Posted by Waterworks24_
I'm a pisces..
I met a Scorpio man online.
He was seemingly "taken", with me, the minute that we started to message.
He went on and on, about how he thinks we're meant to be, that I'm so gorgeous, that I have his head in the clouds, and he can't wait to meet me, etc..
He hopped on a train, the very next day, and came to see me.
He took me to a movie, and he was very attentive- practically wrapped around my torso, all night.
I live at a shelter...he knew this..He then purposefully missed his train, home, and slept outside, so that he could see me the next morning. I was unsure, of how to feel, about it all., But, I eventually elected, to find it endearing, and, I brought him breakfast.
He kept pressuring me, to kiss him, and be more physical. I explained that I really like him, but, that, for now, I want to keep it where it's at (cuddling, and kissing on the cheek) and that it's nothing to do with him- that I have been very hurt, by men, in the past, and that being physical, too soon, has proved to bring nothing but heart ache, because, I end up attached, and they don't.
He continued to try and kiss me on the lips, and told me that I "don't like him", when I stood my ground.
He went home, and, I noticed him coming off- he no longer complimented me, we no longer talked about any of the deeper things, that we were, before, and, when I would compliment him, or tell him, how great I think he is, he would retort, with, "yeah, but, not enough to provide me with a release". I would reiterate, why, that is. I finally told him, that I was hoping to break the sexual barrier, on Halloween night, because I thought that it would be romantic, and it gave us a few weeks, to get to know each other, better. He said that it hurts his ego, but, that he'll wait.
He got even colder, and would blatantly ignore me.. I pointed out, that he seemed distant. He would say everything is good, and continue to pull away. We barely talked. Fast forward, to about a week later, and I finally lost my cool, and flat out told him, that I didn't appreciate the games, and he ignored all of my attempts to conversate with him for about 4 days. The other night, I messaged him, apologizing, as if I had treetrunked up, and telling him, that I really do care for him, and that I don't want to miss out, on having something with him (I've never dated a Scorpio, and we really did click) and he finally answered my text. His response was hostile, and he was bashing my decision to take things slow, physically, saying that I'm "so treetrunking dramatic", that I should chill the treetrunk out, and all of this other stuff. I finally caved, and said, " Okay... I'm sorry, that I didn't want to have sex right away, and get attached... Jesus. I'll treetrunk you. I just have a lot of respect for you, and our relation, I wanted it all to be special, for us both..

Sex is cheap these days.".
I reiterated, that I'm trying to protect my heart, because I always end up hurt. He texted back, telling me to "never treetrunking compare him, to any other dudes, or what happened with them, because no one compares, to him.... I apologized, and continued to plead for his forgiveness.
He continued to bash me, and finally, I told him, that the conversation was becoming counterproductive, and asked him, "do you want to date me, or not?". He said, "maybe".
I asked him, what he wanted (pics? videos?) He said both, so, I gave in, and sent him some. He became pretty excited, and even went so far, as to tell me, to get on a train, and come see him (He knew, that I couldn't) and he said, that our "long distance relationship, wasn't fair", because, he "wanted me, now".
Well, last night, we started talking about having sex, and he mentioned, that everyone he's ever slept with, has said that he's a "beast, in bed". I messaged him, back, and simply said, that I'd rather not hear, about what other girls have said about him, regarding sex. He replied with, "I do, what I do", and, now, he's ignoring me.
I sent him this text, this morning: "I'm sorry, if my request seemed a bit daunting, to you, last night; I suppose, that I thought, that it kind of goes without saying, that ladies don't usually like hearing about other women, when they're with someone...
I told you beforehand, that I have the tendency, to be, at times, possessive; i guess you disbelieved, me.
It's no lie; I want you, all to myself... My bad๐Ÿ˜
If you want to call this a relationship (long distance, or otherwise) the respect needs to be mutual.
You have your demands/expectations (such as, you demanding/expecting, that I don't compare you to anyone, else) and I work to correct it. I made no demand, I simply told you, that I didn't like something, and, you basically told me, that "it is, what, it is"; I don't feel it's fair.
Anyways, I really hope, that we can talk about this, like adults, and work this out. No drama, just reaching a mutual understanding.". He's still ignoring me, so, I dropped it.
My question, is, quite literally, what, the hell?!


do u still want to be with him
what the hell is going on?

amsterdam, noord-holland, netherlands
Posted by GeminiGirl052388
Posted by halalbae
Posted by GeminiGirl052388
Posted by halalbae
those messages were too needy. never let someone else make decisions for you


It was me telling him i dont want to waste my time. I hate wasting my time because I can never take it back anymore. Sad but true


youre letting him decide whether hes going to waste your time or not. dont! you showed your vulnerable side and he left you hanging. now get your own center and self respect back.

the way you treat yourself is how others(he) will treat you. allow your heart to be full again


I didnt text him all day yesterday already. That was a warning. None again today so I thought might as well end the agony. In my heart I wasnt asking him to decide. I was telling him not to waste my time. He knows I can walk away. I did to my ex who I was seeing for 4 years. Because I felt it was a waste of time.
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i get it, but thats the probelm with us geminis... unless we are VERY upset, we can hardly ignore our partner for a long period of time. to the wrong person it will look needy.

just saying that some people need to be ignored to pull them down from their imaginary throne
Posted by melancholia
It would actually be the sad spinsters with absurd and unrealistic expectations of men that end up single and alone.

Exhibit A : DXP


LOL
virgo moon is worse = self sabotaging
Posted by GeminiGirl052388
Posted by halalbae
those messages were too needy. never let someone else make decisions for you


It was me telling him i dont want to waste my time. I hate wasting my time because I can never take it back anymore. Sad but true
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youre letting him decide whether hes going to waste your time or not. dont! you showed your vulnerable side and he left you hanging. now get your own center and self respect back.

the way you treat yourself is how others(he) will treat you. allow your heart to be full again
those messages were too needy. never let someone else make decisions for you
this is why geminis dont get along with you lmao
Posted by lisabethur8
i can tell with those two aqua suns,they love their husbands and they are gonna be with them FOREVER..till the end until they both die and or one of them dies first in old age...they are that type... i can tell.

they aren't in hollywood baloney too. lol people who get away from hollywood influence remain good and away from the immoral stuff. like taking drugs and divorcing all the time going from spouse to spouse like a dysfunctional individual who can't hang.



their love story is really cute altho they met in a club... the cute part is, he didnt know she is a topmodel and didnt chase her too hard, which is very unlike aries and she stares him down all night, doing the chasing in that way

weird thing is he seems braindead and loves luxury while shes very intelligent, down to earth and always had a primitive life style . they probably balance each other out
i dont know. same happened to me. he randomly emails me, title "sorry": be available on october 21st, ive got a surprise for you. i just laughed at it and deleted the email
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
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Careless at 24 tho? She told me guys show no respect to her and now I see why


Hmmmm just leave it alone. You're already disrespecting her and she seems flaky

Not a good match
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lolll shut up hes been nothing but respectful towards her, shes just not interested in him and going by his picture... he's not a stereotypical cancer woman's type, he looks too feminine and personality wise never puts his foot down so yeah deal breaker
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Posted by halalbae
Favorite non compatible moon sign: Leo
Favorite compatible: Scorpio


What's your moon sign?
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Virgo ๐Ÿ”ฅ
Favorite non compatible moon sign: Leo
Favorite compatible: Scorpio
Between Gemini and Capricorn, you have 2 signs that are smart and love to banter back and forth. They can talk about serious subjects in great depth together and both are lustful. Problems only arise when the Cap treats the Gemini less than and ridicules everything the Gemini stands for. Or when the Gemini isnt ready to commit fast... orrrrr... when the Caps habit of favoritism rears its head.

Caps usually take their time to open up, but with Gemini they move fast. (usually because of unhealthy reasons like trust issues)
They come on too strong, are stubborn and delusional
Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by halalbae
Gemitati, how did you meet your Capricorn?


Which one? Lol


The one you married


He is related to someone I worked with.
So she introduced us. He was divorced I was single. Why?
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Just curious. What went wrong?
Posted by Gemitati
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Gemitati, how did you meet your Capricorn?


Which one? Lol
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The one you married
I cant believe Im going to say this but his chart is ๐Ÿ˜
Gemitati, how did you meet your Capricorn?
Yep but a Taurus' true match is Pisces, other mutables and fellow Taurus. They dont like cardinal energies that much unless the Taurus has a lot mutable placements in their chart.