He has a girlfriend...But, He will contact you again, to see if he can get you...And once he finally gets you, the chase will be over. He won the prize..The smartest thing to do is to never sleep with him, until you are comfortable, but most importantly, until he has earned the right to be with you on an intimate level. And that is by showing you that he can be completely open and honest with you, and proves to you what he is saying, is indeed a fact.. That statement alone about if you guys were not being intimate on the first date at your house would have force me to kick his butt out. And for the fact that you invited him into your home with out any efforts on his part, such as wining and dining you, made him believe that you were desperate, and a easy target. That is why he disrespected you by saying that to you. The next time that he contacts you, do not invite him over, let him take you out somewhere nice from now on, if not, lose his number.