Formerly QuietStorm, ScorpioTruth, PhoenixStorm

Posted by Purpleaqua01

Posted by ImperfectStorm
I have Virgo Venus and I don’t handle it well at all. Lol it makes me feel… nervous. So it surprises me that he’s the one doing the love bombing but he’s got a lot of fire in his chart so it makes sense.

He’s also a cancer mercury! I’ve dated plenty of Virgo Venus's, no idea why they’re so attracted to my aqua stellium a** lol. But they have a hard time settling, also lots of head games.

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I was with an aqua Venus for over 10 years lol I have libra rising and stellium though so I attract a lot of men with air Venus. My clingy cancer moon doesn’t like them though lol

I have Virgo Venus and I don’t handle it well at all. Lol it makes me feel… nervous. So it surprises me that he’s the one doing the love bombing but he’s got a lot of fire in his chart so it makes sense.

I’m gonna be a sexy ninja 🥷🏼

Idk but That’s incredibly sad.

I like my sun/moon trine and my fiery mars that helps me accomplish my goals.
Also my cancer moon conjunct midheaven. It helps me shine in my nursing career

Sag mars in women has a reputation for being prone to cheat based on what I’ve read, but that’s not true for me. My sag mars does make me desire freedom in relationships and I do get bored easily, but I would never cheat on someone I have too much of a conscience.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioDreams

Posted by nanobotz
There is no purpose to any of this. You have to be the one to give it meaning and purpose. Most people do that through procreation. There’s also religion, or advocacy. What’s important and meaningful to you?

I’m afraid my procreation days are over. I suppose it would have been nice to have a little offspring running around. Ha! I’m honestly not sure what would be important or meaningful to me. Still trying to figure that out.

Fostering and adoption are viable options. Even getting envolved in programs which mentor younger folks.
And fur babies are fulfilling to many.

You don’t need to push out a human to have a bond.

I think maybe a mentoring program could be a good option. I’m at a point now where I’m not sure if actually having a kid, even fostering or adopting is what I would truly want. The thought of actually caring for another human being scares me to death as well. Then there is always the fear of turning into my parents.

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There are two things that will keep you from authentic happiness and you just mentioned them both. Fear of failure and also societal expectations… don’t feel pressured to have kids just because our culture pressures us to become mothers. But also don’t let the fear of failure prevent you from becoming a mother if that’s what your heart desires.

This is what I would suggest.. try closing your eyes and imagining both lives. Imagine becoming a mother and really try to picture yourself in that role. Open your eyes then write stuff down, like the pros/cons, what you feel you would like about it, and what you feel you would not like.

Then do the same thing except this time imagine not being a mother.. imagine being independent and being able to travel all over the world if you want to, helping out on mission trips or pursuing a new career or starting over in a new country. Then open your eyes and write down on paper what that would look like for you. Then think about which makes you feel more excited. You really just have to dig into your intuition and trust your own judgment to find out what would make you most happy, what would make you feel most fulfilled. There is no wrong answer.