Posted by Luxxxuria
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Posted by Luxxxuria
It seems every week he tells me about some girl making a move on him or he's in the grocery store and somebody checking him out; just always him getting female attention. I'm not sure what he's getting at, is it a game to make me jealous? I mean I don't doubt him he is hot, but I'm wondering is this a Leo trait?

He's a lot of leo lol
sun, mercury, venus: leo
moon: pisces


He is doing this to get a reaction out of you. My Leo bestie still does this to me after knowing him for years because I am not physically interested in him. He wants me to fawn over him like they do. They need their egos fed.


Ah so he wants you to fawn over him despite you guys just being friends? Does he do that with everyone? Makes me wonder what happens if the ego doesn't get fed lol
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Yes despite us being friends he stull loves his ego stroked. Yes he does it with any woman who will pay him some attention. He means no harm though a very sweet guy.
Posted by Luxxxuria
It seems every week he tells me about some girl making a move on him or he's in the grocery store and somebody checking him out; just always him getting female attention. I'm not sure what he's getting at, is it a game to make me jealous? I mean I don't doubt him he is hot, but I'm wondering is this a Leo trait?

He's a lot of leo lol
sun, mercury, venus: leo
moon: pisces


He is doing this to get a reaction out of you. My Leo bestie still does this to me after knowing him for years because I am not physically interested in him. He wants me to fawn over him like they do. They need their egos fed.
Posted by Aerazo
Do we sometimes sabotage our own relationships?

What are things you have done and why?


For everyone


All the time.
I prefer my mate to be financially and mentally stable. I think they often get security mixed up with money. If the person is not upstanding and doesn't have their stuff together in life it is a huge turn off for me.
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Posted by Gooober
Sag mooner back at it again with the savagery.

No chill 😂


Huh?


Oh. I guess I'm the only one who has noticed that Sag mooners have no filter... but okay ^.^

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You're absolutely correct. You either hate us or love us.
Posted by StrawberryJam
@Noni05 @Ophiuchus

We were supposed to meet today but he never confirmed like he used to... then he text me late afternoon...

he said Hi sj, how is your day?Will you be home later today? can I come and visit? x

My respond was "Hi nice to hear from you, I didn't think we were still meeting today as we didn';t communicate as much and no confirmation prior. I will have to be jome to sleep for sure but 2 hot ppl get together late at night screams for touble x

Let's definitely get together when we have more time to catch upx"

he wrote back hello, sorry for the late notice. it's a bit last minute indeed, My apology. Let me know when convenient to catch up, sleep well tonight xx

I wrote back and say i miss his sexy voice and he asked him to video call me later. He hasn';t responded ... will see if he calls..

I see this as a red flag.. like he is not investing emotionally and no effort. like may be he thinks he doens't want to purseu the relationship further but he still likes my body and trying to use me until next best thing comes along...



He is seeing someone else.
Posted by uchiha
Cap girl sent me porn. Does that mean she likes me? Lmao


I want to be her friend she seems cool as hell.
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by BAV
Also having so much space because your tired of investment and you need to think about if it's what you really want is a sack of horse poop. I do it and that's why I'm single cause I'd rather spark a fire and then run away because I'm tired of repeating my butter over and over and over again, but it's painful to be the other person wondering why they won't speak to me.

What do you mean? I don't get it, why do you spark a fire and then run away? Why run away? I was/am in a situation like this with a Aqua woman. She sparked a BIG fire and keeps running away after this, for 4 months. Coming back at times, but nothing seems to work out, planning dates and then canceling or never show up.


It's confounding to us all, but it's because Aquas don't really learn how to effectively handle their emotions. They spend more time looking at the world detached from their feelings. They choose to observe the world with a sense of logic. Generally Aquas can also be odd balls growing up because they are unconventional. This may make it hard for them to fit into groups and make friends as kids. This is hurtful to them because they don't understand why they are different.

They also learn that it's easy to avoid outward pain if they keep things to themselves. So they learn to stifle their emotions. They are the water bearer who holds its water aka emotions in a jug with the lid held tight. They feel deeply to the point that they can't control their emotions once they open up. If an Aqua is in love, they are madly in love. If an Aqua is angry, they are blinded by rage. They know this and try to keep a lid on it.

The other issue is that Aquas generally compartmentalize their relationships to make the world around them easier to maintain. They keep very few people close to them and those around them may only get bits and pieces of information. So the problem is, even if an Aqua wanted to learn how to feel, they make it hard for other people to help them. Aquas believe in being self sufficient, which means leaving their friends and loved ones in the dark about how they feel.

Could an Aqua work on opening up more and being more present with their emotions? Sure, but it takes work on their part.

Think of it this way though. Imagine someone told you, a Leo man, "Stop feeling intensely for the woman you love. Stop being possessive of her and wanting her attention. Don't treat her like a queen and have high expectations of her. When she leaves stop feeling emotions for her altogether immediately! Feel differently and act differently than you would normally." Could you do it? Sure with a LOT of practice, but it probably wouldn't come naturally to you. It would definitely be difficult

Fortunately for us Leos our egos are overt. People can call us out on our behavior as a result. Aquarians egos (yes they have them too) are covert. They choose not to live in their egos the way we Leos do. Regardless it is still there. So after they light a fire, they may run away to protect themselves from the emotions they don't understand, the emotions they don't wish to confront. For an Aqua THEY make their own rules. They should be ABOVE these pesky emotions they need to feel, yet they are still MADE to FEEL them. So they run away to figure out why these emotions are tying them down.
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Who the hell are you and why are you reading my diary?
He might have been in a temporary down mood and ended up speaking to someone else about his issue. Sometimes I call people just to vent and when I am done I am back to my old goofy self.
They hate being ignored. It feels worse than death. Eventually they will learn to live without you but will still secretly long for you.
Posted by Chuckcem
Honestly a Leo who is private will simply like the fact that someone thought about him/her. Private Leos still like attention. In fact a private Leo is probably going to be closest to those who recognize how private he/she is. It's really easy to ignore or completely overlook a Leo who isn't demanding attention.



I have to say I agree. He seemed so shocked that I contacted him. He was happy. I honestly believe it did mean a lot to him just to know that I cared.
Posted by uchiha
What about the girls? Even though it's hurting me I want this Leo girl to leave me alone. I don't wanna play no games. I ignored her and when I think its done she msgs me or talks to me. All I think about is her and this is a crucial time in life and I need get her out my mind but she keeps reminding me she's there.



Honestly you have to block all avenues of communication with her. They don't stop once they start to fixate on someone.
To me someone ignoring you is worse than death. It is time for you to put her in the back of your mind and start dating others. She is not the first or last woman you will ever love. You have to do what is best for you because obviously she is doing what is best for her. If at any time your mind drifts back to the memory of her ask yourself this question. "Is she missing any sleep over me?" The truth is no she is not. Now don't miss any over her.
Thanks guys. Those are some good ideas. He is into college football. I wish I knew more but he is not a man of many words. Other than that I know he loves food but doesn't care for chocolate.
So my boss is a 35 year old single man with no kids. He works really hard and goes above and beyond for everybody and often forgets himself in the process. The other day I found out he had a tumor removed from his head. He is a very private person and felt he didn't tell anyone because he didn't think anyone would care because he doesn't have anyone in his life. He was so shocked and taken back at my sending him well wishes. I want to get him a gift but I am not sure of what to give him. I want to leave it in his office to surprise him when he returns to work on Monday. What are some great gift ideas for a lion?
I will tell you something two of my male Leo friends both said in the past. I love the cat and mouse game especially when the woman plays for a long time. Once I get the prize I find someone else to chase.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
You should just do whatever you feel, if he gives you the butters you will naturally dispel him from your life, if he values your friendship then he will adjust his attitude.
I think it's always good to keep these kind of friends at a distance on superficial level, you don't need to be emotionally invested in depressed people do you?

I swear I have the exact same friend as you, Leo and depressed is the worst combination, my friend was so emotional I couldn't pull him up on his butterty behaviour without him breaking down so I just whittled him out of my life, now I only meet up with him once a month and let me tell you he is such a nicer person to me now!


I agree it is the worst situation. I sent his call straight to voicemail. He ended up apologizing saying he is sorry and that his girlfriend/ex girlfriend (depending on the day of the week) was standing infront of him so he didn't know how to react. Um....why? I am not your girl or your side chick...I am strictly your friend so why would you need to be an ass to me for no reason? I decided not to respond. I am over the bs. To be honest I am sick of his whining and hearing about his push and pull relationship with her that sends him back and fourth to a therapist.

They're both crazy...she can never make up her mind with him. He loves those crazy dramatic relationships where he is treated like crap. I think he likes being a victim.