In dating app I saw him from someone elses profile, after I searched again from made-up profile several days in a row. He is not there anymore.
That's the problem. He never broke up, just said he needs time and now I haven't heard from him 3 months now. I mean, how much time does "I need time" means. I can't move on unless I know he is done. I need a closure or something..
I have been in a relationship with a Taurus man for a year. It has been amazing. With him I feel I have finally found the one for me. We are from different countries, I have introduced him with all my family(he has visited my country,my home where I grew up etc.). He has never introduced me to anyone on his side, since he knows all my people, it was bothering me for months, that I know noone from his. Not even a friend. We had a fight about this. In the heat of the moment I said some things like - why are you playing to me, I was clear I am looking for serious relationship etc. Where he answered that he is sorry I feel that way, but he really wouldn't argue, I was the one mostly talking. Since then it's been 3 months. I apologised many times, I explained how I feel and why I said these things. He said he needs time and its no point to talk to him now. After around a month I was messing with my girlfriends and accidentally found him on a dating website we both met. Now it's been 3 months and I don't understand. Is he giving me a silent treatment or are we done? I know after reading this you think I am stupid and we are definitely done, he just forgot to tell me, but his activities online(like contantly checking apology video file(we live long distance and used to see each other on weekends only)that I sent him, checking me online what I am doing etc.) All the activities say different.. since I saw him on dating site I sent him a message that I was not expecting this from him. That moment he deleted the profile. I am 27 Gemini woman, he is 35 Taurus man. Honestly the sparkle and compatibility we had I had never experienced before and we used to talk we must be the one for each other... I miss him terribly. I want to give him time, but what if he is done.. if he is done, why would he still check stuff on me online.. if I send him message on Whatsapp, he reads it, never answers. i dont want to give up on him but dont know how to not be clingy and let him know that I care about him.. HELP!