Posted by Capmercury87
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Posted by Capmercury87
Yes and i like being alone.
As long as my Aquarius best friend let's me give him head when I come over I'm a happy aqua.
Lol


Are u for real because I wish I actually had a guy friend who was down for that.

Yeah he has a cap Venus like me.
Find an earth Venus Aquarius we love sex
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I agree.
We Aquarians are not emotionless we just compartmentalize our emotions.
A man would tell you anything to get your honey pot. He is MARRIED. You should move on to someone who is single.
Posted by peo
Both my mom and my oldest sister are Aquarians and both barely socialize outside of our family. My sister more so than my mother, but rarely and mostly driven by her Cancer husband. The problem isn't making friends. They are both very sophisticated and charming and people actually are naturally drawn to them. Both have difficulties having to commit to keeping up friendships. Both enjoy company, but will tell me how relieved they are once they are by themselves again.

I know that my mom feels pretty lonely at times, which is almost ironic because people always want to spend time with her and I'm essentially just repeating my mantra of "if you want to have a circle of friends you can rely on, you need to invest a little of your time and freedom" every time we talk.

Has anyone experienced similar and have advice as to how to best tackle this?



That's me in a nutshell. I love my own company but every once in awhile I need a friend or two but if they stay or talk too long I need time away. Nothing against them I am just both an introvert and an extrovert. Bouts of loneliness is a result of our moodiness. Sometimes I am lonely and have no clue why.
Omg get a clue the dude likes you and is interested in more. He is telling you that you could be the one if you give it a try.
He is no longer interested and moved on....you should too.
Posted by Destiny07
I say this because I've never been in a relationship where I had to prove myself constantly and any small thing I say gets blown out of proportion. Also being in a relationship with Aquarius means also not being in a relationship with them because one day they're all full of emotion and the next they treat you like a stranger.

It's a challenge to be in a relationship with one and most of the time you will lose because they always try to find faults in everything. Once they win you over then they get bored and look elsewhere while still telling you now and then that they love you. They put in no effort whatsoever and expect you to pull your weight while they disappear or need breaks. Imagine the inconsistency and uncertainty in a relationship with them... It's just weird to me that is how they love someone.


I hate to say it but you're absolutely right well atleast when it comes to me. I want love but afraid of receiving it so I question everything and eventually sabotage the relationships.
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Posted by GracieL
Recently I confessed to an aquarius guy. This is my first time confessing my feeling to a guy.
I told him I like him and he replied he likes me too and I broke down his wall.
Before I confessed to him, I traveled more than 7000 miles away from my place to his country. I've lost contact with him for more than 7 months. We met for 3 days and it was great. We had deep connection I think.
Later on, I told him that he's one of the reasons why I visited his country. He said he had feeling for that but still he's quite surprised when I knew that I was in his country.
He said he's tried long distance relationship and it's tough.
Now I'm so confused about everything. He seems so distant and hasn't texted me yet. It's been a week since I confessed my feeling to him.

What should I do now, should I wait for him to text me first?
Why he seems so distant? Does he reject me?
I'm afraid of his reaction.


You live 7,000 miles away. I don't care how much I like you if you live that far I wont take the relationship seriously.



if love is strong, it's possible. I know my sis was in a ldr for 2 years and ending up moving together and they are still together. she is also a taurus
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Great for them but I would have ended things. I need closeness.
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Posted by Ram416
Yes.

Especially if they have water mars/moon.



He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...



He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.


I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!



Okay cool but if he is a Pisces moon know that they are people pleasers who would sacrifice themselves before they do or say anything they feel would hurt someone. I love my friend but this part of him annoys me because being that way is not forthcoming it is deceiving in a way. He would often take sick days when his spouse and child were at work, pretend like he was leaving for work and take the day off so he could rest by himself at home.


Lol that's awful. So when she asks him how work was what will he say? "oh same same".

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Pretty much. He is the sweetest person ever but not very vocal about how he feels when he needs a break from everyone.
Posted by saweetz1988
I think so too. I heard Aqua don't do well with that . They get bored easily n if u r not around, they move on To the next . I could b wrong though


Yes we do get bored very easily and absence does not make my heart grow fonder. I need you at least in the same city and state.
Posted by GracieL
Recently I confessed to an aquarius guy. This is my first time confessing my feeling to a guy.
I told him I like him and he replied he likes me too and I broke down his wall.
Before I confessed to him, I traveled more than 7000 miles away from my place to his country. I've lost contact with him for more than 7 months. We met for 3 days and it was great. We had deep connection I think.
Later on, I told him that he's one of the reasons why I visited his country. He said he had feeling for that but still he's quite surprised when I knew that I was in his country.
He said he's tried long distance relationship and it's tough.
Now I'm so confused about everything. He seems so distant and hasn't texted me yet. It's been a week since I confessed my feeling to him.

What should I do now, should I wait for him to text me first?
Why he seems so distant? Does he reject me?
I'm afraid of his reaction.


You live 7,000 miles away. I don't care how much I like you if you live that far I wont take the relationship seriously.

Welcome to the world of dating. Not every man you meet will be your prince charming. You need to take this time as someone who is recently divorced and get to know yourself all over again before you end up in another situation you're not happy in.
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Posted by Ram416
Yes.

Especially if they have water mars/moon.



He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...



He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.


I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!
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Okay cool but if he is a Pisces moon know that they are people pleasers who would sacrifice themselves before they do or say anything they feel would hurt someone. I love my friend but this part of him annoys me because being that way is not forthcoming it is deceiving in a way. He would often take sick days when his spouse and child were at work, pretend like he was leaving for work and take the day off so he could rest by himself at home.
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Posted by Ram416
Yes.

Especially if they have water mars/moon.



He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...
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He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.
You f'd up when you said your ex will always be in your life. As an Aquarius with a taurus rising and cap venus I am secretly extremely possessive and obsessive of people I am with a d dont want ANY inkling that I might be betrayed by my partner by someone else especially someone from your past.

My ex Cap found out the hard way that once I friendzone you I will ALWAYS be cordial but I will never touch you with a ten foot pole again and if you bring up our past minimalize it. I know petty but it is a defense mechanism.
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It seems every week he tells me about some girl making a move on him or he's in the grocery store and somebody checking him out; just always him getting female attention. I'm not sure what he's getting at, is it a game to make me jealous? I mean I don't doubt him he is hot, but I'm wondering is this a Leo trait?

He's a lot of leo lol
sun, mercury, venus: leo
moon: pisces


He is doing this to get a reaction out of you. My Leo bestie still does this to me after knowing him for years because I am not physically interested in him. He wants me to fawn over him like they do. They need their egos fed.


Ah so he wants you to fawn over him despite you guys just being friends? Does he do that with everyone? Makes me wonder what happens if the ego doesn't get fed lol
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Yes despite us being friends he stull loves his ego stroked. Yes he does it with any woman who will pay him some attention. He means no harm though a very sweet guy.
Posted by Luxxxuria
It seems every week he tells me about some girl making a move on him or he's in the grocery store and somebody checking him out; just always him getting female attention. I'm not sure what he's getting at, is it a game to make me jealous? I mean I don't doubt him he is hot, but I'm wondering is this a Leo trait?

He's a lot of leo lol
sun, mercury, venus: leo
moon: pisces


He is doing this to get a reaction out of you. My Leo bestie still does this to me after knowing him for years because I am not physically interested in him. He wants me to fawn over him like they do. They need their egos fed.
Posted by Aerazo
Do we sometimes sabotage our own relationships?

What are things you have done and why?


For everyone


All the time.
I prefer my mate to be financially and mentally stable. I think they often get security mixed up with money. If the person is not upstanding and doesn't have their stuff together in life it is a huge turn off for me.