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Last month, I discovered Alexandra Tarot on you tube. Some parts of her reading resonated well for me. So I am planning to listen to her reading in february to check if she was just lucky or if she really is accurate.
I also tried to listen to other tarot reading on you tube, but none of them resonated with me.

I don't know if it's romantic, but I sure would be happy to hear that from my boyfriend, because it shows that he is responsible and that he seeing me in his future

Posted by busyeyes88
I'm s Leo moon and HATE being ignored. If I have done something wrong and I reach out to you and you continue to ignore instead of solving the issues... Game over... You lose. I will delete your number, leave you in the dust and make brand NEW friends!!! Done it a few times over and my leo "bestie" is about to become "dust" too! Good luck with that OP!!

But weren't you the one ignoring you leo friend first? She probably see your retreating moment as you ignoring her, so now she is doing the same thing to you because she was hurt by your "silence" ....

Posted by wicked
At the same time the bulls like their ego's stroked. So they like to hear from their dear ones. The trick is not to give away the control. From day one. Give away the control, they start to ignore you.

Very interesting analysis, but what do you mean by "the trick is not to give away the control"

Maybe it's a 6 year old thread, but it's still an interesting subject...especially knowing that bulls like to ignore people themselves

Posted by AriesIntrovert16

Posted by MidasDelima
Why can't Aries woman understand that Taurus man isn't that complicated? All we need is to be fed, attended to and be reminded that we're the only person in the world for them now and then. We do not need your grand gesture of love, we do not need you to stop hanging out with all your guy friends (yes we do get jealous, but we'll get over it when you come home and make out with us or spoil us with compliments (we're vain) and affection). Why can't Aries woman understand that we're not that demanding? That we're just as simple minded as you guys are, but rather than saying everything, we're hoping that you catch on and take the initiative, because if we teach you... Than we'll doubt how genuine you are in loving us... SIGH.

It has nothing to do with how much we love you. We are not mind readers, you need to speak up. No one just knows what you're thinking or feeling.

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True, as an aries woman, one thing I can say is that I don't understand subtility. If someone got something to tell me, it is faster to tell me.

Et moi qui me pensais seule!!

I am aries sun, moon and jupiter
Then I am Sagitarius saturn and Uranus

I have 2 water placement > Mercury and Venus in pisces
And 3 earth placement > Mars in Taurus, Virgo asc, Cap Neptune

I think I am pretty normal, although I think too much for an aries.
Someone here described me very well once saying that " even though the action can bring you laid back, yet your ego and emotions brings out the impatience a lot more"

Posted by champranger
Also, I don't think you can get a Taurus to adapt. You can show them reasons why they should.

IMO

Yes that's what I've heard, but I guess that OP might be open to adaptation since he is asking all those questions

Are Taurus considered more stuborn than Aries?

Posted by champranger

Posted by elogean
I have never dated a taurus man, but I have been in contact with one for a few month, what I can say is that we do communicate in a very different way.
For exemple, if something bother me, I will say it in a very direct and blunt way ... I am too impulsive to keep my feelings for myself.
When the taurus is unhappy, or bothered by something, he just go silent or distant for a few days. This is something I don't uderstand because I'd rather talk it out and move on right away...
Or when something happens, that must be the cause for his distance, unless I ask, he won't say it.
I have noticed that taurus and aries do communicate in a different way. But I guess that with time, you will both be able to understand each other to avoid those miscommunication problems.

But I don't relate to that. If I'm unhappy, I immediately go quiet because I need to evaluate first. Is it me being unreasonable? Is it the other person? Do I really need to bring it up? What would happen if I bring it up? How would it effect what I hope to achieve? I cannot do it when I am frustrated or angry or emotional. So I go quiet and wait for it pass first.

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I just think it's two different point of view, personally If I am bothered, I would say it so we can discuss it and move on from it right away, but taurus people prefer to think about it. I think there is not right or wrong, just two different way of acting. Like aries people would over communicate and taurus people would "under communicate". And I see how this could cause desagreement at the beginning of a relationship, but Iam sure that OP and his girlfriend will soon figure out how they both fonction and they will be able to adapt to each other.

I have never dated a taurus man, but I have been in contact with one for a few month, what I can say is that we do communicate in a very different way.
For exemple, if something bother me, I will say it in a very direct and blunt way ... I am too impulsive to keep my feelings for myself.
When the taurus is unhappy, or bothered by something, he just go silent or distant for a few days. This is something I don't uderstand because I'd rather talk it out and move on right away...
Or when something happens, that must be the cause for his distance, unless I ask, he won't say it.
I have noticed that taurus and aries do communicate in a different way. But I guess that with time, you will both be able to understand each other to avoid those miscommunication problems.

I have tried about a month or so, but since then nothing happenned...I still cannot log in

@EmotionalAries
I read everywhere that taurus people are boring, but strangely when I described myself to him, he seemed the most attracted to my crazy side.

@Nevermore @AriesIntrovert16
« even though the action can brings you laid back, yet your ego and emotions brings out the impatience a lot more »

I think this sentence describes me quite well. But even if I find myself to be generally impatient, in some occasions I am suprised at how patient I am...it's weird.
But I think patience is something one can work on...

@happyface1
We shall see, but at the moment he is acting quite interested again...

Posted by Nevermore

Posted by elogean
This one should be more complete!

Sun 8°24' Aries
Moon 9°48' Aries
Mercury 10°49' Pisces
Venus 1°09' Pisces
Mars 25°16' Taurus
Jupiter 6°28' Aries
Saturn 21°10' Sagittarius
Uranus 26°44' Sagittarius
Neptune 7°58' Capricorn
Pluto 9°24' –� Scorpio
Chiron 16°38' Gemini
Ceres 2°45' Capricorn
Pallas 1°07' –� Sagittarius
Juno 14°36' Aquarius
Vesta 10°37' Taurus
Node 11°30' –� Aries
Lilith 2°48' –� Leo
Fortune 9°39' Virgo
AS 8°16' Virgo
MC 2°10' Gemini

I see:

Stellium of Aries with sun, moon and jupiter.
sun, moon and jupiter square neptune.
mercury and Venus trine pluto
mars conjunct midheaven
mercury and venus opposite asc
satirn conjunct uranus

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Thank you for your answer, but what does it mean?

This one should be more complete!

Sun 8°24' Aries
Moon 9°48' Aries
Mercury 10°49' Pisces
Venus 1°09' Pisces
Mars 25°16' Taurus
Jupiter 6°28' Aries
Saturn 21°10' Sagittarius
Uranus 26°44' Sagittarius
Neptune 7°58' Capricorn
Pluto 9°24' –¯ Scorpio
Chiron 16°38' Gemini
Ceres 2°45' Capricorn
Pallas 1°07' –¯ Sagittarius
Juno 14°36' Aquarius
Vesta 10°37' Taurus
Node 11°30' –¯ Aries
Lilith 2°48' –¯ Leo
Fortune 9°39' Virgo
AS 8°16' Virgo
MC 2°10' Gemini

Posted by champranger

Posted by elogean
@DMV
i don't know his venus sign. I know mine is pisces though

@jeane @champranger
I also think I can work on my patience, it is far from impossible...

@busyeye88
Who knows, maybe if it goes well, we will both compromise, and a week will become 3 days.
we will see ...

What's your chart like?

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My sun is in aries
My rising sign is virgo
My moon is is aries
My mars is in taurus
My venus is in pisces
My mercury is in pisces
My jupiter is in aries
My north node is in aries

@DMV
i don't know his venus sign. I know mine is pisces though

@jeane @champranger
I also think I can work on my patience, it is far from impossible...

@busyeye88
Who knows, maybe if it goes well, we will both compromise, and a week will become 3 days.
we will see ...

Posted by Iamawinelover
As a woman who has been dealing with a Taurus man for almost 3 years, I will tell you this will not be the first or last time that he will become distant, not responsive or going MIA for what may seem like a long time. So it's best that if you choose to go further and potentially date this guy, you are aware of what is to come. If you can't handle such behavior after 30 days of just getting to know each other, you're in for one hell of a emotional rollercoaster. Everyone here had said nothing but the truth. In this case, you're technically not in a relationship with him so the way you feel and wanting to know where you stand after a month will push this guy away. You're asking for far too much too soon from someone that is not your boyfriend. Patience is a virtue when dealing with a Taurus man and if you don't have that and a life outside of waiting for him, you're going to drive yourself and him crazy.

being distant, MIA or not responsive >> I am not sure it's something I would be able to handle too often. Even with my friends, I dont like it
If someone has a problem with me, I find is so much more easier if they just tell me, so I can explain myself and we move on. I guess we are all different.

I am very impatient, that's true, but I learned my lesson and I won't be as pushy as before.

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by elogean
Ok, So I just wanted to give a final update on the situation.

So I decided to text the taurus last friday. We started talking again, but he was still very much distant.
Most of my friends agreed with you that I should leave him alone. So I was trying to do just that.

I was still thinking about the situation a lot, I could not see how you go from calling me because I ask you to, to ignoring me or be very distant.
So yesterday I sent him a long text explaining why I was acting the way I was and I also told him that I get that he made an effort when he tried to call me (because of his job) but I was at work and I could not reply at the time.

This morning, he texted me, I was busy so I did not reply, he then called me and he have been texting me since then. He asked me when I was available for a date, where I wanted to go during said date, and we have been texting back and forth since then

So yeah he was just pouting

Thanks to everybody for their advices

Nothing has been resolved as YOU keep INTITATING!! Let's see if HE arranges the date first and NOT YOU before you can consider this case closed. When taurus is invested and initiating then you have your answer. If you are doing it all, you are basically having "friendship / relationship " with yourself...

We await your next news!

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He initiated the date, I did not. He asked if I was available next week end. He also initiated the call...
But no worries I did not forgot abut your advice.

I will keep you updated, and hopefully, it will be nothing but good news