Posted by blackphase
Posted by 2Moon
Hmmm. I don't know.. I would like to hear it from Geminis..
" What attracted you to your Libra / to a Libra? "

To be honest,
I think its because we are a strong cardinal sign.
We are creative, natural thinkers.. so kind of smart, Venusian sexy, charming and more stuff like that...

@blackphase tell us your secrets..


Hahaha. My Libra is very very intelligent which is important to me. He is also devilishly handsome
We have a lot in common and I think that was the biggest thing for me.. He was a lot like me in many ways and we have a lot of the same interests. Not to mention a connection I never had with anyone else
click to expand

Have you spoke to him lately?

Posted by 2Moon
I have more stuff to say about this pairing... Lol.

I think what scares me is that Geminis are too outgoing and wild! I actually like it, gems are always entertaining and fun, but I want to be able to sit down sometimes and take things slowly..

Feel like my life is under control and organized.
This helps me to stay sane and recharge my batteries..

Gem leeb can only work if gem understands this.
Or if she is already like this.. Not all gems are wild and outgoing I think..

She needs to be more slow and delicate / introverted / relationship oriented.

Another idea is if they are outside of America.
They will have more chances to stick together..

America is not a family- marriage oriented culture. Its based on treetrunkery and individualism... Lol!

My example: if you pick a muslim couple ( gem - Libra ) they are going to work better. Stick together for a long time.. Same for some European countries! India and almost everywhere around the world...

Except America, because murica is " Yolo! Gimmie my French latte, iPod, leggings and let's turn the treetrunk up! My p*ssy my rules, treetrunk yo feelings modatreetrunka! "

You get the picture ... LMAO!

That's too much for this Libra..


Education-Culture of the Libra man and Gemini woman plays a big role with this pairing.
My Taurus never needs space? She is always there when I need her; she can literally talk to a love interest for hours a day everyday without needing a break? WTF? Taurus do you need your space or ignore your needs when others need you?
Posted by blackphase
Got your eye on a Gem huh?


I just answered your private message; I never received a notification.

Tell me the inside secrets... I already know there are many Gemini and Libras that don't like each other, but I want to know from your perspective when it does work, what attracts Gemini to Libra.

6 days
I am well aware of the fact that many Gemini-Libra relationships don't work, but for the few that do, what did the Gemini like about the Libra?

I know what the Libra loves about the Gemini, the internet, interestingly enough, is full of just the Libra's perspective. So Libra, what do think attracts Gemini to Libras?
I AM WELL AWARE THAT MANY GEMINI AND LIBRA RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT WORK, there are threads and threads where Gemini and Libra explain their horror stories, that's old, and I already know.

What I hope to learn is when it does work, why does it work?

I met one Gemini in love with a Libra and she couldn't explain why she loved him.

Gemini, in your observation, or experience, or analysis, when a Gemini does fall in love with a Libra, what have you observed are the characteristics that the Gemini likes about the Libra?

Many astrology reports fail to explain specifically in terms that another air sign can concretely understand in language that is cohesive and coherent. What exactly Gemini loves about Libra..

I read things like... both signs like to communicate, both signs like freedom. But this is generic.
Let me Give you example What Libra likes in Gemini; talkative nature, style , way with words, wit, charm, liveliness..

Can you explain what exactly is pulling or attracting the Gemini to the Libra?
Sometimes I really understand and comprehend things after a Gemini breaks it down.
Posted by Sanchez
And stop overcomplicating life. Sheesh!


So stop dealing with us and treetrunk off. You won't be missed.

Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi Chuckcem, Thank you got you for you response... You're right, he did sense a form of manipulation from me because he called me Manipulative! Yikes... I don't think I am though - I just think my straight forwardness by being a Virgo is something he couldn't handle... Then at the sametime when I noticed I was quick at the tongue, I soon regret it and then try to soften the conversation. I think that's where he misread me and my intentions. Anyways, his fiery Dragon side came out and he promptly told me not to text him anymore. I feel bad because I really liked the man. Blah, on to the next!


A Libra has a one in three chance of having a Venus in Virgo... also as a Libra man a Virgo caught me from being my friend. She became my indispensable friend who I couldn't function without. Virgos genuinely can offer a genuine friendship. It catches the Libra by surprise, and when a Virgo leaves a Libra it's a pain that is remembered for a very long time.
In my experience Gemini takes time to open up. At first they are so carefree and independent and carefree, then out of nowhere, they can become extremely possessive and extremely jealous.
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by halalbabe
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Not sure. I know I can't date another air sign.


hmm why, way too similar?


Yes. Not enough challenge and too much air. I'd be afraid they'd cheat on me.
click to expand


I feel like Gemini is too much of a challenge and I'd be afraid the Gemini will cheat.
Posted by blackphase
.... No it doesn't. Love hate describes it well.


What do you like about the relationship?

Posted by coffeetime
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by coffeetime
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
I might be in a "relationship" with them, atleast that's what they think.
In my mind I'm there just to help out.
Once I help out and everything's good : Hello drama when it's time for me to leave.


So in your opinion, it's more one-sided, with only the other person who sees the relationship as one. But you're just trying to fix them with one for out the door once they're "better functioning"?

"Hello drama when it's time for me to leave," sounds like creating pointless drama because the person can't break up with the other respectfully.


Now you're getting it *thumbs up*.


Ou. So it's best to see some Virgos in relationships as mechanics helping you get back on track, but not ones who desire love and lifetime companionship. Relationships with them should not be expected to last.

Sounds like they need a warning label that reads, "Temporary. Don't get too comfortable and attached."
click to expand


Right.

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by coffeetime
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
I might be in a "relationship" with them, atleast that's what they think.
In my mind I'm there just to help out.
Once I help out and everything's good : Hello drama when it's time for me to leave.


So in your opinion, it's more one-sided, with only the other person who sees the relationship as one. But you're just trying to fix them with one for out the door once they're "better functioning"?

"Hello drama when it's time for me to leave," sounds like creating pointless drama because the person can't break up with the other respectfully.


Now you're getting it *thumbs up*.
click to expand
So what if you found a woman with many emotional problems and needed your service and help? What if she never got better? I thought Taurus women were strong are they a mess?

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by coffeetime
What happens when that person you chose doesn't need you anymore? Do you become attracted and move on to someone else who does?


Try to help in anyway possible, doesn't necessarily mean they don't need your comfort, health habits, and love after they stop being crippled. a virgo will try to continue to stay with the person


It's the wheelchair, friend, that I really love.
Not the girl that wants me..



Then just date a wheelchair ?



I can't right now..
Dating a Taurus girl atm.
click to expand
LOL!

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by coffeetime
What happens when that person you chose doesn't need you anymore? Do you become attracted and move on to someone else who does?


Try to help in anyway possible, doesn't necessarily mean they don't need your comfort, health habits, and love after they stop being crippled. a virgo will try to continue to stay with the person


It's the wheelchair, friend, that I really love.
Not the girl that wants me..



Then just date a wheelchair ?



I can't right now..
Dating a Taurus girl atm.
click to expand
LOL!

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by coffeetime
What happens when that person you chose doesn't need you anymore? Do you become attracted and move on to someone else who does?


Try to help in anyway possible, doesn't necessarily mean they don't need your comfort, health habits, and love after they stop being crippled. a virgo will try to continue to stay with the person


It's the wheelchair, friend, that I really love.
Not the girl that wants me..


So do you love the Taurus or does she need help?

Then just date a wheelchair ?



I can't right now..
Dating a Taurus girl atm.
click to expand


Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by coffeetime
What happens when that person you chose doesn't need you anymore? Do you become attracted and move on to someone else who does?


Try to help in anyway possible, doesn't necessarily mean they don't need your comfort, health habits, and love after they stop being crippled. a virgo will try to continue to stay with the person


It's the wheelchair, friend, that I really love.
Not the girl that wants me..



Then just date a wheelchair ?

click to expand


LOL!

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
I'd prolly pick someone that needs me than someone that I love..
Can't do anything about it.


What attracts you to the weak cripples that need your help? Does it feel like a compulsion to help that you can not control?