Posted by capricorngirl25
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Posted by capricorngirl25
Posted by EveryOunce
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..


I know but he works so well with me every other time


The stubborness and inability to talk things out without having a fit and storming off is too much sometimes. And they bever get over ANYTHING! This argument will come up for years to come.


My best friend(girl) is a Taurus and she storms off a lot, esp when she doesn't get her way
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Let her. When you don't give to their temper tantrums they have no one to be petty with.
Posted by capricorngirl25
Posted by EveryOunce
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..


I know but he works so well with me every other time
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The stubborness and inability to talk things out without having a fit and storming off is too much sometimes. And they bever get over ANYTHING! This argument will come up for years to come.
This is why I do not date Taurus men they are so petty and over the top. Ugh..
Posted by juliette
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Posted by juliette
op i can't understand your point or questions at all. it seems you had a series of dates with non compatible females, i'm sure there are plenty out there who share your views on dates and relationships.


I'm a female and it is not personal. The dating world has changed since I have become single in regards to what is considered dating in my eyes over the years and wanted to get both male and female perspectives on it.

LOL sorry, and i wanted to tell you, you are a woman trapped in a man's body. ok, now i get it.
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Ha! Oh my.
Posted by juliette
op i can't understand your point or questions at all. it seems you had a series of dates with non compatible females, i'm sure there are plenty out there who share your views on dates and relationships.


I'm a female and it is not personal. The dating world has changed since I have become single in regards to what is considered dating in my eyes over the years and wanted to get both male and female perspectives on it.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by EveryOunce
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by EveryOunce
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?


Being taken to any of those places doesn't mean your a priority though. He could be taking other chicks to the park, museum, festivals, etc. etc.

The main thing is to spend time to evaluate if the other person is a good match, if there is relationship potential. I think I speak for most modern quality females when I say that taking us to a fancy dinner and flashing your money around isn't the best way to do that. Ask us about our interests, listen, and surprise us with dates that are centered around those interest.


Why do you equate a date outside the home with flashing money around? Is it a bad thing that a man chooses to spend money on you? You can talk about interest and listen outside your home right? I think it has less to do with moderb or traditional and more to do with preferences over all.


Your missing the point...

Someone who is superficial and thinks flashing enough of their money can buy affection will always be beaten out by someone who is genuine and interested in what your about.

Money can't buy a connection.
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I think we both missed each others point.
Posted by nikkistar
My rule of thumb is never to do at home dates within the first month.

It has nothing to do with the pressure of sex, but everything to do with I am cynical. I don't want just anyone in my home or even knowing where I live. And I don't trust a dude enough to go to his home. There are too many crazies in this world for me to just hand out my address to anybody. Hell, you are lucky if I even let you know what street I live on past a month. lol


I am the sameway. I would be scared b*tterless.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by EveryOunce
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?


Being taken to any of those places doesn't mean your a priority though. He could be taking other chicks to the park, museum, festivals, etc. etc.

The main thing is to spend time to evaluate if the other person is a good match, if there is relationship potential. I think I speak for most modern quality females when I say that taking us to a fancy dinner and flashing your money around isn't the best way to do that. Ask us about our interests, listen, and surprise us with dates that are centered around those interest.
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Why do you equate a date outside the home with flashing money around? Is it a bad thing that a man chooses to spend money on you? You can talk about interest and listen outside your home right? I think it has less to do with modern or traditional and more to do with preferences over all.
True it is expensive to dine out all the time but what is wrong with trips to the park, museums,festivals, the movies etc stuff that is sometimes free or very close to it? Isn't the point of dating for a man to show you why he considers you a priority and not an option? I understand dates dont go on forever but in the beginning stage though?
Posted by bkbella86
Gem, Pisces, aqua.


Aquarius don't play mindgames unless you play them first then we beat you at your own game, screw you and dump you.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Lol me and my guy are homebodies for sure... but we like it that way..

We go out to do things every so often.. and it makes it funner when we do, as opposed to going out for dates all the time.. I like the privacy of staying in, we can talk more and just enjoy each others company


So how soon did the two of you ditch formal dates and lounge at home?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
If you have your own place and I have mine at some point I better get to come over, and we do this 5050 stuff like that way too. Why not. If it's a connection.

Yours or mine first. I'm sorta private though I get ackward until I get comfortable so I might mention it early and kick back, and ask questions til then. Then I'll proceed again be like when you coming over.


But are you okay with going to his place on second date or him to yours that soon?
Why do promising courtships quickly become lets hangout at home? Is it the woman's fault that a man only has to work hard for 1 real date or is it the man's fault? Is a second or third date at your place a sign a person only wants sex?
He seems like he wants sex and when he saw that you had standards and that he would have to put in work to get in your pants he did the slow disconnect. You deserve more than a man who makes you play the guessing game and one who would rather do what ever it is he was doing without you on his vacation and his bday. His loss not yours.
Posted by Aqua_1
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Judging from your earth placements you don't do well with casual flings you want relationships that mean something and crave stability in every aspect and it takes you a long time open up. Couple that with a moon in scorpio and a mars in pisces you're sensitive, sensual and very sexual and give your all in love and expect nothing less in return.


yeah,you are right I am really sensitive
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That's a good thing though just make sure a person who is deserving of you gets access to your heart.
Judging from your earth placements you don't do well with casual flings you want relationships that mean something and crave stability in every aspect and it takes you a long time open up. Couple that with a moon in scorpio and a mars in pisces you're sensitive, sensual and very sexual and give your all in love and expect nothing less in return.
Posted by Dastardly
Do you think they're losers? Do you think that's an outdated stereotype? Do you think it's normal? Would you date one?


I see nothing wrong with it as long as it isn't addictive. Plus I like to play video games and I am competitive we can play Call of Duty together.
Posted by Saggie1220
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They would bang you on the first night if you let them but I will tell you what my leo said about first date sex. "I don't like women that give it up fast it makes me feel as if anyone can have her if I got it quickly." This is the same guy who couldn't stop hugging and kissing me on our first date and thankfully I survived it without ending up on my back.

Do it when you're ready and not a moment sooner. The chemistry I am sure is amazing but wait until he has established a relationship and value for you first. Words are just words until then. I am holding out because I need to build up trust with him and all he can do is respect that.


Thank you for the advice, how long have you been seeing each other? I am planning on holding out for the same reasons.

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We had our first date last night and been communicating by phone for about a month. He has made it clear that he is only looking to get to know me and that he wants me to be in the same head space which I am.
They would bang you on the first night if you let them but I will tell you what my leo said about first date sex. "I don't like women that give it up fast it makes me feel as if anyone can have her if I got it quickly." This is the same guy who couldn't stop hugging and kissing me on our first date and thankfully I survived it without ending up on my back.

Do it when you're ready and not a moment sooner. The chemistry I am sure is amazing but wait until he has established a relationship and value for you first. Words are just words until then. I am holding out because I need to build up trust with him and all he can do is respect that.