"I am a divorced female.Have three children, all teenagers. I am the happiest I have ever been because I am in the ""process"" of ""discovering"" who I am as a person and as a women. I have a very special person in my life who has taught me more in the last 3 years then I have learned on my own or while married...and I am sure there is more he will teach me.""Choice, NOT chance determines what our future holds for us"". I am finding myself as a person and as a women and I am liking what what I have learned about myself. We are here to ""support"" and ""help"" one another because if it were just us alone we can beat ourselves up quit a bit."