Posted by Aquistorm
Any dogs up in here? I am born in 1983, but technically I was born before the chinese new year. So instead of being the Water Pig. I ended up as the Water Dog. Or what would be for 1982.

Woof.




Woof
DO NOT contact him anymore under ANY circumstances. Treat him like he is crap and dead to you. MEN especially Aquarius men don't want you until you don't want them. And if and when he does come back ask yourself if this is the man you deseve and go from there.
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We do attract needy partners because we use our charm and magnetism to bring people to us, it's a part of being a fixed sign, we are patient and wait for things to come to us..

The thing about us that makes partners needy is our detatchedness, it takes ages for us to process loads of information and that's when we go up in the clouds and become distant and this can become infuriating to people and in turn it becomes infuriating for us when we don't have sufficient time to process or if we feel like we need to rush.

So when people become more clingy it has the opposite effect on us, we are air signs and we need to breathe, drowning us is toxic and turns us into earth dwellers


So true. I have hurt many of partners in the past due to my detached ways. Aqua/Sag moon. I am so emotionally detached to the point it hurts their feelings then they cut me off cold turkey only to rerurn which doesnt work with me (very loyal). I just detach further because at first it had nothing to do with them.

I tried to do the detach as well approach having moon in Aqua but I always have to switch myself back to showing him consistency andtons of understanding. I don't know if it's the Aqua or Pisces in him that need a partner who can truly UNDERSTAND them ..?


She is a sweet person from what I know of her but very insecure and damaged (his words) from previous relationships so he spends a lot of time reassuring her. Before he said I do I couldn't believe he said hopefully her clingy ways would subside. I think he compromises a lot to make her happy. As a friend I am afraid he will either start to resent her or become a yes man who loses everyone but her.

Had a Pisces friend who lost everyone he was friends with (including myself) and said he was lonely because her needy ways turned everyone away. I hope they figure out a balance at some point.


That sounds awful I hope she changes soon too because there's nothing worth than a lonely marriage... life is too full of life ... his Pisces moon seems to like rescuring her.........
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Very true. He is a person that likes to rescue people.
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
We do attract needy partners because we use our charm and magnetism to bring people to us, it's a part of being a fixed sign, we are patient and wait for things to come to us..

The thing about us that makes partners needy is our detatchedness, it takes ages for us to process loads of information and that's when we go up in the clouds and become distant and this can become infuriating to people and in turn it becomes infuriating for us when we don't have sufficient time to process or if we feel like we need to rush.

So when people become more clingy it has the opposite effect on us, we are air signs and we need to breathe, drowning us is toxic and turns us into earth dwellers


So true. I have hurt many of partners in the past due to my detached ways. Aqua/Sag moon. I am so emotionally detached to the point it hurts their feelings then they cut me off cold turkey only to rerurn which doesnt work with me (very loyal). I just detach further because at first it had nothing to do with them.

I tried to do the detach as well approach having moon in Aqua but I always have to switch myself back to showing him consistency andtons of understanding. I don't know if it's the Aqua or Pisces in him that need a partner who can truly UNDERSTAND them ..?
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She is a sweet person from what I know of her but very insecure and damaged (his words) from previous relationships so he spends a lot of time reassuring her. Before he said I do I couldn't believe he said hopefully her clingy ways would subside. I think he compromises a lot to make her happy. As a friend I am afraid he will either start to resent her or become a yes man who loses everyone but her.

Had a Pisces friend who lost everyone he was friends with (including myself) and said he was lonely because her needy ways turned everyone away. I hope they figure out a balance at some point.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
We do attract needy partners because we use our charm and magnetism to bring people to us, it's a part of being a fixed sign, we are patient and wait for things to come to us..

The thing about us that makes partners needy is our detatchedness, it takes ages for us to process loads of information and that's when we go up in the clouds and become distant and this can become infuriating to people and in turn it becomes infuriating for us when we don't have sufficient time to process or if we feel like we need to rush.

So when people become more clingy it has the opposite effect on us, we are air signs and we need to breathe, drowning us is toxic and turns us into earth dwellers


So true. I have hurt many of partners in the past due to my detached ways. Aqua/Sag moon. I am so emotionally detached to the point it hurts their feelings then they cut me off cold turkey only to rerurn which doesnt work with me (very loyal). I just detach further because at first it had nothing to do with them.
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I am asking because I have a friend who thought that after marriage his wife would ease up on her clingy ways but she hasn't. He is a bit passive aggressive (Aquarius Sun/Pisces Moon) and either blows up when smothered or vent it to others. Just wanting to see if other Aquarians attract the needy type.


I understand him. Dating Pisces moon Aqua sun myself but it takes me and my Aqua moon ability to work him out all on my own of what his true needs are as he never told me bluntly like I need space.. he's very sensitive and very nice so I think he doesn't wanna hurt the person by being upfront about it. He dissapeared into his dreamland normally after work, and on Sunday.. which I call it sometimes dissapearing Sundays or Sunday treetrunk off day haha. We laugh about it as he would go off on all social media and got me worry but now I know him deeply so I don't take it personally anymore... I think he needs a partner who understnsss him or try to understand without him needing to explain to her his needs... obviously his wife has no idea and taking it personally so I would suggest he explains to her how much space he needs.. and that it's nothing personal. what's her sun and moon sign!?
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Wow you described him perfectly. Known him forever and yes he hates to hurt peoples feelings. She is a Libra not sure of her moon but they are both Dragons in Chinese astrology.
I am asking because I have a friend who thought that after marriage his wife would ease up on her clingy ways but she hasn't. He is a bit passive aggressive (Aquarius Sun/Pisces Moon) and either blows up when smothered or vent it to others. Just wanting to see if other Aquarians attract the needy type.
How do you deal with a partner who doesn't respect your need for space at times? Please include your moon sign as well.
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Yes and i like being alone.
As long as my Aquarius best friend let's me give him head when I come over I'm a happy aqua.
Lol


Are u for real because I wish I actually had a guy friend who was down for that.

Yeah he has a cap Venus like me.
Find an earth Venus Aquarius we love sex
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I agree.
We Aquarians are not emotionless we just compartmentalize our emotions.
A man would tell you anything to get your honey pot. He is MARRIED. You should move on to someone who is single.
Posted by peo
Both my mom and my oldest sister are Aquarians and both barely socialize outside of our family. My sister more so than my mother, but rarely and mostly driven by her Cancer husband. The problem isn't making friends. They are both very sophisticated and charming and people actually are naturally drawn to them. Both have difficulties having to commit to keeping up friendships. Both enjoy company, but will tell me how relieved they are once they are by themselves again.

I know that my mom feels pretty lonely at times, which is almost ironic because people always want to spend time with her and I'm essentially just repeating my mantra of "if you want to have a circle of friends you can rely on, you need to invest a little of your time and freedom" every time we talk.

Has anyone experienced similar and have advice as to how to best tackle this?



That's me in a nutshell. I love my own company but every once in awhile I need a friend or two but if they stay or talk too long I need time away. Nothing against them I am just both an introvert and an extrovert. Bouts of loneliness is a result of our moodiness. Sometimes I am lonely and have no clue why.
Omg get a clue the dude likes you and is interested in more. He is telling you that you could be the one if you give it a try.
He is no longer interested and moved on....you should too.
Posted by Destiny07
I say this because I've never been in a relationship where I had to prove myself constantly and any small thing I say gets blown out of proportion. Also being in a relationship with Aquarius means also not being in a relationship with them because one day they're all full of emotion and the next they treat you like a stranger.

It's a challenge to be in a relationship with one and most of the time you will lose because they always try to find faults in everything. Once they win you over then they get bored and look elsewhere while still telling you now and then that they love you. They put in no effort whatsoever and expect you to pull your weight while they disappear or need breaks. Imagine the inconsistency and uncertainty in a relationship with them... It's just weird to me that is how they love someone.


I hate to say it but you're absolutely right well atleast when it comes to me. I want love but afraid of receiving it so I question everything and eventually sabotage the relationships.
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Recently I confessed to an aquarius guy. This is my first time confessing my feeling to a guy.
I told him I like him and he replied he likes me too and I broke down his wall.
Before I confessed to him, I traveled more than 7000 miles away from my place to his country. I've lost contact with him for more than 7 months. We met for 3 days and it was great. We had deep connection I think.
Later on, I told him that he's one of the reasons why I visited his country. He said he had feeling for that but still he's quite surprised when I knew that I was in his country.
He said he's tried long distance relationship and it's tough.
Now I'm so confused about everything. He seems so distant and hasn't texted me yet. It's been a week since I confessed my feeling to him.

What should I do now, should I wait for him to text me first?
Why he seems so distant? Does he reject me?
I'm afraid of his reaction.


You live 7,000 miles away. I don't care how much I like you if you live that far I wont take the relationship seriously.



if love is strong, it's possible. I know my sis was in a ldr for 2 years and ending up moving together and they are still together. she is also a taurus
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Great for them but I would have ended things. I need closeness.
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Posted by Ram416
Yes.

Especially if they have water mars/moon.



He is Pisces moon...just what I thought also after posting this...



He has told you what he wants without telling you. They are very passive aggressive (pisces moon). He is not happy. Can I ask you a serious question? Are you clingy? My closest friend is a pisces moon and he uses work to escape clingy people.


I'd say he is the clingy one but I dont push him away ever...I actually think he may be Aries moon-different sites giving me different results. Thanks for your insight it definately entered my mind already work might just be an escape. He seems absolutely fine now and I checked in with him again on that topic-he's said that he thinks it may have just been the "breakdown" that everyone had mentioned to him was coming. He is off on vacation in a few days for 2 weeks, well overdue!



Okay cool but if he is a Pisces moon know that they are people pleasers who would sacrifice themselves before they do or say anything they feel would hurt someone. I love my friend but this part of him annoys me because being that way is not forthcoming it is deceiving in a way. He would often take sick days when his spouse and child were at work, pretend like he was leaving for work and take the day off so he could rest by himself at home.


Lol that's awful. So when she asks him how work was what will he say? "oh same same".

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Pretty much. He is the sweetest person ever but not very vocal about how he feels when he needs a break from everyone.
Posted by saweetz1988
I think so too. I heard Aqua don't do well with that . They get bored easily n if u r not around, they move on To the next . I could b wrong though


Yes we do get bored very easily and absence does not make my heart grow fonder. I need you at least in the same city and state.
Posted by GracieL
Recently I confessed to an aquarius guy. This is my first time confessing my feeling to a guy.
I told him I like him and he replied he likes me too and I broke down his wall.
Before I confessed to him, I traveled more than 7000 miles away from my place to his country. I've lost contact with him for more than 7 months. We met for 3 days and it was great. We had deep connection I think.
Later on, I told him that he's one of the reasons why I visited his country. He said he had feeling for that but still he's quite surprised when I knew that I was in his country.
He said he's tried long distance relationship and it's tough.
Now I'm so confused about everything. He seems so distant and hasn't texted me yet. It's been a week since I confessed my feeling to him.

What should I do now, should I wait for him to text me first?
Why he seems so distant? Does he reject me?
I'm afraid of his reaction.


You live 7,000 miles away. I don't care how much I like you if you live that far I wont take the relationship seriously.

Welcome to the world of dating. Not every man you meet will be your prince charming. You need to take this time as someone who is recently divorced and get to know yourself all over again before you end up in another situation you're not happy in.