Formerly QuietStorm, ScorpioTruth, PhoenixStorm

Posted by cersei

Posted by ImperfectStorm
Definitely Venus/Pluto. The attraction is compulsive and animalistic. Also if one persons mars is in the other persons 5th house… I have that with someone and I couldn’t keep my hands off him lol

Were you the house person or the planet person?

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Definitely Venus/Pluto. The attraction is compulsive and animalistic. Also if one persons mars is in the other persons 5th house… I have that with someone and I couldn’t keep my hands off him lol

Posted by Krabss

Posted by ImperfectStorm
I’m surprised tiki hasn’t been mentioned yet. I wouldn’t say she was a bully, but she was an unfiltered truth teller. When I first met my sons dad back in 2008 she had a lot of uncomfortable truths to share. I sometimes despised her for it, but she was right about a lot of things. I will give props where they’re due… she was doing good work, I hope she’s doing well.

As far as pointless bullying, I agree with MyStarsShine that there is nothing “favorite” about being a miserable asshole without reason. Misery loves company and bitterness is like a disease for the soul, I hope all the internet bullies get well soon. 💐

she wasn't a bully. she was just like, if the story is not 100% awesome, and it is never here, that's why it is posted, she would go for the worst case scenario. but i don't remember she was being insulting. more like i want to open your eyes, don't be fooled by some creep. my perception.

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Agreed, definitely not a bully but she could be cutting/condescending with her words when trying to get her point across. She is the closest person I would consider a “favorite” amongst users who have the reputation of rubbing people the wrong way or hurting feelings, etc.

Posted by MyStarsShine
@ImperfectStorm
Who’s tiki?

Her name was tiki33 she was basically a relationship coach. Lol I haven’t seen her around in years. I had a love/hate relationship with her 🤣🤣🤣 we argued quite a bit… but I appreciate her brutal honesty

I’m surprised tiki hasn’t been mentioned yet. I wouldn’t say she was a bully, but she was an unfiltered truth teller. When I first met my sons dad back in 2008 she had a lot of uncomfortable truths to share. I sometimes despised her for it, but she was right about a lot of things. I will give props where they’re due… she was doing good work, I hope she’s doing well.

As far as pointless bullying, I agree with MyStarsShine that there is nothing “favorite” about being a miserable asshole without reason. Misery loves company and bitterness is like a disease for the soul, I hope all the internet bullies get well soon. 💐

There is really no right or wrong answer when being honest.. it sounds like he’s being honest (which i would rather have honesty than someone telling me what I want to hear) and he said that he appreciates you.

So really it boils down to were you wanting to hear the truth or were you just hoping he would validate you?

Posted by allrounder

Posted by ImperfectStorm
Intense emotions, strong passions.. 100 on the scale from 0 to 100. Don’t really know how else to explain it. Lol if you’ve dealt with a Scorpio before then you probably have an idea.

Well both my parents are Scorpio Suns, but I don't want to think they're the norm/representing majority of Scorpios. That's why I'm here to ask. My mother has narcissistic personality disorder and other mental health issues, and once someone is a narcissist, they'll fit more with the symptoms of narcissism than their astrology placements, in my opinion. Because I've seen it.

I do have to ask is sudden mood swings and sudden outbursts of anger a Scorpio trait, or an upbringing issue?

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Kind of a combination… the sudden outburst thing is a result of suppressing emotions and keeping them bottled up until something triggers the release of those emotions. Then it comes out pressurized like an outburst. I know for me, I have learned I have to be mindful about processing my emotions or feelings as they come, instead of bottling them up or suppressing them.

I’ve noticed this with other zodiac signs though, not just Scorpio. So I think it’s more of an upbringing.. like if as a child, if they were taught to suppress their “bad” emotions like anger, they will suppress it until they can’t any more then it all explodes at once.

Intense emotions, strong passions.. 100 on the scale from 0 to 100. Don’t really know how else to explain it. Lol if you’ve dealt with a Scorpio before then you probably have an idea.

Taurus is in my 8tj house so I guess Venus would be the ruler of my 8th? And my Venus is in Virgo.. is that what you’re asking? I get confused when they start talking about the rulers of the houses lol

We date for companionship and to have someone to talk to and share with… just be honest and tell them you won’t be able to go out on fancy dates and whatnot, but if you’re generous with your time and attention, and if she is concerned about the things that really matter, then the fact that you’re broke probably won’t make much of a difference.

I have dated men that never spent a dime on me and I never questioned their financial stability. If you’re talking about building a life with someone and potentially walking down the aisle, etc.. then in that case, that would be different.

This new moon is exactly conjunct my natal moon in cancer in my 9th house.

As written by Astromomma on Facebook:

New Moon in Cancer- Yummy, Comfy + Tender Vibes, How Do You Mother Yourself? Do You Feel Safe?

On June 28th, we have the loving and uber sensitive New Moon at 7 degrees of Cancer. New Moons themselves bring in new opportunities, fresh starts and the slate being wiped clean. They represent hope, new chapters and beginnings. In the days leading up to a New Moon, the energy is tense and uneasy. With no moonlight to guide our tender spirits, we can feel lost and emotionally + physically drained. Cancer, the 4th zodiac sign, deals with home, family, emotional foundations, security, our roots and safety.

The New Moon in Cancer is here to have us begin a new epic journey connected to honoring our deepest feelings and sense of security and safety. Since the Moon rules Cancer and is naturally at home within this sign, there is lots of power and strength to this planetary position. This New Moon wants to wrap you up in a cozy blanket, feed you comfort food and nurture your soul. No other sign is as comforting and protective as a Cancer. This is the sign of the mother after all.

This New Moon will bring up protective "Momma bear" vibes. This is a great time to focus on how to reparent ourselves and to spend time surrounded by those that make us feel at home and at ease. This is also an excellent time to focus on family affairs, home repairs/renovations, and domestic duties. Since Cancer is a water sign, our "feels" will be full on and intense. Expect to shed tears for no reason and to be more moody and reactive emotionally.

For those who have their Sun, Moon or Ascendant signs at 7 degrees of Cancer or close by( 3 +/- degrees) this New Moon will bring in huge new emotional journeys. Expect to be extra sensitive + to seek new ways to comfort and nurture yourselves. A big turning point with your family, mother or intimate connections could be indicated. For those who have their Sun, Moon or Ascendant at 7 degrees of the other Cardinal signs( Aries, Libra or Capricorn) or close by (3 +/- degrees) expect new starts within your family life, relationships and career. A big new cycle connected to being assertive and in charge but from a place of honoring your feelings will be brought up now. For everyone else, check where 7 degrees of Cancer falls in your birth chart to see where these fresh starts will occur within your ability to feel safe, nurtured and at home with yourself.

The New Moon in Cancer is here to bring in loving, deeply emotional and gentle energy of feminine grace + beauty. It is time to relax into your heart and to allow your emotions to be front and center. While Cancer energy is certainly focused on the feelings, there is also an assertive and protective energy to this sign. This is mainly due to it being a Cardinal sign which gives it a more take charge, leadership quality. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable but also recognizing healthy boundaries is important. The New Moon in Cancer wants you to trust your intuition and sense of deep soul knowing. It is time to embrace your feminine side with reverence and respect. The New Moon at home in the sign of the crab is here to bring in new ventures connected to what makes you feel safe + secure, allow a space of honoring your deepest feelings and remind you that you are eternally safe + protected.

It weirds me out too.

Sadly it is that bad.. of course not all cops are bad. But there are definitely a large percentage that are prejudiced and profile black American men, especially.

I am white, but I’ve dated black men and have been in the car when they get pulled over for dumb shit.. one time my sons dad was pulled over for going ONE mile over the speeding limit. Another time pulled over for missing one screw on his license plate. In my early 20s, my ex boyfriend was taking me home one night and we had a cop follow us around for a long period of time, following us in circles just waiting on my ex to forget to use his turn signal so that he could have a reason to pull him over. He was profiled because of the car he was driving. (Because of prejudices they assume that a black man driving a Cadillac must be a drug dealer)

Then there’s me… a white blonde woman that has driven around on expired license plates or a missing headlight for months without ever being pulled over. It’s sad and it’s not fair that they are harassed and profiled based on the color of their skin.

On the flip side, I have also been friends with cops who weren’t like this at all, and one was black himself.

Yes I love instrumentals… it helps you appreciate the music itself instead of focusing on the vocals and lyrics.

I also love instrumental covers though.. particularly piano or jazz. The Piano Guys cover a lot of popular songs, sometimes listening to them helps me sleep.

Posted by nanobotz
I guess it depends on how broken it is. I hate to give up on relationships if we both still have feelings and it’s salvageable (both are choosing to be willing to continue to work through issues).

I agree that a lot of people stay when they shouldn’t though, when it’s way past expiration.

This is how I feel. I would never stay in a toxic or abusive relationship where it’s blatantly unhealthy or harmful for me.. but for the same reason that I know that I’m not perfect, I also realize that other people are not perfect either. So it’s not difficult for me to forgive or give second chances.

I don’t mind relationships that require a little work… when you put two imperfect people together, it’s just not realistic to expect a perfect relationship. Love and relationships tend to bring up all types of triggers and insecurities in all of us if we are being honest, so even if I see someone’s ugly or dark side (jealousy, insecurities etc) that wouldn’t be a deal breaker unless it was excessive.

But betrayal and abuse are the exceptions… trust and safety (emotional and physical) are not negotiable for me.

6th house. Seems legit for me, especially the part about stress. Also hard to stick with schedules or routines but that’s my normal, as is working in a “helping” profession as a nurse. Lately though I’ve been unhappy and unfulfilled in my job and sometimes wish I could do something different. I just don’t know what.

You are more susceptible to medications, chemicals, and other such things during this long-term cycle, so keep this in mind. Stress more easily affects your health as well. Some confusion on the job may be part of the picture, or your job may steer towards compassionate service, charity, or other helping professions. Neptune’s presence here can make it more challenging to stick to routines or schedules.