I agree, 2 Caps i closely know are the best fathers

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Come on girl if you are interested do some research. That's typical of a ANY man. He does good sex. But it doesn't mean more than that. His behavior outside of the bedroom is more important if you wanna evaluate the relationship.

Fixed it for ya 😉

Thanks girl indeed!

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I did check but hes a bit diffrent of a Cap, he has a pisces moon. I kno men are way diffrent with sex than women and am super emotional. But ive never had a man do those things and ive been with 2 other caps before. Well his texting communication is way diffrent, more attentive, more emojis, fast replies, apologies when texting back late, all this compared to texting 2 days later, no apoligies and disappearing for a week. Sharing more and more everytime about his hobbies and loved ones. Hes showing progress but i dont know if its just all random and coincidence or hes feeling me more.

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wow first time i hear someone complaining abou the game of a capricorn male

i've complained to you about your kind before you're aware most capricorns are automated cash registers in disguise right?

no diss but diss because of my 2 cap encounters I want my experience refund back

virgo have the reputation of robots, and stop thinking about them you sound addicted to the game

all earth signs are robots and what game?

virgos the robot let the gods alone

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are you sad or angry

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good now you have no excuse to listen new lil peep album

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Ugh I must say as much as Caps can be difficult, confusing, and self centered...they are amazing and 98.9% right about everything

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Is he affectionate out if the bedroom at all? Smack your ass, hold your hand, do special things hit you?

Idk my Cappy was amazing in the bedroom but it was connected to feelings and he was actually more about cuddling than sex.. shhhh it’ll Ruin their image 😂😂

Over time he does more things but still small changes. He does smack my ass playfully here and there and did it once in public, I was super shocked. The other day in the grocery store he tried to get something off my pants like a hair or lint. I know that sounds weird but I found it cute of him. No hand holding, he did it on our first 3 dates and never again. 80% of the time he is attentive to my needs like if I want dessert or if am okay, what do I want for dinner. He share his life now more than ever. Physically I don't see any touchy feely stuff unless its in the bedroom or when we say good bye. On a communication/mental level I do see alot. But again its not lovey dovey words. Its more like trust, humor, a weird bond, communication in person, hes uping his texting with emojis/instant replies and recently he got his feathers ruffled a bit because he hadn't heard from me in 3 days, but 3 days of silence is normal for us but it bothered him.

He sounds like he cares. Caps tend to take care of those they care about. How much well that’s a bit harder to figure out? How long have you been seeing him?

I’m cap dominant & I know it takes me awhile. I will tend to show through actions.. sexually, doing things for you etc. the words to me are super special and I don’t throw them around.

When I typically answer this question people tend to go negative. You can say a bit over a year but it was like 3 months dating, then 4 months separation, it took about 2 months to catch up to our old trusting selves again, then 1 big fight so pause another month and finally the last 4 months have been nothing but progress and great things. I know Caps are hot and cold and disappear and are not sure of relationships and take forever. Also not once have I pressed him to make it official but I am trying to be more vocal of my wants. Recently I mentioned that maybe I should be dating other people since he is not ready for a relationship and that just opened a can of emotions. He wanted to see me 2 days later he was drunk and he had all this emotional energy about him. Kept asking me if I had a new boyfriend, if I had a new guy already texting me, asked to go through my phone, then told me he just really wanted to hang out with me that day and it wasn't about sex. Like that was not him. Then he played the whole thing off as the stone cold cappy he is the next time I saw him. I mentioned the jealousy stunt a bit and he was like I was joking. Sure enough a few days later hes mad because he hadn't heard from me saying I was playing games with him. The next day I see him and he pulls this super extreme lovemaking thing on me, telling me that its all mine, and am just so falling hard for him. I'm hopeless. Is he doing it to keep me as a fwb or is he doing it because he cares and wants me but cant handle his feelings. Like Ive never seen a guy go so far for fwb and I have had my share of treetrunk boys that dont last more than a month.

Lol I feel you. Sounds similar to my ex and how he is when he wants to get back with me. It sounds to me like he’s catching feelings. I’d just not worry about it and see where it leads. Truth is if someone knows they want something serious with you, they won’t do all the mixed messages & yes that’s far easier & why you get the negativity. It’s far better that way. This is not as clear & harder to know what to do. Have you read my thread OMG really? Would be an interesting read for you. I’m torn at the moment. And I don’t have the answers but he keeps reaching out even when I push him away.. it’s hard to know what that is all about. Sorry I don’t have many answers. But I think if it’s important they keep trying. Ya know climbing the mountain 😉

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I just went through your thread. The whole cappy going back to you every time I think only happens when they care. Unless they are immature or broken. I hear alot that cappies are the I USE of the zodiac. If he comes back to yu and is willing to fix what ever he broke then he cares, if not dont waste your time.

Anyways I though they climbed mountains... why does it feel like I am climbing it too.

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Is he affectionate out if the bedroom at all? Smack your ass, hold your hand, do special things hit you?

Idk my Cappy was amazing in the bedroom but it was connected to feelings and he was actually more about cuddling than sex.. shhhh it’ll Ruin their image 😂😂

Over time he does more things but still small changes. He does smack my ass playfully here and there and did it once in public, I was super shocked. The other day in the grocery store he tried to get something off my pants like a hair or lint. I know that sounds weird but I found it cute of him. No hand holding, he did it on our first 3 dates and never again. 80% of the time he is attentive to my needs like if I want dessert or if am okay, what do I want for dinner. He share his life now more than ever. Physically I don't see any touchy feely stuff unless its in the bedroom or when we say good bye. On a communication/mental level I do see alot. But again its not lovey dovey words. Its more like trust, humor, a weird bond, communication in person, hes uping his texting with emojis/instant replies and recently he got his feathers ruffled a bit because he hadn't heard from me in 3 days, but 3 days of silence is normal for us but it bothered him.

He sounds like he cares. Caps tend to take care of those they care about. How much well that’s a bit harder to figure out? How long have you been seeing him?

I’m cap dominant & I know it takes me awhile. I will tend to show through actions.. sexually, doing things for you etc. the words to me are super special and I don’t throw them around.

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When I typically answer this question people tend to go negative. You can say a bit over a year but it was like 3 months dating, then 4 months separation, it took about 2 months to catch up to our old trusting selves again, then 1 big fight so pause another month and finally the last 4 months have been nothing but progress and great things. I know Caps are hot and cold and disappear and are not sure of relationships and take forever. Also not once have I pressed him to make it official but I am trying to be more vocal of my wants. Recently I mentioned that maybe I should be dating other people since he is not ready for a relationship and that just opened a can of emotions. He wanted to see me 2 days later he was drunk and he had all this emotional energy about him. Kept asking me if I had a new boyfriend, if I had a new guy already texting me, asked to go through my phone, then told me he just really wanted to hang out with me that day and it wasn't about sex. Like that was not him. Then he played the whole thing off as the stone cold cappy he is the next time I saw him. I mentioned the jealousy stunt a bit and he was like I was joking. Sure enough a few days later hes mad because he hadn't heard from me saying I was playing games with him. The next day I see him and he pulls this super extreme lovemaking thing on me, telling me that its all mine, and am just so falling hard for him. I'm hopeless. Is he doing it to keep me as a fwb or is he doing it because he cares and wants me but cant handle his feelings. Like Ive never seen a guy go so far for fwb and I have had my share of treetrunk boys that dont last more than a month.

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all earth signs have that sensual side, more than what they would describe as just "empty gestures" of appreciation, so inside the bedroom is where they show the real gestures

Well my cappy has been showing me more and more this passionate love making side and am just so hooked in right now. Blinded by it. Typically he uses certain phrase that I guess turn him on like thats my pu $ $ y. But if i was to say it he gets weird about it. Except recently he told me this is all yours while love making.

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Is he affectionate out if the bedroom at all? Smack your ass, hold your hand, do special things hit you?

Idk my Cappy was amazing in the bedroom but it was connected to feelings and he was actually more about cuddling than sex.. shhhh it’ll Ruin their image 😂😂

Over time he does more things but still small changes. He does smack my ass playfully here and there and did it once in public, I was super shocked. The other day in the grocery store he tried to get something off my pants like a hair or lint. I know that sounds weird but I found it cute of him. No hand holding, he did it on our first 3 dates and never again. 80% of the time he is attentive to my needs like if I want dessert or if am okay, what do I want for dinner. He share his life now more than ever. Physically I don't see any touchy feely stuff unless its in the bedroom or when we say good bye. On a communication/mental level I do see alot. But again its not lovey dovey words. Its more like trust, humor, a weird bond, communication in person, hes uping his texting with emojis/instant replies and recently he got his feathers ruffled a bit because he hadn't heard from me in 3 days, but 3 days of silence is normal for us but it bothered him.

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Is there a reason for a Cap man to express himself more emotionally and passionately while being intimate, compared to out of the bedroom?

Is love making sex just sex for a Cappy or is there more behind it?

I'm talking about look you in the eyes, missionary, tells you its all yours, all they can do is kiss you, grab you, can't let go, and just slowly give it to you type of love making....

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Here is his chart

Sun in 6° 5' Capricorn
Moon in 29° 12' Pisces
Mercury in 23° 17' Capricorn
Venus in 21° 8' Aquarius
Mars in 26° 46' Sagittarius
Jupiter in 21° 46' Taurus (r)
Saturn in 16° 4' Leo (r)
Uranus in 10° 42' Scorpio
Neptune in 14° 30' Sagittarius
Pluto in 14° 4' Libra
North Node in 0° 6' Scorpio (r)
Chiron in 27° 21' Aries (r)
Ascendant in 26° 51' Pisces
MC in 28° 24' Sagittarius

ASPECTS

Neptune Sextile Pluto orb: 0 °
Mars Square Ascendant orb: 0 °
Venus Square Jupiter orb: 0 °
Moon Square MC orb: 1 °
Chiron Trine MC orb: 1 °
Mars Trine Chiron orb: 1 °
North Node Sextile MC orb: 2 °
Saturn Sextile Pluto orb: 2 °
Ascendant Square MC orb: 2 °
Mars Conjunction MC orb: 2 °
Saturn Trine Neptune orb: 2 °
Mercury Trine Jupiter orb: 2 °
Mercury Sextile Ascendant orb: 3 °
Moon Square Mars orb: 3 °
North Node Opposition Chiron orb: 3 °
Moon Conjunction Ascendant orb: 3 °
Mars Sextile North Node orb: 4 °
Sun Sextile Uranus orb: 4 °
Mercury Square Chiron orb: 4 °
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant orb: 5 °
Venus Sextile Mars orb: 5 °
Jupiter Square Saturn orb: 5 °
Venus Opposition Saturn orb: 5 °
Moon Sextile Mercury orb: 6 °
Sun Square Moon orb: 7 °
Venus Trine Pluto orb: 7 °

Posted by DeadInside
wow first time i hear someone complaining abou the game of a capricorn male

I am in no way complaining. Its amazing but I can't separate sex and feelings when he does that to me and then I get ideas and fall for him more. I just want to know if it means something or not. If it doesn't then I can tell myself that and try not to fall for him.

Is there a reason for a Cap man to express himself more emotionally and passionately while being intimate, compared to out of the bedroom?

Is love making sex just sex for a Cappy or is there more behind it?

I'm talking about look you in the eyes, missionary, tells you its all yours, all they can do is kiss you, grab you, can't let go, and just slowly give it to you type of love making....

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This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.

I think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that treetrunking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.

After 1 year he knows whether he wants to pursue a relationship with you. Threatening to date other guys and then scrambling to convince yourself his reaction = he wants more, is just setting yourself up for more disappointment.

You want him to step up? Say so.

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I know and its super hard to say anything because i hate rejection. It might be me making up excuses but hes been through alot and is like major damaged. I wouldnt doubt that he cares about me but he just has issues moving forward in his life with relationships.

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This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.

I think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that treetrunking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.

It kinda sounds like he got comfortable with the status quo. Outta curiosity, what's stopping you from seeing other people as you and the Cap are not exclusive?

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We are exclusive when it comes to our physical relationship. Its something he asked me to promise him from the beginning. I am not sure why he asked. He sometimes plays it off and says that its not jelousy or possive based. But he made me promise him anyways. He constanly reminds me that he is not seeing anyone else or will casually say i havent been with anyone since me. That fact that i have big feelings for him is what stops me from seeing anyone else. Im very about being with one guy only.

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Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.

I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description

Lol I like you 😂😂

🤗 lol... I just noticed your a cap with pisces moon, same as my cap. Why are you caps so difficult. I feel like am paying for the damage someones else caused him.

Save him if you could

" Capricorn Sun Pisces Moon (for guys)

"His Illumination: Soft-hearted and generous.

His dark side: Own worst enemy.

This man is a wonderful friend and coworker. He is sympathetic and kind, and full of wisdom. He also knows, and keeps secret, where just about everyone's skeletons are hidden. Every person he knows calls on him for advice and friendship. This soft-hearted, generous man has a sharp mind and a gentle soul. He carries a lot of emotional baggage. He himself keeps his problems hidden from others. He has, in fact, some deep, dark secrets that he carries literally to the grave. He usually has a secret marriage or relationship that he mentions to no one, even his current wife and children. He may also have an illegitimate child hidden away somewhere. Add to this at least one woman who broke his heart and made him turn to chemical escapes. Chronic ill health follows, and guess what? No one knows because he doesn't talk about what hurts him. If he could talk about it, he might not drink or use drugs. And as if all this weren't bad enough, he usually has a glandular problem that causes him to gain weight. By 40 he is usually quite heavy. This adds to his pain because he is a very attractive man. He is also usually found in some sort of limelight, often political or religious. He is very image conscious and yes, vain. He will be the first to poke fun at himself, but not in connection with the word fat. Laughing and cheerful, he can pull up everyone by their bootstraps, except himself. He is oftentimes his own worst enemy. Rescue him if you can, because he could be a wonderful, exciting husband and father. This job calls for a drug free Pisces, a homemaking Cancer, or a Scorpio who has exorcised her own demons."

(Taken from The Book of Lovers by Carolyn Reynolds.)

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That was kinda spot on. I just wish i knew what to do besides being patient, funny, and kind. There so much I can do for him but i cant lose myself trying to fix him and I know he doesnt like it if i was to push things on him. We are always at his place and i dont know if i should be pushing to go out on dates, which i dont even care about am a home body. I dont know what emotions i should show to have him feel comfortble expressing his. I think the getting him drunk thing might do the trick.

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Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.

I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description

Lol I like you 😂😂

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🤗 lol... I just noticed your a cap with pisces moon, same as my cap. Why are you caps so difficult. I feel like am paying for the damage someones else caused him.

Posted by xoxflute
This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.

I think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that treetrunking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.

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Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.

I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description

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So I had some what of the talk with my cappy. My cancer self tried to manipulate the conversation without asking the exact questions. Yes am afriaf to ask but i try to communicate. From everything all i heard is he trust me and cares more than I think he does but he has the wall of china up. He said he doesnt do emotions like everyone else. Sooo im guessing hes still not ready for a relationship. Im done being FWB zoned. I dropped in our conversation that if I started dating other ppl would he care because I was upset at a similiar comment he made about his ex. He told me a story that went in circles so that he can say no he didnt care but it was like he was covering his ass. Two days later he asked me to come over and when i got there he was a bit drunk. That was fun. He dropped an emotional bag somewhere because he was on me. Told me he liked spending time with me (thats a first) asked to go through my phone (supposetly as a joke) asked if i had a new boyfriend, asked where i was going out that night and that he just might show up, askes if i thought more about our “conversation”... move past my next vist hes back to being stone cold. Ive been stressed in my own life so I havent texted him and neither has he but today I got an odd text from him at an unsual time to see what i was up to. It quickly went to i havent heard from you I thought you were playing games. Like wtf!!! Can someone please clarify whats going on.

"It quickly went to i havent heard from you I thought you were playing games."

who said this, you or him? anyway, manipulating

but... I think there is some connection between cap and cancer... some opposite thing or? can someone confirm?

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He texted me that last night.

So I had some what of the talk with my cappy. My cancer self tried to manipulate the conversation without asking the exact questions. Yes am afriaf to ask but i try to communicate. From everything all i heard is he trust me and cares more than I think he does but he has the wall of china up. He said he doesnt do emotions like everyone else. Sooo im guessing hes still not ready for a relationship. Im done being FWB zoned. I dropped in our conversation that if I started dating other ppl would he care because I was upset at a similiar comment he made about his ex. He told me a story that went in circles so that he can say no he didnt care but it was like he was covering his ass. Two days later he asked me to come over and when i got there he was a bit drunk. That was fun. He dropped an emotional bag somewhere because he was on me. Told me he liked spending time with me (thats a first) asked to go through my phone (supposetly as a joke) asked if i had a new boyfriend, asked where i was going out that night and that he just might show up, askes if i thought more about our “conversation”... move past my next vist hes back to being stone cold. Ive been stressed in my own life so I havent texted him and neither has he but today I got an odd text from him at an unsual time to see what i was up to. It quickly went to i havent heard from you I thought you were playing games. Like wtf!!! Can someone please clarify whats going on.

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cancer sun gemini moon here too. who is bothering you? maybe you don't have enough info to make a proper decision. happens to me too.

I have an issue with a Cappy man. And i FEEL like i dont have all the info but i THINK that its clear enough.

oh know about that too. well you can't make yourself be just the thinking being. you obviously feel some of your need or wants are not met. and you can't talk about it with? so what is his wall about?

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He cant commit to a new relationship because he cant let go of the idea of reconciling with his ex wife. They been seperated for 3 yrs. they cant stand each other most of the time but i think because the way cappys are he cant let go, hes alone (no family around) he has a child with her, she left him for no reason. He has recently opened up to me about this which was very hard for him emotionally. And he said he doesnt know why he feels that way and he knows they wont work out but he cant help it. He admitmited this is what is probably holding him back from moving into a new relationship.(the possibility of fixing the broken) I dont know if its a positive move forward or a big ass step back into the friend zone. Early in our dating stage he did stop talking to me in attempts to recocile with her. Disapeared for a bit but came back and told me everything. And he wants to be super honest with me and told me he felt guilty about it. The slap in the face tho was when he casually dropped the “if it happens i will let you know” like if they are going to recocile he will be upfront about it. A part of me wants to help him out of this mess another part is like just leave him.

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cancer sun gemini moon here too. who is bothering you? maybe you don't have enough info to make a proper decision. happens to me too.

I have an issue with a Cappy man. And i FEEL like i dont have all the info but i THINK that its clear enough.