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Ilovemyaqua

Ilovemyaqua
joined May 14, 2014
Sun: Taurus 29.03
Moon: Virgo 21.43
Mercury: Gemini 18.59
Venus: Gemini 29.05
Mars: Aries 27.15
Ascendant: Leo
Midheaven: Gemini 05.31
Earth: 28.9%
Air: 27.4%
Water: 25.1%
Fire: 18.5%
Ruling Planet: Mercury 19.3% Ruling Sign: Gemini 20.1%
  • He seems to be a control freak. Sometimes, people think they love you when in reality they're just being toxic to themselves and their partners.
    Its your call. IMO, you should break up with him but be cautious on how you break up, for all I know, breaking up with him with him will bring a lot of drama. Be ready to handle all of that(atleast its better than putting up with all this throughout).
    Break free before you lose yourself. And it will help him find himself and his peace. He's not at peace, at all.
  • Posted by Lioness18881
    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    Posted by Trust_Issues
    my issue is that i do not like the instability of breaking up every week

    but she is really nice and has thigh gap

    her issue with me is

    she doesn’t trust me

    and she wants to build herself

    whatever that means


    Oh God! Are all Leos same?! My ex said the exact same thing to me too while breaking up the first time. Those are their insecurities. Mine expected more and thought I was giving less. Could be other reasons too but those were my 2 cents.

    And really, every once in a while I come across a Leo post, it's the same that happened at some point in my relationship, lol. Like seriously, are they all moulded the same way, lol.



    Yes. We can commit to being exclusive in a day, but real forever commitment where we give our whole heart is scary so we don't do that for ages. Normal people hide their insecurities. Not us. We treetrunking tell you because we're too damn honest about the dumb butter to keep it to ourselves. You shouldn't listen to what we say and just focus on our behaviour. If we still want to see you all the time, we like you. If not, we don't.
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    Yeah but these insecurities more or less stem from nothing, atleast this was what it was with my ex. I was loyal to him always, even during the 4 years of courtship, yeah 4 damn years! He doubted my intentions, loyalty, etc. That funny part? After all the baseless doubts, HE left ME for someone. Lol. I should've been doubting.

  • Posted by Trust_Issues
    my issue is that i do not like the instability of breaking up every week

    but she is really nice and has thigh gap

    her issue with me is

    she doesn’t trust me

    and she wants to build herself

    whatever that means


    Oh God! Are all Leos same?! My ex said the exact same thing to me too while breaking up the first time. Those are their insecurities. Mine expected more and thought I was giving less. Could be other reasons too but those were my 2 cents.

    And really, every once in a while I come across a Leo post, it's the same that happened at some point in my relationship, lol. Like seriously, are they all moulded the same way, lol.

  • Posted by jeane
    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his butter, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?
    I'm in no way going to be with him ever.

    i thought that you guys weren't committed to each other? did that change?


    That did not. I think we didn't give it a name. We talked about exclusivity. We told we are each other's only blah blah. That he's seeing only me. But yeah, he won't name it. Because he had a side chick already? Maybe. The whole point is, just be treetrunking honest. I would have understood had he been honest about it, he knows I would have. Why deceive?! It's, his psyche, he wanted more than one at a time, he wanted to cheat.



    i'm just confused over this...

    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    Posted by jeane
    I wouldn't trust us in a ldr.


    We had this talk. I told him I know he's very sexually active and as much as I wouldn't like him to sleep with somebody, I cannot expect him not to, for something(between us) that's not even concrete. He didn't deny. He asked if I'll feel bad about it and if I want him to tell me whenever that happens. I told him I wouldn't like it for sure but then I cannot control him anyway, so unless it comes from himself that he wouldn't want to sleep with other people while we're semi-dating, it isn't worth it.

    Controlling doesn't last long. I also kinda know that it is kinda not okay to expect people to commit to you when you've not even met after all this started, but it's just that I think I wanna invest and expect him too, which is maybe wrong on my part.

    So yeah, Libra or not, I cannot and should not be expecting anybody to commit while we're still testing waters just because I'm ready to take it a little further. I sometimes get troubled, and hence the post. I should be more casual with it and maybe enjoy till it lasts,and make sure I won't carry the baggage after it ends.

    And yeah, he also said I'm free to explore too if I want so yeah maybe its an open relationship. But other times he says things of us being together for long and all. So maybe all this is just the Libra charm because when we actually talked about it as I stated above, he clearly was talking about an open relationship.


    you said you couldn't expect him not to sleep with someone else and he even said to you, you are free to be with other people as well.

    butterty not to be honest with you in the first place and i would say i am surprised by this but i'm not.
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    It's like, whenever I state my concerns about no strings attached, he'll tell me I'm his only. And that would make me fall for him a little more. In the recent past too, I got concerned about some girl at his workplace because he would tell me she was all over him. I told him my concerns, he told me not to worry, he wouldn't be going out with any girl, let alone that girl. Also, he had said to me once - "Ilovemyaqua, I know where you're coming from, I have been at the receiving end too. I know how bad being cheated on feels. I just want you to trust me that I'll never do that. I'm not that person."
    Pff.
  • Posted by Librasetting777
    I'd ask for the evidence lol.


    Had you been at his place? Okay. So you suggest I should send the evidence and block?

  • Posted by jeane
    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his butter, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?
    I'm in no way going to be with him ever.

    i thought that you guys weren't committed to each other? did that change?
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    That did not. I think we didn't give it a name. We talked about exclusivity. We told we are each other's only blah blah. That he's seeing only me. But yeah, he won't name it. Because he had a side chick already? Maybe. The whole point is, just be treetrunking honest. I would have understood had he been honest about it, he knows I would have. Why deceive?! It's, his psyche, he wanted more than one at a time, he wanted to cheat.

  • Posted by LadyNeptune
    The best revenge is to move on, never spare him another thought, and find happiness with someone else.


    As much as I don't want, I feel bad. Not heartbroken or anything, just, just bad. For something.
  • So this Libra with whom I was in an LDR cheated. I got to know yesterday and confronted him and he would go all about how I was overreacting, it wasn't true yada yada. I wasn't buying his butter, obviously. I told him I'll talk to him later. Now, What would be the meanest thing to do, lol. Should I text him all the evidence, block him from everywhere or just drop him, period. No texts, no calls, no more accusations/why you did it. Just drop?
    I'm in no way going to be with him ever.
  • Posted by FantasticLyfe_89
    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    Posted by FantasticLyfe_89
    I do love him but I don’t know if we can be together. We got a lot of issues to solve but it keeps leading to us fighting. I’m hurt I said some mean things he did too. And no lie I don’t know what to do to make it better. He’s the father of my child now I just want to be civil with him.


    Girl, honestly,it's not about him being a Taurus. I can only understand how confused you may be given that he's not being consistent with his behaviour. Imo, if he can have a child, he needs to act mature enough too! Please take your time and decide. Don't get pressured by him. I honestly cannot understand what games he's playing. Speak to your family and loved ones. And like HankJWimbleton said, for sure, this guy cannot be trusted. Take care.


    You are right. He just wants sex nothing else. And no lie I think he’s trying to woo me to get me again and I’m not having it. I don’t want anything to do with him. He’s mad that I’m not getting abortion and I told him I don’t need him in my life. He can go on somewhere. He cheated on all his bms and he says he doesn’t want a relationship because he would cheat on them. So sad not worth my time.
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    You go Girl! 🙋
    Lots of Love! ❤️

  • Posted by FantasticLyfe_89
    I do love him but I don’t know if we can be together. We got a lot of issues to solve but it keeps leading to us fighting. I’m hurt I said some mean things he did too. And no lie I don’t know what to do to make it better. He’s the father of my child now I just want to be civil with him.


    Girl, honestly,it's not about him being a Taurus. I can only understand how confused you may be given that he's not being consistent with his behaviour. Imo, if he can have a child, he needs to act mature enough too! Please take your time and decide. Don't get pressured by him. I honestly cannot understand what games he's playing. Speak to your family and loved ones. And like HankJWimbleton said, for sure, this guy cannot be trusted. Take care.
  • Posted by GOATAction
    I'd say more sun. Sun is Capricorn but Ascendant is Gemini. Apparently there are two style s of Gem ascending and the second is definitely mine. From Cafe Astrology:

    I have found two style s of presentation most common with Gemini rising people. One style is bubbly, changeable, talkative, and a little quirky. These natives are interesting and fun. They constantly explain things, whether it's their own behavior and opinion or those of the world around them (nope)

    Another distinct " style " is a rather cool and intellectual demeanor. These natives are often quite witty and clever, but they present themselves in a less cheerful and changeable way than the first group. Their observations are sharp and the overall manner is a tad brusque. (Yep) No matter the style , Gemini rising natives are given to analysis and making sense of their world. Their powers of observation are well-developed, they are mentally active (more often than not, their minds are racing!), and they almost always have something bright or witty to say. It is easy for individuals with this position to get sidetracked, as their curiosity is large, their minds are quick, and their attention spans rather short!

    The second style fits into my Cap sun, but gives me a little bit of inventiveness and sometimes strong social powers...when I want to turn it on lol.


    This is interesting. I am not Gemini Rising but I'm Gemini dominant and the first type is too relatable!
  • Posted by AerialView
    Sun, Moon and Ascendant in Aquarius but strangely by statistics Aquarius isn't my strongest.

    Sagittarius is the strongest then Aquarius and then Pisces.

    I feel more Piscean though due to my Pisces Venus and Mars in the 1st house.


    Is it because you have more planets in Sagittarius than Aquarius?
  • Posted by RooSagicorn
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    Both? In different ways I take on both of them. Sun is in the 12th so I’ve been more aware of the Asc. But as I’ve gotten more aware of myself.. Ummm look at all those other traits ( from my 12th house sun) 😂


    I'm actually not quite sure how the sun and Ascendant work. I know your Sun describes your overall personality, how people perceive you, but isn't it the same with the Ascendant too?


    Well Ascendant is people’s first impression of you they say. So for example I am a Sagittarius sun & I’m a Capricorn Ascendant. I am not very approachable due to the Asc. Reserved, people think I don’t like them. But really I just need to be comfortable around you & then I act like that Sag. My sun is also in the 12th house which can mean it’s hidden. Does that help?

    Yep! I got the part about how the Sun and Ascendant differ. House thing I'm still unclear, will get a hang of it eventually maybe. 😅


    I’m still learning too, but I have learned quite a bit from hanging around here. There are threads about various houses if you want to look at the past threads. It might help.

    Well as for me I am also Cap dominant & am on the Sag-Cap cusp so the Cap comes out strongly and I tend to act like that, but the sun is strong lol so I’m kinda like a hybrid of the two. The older I get, I act more like a Sag actually,


    Ah! I am Gemini dominant. I am a cusper too, on the cusp of Taurus and Gemini. I too feel like a hybrid. Plus, I looked up in some site which calculated percentage of each element in me and it pretty much is balanced out which kinda explains how sometimes I myself don't know what I'd do, I surprise myself lol.

    I sometimes think my Gemini is taking over me as I grow old since I'm becoming more flexible now, unlike my Taurus self. I also made this thread on Taurus forum. I was curious if all of us, as humans start being more flexible with age or is it something with our charts.


    Ah interesting!! Well I think part of it is the nodes. Mine are Capricorn/Cancer. They say past life would be more like a Cap and your goal in this life to work more towards Cancer. Which I have done some of that work via personal growth probably during a midlife crisis. as I went away from acting like a Cap or facing fears that Cap traits kept me more controlled with, the letting go helped the Sag naturally come out more. Does that make sense?


    I just looked up my nodes. North is Scorpio and South is Taurus. So my goal in life is to be more like a Taurus? Interesting.


    No you have that backwards. My north Node is Cancer. And south is Capricorn.


    Oh okay. So I have to be more like a Scorpio? I'm the least Scorpio, really.



    Here you go:

    Your North Node Life Path:
    Taurus and Scorpio are the signs that rule money, power and sensuality. If you born with a Taurus north node or a Scorpio north node, your destiny involves learning to balance the spiritual and material worlds. These nodes exude sexual prowess, earthy sensuality and power. Channeling these dynamic forces in healthy, balanced ways can be a challenge, as these lunar nodes are prone to extremes. You are often pulled between the practical and mystical, the sensible and the spiritual.

    Taurus south node/Scorpio north node people are learning to embrace “what could be” instead of fixating on “what is.” They have spent lifetimes steeped in material world as hardworking, practical people. They enjoyed spending money, and could resurface as arbiters of luxury and fine taste. Taurus rules the senses: touch, taste, smell, sound, sight. They might be gifted artists and musicians (Prince and Justin Bieber were both born with Scorpio north node) or have a keen sense of style (like iconic fashion designer Coco Chanel).

    This lifetime, indulgence and hedonism can be their downfall. Their Scorpio north node pries them away from the physical and into the spiritual realm. Scorpio north node people are learning about life beyond their senses and daily habits (work, eat, sleep, drink, screw, repeat). Scorpio also rules wealth and investments. These people are learning to make their money work for them, instead of just working for their money.

    On the flip side, Taurus north node/Scorpio south node people have arrived here to work! In past lives, they were powerful and privileged people who were often born into wealth. They may have been advisors to royalty or political leaders, working masterfully behind the scenes. Now, it’s their time to step into a position of public power, rolling up their sleeves and learning to be the providers, earners and do-ers. In this lifetime, inherited wealth or status is a burden, not a blessing. They yearn to be bootstrappers, proving that they can do it themselves! Many Scorpio south nodes need to break free of “golden handcuffs.” For example, they may have overprotective families who control them with emotional blackmail or often, by financing their lives (thereby eliminating the “need” to work). Fighting to be self-sufficient is often a struggle. What Taurus north node people should do is use their money, connections and influence to help open doors for people who don’t have their privilege.

    Scorpio is a mysterious sign, and the Scorpio south node’s challenge is to shed a veil of secrecy. While anonymity protected them in past lives, too much privacy now creates trouble. (Case in point: Scorpio south node Hillary Clinton’s private email account that led to a federal investigation.) These people can even earn a reputation as untrustworthy and calculating. Some Scorpio south node people are born into families with deep, dark secrets: addiction, abuse, corruption, crime. Their soul work is to move past shame. Taurus rules the throat chakra; Taurus north nodes are learning to speak out loud.

    Taurus North Node
    Release (Scorpio south node):
    Seducing, manipulating, strategizing, the nomadic life style , sex as a weapon, being overly secretive or superstitious, relying on other people’s money and resources

    Embrace (Taurus north node):
    Simplicity, truth, grounding yourself with daily habits and routines, living in the moment, pure human connection, telling it like you see it, making your own living

    Famous Taurus North Nodes: Hillary Clinton, Martin Luther King, Mother Teresa, Julius Caeser, Kurt Cobain, Chrissy Teigen, Lilly Allen, Katy Perry, Nicole Kidman, Lady Gaga,Lana Del Ray, Scarlett Johansson, Pamela Anderson, Grace Kelly, Audrey Hepburn, Halle Berry, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, Cindy Crawford, Prince Charles, Prince Harry, Bar Refaeli, Salma Hayek, Keira Knightley, Stephen King, Bruno Mars, Vin Diesel, Janet Jackson, Ronald Reagan, Oscar Wilde, LeBron James, Mischa Barton, Eckhart Tolle, Stevie Nicks, Steven Tyler, Michael Phelps, Cassanova

    Dates:
    Aug 3, 1947 – Jan 26, 1949 * Feb 20, 1966 – Aug 19, 1967 * Sep 12, 1984 – Apr 6, 1986 * Apr 15, 2003 – Dec 26, 2004 • January 19, 2022 – July 17, 2023

    Scorpio North Node
    Release (Taurus south node):
    Attachment to luxury, earthly appetites and overindulgence, being too practical, sticking with what you know, hiding in a comfort zone, working harder not smarter, loyalty at your own expense, always being the provider, holding energy in your throat chakra

    Embrace (Scorpio north node):
    Spirituality, connection to the universe/divine, spiritual fulfillment, unspoken connections, mystery, allowing others to help you financially, passive income, joint financial ventures, releasing energy through your sacral chakra
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    Woah! Thank you! This indeed gives me a deep insight about the nodes!

    Thanks RooSagicorn! 😊😊

  • Except for a few Moons, Mars here and there, I can see the Sun winning.
  • Posted by Queenaries2
    Moon and mars
    Cap and aqua

    I’m uranus and Saturn dominate anyways
    Then Neptune lol


    So is it that you mostly are like your dominant sign/planet in that sign than your Sun or Rising?
  • Posted by crazysioux
    I'm more Virgo Rising from the start. Once I'm comfortable, my Libra Moon takes over. It eventually surprises the treetrunk out of people when they realize that I'm a Cap. They don't get a strong whiff of my Sun Sign until I start communicating my values, principals, goals, etc.


    I guess people do perceive me as a Leo(Leo Rising) . I am not quite sure if/when my Virgo Moon takes over. I guess I'm more of a Taurus in situations that need practicality. In matters of heart/people I care about, I guess I'm more of a Gemini and Virgo maybe? I'm not really sure how my moon controls me, because I trust everybody but my loved ones easily. Crazy, I know.

  • Posted by RooSagicorn
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    Both? In different ways I take on both of them. Sun is in the 12th so I’ve been more aware of the Asc. But as I’ve gotten more aware of myself.. Ummm look at all those other traits ( from my 12th house sun) 😂


    I'm actually not quite sure how the sun and Ascendant work. I know your Sun describes your overall personality, how people perceive you, but isn't it the same with the Ascendant too?


    Well Ascendant is people’s first impression of you they say. So for example I am a Sagittarius sun & I’m a Capricorn Ascendant. I am not very approachable due to the Asc. Reserved, people think I don’t like them. But really I just need to be comfortable around you & then I act like that Sag. My sun is also in the 12th house which can mean it’s hidden. Does that help?

    Yep! I got the part about how the Sun and Ascendant differ. House thing I'm still unclear, will get a hang of it eventually maybe. 😅


    I’m still learning too, but I have learned quite a bit from hanging around here. There are threads about various houses if you want to look at the past threads. It might help.

    Well as for me I am also Cap dominant & am on the Sag-Cap cusp so the Cap comes out strongly and I tend to act like that, but the sun is strong lol so I’m kinda like a hybrid of the two. The older I get, I act more like a Sag actually,


    Ah! I am Gemini dominant. I am a cusper too, on the cusp of Taurus and Gemini. I too feel like a hybrid. Plus, I looked up in some site which calculated percentage of each element in me and it pretty much is balanced out which kinda explains how sometimes I myself don't know what I'd do, I surprise myself lol.

    I sometimes think my Gemini is taking over me as I grow old since I'm becoming more flexible now, unlike my Taurus self. I also made this thread on Taurus forum. I was curious if all of us, as humans start being more flexible with age or is it something with our charts.


    Ah interesting!! Well I think part of it is the nodes. Mine are Capricorn/Cancer. They say past life would be more like a Cap and your goal in this life to work more towards Cancer. Which I have done some of that work via personal growth probably during a midlife crisis. as I went away from acting like a Cap or facing fears that Cap traits kept me more controlled with, the letting go helped the Sag naturally come out more. Does that make sense?


    I just looked up my nodes. North is Scorpio and South is Taurus. So my goal in life is to be more like a Taurus? Interesting.


    No you have that backwards. My north Node is Cancer. And south is Capricorn.
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    Oh okay. So I have to be more like a Scorpio? I'm the least Scorpio, really.

  • Posted by RooSagicorn
    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Posted by Ilovemyaqua
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Both? In different ways I take on both of them. Sun is in the 12th so I’ve been more aware of the Asc. But as I’ve gotten more aware of myself.. Ummm look at all those other traits ( from my 12th house sun) 😂


    I'm actually not quite sure how the sun and Ascendant work. I know your Sun describes your overall personality, how people perceive you, but isn't it the same with the Ascendant too?


    Well Ascendant is people’s first impression of you they say. So for example I am a Sagittarius sun & I’m a Capricorn Ascendant. I am not very approachable due to the Asc. Reserved, people think I don’t like them. But really I just need to be comfortable around you & then I act like that Sag. My sun is also in the 12th house which can mean it’s hidden. Does that help?

    Yep! I got the part about how the Sun and Ascendant differ. House thing I'm still unclear, will get a hang of it eventually maybe. 😅


    I’m still learning too, but I have learned quite a bit from hanging around here. There are threads about various houses if you want to look at the past threads. It might help.

    Well as for me I am also Cap dominant & am on the Sag-Cap cusp so the Cap comes out strongly and I tend to act like that, but the sun is strong lol so I’m kinda like a hybrid of the two. The older I get, I act more like a Sag actually,


    Ah! I am Gemini dominant. I am a cusper too, on the cusp of Taurus and Gemini. I too feel like a hybrid. Plus, I looked up in some site which calculated percentage of each element in me and it pretty much is balanced out which kinda explains how sometimes I myself don't know what I'd do, I surprise myself lol.

    I sometimes think my Gemini is taking over me as I grow old since I'm becoming more flexible now, unlike my Taurus self. I also made this thread on Taurus forum. I was curious if all of us, as humans start being more flexible with age or is it something with our charts.


    Ah interesting!! Well I think part of it is the nodes. Mine are Capricorn/Cancer. They say past life would be more like a Cap and your goal in this life to work more towards Cancer. Which I have done some of that work via personal growth probably during a midlife crisis. as I went away from acting like a Cap or facing fears that Cap traits kept me more controlled with, the letting go helped the Sag naturally come out more. Does that make sense?
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    I just looked up my nodes. North is Scorpio and South is Taurus. So my goal in life is to be more like a Taurus? Interesting.

  • OP! Calm down. I think you're stressing way too much. I haven't read your previous thread but from what I read here, I honestly think you're stressing too much. I think whatever Jeane said is on point. You can't control everything. Just go with the flow. If you want to text, do it. Don't plan so much in advance. You text whenever you want, even now! People text and its okay. Unless you're bombarding her with a dozen texts or she's cold shouldering your texts, its fine! And honestly, 3 weeks is nothing, and it's for genuine reasons too. Also, if she'll want to be with you, she will. If not, she won't. So relax and do what makes you happy. It's no use if you're always walking on egg-shells.