Posted by malloryor Can we be honest about it too? I know Leos love to pretend like they never get bothered, but let’s be real...I know there’s at least that ONE time someone said something, or did something that really messed with your pride or bruised your ego. So what was it? What did they say?
My ex was a Leo - from what he told me, he hated being betrayed by his friends - people he thought he was close to, only to realize they were using him for certain things. Also not being taken seriously, repeated failures in work or when things didn't go his way. He was also used to having the spotlight all of the time in sports - but when he changed soccer leagues for example, he found that he wasn't accepted on the team as much as the first, and his teammates didn't treat him well. I often used to tell him that they didn't deserve him and that his talent should be put somewhere he was truly appreciated and respected. I knew he was upset about it though, more than he would show.
In all my past experience - Leo men are sensitive, and deep down they care a lot more than they sometimes show about many things. As a Scorp - I think that's why I'm so drawn to them.
Dealing with one, and any time I try to stand up for myself, they lash out and jump down my throat and flip it around and chastise me.
They are extremely manipulative and like to gaslight. Is this a front for those sensitivities? I’ll be honest, I think they’re a stone cold narcissists. If not, they just live up to the cliche stereotype of leos, they’re so arrogant, no one can ever be wrong. This guy has done some horrible things to me, I’ve watched him treat others in a less than considerate way. Today, he twisted it around and told me “he was the victim, and that I’m always trying to make him feel like a sh**y person.” I told him—you feel like a butterty person, because you are a butterty person. Your guilt has nothing to do with me.
If he’s not flying off in sheer rage and defense, he likes to play aloof. I had surgery a few weeks ago—hence why I was so active on DXP—when I returned to work, he literally asked me if I were on vacation.
Like he really expected me to buy, that he had no idea I was away on medical leave—even though his exact words “oh right, you had that uhhh tumor thing right? How’d that go!?”
I know I shouldn’t, I was doing so well paying him dirt. Not giving him any of my energy or time, focusing on myself and my work. But that sent me over, because it was like “wow, what butterty person pretends they don’t know someone—who they know had a tumor—had surgery!? Like who the hell does that!?”
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Well Jesus girl, for him to act so aloof about a surgery and a tumor is not ok no matter what his reasoning is. I hope you're doing better and recovering. Any person with any sign that reacts that way when things are difficult is not worth your time or effort.
It sucks,lol. I don't have casts, I have these things on both my arms that are like slings kindof that go on and off with velcro. The Doctor I saw said I would find out from the Orthopedic if I need casts. I hope not 😔
Yeah I don't know why she couldn' tell,then told me the radiologist would look at it within 3 hours, but they never called me. I'm going to the Orthopedic Surgeon in the morning with the x-rayson a disc though so I'll find out more tomorrow. I slept most Read more
To be honest no, we aren't that close anymore. I just feel like it was partially my fault, and I really really hate confrontation and just don't want to ever speak to her again. That probably isn't the right way to handle it, and my siblings and Mom are a Read more
That was the first time I was at her house and met her dogs so I don't know how they normally are. I didn't reach out to her at all today. I think it was more so that I was in the dogs personal space. Possibly. It was like petting a dog and they're all fr Read more
I got bit by a dog last night and both of my wrists are broken from falling back 😥 Well the right one for sure, left one is pissiboe,possible, couldn't fully tell. I am so annoyed and upset that even happened. I just started my new job and I can't do anyt Read more
Posted by blackphvse @ _elle_ : "If we can't speak to it then it's none of our business, right? Who are any of us to tell someone else what their level of tolerance is on bullying?
This is between OP and Duncan. I didn't get the email to be on his jury. Did you?"
Did you read the context of the conversation? I was just agreeing with another user. I didn't bring it up or try to make it anyones business.
But yeah, we all got the invite when she decided to make a thread instead of keeping it between Duncan and herself.. She brought everyone into it. And I didn't come here to white knight anyone, you saw my posts. I tried to rationalize the situation with her. But if you just wanna ignore all that because you're put off that I've never noticed behaviour by someone you're clearly not fond of, so be it.
Lol well if you didn't already know it, now you know why I said what I said. She's an asskissing minion. Always buddied up to the predators because she has no personality or independent thought of her own, so parroting them was always her only talent.
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She reached out to me in a time of need the same way you did. I don't know whats going on with bmoon and Jumping Jupiter, but I can assure you Elle is a good person. And I see the good in you as well.
I got my first one of Moderna on the 1st. The way you described your hubby's arm is exactly how it felt. I was describing it to other people that day like I got hit with a fast ball or punched in the arm really hard.
The pain from soreness/stiffness would wake me up as soon as the Tylenol would wear off. I slept for about a day and a half straight. I didn't have a fever, just no energy at all and felt exhausted.
Posted by Sailor_Mars It's contradictory that Scorpio m/f expect total loyalty and commitment from their partners while they have no problem with pursuing their other love interests whenever they feel passionate about it. They also want total honesty while being manipulative and secretive themselves.
Virgos love to criticise, but Heaven forbid You give a remark to them. They can't accept it and become defensive. Also for a perfectionist, they can be messy, scattered all around the place and unable to see the big picture.
Ah I have to agree somewhat. My Scorpio ex husband was like that. He was a pathological liar and had a do as I say not as I do attitude. I can't blame the whole sun sign for him though.
The females I know don't act like that, or one of my best friends from high school whose a Scorpio male.
Libra women says they get bored so quickly in relationships then why tf so many of u keep dating Taurus and Capricorn men?
If Gemini men valued their freedom so much, why you still keep giving those psychotic, controlling Scorpio ass chances?
Sag women says they doesn't like cry babies, weak ass men, so please explain why they couldn't live without Cancer men?
We all know Capricorn men prefer feminine, sensitive woman above anything else, then why many of them are/have been involved with Aries women?
As soon as I read the title I knew you were going to mention Libras and Geminis sir, lol.
From my experience with Libras, whom I have always loved as friends and gotten along well with, they don't get bored easily. They get "bored"if the person they're dating or there S/O isn't right for them and doesn't fulfill what they need. As they should.
Met some unvolved Libras back in my tinder phase a few years ago. Three of them I think. They were all unevolved or possibly confused, and didn't seem to know what they wanted. So maybe the boredom comes from confusion and restlessness.
I think that's a big part of it, for Gemini as well. If you don't know for sure what you want, you'll get bored or feel the need to move on very easily as an Air sign. I find other fellow Gems to be very blunt and straightforward about what they want. And I see the same in Leebs as well.
Caps can be boring, but I never minded that when I was with one for a few years. I actually like stability and routines. I don't know if that makes me a boring Gem, but I'm good with a simple happy life. Might be my Taurus Mars and Venus.
Ok so to answer your question 😂
I find Aries to be contradictory possibly because of how impulsive they are. I feel like my Aries sons are so similar yet different. But oh so similar. They want something so badly one day, it almost consumes them, they might spend money on this crazy idea they have, not listen to anyone's advice or thoughts, then a few days later they come back to Earth and feel like they should've thought it through. It happens a lot, lol. They're good people though.
I don't want to see my sons use that same logic in relationships ever, like they do when they come up with a new idea, act on it, regret what they did and then move onto the next fabulous idea they come up with, lol.
Not sure if that's contradicting, or just questionable impulsiveness.
I was going to contribute and genuinely felt bothered that you're flying to see this guy and spending money to be used. I didn't even make it past the first page before seeing how you have some great advice given already. Please take it @OP
Posted by Dilemma99 So this guy (30/m) I’m (22/f) seeing just broke up with his ex recently. He wanted to marry her but it didn’t work out. He met me, we hooked up, and spent a week together when I flew out to see him. 2 days later he sends me a text saying he’s working things out with his ex, that we’re just friends, and to take this picture I had added on social media down (from the week we spent together), then he unfollowed me and I saw that he added his ex back. Fast forward 2 weeks later he added me back on social media and saw that he and the ex unfollowed each other. He told me that broke up again the night before. Anyways, I flew back out to see him 3 weeks after they broke up again
....So my question is, has this Leo man developed feelings for me/like me? I just don’t think a Leo man will spend days with you (I’m out here for a week) and have you meet his friends unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex.
Did you even read what you just wrote before hitting "post message"?
To summarize, because the rest is really just filler to make this scenario sound nicer than it actually is: This man, who is in love with another woman... - picks you up, just to put you back on the shelf where he thinks you belong, picks you up again---all on your dime (because you're the one flying out to see him, not the other way around) - tells you to take down a photo of the two of you spending time together (basically saying "I don't want there to be any evidence I spent time with you") - suggest you stay friends and promotes the idea that you meet other men...
And you think because he let you tag along with the homies one day, that this means more?
He is sending you a very clear message that you're not quite following. Both through his actions and his words. All that stuff your cousin told you/sent in screenshots, is just noise to cloud the very simple fact that if he wanted to be with you, there wouldn't be much confusion on your part. I am not sure how someone (especially a fixed sign at that) that is hoping, begging and pleading with another woman to stay with him can genuinely have feelings for anyone else within weeks of his relationship ending.
No, I don't think this is just about sex. It's about the fact that he thinks you're disposable and convenient.
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I've wondered myself why some folks seem to feel like meeting close friends is a major turning point in a relationship. That it means they must have true feelings otherwise they wouldn't have brought them around to meet the close friends.
For some people it is a big deal, but for so many, it means almost nothing.