this is true. Its crazy how they're back and forth. I dont think he wanted me to pick up the shoes.. I try not to play games.. it just seems like thats what he wants from me? I just got out of a 4 yr relationship with a CAppy. It was great.. I just moved away. Maybe thats why he is afraid? He thinks Im not ready? I dont know.
I am 19. This is true, I am fighthing rejection. Yesterday I asked him y he hadnt made a move. Hes like.. I never stopped you* FROM making a move. And Im like .. thats bcuz I never tried. So anyway, I went to his house and we were on his bed watching TV. I went in for the kiss bcuz he shut the TV off and we were just laying in silence.. and then half way to his lips I gave OUT! So I kissed his neck instead.. lol. And then he faced me and I turned the other way. He could have met me half way at leasttt. But no, so than we got into a little fight about something and I walked out and left. Then He txt me calling me a sap. Im like why am I a sap? And hes like.. I thought you were goin to kiss me .. I waited and then you didnt. Im like, you cant always get what you want. Sometimes you have to meet half way. Its like he wants me to take the 1st move, I could.. but its diff with this guy. Im way too shy.
I think by following your gut .. you did the rght thing! He obviously wants to stay on good terms with you yet doesnt see the emotional mess he has caused you? Perhaps you should be a friend and help him through his through times.. but nothing more than that. You couldnt handle being around him today .. which is good that you left bcuz you might have gotten angry with him and let it out.. so wait until you are ready to be his friend and let him know that.. "no hard feelings"
shoot. Thats a bummer. Well I would have to say.. drop him. He's obviously caught up in the game. Its not fair to you.. and he knows that. Tell him you would rather he just gave you space and cut down on talking to you for now. Than in the future you guys can be friends again and closer.. but right now with you in the pic it makes his head blow up. Cuz he prolly really likes you but doesnt want to give up on a 3yr relationship. The caps dont like to think they're wasting time or have wasted time. Sooner or later he will learn his loss. DUMP HIM! And as for the libra .. keep him around for comfort as long as you can.. tell him you dont love him.. and then hang out with him.. as a friend... he should just bounce back where you guys left off. If you want this cappy though.. stay single for awhile but have admirers.. let him know your wanted but you are not concerned.
he is 23. But he wanted 2 be with me.. and Im all about space.. so I didnt call him all the time. Then when we started to txt all the time its like he withdrew? Idk.. Now hes like oh.. kissing wont change anything. Wont mean we r together.. we r just talking* Than as soon as other guys talk 2 me.. he finds out some how?? And than we argue about our status. Its like he wont let go .. but he wont hold on either. Im pretty laid back.. Im not gonna try and be with him. I have other things going 4 me right now and if things work out, then they do. I just dont understand why when I dont text him.. he blows up my phone? Than he wants me to sleep over his house.. and he doesnt make any moves.. its really a SLEEP and then OVER! lol..