. Sometimes you have to draw it for them to realize you want them and they don't get the hints at all, so either try that or don't trouble yourself with him anymore.

Girl...do you really need a guy you have to wait for months just to see him? You know that saying - who want so see you makes time to see you, who doesn't makes up excuses. And it applies to that Gemini and any other person on this planet.
They change their minds, behavior and attitude like hourly, but that is not an excuse not to see you for so long if he really wanted to. To point out just what I'm referring to I'll tell you that one situation with "mine". It was Friday and since everyone else was in another room we were alone and talked a bit and he's saying how he really wishes nice weather for the weekend and how he would LOVE to go somewhere in the nature where there are no people at all. And guess what he DID do on the weekend? Got drunk with some friends while at clubs.
As you can see they can say one thing and do exact opposite, I'm sure they have reasons for that, but do you need that? Or is it better to deal with someone who says something and actually goes through with it?

Posted by Undine
1. Any sign under 30 yrs.

2. Any sign over 60 yrs.

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This is the most accurate comment I've seen so far at this site

Posted by MonaLisa26

Posted by DragonSag
It's really pointless to judge people based on who dumps whom. Or divorce, same thing. Well, Cap guy happened in my case when I was 21, I son't know anyone who jad super fine taste in men at that age. I like blonde guys with blue eyes and that's how he was. He was OK, average to say. It's not like he was super fat, he was overweight. Meaning he could lose some pounds, not meaning he's a bag of potatoes. Being dumped doesn't say anything about you - it says two people are not right for each other. Idk why people have the need to blame someone for breakup, regardless which side they are blaming. We're all great for someone and awful for someone else. For example there is my Libra ex who has really small D but some woman married him, I don't consider her a loser fpr that, she's fine with it so who am I to judge? I also had this Aries guy who looked like Adonis and I rejected him - many times. Cause he was very dumb and aside from looks had nothing to provide. He was really bad in sex too. Shallow women went nuts for him, chased him etc simply cause he looked that good but to me he's not worth the time. We have nothing to talk about and sex is bad = I walk away. But he's married to someone too and I don't consider his wife dumb either, he's ok to her so again, who am I to judge? I'd always pick any average guy over him that I have great time and great sex with but we're not all the same. Cap was at least interesting to talk to, we had things in common and sex was at least decent. The fact that he's a crappy human being has nothing to do with me and it got revealed after we broke up anyway.

Idk…I was dating since 13 so by the time I was 21 and FINALLY had sex - I knew men behavior very well.

I think you said Cap was average, LAZY and FAT…which lazy to me is bad sex. Lazy won’t eat you for an hour. Lazy won’t care about your satisfaction. Just his.

I say at 21 you aren’t a baby.

Well…I guess I am wrong. You will be fucking babies until you’ll turn my age…your generation is ok - I am not ranking on you ALL - but you do mature slow.

And if everybody will stop picking on others it’ll be dead zone…do you want dxp dead? 🤷‍♀️

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Lazy comment wasn't about sex, just his life in general. He had secure 9-5 job and did nothing in his spare time to improve life quality in any way or to enjoy life. Later he got all into bikes and stuff, drove like maniac, been in coma cause of crashes from his bike etc. Sex was average, ok I'd say because there were better and with Virgo it's lights years away in quality. I did have orgasms with him as well, it's not like there was no joy in it, it just wasn't anything more than average to say. Not bad, not great.
Well guess I might be for a while into babies again since I'm into Peter Pan kind of guys, I just realized apparently Gemini men are that kind mostly. I've had mature too - Virgo's are mature. But maybe it's just not for me and I'm more like that other kind of guys still🤷🏼‍♀️ or do men really ever get mature enough in general?
For me early 20s were the worst period of my life in several ways, I got into serious relationship with Taurus at 18 and expected it to last for life since it was my first serious one but it wasn't for him and he didn't have same things in mind - and I thank God for that now. So my early 20s were mostly on and off with him cause I thought I loved him. Other guys came in those breaks with him. I also dropped out of college and had no serious plans for life or any clue where I'm heading - just to paint you the picture of how that period was.

Also, if I remember the pic of OP well, Cap was definitely skinnier, just for the reference.

It's really pointless to judge people based on who dumps whom. Or divorce, same thing. Well, Cap guy happened in my case when I was 21, I son't know anyone who jad super fine taste in men at that age. I like blonde guys with blue eyes and that's how he was. He was OK, average to say. It's not like he was super fat, he was overweight. Meaning he could lose some pounds, not meaning he's a bag of potatoes. Being dumped doesn't say anything about you - it says two people are not right for each other. Idk why people have the need to blame someone for breakup, regardless which side they are blaming. We're all great for someone and awful for someone else. For example there is my Libra ex who has really small D but some woman married him, I don't consider her a loser fpr that, she's fine with it so who am I to judge? I also had this Aries guy who looked like Adonis and I rejected him - many times. Cause he was very dumb and aside from looks had nothing to provide. He was really bad in sex too. Shallow women went nuts for him, chased him etc simply cause he looked that good but to me he's not worth the time. We have nothing to talk about and sex is bad = I walk away. But he's married to someone too and I don't consider his wife dumb either, he's ok to her so again, who am I to judge? I'd always pick any average guy over him that I have great time and great sex with but we're not all the same. Cap was at least interesting to talk to, we had things in common and sex was at least decent. The fact that he's a crappy human being has nothing to do with me and it got revealed after we broke up anyway.

Posted by MonaLisa26

Posted by DragonSag

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Posted by DragonSag
Here's a story for you - you go out with a guy, everything with him is average, he's lazy af, overweight and druggie ( that you just recently discovered). You go out on dates as usual, sex is ok etc. One day you have a car crash, in all that fuss you remember you've got a bf so you might need to tell him what happens. He just says he's sorry, doesn't offer any kind of support or help which I wasn't bother with cause I've got my shit...and when you get home and get to chat with him he says - "listen, I think we shouldn't go out anymore". So um, what hints were there exactly? Not that I planned anything with him for the future God forbid, but there was no distancing or fights or stuff like that. And yes, it's Cap ladies and gentlemen, a wonderful creature. Oh and sure he didn't forget to call me out again for sex when his next gf was hospitalized, severely injured - in car crash. Now thinking, maybe guy is just bringing bad luck to people🤔

capricorns are so gross.



i mean sure he was pretty but that hairline was receding and most of my friends thinks he looks like a serial killer + has the most embarassing job.



you share something you feel vulnerable about and he proceeds to use that exact thing against you and sneers about it.



then he gets caught cheating, cries in the bathroom about it while shouting: "i'm not gonna cry over a woman." like wtf does he wanna cry over a man? what does that even mean?



so i kicked this guy out and a few weeks later he's begging to borrow money saying it's for his sick dad (turns out it's for a plane ticket to meet another woman who wasn't even the one he was cheating with!) like who is this guy? it's like i don't know him.



then he gets this girl pregnant and ghosts her barely 5 months they've known each other. and he's gone. dodging child support.
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Omg what the hell is wrong with that guy😐 some of them have serious issues, I don't know why are they like thet...they're like icebergs, as cold as they can be...oh and last part reminded me of another one, my friend's cousin dated one for years, they were planning to get married, everyone in the family liked him except this friend's Gem brother, he always said guy was as shady as can be. So she gets pregnant with him and he freaks out, asks her to abort and when she refuses, he just left her. Saying he's not ready to be a father. He was 36 at a time and she was 29. His building is overlooking at hers yet he never came to meet his child. She never asked for child support. His mother comes to see her grandchild but he never wanted to meet her. I mean...how can you live across the street of your child and not want to know it or have anything to do with it is beyond me...very few of them are really normal and fine guys. One was in my class in high school and that guy seems so positive in every way, always smiling and cheerful unlike others who are mostly grumpy lol
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WHATS WRONG with THESE GUYS???



YOU FUCKING WITH THEM!

WHATS WRONG WITH…YOU???

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Them? Nope, just one. Few months is all it was. I was referring to what is wrong with the guy she described in her post and one that left my friend's cousin with a baby. "Mine" at least didn't make any children to anyone lol

Posted by MonaLisa26

Posted by DragonSag
Here's a story for you - you go out with a guy, everything with him is average, he's lazy af, overweight and druggie ( that you just recently discovered). You go out on dates as usual, sex is ok etc. One day you have a car crash, in all that fuss you remember you've got a bf so you might need to tell him what happens. He just says he's sorry, doesn't offer any kind of support or help which I wasn't bother with cause I've got my shit...and when you get home and get to chat with him he says - "listen, I think we shouldn't go out anymore". So um, what hints were there exactly? Not that I planned anything with him for the future God forbid, but there was no distancing or fights or stuff like that. And yes, it's Cap ladies and gentlemen, a wonderful creature. Oh and sure he didn't forget to call me out again for sex when his next gf was hospitalized, severely injured - in car crash. Now thinking, maybe guy is just bringing bad luck to people🤔

I love you. But you are a dumbass!

Your beginning g of the story made me want to barf.

‘You go out with a guy who is lazy overweight and average’??? WHY? WTF is wrong with you to date…IT??? (Btw I am again shocked that he is a Cap…are they for real?)



So THERE!

Set up for failure! From get-go!

Please tell me WHY did you DO THIS?

Why did you ALLOW to make him think he has rights to date? Period! You and that other dumbass woman LET MTFKER THINK that he is a pride possession for a women!!!

You both are…rship criminals!

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You would be surprised then to learn he also dated some girl in another city that he dumped when we met, one of my neighbors is one of his exes that he remained friends with and at the same time he had a woman in her 40s that he was exchanging love mails with😂 I learned all that a bit later, we stayed in contact for awhile after break up. Why I dated him at all? Well, tbh I was disappointed when we met in person. First time I saw him was in the car and we chased a bit on the streets, he seemed cute but it was night time and my vision isn't that great at night😂 later we went out and dated for few months cause honestly I was bored and trying to get over my ex. I always dated guys that I didn't like too much at start so it wasn't something new for me, I grew affection for them over time usually. Anyway, thank God he broke it up then. It didn't hurt me at all cause I really felt nothing for him.

Mine are usually horny lately🤷🏼‍♀️ wishing him there with me, doing it against the wall in certain room and stuff like that...
Otherwise I'm just thinking about where I need to go after that, what I need to buy, errands I need to do that day etc.

Posted by DMV

Posted by DragonSag

Posted by DMV
TRAVEL every other month



I always find myself waiting for “whatever” in order to book a trip and go.



I tried to wait for a husband to buy a house. Husband never came and I got tired of wait and I brought my own house.



Now I find myself waiting for friends or a relationship to travel. Sheesh, I’m tried of waiting on that and there is a whole world out there for me to see.



So I already booked my 2nd international solo trip for next month. And I cannot wait!



So every other month, I’m outtie!



I ended my acting career because I got bored of rejection and it’s a money pit.



I have no kids, no man and tons of money.



I’m excited to check out the best airport lounges and getting to know DMV more

That's a beat decision I read on here in your place I would do exactly the same. In fact I wish I could already but there will be time. This is my dream. I used to be like that too, always waiting on others to go with but now I would just go on my own. Well in a few years I'm sure I'll have my Gem friend to accompany me too cause who could be better travel parter than Gem anyway?!

Best way to spend your time and money (when you have both) is traveling so to me that's the best decision one can make
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I went on a friendcation with a Gemini guy/coworker and it was the last trip I ever took with someone else for good reason.



He literally became somebody else and I was legit shook. I had enough when I took a nap and he ditched me and took the rental car. Totally ghosted me the whole entire afternoon, evening, and I didn’t see him again till the next day when he yet revealed another personality. He damaged the rental and swore it wasn’t his fault. It was a mess.



When he found me worthy of his time the next day, he invited me to lunch with his friends and they could tell I was over it and told me not to take him serious. And that’s when I knew he was a bad guy who wasn’t worthy of my time.



I’ve yet to find a half decent Gemini to be friends with. Issa a no for me dawg.

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Oh wow that sounds like a horrible vacation😬 but tbh that behavior is well known to me lol I jave one Gem friend who's like that too. Once we went on vacation 5 of us - me Sag, Virgo, 2 Gems and idk what sign gf of male Gem was. We decided to visit nearby city, male Gem driver and when we're at border crossing he tells us to give him our documents for the police...and Gem girl says she didn't bring hers🤦🏼‍♀️😂 believe it or not we managed to smuggle her across the border and back lol they didn't notice missing document but how she went on a trip without ID is beyond me lol she also ditched me once we were clubbing and if I hadn't met Cancer friend I'd be alone. She also got us in trouble driving with guys she had no idea who they were before but lied that she knows them from work. On another trip she wanted to go with some French guys she just met clubbing but I said no lol so there were a lot of troubles with her😅 other Gems I know are a lot more responsible but she sounds just like your friend