P angel thanks for your comments although I'm not reading into his texts at all... He was very open and honest with me from day 1 and he didn't go cold after we met in fact he was even nicer to me.... But things changed in the last week or so and I guess I just would like to know if he wants to still meet up and get to know each other better? I know he's going through a tough time as he said that last week but at the same time I don't want to wait around without knowing his intentions... It's fine if he doesn't want to pursue things further but why not just say?!?!
I met this Virgo guy a couple of months ago and we messaged each other constantly for a couple of weeks before we met on our first date... everything went well and we really got on well.... the issue is he is working abroad but due to come home in a couple of months for good.... he has been so up and down in regards to his communication since he has been back and I know that he is extremely unhappy where he is and I have given him space by not bombarding him with messages so kept it at the pace that he has initiated or replied.. he always replies to my messages maybe not straight away as he used to but on the same day and told me last week he missed me but I don't understand how someone can go from being constantly messaging me to being so hot and cold.... I haven't spoken to him since Friday and I don't intend to message him as I was the one that last initiated even though he does initiate most the time.. We have spoken about going travelling before he comes home and even last week he said he would really like that... so I am really confused... is this guy still interested in me or shall I leave him alone? any help would be appreciated
Virgo with Scorpio Moon and I am a Scorpio Female with Pisces Moon
I just wish he was more honest with me he told me from the get go that he wants to meet someone to settle down with and he has been ready to get married etc for the last two years but then he runs hot and cold!!! You're right he probably not nature enough to deal with a relationship and has commitment phobia... He is fine as long as it's light hearted banter and flirty but then we have also discussed more serious stuff but he just runs and it's so frustrating when everything else is great??? Right now I have decided to ficus on myself and work on having some me time spending it with friends and family! We have had no contact for over 10 days as I won't be instigating anymore texts even though he suggested wanting to be friends... If he contacts me I guess I will see how I feel at the time but part of me thinks he won't... I think he knows that once I'm done I'm done and think he would think that I wouldn't text him back if he text me now and I know how Leo's don't like being ignored!!! Absolutely gutted and wish I wasn't so understanding when he needed time out as to me I just wasted valuable time with someone who I thought wanted to invest time in me!!! Thanks for your advice though
Thanks everyone I guess it's just wanting to hear it from a leo perspective but I guess he isn't ready for me and I need to just move on.... He said he wants to be friends but I won't be initiating contact as if he truly wants to be friends then I guess he can contact me.... It's the first leo guy I have dated and yes you're right they are amazing so it hasn't put me off Leo's that's for sure!!!
Ok so we spoke and he told me that I'm too emotional and intense for him and that he likes me a lot but doesn't think we would be good together and we should be friends! I really like him and wondering whether he will change his mind about us? Or should I just move on?
Aries Girl - yes it is the same guy and things started to look up as we met up more and communication improved but I always find after meeting he disappears for a few days and that's what I struggle to understand - thanks for your advice though I am trying to take it on board but being a scorp I have to learn to either be more patient or just move on
ok so I have been on a few dates with this leo guy and he is always so nice when we meet and tells me all the time that he really likes me and that he has never felt this chemistry with anyone else? He is a really bad communicator in the sense I tend to instigate the texts about 70% of the time mostly he replies as long as its light hearted banter as soon as its gets more deeper than that he runs.... he is a lot younger than me and he has said that he has never been in a serious relationship longer than 5 months which makes me think why? I am not even sure if he has had sex before but that's ok with me as I really like this guy and am willing to work with him and at his pace. We do get along extremely well and we always stay over at each others after our date nights but have not slept together just done other stuff. I just don't get it we text probably every couple of days but then as soon as we meet he will text the next day and then go missing for a few? can anyone explain this behaviour? is he stringing me along? he has said that he wants to get married and have kids and isn't interested in just dating for the sake of it and we have talked about kids futures etc....
I am a scorpio female and this is my chart Sun in: 10??45' Scorpio Moon in: 28??13' Pisces AS in: 11??16' Scorpio MC in: 14??56' Leo
I am not sure of his as I don't have his time of birth
Thanks for your advice xtina I will give him the space he has requested and you're right if he wants me he will sure come back and pursue me just didn't want him to think I was ignoring him completely with no contact x
Hi all, ok so my leo guy has asked for some time out as he is having some personal issues I told him I respect him for letting me know and I'm here if he wants to talk... He has reassured me that he loves what we have and wants more if it and that's fine but I'm just wondering do I just stop all contact or do I still let him know I'm here from time to time?