Interesting. I dont think Im a just like me. I only dated 5 guys and im almost 30. And I only slept with those 5 guys. No one night stands.
Good to know. Because I do want him to be happy. He doesnt show emotions to a lot of people and has a habit of pretending to be ok all the time. But i know when he is not because we are too much alike. he did say to me that I am his bestfriend. And honestly, he is mine too. Someone told me to just ignore him and be angry with him but i cant because he was the best man I ever met. Im leaving because this country is not the same without him in my life. I dont want to get back with him though. I just want to move on but i need to make sure he is ok before i go...
Thats great if its just a tantrum. I started worrying im making some people depressed or angry. Im a gem... i lack focus and if i get bored, i disappear. I give 100% but when its over.... its over.
Im a gem. Obviously. This is not the first time ive been associated with aquas. A lot of online stuff says libras, aquas and gems anrr detached. However...

One Libra guy frlt so hurt after i brokeup with him all of a sudden. He ended up rrsigning from after getting depressed for months.

My aqua boss went ballistic after i held hands with him while drunk and avoided him a lot the next. He got angry.

My aqua ex... well after 2.5 months now he is saying he is getting depressed because im leaving.

So now... my question is... how come these air signs feel strong emotions when they are supposed to be detached beings?!
I am really leaving the country. Ive decided and have been online flirting and sexting now. He told me just now that he will die soon and i got scared
Because i am leaving the country. I dont know what to do.
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Posted by Geminiforever23
I actually put that. And also said im not looking for hookups


But why are youthen accepting dick pics and for them to ask for pics of you????? All that says is sex.
You can´t just write it on your profile and then chose to be completely blind of actions such as dick pics. How can that say anything but sex?? THey don´t know you, you don´t know them, you have nothing together. It´s just getting off, sexual pleasure. If you are not looking for that, interact with somebody else.


Im not accepting it. Do you think i know when they will send me a photo of their dick?


No. That´s just how I read your topic: that guys sending you dick pics are the same ones asking for pics of you, which means you keep in contact with them after the dic pick. But good if you don´t, and that´s not what you want.
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I stop talking to them when they send me dick pics its unbelievable how open they are to share the photos of their dicks.
And just texted me that he is in the cab going home. Another wtf. Waaaaaaaaaa why is he telling me these things? I never text him when I'm out!!!!!
.... and he texts me whenever he is out just to say he is not enjoying it. Wtf.
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Posted by Geminiforever23
Its just so difficult to figure guys out....


People are complicated. And if he was easy to figure out... guarantee you'd get bored fast.
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Thats true actually. Oh well. Have to see how this one goes.
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Guys we donlt know what we want, l mean we want sex, but our duty is to settle down, you can be sure that pretty much everyone in the dating game is just looking for sex, but millions of people are getting married every year, cause women are reelin them in and puttin the cuffs on em.


So is there a possibility for "just sex" to mean something more? Of course i havent had sex with this guy yet... i will meet him when i travel to his country. I dont even live where he lives. Lol


Absolutely! That's how most long term relats start! He doesn't know he can have feelings, and want to settle down with you, he just sees sex! But it's not his fault, our impulse is too strong, so just date him for a while, make it a slow burn, and in time he'll develop feelings and you'll be together for a long time.
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Interesting. Well he still texted me today. So i dunno really.... we shall see. With my aqua ex he waited to meet me for 6 months. It also started in online. We dated for 4 years after i moved to Japan.
Its just so difficult to figure guys out....
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Guys we donlt know what we want, l mean we want sex, but our duty is to settle down, you can be sure that pretty much everyone in the dating game is just looking for sex, but millions of people are getting married every year, cause women are reelin them in and puttin the cuffs on em.


So is there a possibility for "just sex" to mean something more? Of course i havent had sex with this guy yet... i will meet him when i travel to his country. I dont even live where he lives. Lol
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If you're looking for a relationship - take things slowly as others suggested - and avoid physical intimacy until you're exclusive.

If we're to take in consideration his first moves - he's thinking with his dick. So, sex is definitely his main interest. Maybe he's infatuated with you - but even so, he seems to be more into you - than you're into him - if for you he's just an option... one of the others.



Im still chatting with other guys actually. Bur he is one who texts me in the morning. Lunch and evening. Started looking for a place for me to stay and basically planning what I should eat in Melbourne. I guess some days I think he is nice except for when he talks abot sex


But... why do you do that?!

Why do you string guys along - if you don't have any serious interest in them (if you don't see in a possibility for something long term)?! I get that he can be nice and he cares more than others - but other than ego-strokes - you don't seem to have any feelings for him (and same goes for others). And yet, you string him along (give him the impression that you might like him too) - so his feelings will keep getting stronger - while for you it's just a game. The game of dating and ego strokes. Are you whiling to brake his heart for a bit of attention?

If you don't see the possibility of something real with him - if you don't feel a strong connection, make your position clear and him loose. Since you're looking, eventually you'll find someone with whom you might that connection and hopefully he feels the same but... that is cruel.

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Not trying to string him along or anything like that.... i'm just not sure what he wants (apart from sex) because of course most guys when they want sex well nothing of the other stuff are included. I am trying to be careful because also i dont want to expect anything if its just a casual thing but i dont want to let go of the good moments either....
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Posted by Geminiforever23
I actually put that. And also said im not looking for hookups


But why are youthen accepting dick pics and for them to ask for pics of you????? All that says is sex.
You can´t just write it on your profile and then chose to be completely blind of actions such as dick pics. How can that say anything but sex?? THey don´t know you, you don´t know them, you have nothing together. It´s just getting off, sexual pleasure. If you are not looking for that, interact with somebody else.
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Im not accepting it. Do you think i know when they will send me a photo of their dick?
Loke he treetrunking love sexting.
Posted by neves
If you're looking for a relationship - take things slowly as others suggested - and avoid physical intimacy until you're exclusive.

If we're to take in consideration his first moves - he's thinking with his dick. So, sex is definitely his main interest. Maybe he's infatuated with you - but even so, he seems to be more into you - than you're into him - if for you he's just an option... one of the others.



Im still chatting with other guys actually. Bur he is one who texts me in the morning. Lunch and evening. Started looking for a place for me to stay and basically planning what I should eat in Melbourne. I guess some days I think he is nice except for when he talks abot sex
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Posted by Geminiforever23
He is taking time off work for 2 days to spend time with me... Thursday, Friday... and then weekend. Holy butter.


Is this your first time together?
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Yes! First time ever.
Im like freaked out about this who gem aqua thing. It always surprises me how things turn out.
He is taking time off work for 2 days to spend time with me... Thursday, Friday... and then weekend. Holy butter.