Posted by Wizardz
This was actually beautiful! Thanks. Did you write it yourself?
I am always trying to find the inner child that you describe. Being present in the moment and not thinking about tomorrow
How does that work with finances and that sort of thing? That's where I come unstuck 😅
Posted by Candy_girl
Actually I friendzoned a Virgo guy. He said me he doesn't want to be my friend. Maybe he expected more than that. Or else asked me never to talk with him again. Misunderstandings happened. I asked him if I can express my feelings of love to him. He said ok. I removed my WhatsApp DP and about. He thought that I blocked him and he blocked me. I thought he doesn't love me so he blocked me. Since I was not realising my mistake. I blocked him back. Since 5 days, I sent him how much I hate him messages. He didn't reply. Finally, I realised my mistake today and expressed my care messages to him. And unblocked him. Will he ever unblock and be my love like before?
Posted by Fiolina
When a virgo man says he is going through some difficult stuff, and that he needs ti fix that first. Is he coming back, or is he just trying to dump me in a nice way? 😂
He is very honest and open, so I know that his life is a mess at the moment.
Posted by Centaur12Posted by GemCurioThe1
Here's some advice which goes against probably everything that you're feeling and thinking, but at this point what you're thinking and feeling doesn't work for the results you're seeking. Try this... Get a hobby!!! You've been sitting on a shelf doing the same crap week in and week out. Go walk a chip trail you've never been on and take pictures. Take your children out for ice cream or video games or to the beach or something. Live.... Do whenever you want to do as long as it doesn't involve contacting her. Join a gym. Your relationship is depressing because you're too focused on it. Laws of attraction. Be what you want in a partner instead of what you are receiving from Gem girl. I have a bias for Geminis, but buddy, you're not thinking this through. Same actions. Same questions. Same results. Change your focus bro... Your energy sucks. I can feel it through the words. Happiness in your life is your responsibility. NOT HERS!!! So if you're a walking ball of negative energy, how can you attract positivity. Opposites attract my bumm. Be the light for Gem girl to see on the hill. Be a new energy. New vibe. New you... In life we attract. Nothing else works. Your topics case and point. I'm just trying to help you because you don't have to figure her out to attract her. She was once attracted to you without all this zodiac sign stuff... Seriously...
Yeah I already know this I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk on Thursday she said yeah and I am planning on taking the kids out somewhere on the weekend.
I am going to see if she would like to go do a zipline together next weekend should be good.
She has told me she doesn't want to be in the relationship right now but wants to be friends and hang out and see if it can change so be can build everything back up again.click to expand
Posted by CrazySlimm8999Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by BlueStar
Why do Virgo men not like Gemini women? 🥺
We do.. I have my original name in this because that's how friends can recognize me. I came here to learn about Gemini women when I was crushing on one. A Gemini woman had been something I hadn't experienced, so I came here for research 2 years ago..
Is this true? Virgo man not compatible with Gemini woman?? I wanted some Virgo man tipsclick to expand
Posted by gendutPosted by GemCurioThe1
I'm back everyone after a timely retreat. I thought to bring back this classic to assist people with their Virgo man needs Hope all has been well. So, for all you new comers, you can are invited to ask me a question concerning your Virgo Men and women. I will do my best to answer in detail and help your situation..
Thank you GemCurio 😍
His been very helpful helping me understanding my virgo guy last year and early this year 😍
It was only a hook uo and now we are in relationship.
Fingercross for me guys.Virgo guy is trully a hard work 😁click to expand
Posted by virgal_perfectionistPosted by GemCurioThe1
You are... now... choosing to sell yourself short. He has 3 strikes already. First he lied by omission. Then he established major attachments outside a relationship with a woman who is currently pregnant. Last, he is simply what he does. If he's willing to step out on the woman with his children, you're no match for his children. Virguy advice to you Virgal.
Don't do this to yourself. He has been offering you empty words, and there's no convenience in the world that would make a man stay where he doesn't want to be. Would you want to trade places with his pregnant baby momma??? I'm asking because that's the karma you're building remaining in this situation fully aware of it. Just saying...
there's no convenience in the world that would make a man stay where he doesn't want to be.
You know I told him something like this & he responded that he was staying because of his son. He didn't want his child's mother to take his son from him. I think there is a lot more to the story then what he telling me. He's a lawyer and he knows the law will prevent that from happening if he's doing the right thing - which makes me believe there's more. But that's not for me to even worry about. You are right about karma - there's no way I would ever want to be in that situation & as a woman I put myself in her shoes and I can't even imagine what she must be going through with him.click to expand
Posted by colorsPosted by GemCurioThe1
This... All this song and dance. All the negative thoughts. Even the thought of him not being responsive is all in your mind. You have been damaged by others in the past and you're allowing the past to ruin what you currently have. If everything is ok. Why are you so full of doubt and questioning everything??? It's because of your history and it has nothing to do with the Taurus Guy you're talking to. Start there... This is the truth. Relax...
Hmm, but he has not initiated contact after they got close. She can feel the difference in his behavior, so how is everything okay?click to expand
Posted by TenpxdPosted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Tenpxd
So my friend met this older guy
Yes he’s a workaholic his focus is his successful careers + time with his family/children
But he also makes time for her. Yes he’s not around daily because he’s busy but he makes time to see her weekly if possible.
He calls her and checks on her at least once a day, she says it’s not enough but I told her effort is what counts.
He made plans to see her last week and he even showed up injured he had hurt his back he made time to see her, she wanted him to stay the night but he didn’t due to having to be up at 6am for work the next morning. I told her to give him a break. He’s at least trying.
My suggestion to her is to give him credit. These days most men don’t get credit for their efforts.
Ummm.. for the reality of it, some men still have 3 families they are visiting throughout the week in some countries. If your friend needs more attention than what she's receiving there's an imbalance and if this is considered making time initially, how much less time will she get in the future after feelings develop??? If your friend doesn't stand firmly for what she wants as an individual in her own life who will?? One of the real problem most people have in relationships is lacking patience and being willing to settle. I'm on your friends aide and if he's not giving her enough time, let him go kick rocks. And I'm a man so, I live this way my whole life. You want to be friends . You want to take our time at a pace to slow, kick rocks. Only in extraordinary circumstances do I make an exception and even that has limits. Stop settling people...
Eventually if she’s not happy I told her to just let that one go.click to expand