Posted by Lush
Don't give her space, she never asked for it. Be persistent, keep contact, and don't stop until she tells you to stop.
Posted by twowaycapPosted by escorpiointocappie
Thanks again for the insights and perspectives.
I am going to give her two weeks of space. I am not desperate for her or anyone. But I know when there's something special to fight for. Since she hasn't responded, I'll keep busy with my projects and in about two weeks; if she hasn't written back to me. I'll make some contact and see where that goes.
What would be a good way to make contact again with her since she hasn't responded to me in a while?
Should I say a simple "hi. I miss you and hope you're doing well" or "I'm going to miss you but it was really nice getting to know you" type of vibe? Kind of like a subtle hey what's up, or a subtle goodbye?
I do like her and would love to keep getting to know her. I hate games. I'll keep you posted since you've all shared your time with me. Thanks again to everyone.
Best to everyone.
Best would be to give her space and time. Caps take their time to develop interest and strong connection to someone. Once they do, it's hard to let go. But if they feel it's progressing at a much faster pace than what is comfortable for them, they run away.
But her not replying does not mean she has lost interest. If she has, she would probably make it "clear" through the conversation that she wants to stay friends.
So give her time. You know for a cappy, out of sight is never out of mind
And don't decide already "in two weeks time I will say this", just use your intuition with the timing- you are a scorpio
Let us know how it goes!
Btw, from personal experience with a good scorpio friend, at the beginning I felt she was coming on too strong and I kept running away from her and avoiding meeting. But after some time she stopped, and I realized how much of a special and good friend she was to me, then I let her into my lifeclick to expand
Posted by HeartSighPosted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by HeartSighPosted by escorpiointocappie
I've been messaging with a beautiful Capricorn female online. We have never met in person. I randomly came across your page one day via a hashtag and I followed her. Never thought much about it. After seeing her posts for almost six months after I initially started following her on social media. Her vibe started to attract me. She's a profound, spiritual, intelectual being. My intuition tells me she's super noble, humble, and down to earth. And that really turned me on. She is extremly beautiful, but the energy of who she is truly captivated me. One day, I decided to send her a message. To my surprise she responded. To make a long story short. We've been sharing private messages for almost 3 months now. We've never met in person. We don't live near by. But I feel a deep connection. I've been open oh how much I'm into her. We share similar interest in holistic healing and spirituality. She's told me that she thinks I am a very special human being; I think because we talk about deep sincere stuff. I've told her how her beauty is not what attracted me to to her, but the energy I perceive of her, and that I had nothing but good intentions with her. She told me that she could tell of my intentions because energy doesn't lie, and that the only reason why she messages me back is because she senses a good energy from me too. There are other synchronicities about her that make me wonder if she's the one. Lately though, she doesn't respond to me anymore. It's been a week now since she last wrote to me. It's frustrating because online is the only way to communicate with her, and I'm starting to think maybe she thinks I was just a fun past time while she was bored. She's told me about her depressions, and how she battles to with other stuff. She shares private things with me. I love when she opens up because it allows me to connect with her at a deeper level; which is what I crave. I want her to see how compatible we are. But suddenly she's gone. Now I haven't sent her a message since a week ago when she last wrote to me. I don't even know what to say to her now because I thought we were kind of becoming close, but I'm doubting everything now. She has over 100k friends online. She's extremely popular and busy. So maybe I just got ahead of myself thinking we had a connection. She's such a beautiful soul. I just want to connect with her heart and show her all that lives in me. Any advice? Thanks.
She's waiting for you to make your move..
lol she's suspicious and there's gonna be more but since you said you're willing to wait she'll make sure you do. Lol
She's just being a typical Cappy woman, Cautious and not wanting to make a mistake on the wrong person or waste her time.
His patience would be rewarded..click to expand
Posted by CaplovePosted by escorpiointocappie
I gave in and sent her a message today after not hearing from her since a week ago. Just sent a hi, and shared a recipe for a healthy drink with her. It showed that she read it but she did not respond with anything. I'm confused. I see so much potential with this girl. I've read that caps do this kind of thing where they become cold and distant. I am a patient individual but at the same time I just miss being in communication with her and building the friendship. I definitely don't plan on looking for her again. I don't want to be a pest. What a bummer. Who knows if she'll ever write back.
For me, I wouldn't write back unless I was asked a question. Although, she should say thank you for the recipe as it's common courtesy. I agree w/ the others that she might have wanted you to make a move and maybe just got discouraged when you didn't. 3 months is a long time without any kind of mention of a date or meeting up.
Maybe she thought you weren't really interested?click to expand