Posted by ToysintheAtticPosted by firewaterearth
It depends on the situation as to why Aquas disappear. If you are a positive influence in an Aqua's life, but they do not have it together they will leave you so that their BS does not bring harm to your life. Then, they will reappear when they have gotten themselves together more. They are about the big picture. If leaving you now means that they can have a better future with you then, they will do so.
In the end, we just have to wish people well on their journey...even, if it takes them in a different direction than us. In my opinion, the best way to love someone is to let them go. If it is meant to be, then your paths will cross again. Sometimes, people are meant to be a life lesson and not a life partner.
But I've also disappeared on people because I just simply need time to collect my thoughts for a bit and take a time out. It helps me be a better person to be around. And also, sometimes I just simply don't feel the need to talk to my friends and family for a little bit. Not quite sure what it is (and I don't get into total seclusion either, I kind of rotate who I'm talking to and who I'm not). Now needless to say, my friends know this about me but it's not like I'm super close to very many people and I partially blame my seclusion acts for that.click to expand
Posted by gemini1689
Out of curiosity.. How long have you disappeared from your s/o.. and did it have ANYTHING to do with them? or just because of your own issues (plate too full, bust etc)
.......btw this isnt for me (my aqua is back)
Posted by tiki33
No because everyone that uses social networks load pictures of themselves, some do it daily, some do it never, some do it weekly, everyone that uses social networks use the photo app at some point.
Posted by tiki33
whatever you do don't reach out to him, let him feel the consequences of not having you in his life, he'll get nostalgic about you anywhere between 4 to 8 weeks and he'll breakdown all on his own and that's exactly what you want.
Posted by krysrenee7
If he disappears after you've pissed him off or done something wrong, he may be "gone" for quite awhile..either until you apologize or until he's made up his mind as to whether or not to keep dealing with you
If he's already stressed out (has nothing to do with you), it depends on how close you are with him. The more you know about his inner life, the least amount of time he'll be gone. BUT if he hides his problems from you, he'll be gone for longer
If he's just in 1 of those "I need space for no real reason" moods, he may disappear for 1 hour, 1 day or 2 weeks. Just depends on the kind of Aqua he is
If he's NOT that into you, he'll either disappear altogether for good OR atleast for long periods of time (and this will become routine). His lack of consistency with you indicates how NOT into you he is