Sun Libra 12th. Moon Gemini 8th. Mercury Libra 12th. Venus/Mars Virgo 11th. Asc Libra.

I'm interested in the question that the title represents.

How does a Virgo actually reject someone else?
Posted by aquanib
Posted by heliumfiasco


I've kind of always been under the belief set that a man will make time to go out again no matter what, if he likes you.


DXP propaganda.

But really, if he just started anew, how would it look that he was for example the only guy not clocking overtime? As the new guy....

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Very true! Which is why I wondered how a Virgo would prioritize ya know?
Posted by Earthgoddess
I usually dnt like to seem too interested so i tend to make myself "available" so i can be asked out.

Idk if thats wat hes doing but it does sound like hes making sure u know when hes close by.

If u take to long to make a direct mpve he might take that as disinterest and move on.

Ask him out!!!! Subtley

Like a random "hey wyd wanna catch this movie with me"
That way its no pressure to acknowledge the attraction. Now he declines a invite more than twice. Now on




He did text me first every single day. Ask me out, etc. I just didn't want to come off as aggressive or needy. Yesterday was the first day we didnt speak since we met. It was after me not going to the tattoo shop. Im not sure the deal. I dont know if im overthinking it, but I have felt a switch in energy.

I'm playing it very cool. I just come here to bounce ideas with strangers you dont want to bother friends with ya know? haha. And I appreciate the experience other have had.
Posted by P-Angel

heliumfiasco sounds thirsty as treetrunk .... why don't you just send him a pic of your kitty lips and get it over with




No one else on this site really gets under my skin. However, you are rude to literally everyone on here for no seemingly obviously reason. For someone that has such an inflated sense of mental superiority, you carry yourself really poorly. You're quite miserable. I hope at 48 you find something other than belittling strangers on an internet forum to bring you happiness. I genuinely mean that.
So, the Virgo man told a mutual friend and I both, that he'd like to go out again. He did tell us both as well that he is very busy right now. He started a new job and they have lots of overtime.

I've kind of always been under the belief set that a man will make time to go out again no matter what, if he likes you. So, im kind of assuming hes not exactly interested in anything too serious right now.

He did a weird thing this week too. He had told me prior that he'd be in my town getting tattooed on Weds. Then that day he didn't mention it. And was down here with two friends. He found out myself and our mutual friend were down the street and only seemed interested to hang once he found that out. So I declined to go over to the tattoo shop.

I feel kind of confused because he was coming on pretty strong and now I cant tell if we're just friends or what. Its turned more cordial than flirtatious.

I'm not super invested either way just curious, if the whole "work" thing is really just. "Im not really interested."
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Posted by heliumfiasco
Should you let a virgo man lead?


wheres his moon?
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Virgo.
Should you let a virgo man lead?
Posted by Chuckcem
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Posted by Ellygant
Seems like fun to me lol. How was it a disaster?

Him wanting you to meet his friends seems like a good sign not a bad. Why did it weird you out?


I'm just highly critical of any dating experience. I felt like it was a bad impression on my part. Overthinking as always.

He twice asked if id meet his female friend Jacky that day on two separate occasions that day. (we hung out from 1pm to 1 am) I have lots of male friends and If I do that I want their opinions. Dates are weird enough, I dont want to feel even more examined. Ya know?


Oddly enough....he just text me.

Hes also Virgo_Libra cusp? That make a huge difference in personality?


Well aside from him having you meet his friends and getting drunk on the first date (btw, Virgos can be some serious drinkers, hence why I love them) sounds like nothing was wrong.

Both Virgos and Libras have this idea of impressing the other, but in different ways. Virgos are looking for someone who perfectly matches and accepts their quirks. I can't tell you how many times I met a Virgo for the first time over drinks or while they were wasted...or while explosions were happening...(the answer is every Virgo I know).

Libra on the other hand is all about charm, grace and setting the perfect first impression. You're worried how you look and how the situation looks. You're that he's worried and he's probably worried that you're worried. Virgos also need to see how you interact with their friends, so it's impressive you actually got him to go on a date in the first place without taking that awkwardly confusing friendship step first. Granted he still used his friends as a crutch, but it's BECAUSE he was trying to make a good impression by showing off his "network".

My advice would be to go out with him again, but to keep the date just the two of you. Still go and have fun, but try to maintain your faculties this time. It's not a bad thing to know that you two can get LIT though and nothing bad happens.

Devil's advocate: I'm a Virgo Moon and on my first date with a Libra, we both got drunk. She'd also met my friends well before our first date...soooooo...It happens.
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Funny you should mention this weird friend phase thing. He texts me everyday but I cannot tell if he now wants to be friends or what. Ill even try to throw some flirtation out there and its returned with a polite and neutral response. Like it will be vague. I cant explain it! I'm also not texting him first at all. Letting him take the complete lead. Is that smart?

He specifically asked me out on a date the first time, in such a gentleman and straight forward manner.
Posted by Ellygant
Seems like fun to me lol. How was it a disaster?

Him wanting you to meet his friends seems like a good sign not a bad. Why did it weird you out?


I'm just highly critical of any dating experience. I felt like it was a bad impression on my part. Overthinking as always.

He twice asked if id meet his female friend Jacky that day on two separate occasions that day. (we hung out from 1pm to 1 am) I have lots of male friends and If I do that I want their opinions. Dates are weird enough, I dont want to feel even more examined. Ya know?


Oddly enough....he just text me.

Hes also Virgo_Libra cusp? That make a huge difference in personality?
Posted by Already-use
ahha - 1 rule .. Know how to hold your liquor ! Especially on the first date ! The guy could have been a killer or something . Just get 1 or 2 or top 3 drinks just to get you in the mood . But getting butterface drunk naah , not cute , probably think that you are both alcoholic and can't have fun without liquor ^^.

Anyway on a more serious note if he wants to see you again go for it but your story is rather funny .
TBH I feel that virgo men are quite different from us female - they don't seem to be that complicated ^^




haha we will see. To be fair, neither us did anything too stupid. We were both just LIT! Like really LIT. We were dancing and having fun but it wasnt the best situation to get to know someone.We were talking EVERYDAY. Yesterday was brief and so far today nothing. Not too serious.... but I feel bad it went down like that.
Posted by Nathan912
Knew it. Any date with a Libra Woman is gonna be disaster.


Why do you say that?! We got along well! lol
Shakes head... I had such high expectations. LOL (dying laughin.)
Oh my.

So, it started GREAT! Great conversation, great food, nice flirtation.... then ALL the tequila. He took me to his friends house, we drank beers on his porch. IDK what the hell came over us to both get DRUNK AF on our first "serious" date. I dont think we will be going out again. What a way to go out in a blaze of glory!!!! Im kind of bummed. Neither of us has really talked much today. Although yesterday he said hed want to hangout again, only sober. I think we both felt bad about how it went down. He kept trying to take me to hangout with all his different friends around the city. That seems weird on a date. But he was a gentleman despite us being LIT hahaha. Just thought id share.

Ya girl is NOT okay. I'm aware.
You all stay hating. Jesus. I thought this was supposed to be a light hearted place. Im merely curious about a mans sign and get along well with him. I'm 31 years old, single...I am not marrying him. Calm the treetrunk down! God forbid im excited about getting to know someone or date them casually.

To everyone with solid advice about this sign. Thanks!
Posted by P-Angel

You hang with a person one time and already using the term, "dating" ??


wow .... sounds like you're probably the type to overkill



I never said I was dating him, so lets clear that up. However we will be going on a date and are talking. I said "dating is such a let down"... the treetrunk are you talking about?
OOOFFFF... nothing good coming out of here today. haha
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Posted by heliumfiasco
So, I ended up hanging with the Virgo Thursday. Ever since he has been texting me all day. Talking to me about DEEP stuff. He is soooo intelligent. Very attentive. Polite. A total gentleman. It seems to go to be true...Charming AF. Are Virgos players? Are they honest? What should I expect. Im trying to not get super excited because dating is such a let down...but i feel so secure and at ease.

Any advice on these folks?

Virgo Sun
Virgo Moon
Libra Merc
Libra Venus
Virgo Mars.


With your placements u get bored soon frim him😃
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Too similar?
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Posted by heliumfiasco
Posted by Tom_Sawyer
Soon the fun will really begin.


haha. What fun is that?!


Oh nothing.
Don't worry about it, pretty Libra.
Everything's good👌
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hahaha. Its going to get awful?! I'm just going with the flow. Never dated a Virgo. No expectations.