@rockyroadicecream Thank you for the very detailed reply. My fav part is the last paragraph , it really made me laugh cuz it's so true. Truth is he's just a foreigner who only stays in my city for a few month, he's gonna go back to his country soon. We never talked like FWB is what we are having, in fact we never talked abt what we are doing, we always lost in the good moments. We're so alike except I have those feelings for him, which he seems not have. He has most of typical libra traits ( bad ones ) like unreliable, indecisive, shallow, he's 33 and does not wanna settle down yet, hot and cold and many more and obviously it would be horrible for a serious relationship.
@lblibra and everevolvingepithet, I agree, he must be closed off intentionally, the thing is he's leaving soon and dunno when he ll be back, and we dont really have any future unless I follow where he goes, so why bother being in a serious relationship and make things hard ? Thats what he must be thinking, but I also think he's not taking effort in it cuz he does not love me yet, I've been doing everything I can to make him fall in love with me, I'm not faking anything, I'm sure that I'm naturally sweet, classy, sociable, fun, adventurous, talkative and I have not made any wrong moves yet, but things are not changing so ... it's hopeless cuz it's not meant to happen. The only answer is like just take it as it is or leave it all.