I think you're finding it hard to be on the outside looking in at your friend enjoying life with his new woman. Try your best to be there for him and be happy for him. He sounds like a man in love and one that likes to be attentive when he feels as if he has found the one.
Posted by pisceanloves
my Taurus ex bf (10 years prior) reached out via messenger 3 days ago, sent a friend request and asked for my photos when I declined. He won't get a gf but won't leave me alone either, keeps coming back every other year, he's not that annoying tho. This time he made a fake fb account and tried to lure me into the conversation 😂😂😂


That is creepy.
Posted by Whorpio
You’ll get used to it by the time you date another taken man 🤗


I did not know this man was married. I found out he was because apparently he forgot to remove his ring before meeting me.
I am currently being stalked by phone by a Taurus I met online born 5/15 and I had to get the police involved. We had a couple of phone conversations before deciding to meet one day. When I met him it was less than 5 minutes. I looked down at his hand and noticed he was wearing a wedding ring. I was immediately disgusted. Got up from my seat and tried leaving...he was holding onto me begging me to stay and trying to convince me he wasn't married. Telling me he is engaged, that he wears the ring to keep other women at bay, that his wife lives in another state...you name it he said. I told him to never speak to me again and no sooner than I got in my car to leave he called and text me through out the day a total of 100 times. I blocked him after stating he was crazy and that I was going to call the cops.

He stopped for one full day and has since started back contacting me saying things like:

I love you.
Please give me another chance.
You're my soulmate
He called me a female dog
That no one can love me like he can.
The list goes on.

I don't wish this on my worst enemy. I am scared and in shock. I am so afraid to date after this.
Passive agressive, push overs who will give you the shirt off their backs. Very sweet, sensitive and have a hard time saying no.
Posted by NaeLeo
Hey so to try and make this short and sweet. I’m a leo, aug 6 and he’s an Aquarius Jan. 24th. We’ve been close friends since high school, about 9 years. We’ve started having a sexual relationship but still remaining friends. We spend every day together, he’s great to my son, he wants me around him all the time says he loves me and he’ll always be in my life and he knows i love him and have feelings for him but then he says he’s scared commitment. we rarely ever argue, maybe 3 times our whole time knowing each other and we have a lot in common - never a dull moment. So when things started getting weird i tell him i think it’s wise to stop the sexual relationship and he still makes advances to keep things going but then recently this past week he’s been talking to some girl and she’s been coming around a lot. Two weeks ago we had an argument and he said he’d never mess with me again, and then turned around a day later and apologized and has been asking me to be back around. he had been acting completely normal and then today me and the girl came over a mutual friends house where he was and he ended up leaving at night with her to her house basically to have sex with her and didn’t say a word to me. He just left and although he’s not my boyfriend i feel disrespected and i just don’t know how i should go about the situation.




He is not afraid of commitment...he just did not want a relationship with you. He is not a friend he is a user and you are better off cutting him off cold turkey.
Me and Leo men do not mix because they can not take my brutal honesty. I find I fair better with Sags.
Posted by nano
What platform is this on?

If he's on online dating, but he's saying he's been hurt and reluctant to get to know people, know that he is on there as a pick me up, or for casual sex.

If it's not online dating or anything of the sort, then it sounds like you might be bothering him or when he replies or initiates contact, he is bored.

I've been with 2 Gemini men long term myself, and this doesn't sound right to me.

Another more simple possibility - maybe he sucks in communicating virtually! I mean it could be anything.

Why don't you just pointedly ask him if he wants to get to know you better or stop talking completely?


This is the exact reason why I created this post because I have known a few Gemini's over the years and this is the first time I have been stumped. It is an online dating site where we first communicated...now we're conversing on the phone. He is divorced with 2 kids. I am very blunt I let him know that I am a communicator which is why he mentioned what he went through. He claims he wants to get to know me...asked me out but right now I am just feeling bored.
So I am trying to get to know this Gemini but it is like pulling teeth yet he continues to contact me. He admitted that he has been hurt so he is reluctant to open up too much to someone but my goodness throw me a freaking bone. As an Aquarius this bothers me to no end because communication is what makes you attractive to us and want to pursue more. He says he is much better in person but I need to be able to feel a sense of comfort and interest in a person before even considering a date. He is so handsome...I mean movie star looks but he is slowly beginning to bore the life right out of me. Gemini's help me...what's the best way to get you all to open up? No I don't want his life story but a good back and fourth of conversation between us that isn't packed with long pauses or my asking all the questions.
Posted by GeminPhilly
Do Aquarius men like women with issues? Like women that they feel they can "fix"?? When a woman is giving her all and treating a aqua dude like a king he doesn't value her or appreciate her. Not until she has to treat him like someone not that important for him to truly value her. Hmmm...any theories on this good people?


Yes the more issues the better. They attract clingy controlling women who resent their independence but love their quirkiness. To an Aquarius man dealing with a complex person makes them feel wanted and like a super hero but usually in the end they end up hurting themselves and limiting their freedom. I find some grow to resent their spouses after it ends
Hi guys thanks so much for your responses. After evaluating this situation I have decided to end my friendship with my Aquarius friend. I am an Aquarius as well but a very blunt one who makes my intentions known and although I respect differences in others I can not respect this situation. I was extremely hurt it is not what you do it's how you do it. My sister and I handled ourselves with class and did not let it be known that we were upset by the turn of events at their house instead we laughed, ate and had a great time. I am not giving them any gifts, I wont see the baby or communicate in any way with either of them because I am not fake. I do however wish them the best.

Some mentioned my friend being a pushover...he is I will admit that he bends over backwards to appease others and hates to rock the boat but never has he ever done something like this to me. I have nothing to gain by confronting him and I know one day he will come to regret this but by that time it will be too late. If being happy means sacrificing friends that were like family to him then so be it. I don't want to cause anyone any ill will.
My best friend became less communicative about a month ago then I received a text invite to a get together at his house. By this time his wife is 9 months pregnant. My sister asked if they had a baby shower after seeing gifts in the nursery. I was shocked because I asked him about it several times in the past but he never mentioned one. They had 2 baby showers I discoverd. Afterwards he began talking to me as much as he use to and I brought it up but he did not respond to it.

I was disappointed. These are the same people whom I helped move into their new home.. getting it all set up for the baby, told them I was preparing them a gift basket for the baby shower yet they didnt send out an invite? I have known him since we were kids. We have a platonic male/female relationship in which his wife was made fully aware of.

If it made her uncomfortable and I was aware of it I would have understood yet they smiled in my face and said nothing.

I am shocked. Why would you ask me to be the God mother to your kids but do this? So when he text letting me know they had their baby I just sent a congrats and nothing else. Am I wrong for being upset at how this all turned out?
Libras can at times be too insecure and demaning for most Aquarius causing them to look for something that may not even be there.

Aquarius with pisces moon are very sensitive and need a lot of alone time to live in a dream world and do better with people who give them that space to mentally roam. My best friend is one and I can read his moods even through email. He suffers in silence but sometimes the silence is comforting.

You have to practice patience but never give up on him eventually he will come around but one thing you can not do is change him.
Just tell her you're not interested in being friends and that she can discontinue her emails to you. I'm an Aquarius and I see no need to still communicate with someone I am done with romantically. This is what you want right?
Just tell her you're not interested in being friends and that she can discontinue her emails to you. I'm an Aquarius and I see no need to still communicate with someone I am done with romantically. This is what you want right?
Posted by Aquistorm
Any dogs up in here? I am born in 1983, but technically I was born before the chinese new year. So instead of being the Water Pig. I ended up as the Water Dog. Or what would be for 1982.

Woof.




Woof
DO NOT contact him anymore under ANY circumstances. Treat him like he is crap and dead to you. MEN especially Aquarius men don't want you until you don't want them. And if and when he does come back ask yourself if this is the man you deseve and go from there.
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
We do attract needy partners because we use our charm and magnetism to bring people to us, it's a part of being a fixed sign, we are patient and wait for things to come to us..

The thing about us that makes partners needy is our detatchedness, it takes ages for us to process loads of information and that's when we go up in the clouds and become distant and this can become infuriating to people and in turn it becomes infuriating for us when we don't have sufficient time to process or if we feel like we need to rush.

So when people become more clingy it has the opposite effect on us, we are air signs and we need to breathe, drowning us is toxic and turns us into earth dwellers


So true. I have hurt many of partners in the past due to my detached ways. Aqua/Sag moon. I am so emotionally detached to the point it hurts their feelings then they cut me off cold turkey only to rerurn which doesnt work with me (very loyal). I just detach further because at first it had nothing to do with them.

I tried to do the detach as well approach having moon in Aqua but I always have to switch myself back to showing him consistency andtons of understanding. I don't know if it's the Aqua or Pisces in him that need a partner who can truly UNDERSTAND them ..?


She is a sweet person from what I know of her but very insecure and damaged (his words) from previous relationships so he spends a lot of time reassuring her. Before he said I do I couldn't believe he said hopefully her clingy ways would subside. I think he compromises a lot to make her happy. As a friend I am afraid he will either start to resent her or become a yes man who loses everyone but her.

Had a Pisces friend who lost everyone he was friends with (including myself) and said he was lonely because her needy ways turned everyone away. I hope they figure out a balance at some point.


That sounds awful I hope she changes soon too because there's nothing worth than a lonely marriage... life is too full of life ... his Pisces moon seems to like rescuring her.........
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Very true. He is a person that likes to rescue people.
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by EveryOunce
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
We do attract needy partners because we use our charm and magnetism to bring people to us, it's a part of being a fixed sign, we are patient and wait for things to come to us..

The thing about us that makes partners needy is our detatchedness, it takes ages for us to process loads of information and that's when we go up in the clouds and become distant and this can become infuriating to people and in turn it becomes infuriating for us when we don't have sufficient time to process or if we feel like we need to rush.

So when people become more clingy it has the opposite effect on us, we are air signs and we need to breathe, drowning us is toxic and turns us into earth dwellers


So true. I have hurt many of partners in the past due to my detached ways. Aqua/Sag moon. I am so emotionally detached to the point it hurts their feelings then they cut me off cold turkey only to rerurn which doesnt work with me (very loyal). I just detach further because at first it had nothing to do with them.

I tried to do the detach as well approach having moon in Aqua but I always have to switch myself back to showing him consistency andtons of understanding. I don't know if it's the Aqua or Pisces in him that need a partner who can truly UNDERSTAND them ..?
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She is a sweet person from what I know of her but very insecure and damaged (his words) from previous relationships so he spends a lot of time reassuring her. Before he said I do I couldn't believe he said hopefully her clingy ways would subside. I think he compromises a lot to make her happy. As a friend I am afraid he will either start to resent her or become a yes man who loses everyone but her.

Had a Pisces friend who lost everyone he was friends with (including myself) and said he was lonely because her needy ways turned everyone away. I hope they figure out a balance at some point.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
We do attract needy partners because we use our charm and magnetism to bring people to us, it's a part of being a fixed sign, we are patient and wait for things to come to us..

The thing about us that makes partners needy is our detatchedness, it takes ages for us to process loads of information and that's when we go up in the clouds and become distant and this can become infuriating to people and in turn it becomes infuriating for us when we don't have sufficient time to process or if we feel like we need to rush.

So when people become more clingy it has the opposite effect on us, we are air signs and we need to breathe, drowning us is toxic and turns us into earth dwellers


So true. I have hurt many of partners in the past due to my detached ways. Aqua/Sag moon. I am so emotionally detached to the point it hurts their feelings then they cut me off cold turkey only to rerurn which doesnt work with me (very loyal). I just detach further because at first it had nothing to do with them.