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When we were together my profile was private and he never followed me. I just unprivated my account and hes watching my ig story, it tells me hes watching. And for him to go through the steps to manually find my account cuz again he is not following me and see my stuff on a daily is kinda stalking for a guy like him. I called him out because hes done it before. I litterly asked him if it was because he missed me or he was boerd.

Let the male breathe he is in post break up depression; you want him back

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Yes i want him back. I’ve always wanted him and was waiting for him to get his butter together patiently but he made me feel very hurt one day and i told him about it and i told him i needed space because i have feelings and hes not ready. I’m sure he cares about me but is hiding it. And now the stalking. I texted him and gave him the oppurtunity to talk to me and nothing. Just keeps stalking me or as the internet says “haunting” me

When we were together my profile was private and he never followed me. I just unprivated my account and hes watching my ig story, it tells me hes watching. And for him to go through the steps to manually find my account cuz again he is not following me and see my stuff on a daily is kinda stalking for a guy like him. I called him out because hes done it before. I litterly asked him if it was because he missed me or he was boerd.

So i kinda ended a non relationship 1 year battle with a cappy man who wasn’t ready for a relationship. I admitted my feelings to him and parted ways because he wasnt ready. 2 weeks later I was having a very bad day and I needed him so i texted him and he replied that the decision made was best for the both of us. I later text him on his birthday no reply back. Now, two weeks after his birthday he is starting to social media stalk me. I text him and I called him out on it. No reply. Another two days later he’s back on my social media.

Can someone please explain this to me?

This is not the first time we take a break and then he starts to social media stalk me when he “misses me”

If you read any of my old posts you’ll see I had my struggles with a Capricorn man. And as a Cancer, even though I fell in love with him... I still let him go. I was growing as a person and seeing my value more than he ever did. So I left him and before I did, I told him I was leaving him because I had feelings for him. He was becoming possessive, controlling, and yet did not want a relationship with me. Sometimes I think I gave up on him a bit too early because it seemed like he was changing.

I have a big empathetic/intuition thay it’s not over between us and that he will come back I recently sent him a happy birthday text and he has not responded back.

I left him mid November and coincidentally all my tarot readings mention a separation. Now on my end of December or January readings say someone’s coming back. A soul mate/ twin flame.

If you know a cancer or are a cancer or water sign you know that we are very intuitive creatures. just like a Capricorn since they’re half fish. I know deep down inside that he really caref for me but of course in true Capricorn form his Saturn held back every feeling he has or could have had. His past struggles controled him. And he couldn’t move forward out of fear that he would lose an impossiple opportunity to start over with his ex and reunite his family again. Even though he knew there was a 95% chance it wouldn’t work out, according to him.

It’s been over a month now since we’ve spoken. I really truly miss him and I could move forward without him but do I want to? What are the odds that my current tarot readings are correct and he’s cleaning his act up, realizing what we had, and he’s coming back?

I agree, 2 Caps i closely know are the best fathers

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Posted by Pathos
Come on girl if you are interested do some research. That's typical of a ANY man. He does good sex. But it doesn't mean more than that. His behavior outside of the bedroom is more important if you wanna evaluate the relationship.

Fixed it for ya 😉

Thanks girl indeed!

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I did check but hes a bit diffrent of a Cap, he has a pisces moon. I kno men are way diffrent with sex than women and am super emotional. But ive never had a man do those things and ive been with 2 other caps before. Well his texting communication is way diffrent, more attentive, more emojis, fast replies, apologies when texting back late, all this compared to texting 2 days later, no apoligies and disappearing for a week. Sharing more and more everytime about his hobbies and loved ones. Hes showing progress but i dont know if its just all random and coincidence or hes feeling me more.

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wow first time i hear someone complaining abou the game of a capricorn male

i've complained to you about your kind before you're aware most capricorns are automated cash registers in disguise right?

no diss but diss because of my 2 cap encounters I want my experience refund back

virgo have the reputation of robots, and stop thinking about them you sound addicted to the game

all earth signs are robots and what game?

virgos the robot let the gods alone

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are you sad or angry

sad

good now you have no excuse to listen new lil peep album

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Ugh I must say as much as Caps can be difficult, confusing, and self centered...they are amazing and 98.9% right about everything

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Is he affectionate out if the bedroom at all? Smack your ass, hold your hand, do special things hit you?

Idk my Cappy was amazing in the bedroom but it was connected to feelings and he was actually more about cuddling than sex.. shhhh it’ll Ruin their image 😂😂

Over time he does more things but still small changes. He does smack my ass playfully here and there and did it once in public, I was super shocked. The other day in the grocery store he tried to get something off my pants like a hair or lint. I know that sounds weird but I found it cute of him. No hand holding, he did it on our first 3 dates and never again. 80% of the time he is attentive to my needs like if I want dessert or if am okay, what do I want for dinner. He share his life now more than ever. Physically I don't see any touchy feely stuff unless its in the bedroom or when we say good bye. On a communication/mental level I do see alot. But again its not lovey dovey words. Its more like trust, humor, a weird bond, communication in person, hes uping his texting with emojis/instant replies and recently he got his feathers ruffled a bit because he hadn't heard from me in 3 days, but 3 days of silence is normal for us but it bothered him.

He sounds like he cares. Caps tend to take care of those they care about. How much well that’s a bit harder to figure out? How long have you been seeing him?

I’m cap dominant & I know it takes me awhile. I will tend to show through actions.. sexually, doing things for you etc. the words to me are super special and I don’t throw them around.

When I typically answer this question people tend to go negative. You can say a bit over a year but it was like 3 months dating, then 4 months separation, it took about 2 months to catch up to our old trusting selves again, then 1 big fight so pause another month and finally the last 4 months have been nothing but progress and great things. I know Caps are hot and cold and disappear and are not sure of relationships and take forever. Also not once have I pressed him to make it official but I am trying to be more vocal of my wants. Recently I mentioned that maybe I should be dating other people since he is not ready for a relationship and that just opened a can of emotions. He wanted to see me 2 days later he was drunk and he had all this emotional energy about him. Kept asking me if I had a new boyfriend, if I had a new guy already texting me, asked to go through my phone, then told me he just really wanted to hang out with me that day and it wasn't about sex. Like that was not him. Then he played the whole thing off as the stone cold cappy he is the next time I saw him. I mentioned the jealousy stunt a bit and he was like I was joking. Sure enough a few days later hes mad because he hadn't heard from me saying I was playing games with him. The next day I see him and he pulls this super extreme lovemaking thing on me, telling me that its all mine, and am just so falling hard for him. I'm hopeless. Is he doing it to keep me as a fwb or is he doing it because he cares and wants me but cant handle his feelings. Like Ive never seen a guy go so far for fwb and I have had my share of treetrunk boys that dont last more than a month.

Lol I feel you. Sounds similar to my ex and how he is when he wants to get back with me. It sounds to me like he’s catching feelings. I’d just not worry about it and see where it leads. Truth is if someone knows they want something serious with you, they won’t do all the mixed messages & yes that’s far easier & why you get the negativity. It’s far better that way. This is not as clear & harder to know what to do. Have you read my thread OMG really? Would be an interesting read for you. I’m torn at the moment. And I don’t have the answers but he keeps reaching out even when I push him away.. it’s hard to know what that is all about. Sorry I don’t have many answers. But I think if it’s important they keep trying. Ya know climbing the mountain 😉

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I just went through your thread. The whole cappy going back to you every time I think only happens when they care. Unless they are immature or broken. I hear alot that cappies are the I USE of the zodiac. If he comes back to yu and is willing to fix what ever he broke then he cares, if not dont waste your time.

Anyways I though they climbed mountains... why does it feel like I am climbing it too.

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Is he affectionate out if the bedroom at all? Smack your ass, hold your hand, do special things hit you?

Idk my Cappy was amazing in the bedroom but it was connected to feelings and he was actually more about cuddling than sex.. shhhh it’ll Ruin their image 😂😂

Over time he does more things but still small changes. He does smack my ass playfully here and there and did it once in public, I was super shocked. The other day in the grocery store he tried to get something off my pants like a hair or lint. I know that sounds weird but I found it cute of him. No hand holding, he did it on our first 3 dates and never again. 80% of the time he is attentive to my needs like if I want dessert or if am okay, what do I want for dinner. He share his life now more than ever. Physically I don't see any touchy feely stuff unless its in the bedroom or when we say good bye. On a communication/mental level I do see alot. But again its not lovey dovey words. Its more like trust, humor, a weird bond, communication in person, hes uping his texting with emojis/instant replies and recently he got his feathers ruffled a bit because he hadn't heard from me in 3 days, but 3 days of silence is normal for us but it bothered him.

He sounds like he cares. Caps tend to take care of those they care about. How much well that’s a bit harder to figure out? How long have you been seeing him?

I’m cap dominant & I know it takes me awhile. I will tend to show through actions.. sexually, doing things for you etc. the words to me are super special and I don’t throw them around.

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When I typically answer this question people tend to go negative. You can say a bit over a year but it was like 3 months dating, then 4 months separation, it took about 2 months to catch up to our old trusting selves again, then 1 big fight so pause another month and finally the last 4 months have been nothing but progress and great things. I know Caps are hot and cold and disappear and are not sure of relationships and take forever. Also not once have I pressed him to make it official but I am trying to be more vocal of my wants. Recently I mentioned that maybe I should be dating other people since he is not ready for a relationship and that just opened a can of emotions. He wanted to see me 2 days later he was drunk and he had all this emotional energy about him. Kept asking me if I had a new boyfriend, if I had a new guy already texting me, asked to go through my phone, then told me he just really wanted to hang out with me that day and it wasn't about sex. Like that was not him. Then he played the whole thing off as the stone cold cappy he is the next time I saw him. I mentioned the jealousy stunt a bit and he was like I was joking. Sure enough a few days later hes mad because he hadn't heard from me saying I was playing games with him. The next day I see him and he pulls this super extreme lovemaking thing on me, telling me that its all mine, and am just so falling hard for him. I'm hopeless. Is he doing it to keep me as a fwb or is he doing it because he cares and wants me but cant handle his feelings. Like Ive never seen a guy go so far for fwb and I have had my share of treetrunk boys that dont last more than a month.

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all earth signs have that sensual side, more than what they would describe as just "empty gestures" of appreciation, so inside the bedroom is where they show the real gestures

Well my cappy has been showing me more and more this passionate love making side and am just so hooked in right now. Blinded by it. Typically he uses certain phrase that I guess turn him on like thats my pu $ $ y. But if i was to say it he gets weird about it. Except recently he told me this is all yours while love making.

Posted by RooSagicorn
Is he affectionate out if the bedroom at all? Smack your ass, hold your hand, do special things hit you?

Idk my Cappy was amazing in the bedroom but it was connected to feelings and he was actually more about cuddling than sex.. shhhh it’ll Ruin their image 😂😂

Over time he does more things but still small changes. He does smack my ass playfully here and there and did it once in public, I was super shocked. The other day in the grocery store he tried to get something off my pants like a hair or lint. I know that sounds weird but I found it cute of him. No hand holding, he did it on our first 3 dates and never again. 80% of the time he is attentive to my needs like if I want dessert or if am okay, what do I want for dinner. He share his life now more than ever. Physically I don't see any touchy feely stuff unless its in the bedroom or when we say good bye. On a communication/mental level I do see alot. But again its not lovey dovey words. Its more like trust, humor, a weird bond, communication in person, hes uping his texting with emojis/instant replies and recently he got his feathers ruffled a bit because he hadn't heard from me in 3 days, but 3 days of silence is normal for us but it bothered him.

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Posted by fullmoongirl
Is there a reason for a Cap man to express himself more emotionally and passionately while being intimate, compared to out of the bedroom?

Is love making sex just sex for a Cappy or is there more behind it?

I'm talking about look you in the eyes, missionary, tells you its all yours, all they can do is kiss you, grab you, can't let go, and just slowly give it to you type of love making....

Look up the mars and mercury + aspects

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Here is his chart

Sun in 6° 5' Capricorn
Moon in 29° 12' Pisces
Mercury in 23° 17' Capricorn
Venus in 21° 8' Aquarius
Mars in 26° 46' Sagittarius
Jupiter in 21° 46' Taurus (r)
Saturn in 16° 4' Leo (r)
Uranus in 10° 42' Scorpio
Neptune in 14° 30' Sagittarius
Pluto in 14° 4' Libra
North Node in 0° 6' Scorpio (r)
Chiron in 27° 21' Aries (r)
Ascendant in 26° 51' Pisces
MC in 28° 24' Sagittarius

ASPECTS

Neptune Sextile Pluto orb: 0 °
Mars Square Ascendant orb: 0 °
Venus Square Jupiter orb: 0 °
Moon Square MC orb: 1 °
Chiron Trine MC orb: 1 °
Mars Trine Chiron orb: 1 °
North Node Sextile MC orb: 2 °
Saturn Sextile Pluto orb: 2 °
Ascendant Square MC orb: 2 °
Mars Conjunction MC orb: 2 °
Saturn Trine Neptune orb: 2 °
Mercury Trine Jupiter orb: 2 °
Mercury Sextile Ascendant orb: 3 °
Moon Square Mars orb: 3 °
North Node Opposition Chiron orb: 3 °
Moon Conjunction Ascendant orb: 3 °
Mars Sextile North Node orb: 4 °
Sun Sextile Uranus orb: 4 °
Mercury Square Chiron orb: 4 °
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant orb: 5 °
Venus Sextile Mars orb: 5 °
Jupiter Square Saturn orb: 5 °
Venus Opposition Saturn orb: 5 °
Moon Sextile Mercury orb: 6 °
Sun Square Moon orb: 7 °
Venus Trine Pluto orb: 7 °

Posted by DeadInside
wow first time i hear someone complaining abou the game of a capricorn male

I am in no way complaining. Its amazing but I can't separate sex and feelings when he does that to me and then I get ideas and fall for him more. I just want to know if it means something or not. If it doesn't then I can tell myself that and try not to fall for him.

Is there a reason for a Cap man to express himself more emotionally and passionately while being intimate, compared to out of the bedroom?

Is love making sex just sex for a Cappy or is there more behind it?

I'm talking about look you in the eyes, missionary, tells you its all yours, all they can do is kiss you, grab you, can't let go, and just slowly give it to you type of love making....

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This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.

I think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that treetrunking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.

After 1 year he knows whether he wants to pursue a relationship with you. Threatening to date other guys and then scrambling to convince yourself his reaction = he wants more, is just setting yourself up for more disappointment.

You want him to step up? Say so.

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I know and its super hard to say anything because i hate rejection. It might be me making up excuses but hes been through alot and is like major damaged. I wouldnt doubt that he cares about me but he just has issues moving forward in his life with relationships.

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This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.

I think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that treetrunking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.

It kinda sounds like he got comfortable with the status quo. Outta curiosity, what's stopping you from seeing other people as you and the Cap are not exclusive?

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We are exclusive when it comes to our physical relationship. Its something he asked me to promise him from the beginning. I am not sure why he asked. He sometimes plays it off and says that its not jelousy or possive based. But he made me promise him anyways. He constanly reminds me that he is not seeing anyone else or will casually say i havent been with anyone since me. That fact that i have big feelings for him is what stops me from seeing anyone else. Im very about being with one guy only.

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Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.

I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description

Lol I like you 😂😂

🤗 lol... I just noticed your a cap with pisces moon, same as my cap. Why are you caps so difficult. I feel like am paying for the damage someones else caused him.

Save him if you could

" Capricorn Sun Pisces Moon (for guys)

"His Illumination: Soft-hearted and generous.

His dark side: Own worst enemy.

This man is a wonderful friend and coworker. He is sympathetic and kind, and full of wisdom. He also knows, and keeps secret, where just about everyone's skeletons are hidden. Every person he knows calls on him for advice and friendship. This soft-hearted, generous man has a sharp mind and a gentle soul. He carries a lot of emotional baggage. He himself keeps his problems hidden from others. He has, in fact, some deep, dark secrets that he carries literally to the grave. He usually has a secret marriage or relationship that he mentions to no one, even his current wife and children. He may also have an illegitimate child hidden away somewhere. Add to this at least one woman who broke his heart and made him turn to chemical escapes. Chronic ill health follows, and guess what? No one knows because he doesn't talk about what hurts him. If he could talk about it, he might not drink or use drugs. And as if all this weren't bad enough, he usually has a glandular problem that causes him to gain weight. By 40 he is usually quite heavy. This adds to his pain because he is a very attractive man. He is also usually found in some sort of limelight, often political or religious. He is very image conscious and yes, vain. He will be the first to poke fun at himself, but not in connection with the word fat. Laughing and cheerful, he can pull up everyone by their bootstraps, except himself. He is oftentimes his own worst enemy. Rescue him if you can, because he could be a wonderful, exciting husband and father. This job calls for a drug free Pisces, a homemaking Cancer, or a Scorpio who has exorcised her own demons."

(Taken from The Book of Lovers by Carolyn Reynolds.)

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That was kinda spot on. I just wish i knew what to do besides being patient, funny, and kind. There so much I can do for him but i cant lose myself trying to fix him and I know he doesnt like it if i was to push things on him. We are always at his place and i dont know if i should be pushing to go out on dates, which i dont even care about am a home body. I dont know what emotions i should show to have him feel comfortble expressing his. I think the getting him drunk thing might do the trick.

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Posted by _kitten_
Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.

I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description

Lol I like you 😂😂

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🤗 lol... I just noticed your a cap with pisces moon, same as my cap. Why are you caps so difficult. I feel like am paying for the damage someones else caused him.

Posted by xoxflute
This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.

I think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that treetrunking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.

Posted by _kitten_
Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.

I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description