Posted by busyeyes88
I'm s Leo moon and HATE being ignored. If I have done something wrong and I reach out to you and you continue to ignore instead of solving the issues... Game over... You lose. I will delete your number, leave you in the dust and make brand NEW friends!!! Done it a few times over and my leo "bestie" is about to become "dust" too! Good luck with that OP!!
Posted by wicked
At the same time the bulls like their ego's stroked. So they like to hear from their dear ones. The trick is not to give away the control. From day one. Give away the control, they start to ignore you.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16Posted by MidasDelima
Why can't Aries woman understand that Taurus man isn't that complicated? All we need is to be fed, attended to and be reminded that we're the only person in the world for them now and then. We do not need your grand gesture of love, we do not need you to stop hanging out with all your guy friends (yes we do get jealous, but we'll get over it when you come home and make out with us or spoil us with compliments (we're vain) and affection). Why can't Aries woman understand that we're not that demanding? That we're just as simple minded as you guys are, but rather than saying everything, we're hoping that you catch on and take the initiative, because if we teach you... Than we'll doubt how genuine you are in loving us... SIGH.
It has nothing to do with how much we love you. We are not mind readers, you need to speak up. No one just knows what you're thinking or feeling.click to expand
Posted by champranger
Also, I don't think you can get a Taurus to adapt. You can show them reasons why they should.
Posted by champrangerPosted by elogean
I have never dated a taurus man, but I have been in contact with one for a few month, what I can say is that we do communicate in a very different way.
For exemple, if something bother me, I will say it in a very direct and blunt way ... I am too impulsive to keep my feelings for myself.
When the taurus is unhappy, or bothered by something, he just go silent or distant for a few days. This is something I don't uderstand because I'd rather talk it out and move on right away...
Or when something happens, that must be the cause for his distance, unless I ask, he won't say it.
I have noticed that taurus and aries do communicate in a different way. But I guess that with time, you will both be able to understand each other to avoid those miscommunication problems.
But I don't relate to that. If I'm unhappy, I immediately go quiet because I need to evaluate first. Is it me being unreasonable? Is it the other person? Do I really need to bring it up? What would happen if I bring it up? How would it effect what I hope to achieve? I cannot do it when I am frustrated or angry or emotional. So I go quiet and wait for it pass first.click to expand
Posted by NevermorePosted by elogean
This one should be more complete!
Sun 8Â°24' Aries
Moon 9Â°48' Aries
Mercury 10Â°49' Pisces
Venus 1Â°09' Pisces
Mars 25Â°16' Taurus
Jupiter 6Â°28' Aries
Saturn 21Â°10' Sagittarius
Uranus 26Â°44' Sagittarius
Neptune 7Â°58' Capricorn
Pluto 9Â°24' â€“ï¿½ Scorpio
Chiron 16Â°38' Gemini
Ceres 2Â°45' Capricorn
Pallas 1Â°07' â€“ï¿½ Sagittarius
Juno 14Â°36' Aquarius
Vesta 10Â°37' Taurus
Node 11Â°30' â€“ï¿½ Aries
Lilith 2Â°48' â€“ï¿½ Leo
Fortune 9Â°39' Virgo
AS 8Â°16' Virgo
MC 2Â°10' Gemini
Stellium of Aries with sun, moon and jupiter.
sun, moon and jupiter square neptune.
mercury and Venus trine pluto
mars conjunct midheaven
mercury and venus opposite asc
satirn conjunct uranusclick to expand
Posted by champrangerPosted by elogean
i don't know his venus sign. I know mine is pisces though
I also think I can work on my patience, it is far from impossible...
Who knows, maybe if it goes well, we will both compromise, and a week will become 3 days.
we will see ...
What's your chart like?click to expand
Posted by Iamawinelover
As a woman who has been dealing with a Taurus man for almost 3 years, I will tell you this will not be the first or last time that he will become distant, not responsive or going MIA for what may seem like a long time. So it's best that if you choose to go further and potentially date this guy, you are aware of what is to come. If you can't handle such behavior after 30 days of just getting to know each other, you're in for one hell of a emotional rollercoaster. Everyone here had said nothing but the truth. In this case, you're technically not in a relationship with him so the way you feel and wanting to know where you stand after a month will push this guy away. You're asking for far too much too soon from someone that is not your boyfriend. Patience is a virtue when dealing with a Taurus man and if you don't have that and a life outside of waiting for him, you're going to drive yourself and him crazy.
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by elogean
Ok, So I just wanted to give a final update on the situation.
So I decided to text the taurus last friday. We started talking again, but he was still very much distant.
Most of my friends agreed with you that I should leave him alone. So I was trying to do just that.
I was still thinking about the situation a lot, I could not see how you go from calling me because I ask you to, to ignoring me or be very distant.
So yesterday I sent him a long text explaining why I was acting the way I was and I also told him that I get that he made an effort when he tried to call me (because of his job) but I was at work and I could not reply at the time.
This morning, he texted me, I was busy so I did not reply, he then called me and he have been texting me since then. He asked me when I was available for a date, where I wanted to go during said date, and we have been texting back and forth since then
So yeah he was just pouting
Thanks to everybody for their advices
Nothing has been resolved as YOU keep INTITATING!! Let's see if HE arranges the date first and NOT YOU before you can consider this case closed. When taurus is invested and initiating then you have your answer. If you are doing it all, you are basically having "friendship / relationship " with yourself...
We await your next news!click to expand