" http://youtu.be/25-JZp0CqsY"

For Taurus u need a Volvo
NF I'm in dire need of a reading
I need to know what is the message I need to hear at this moment
Why is the universe still giving me signs
The rgo tricks you
Trust me the moment ur face with an illness were death is a possibility
You wish it wasn't so
Posted by Leobaby89
In your opinion, which zodiac sign will have sex with you on the first date and would never date you because you gave it up too soon?


Taurus
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Posted by Ixion
Seriously I can't stand respectability politics. And yes I said respectability politics because that is what is .

They do absolutely nothing to bring true respect to the person practicing it... but they do everything to continue the system of oppression and double standards that are used against women and the person practicing it.


The best way to control a group is to have that group policing itself in order to be more "respectable".

That translates into policing other women's appearances, speech patterns, and sexuality in order to pressure women folk to conform to society's ideal.

In theory that isn't so bad if the ideal wasn't so deeply rooted in patriarchy and trying to keep good ole boys comfortable in their misogyny.

Hating the oppression, to continue the oppression of others, to avoid oppression = wut???



Just because I feel that way doesn't mean I go around slut shaming women. You kinda took what I said and ran with it. Just because I decide to present myself respectably now I am the bad guy? I don't identify with any group.. women are all different. I do what is right for me and don't really give a butter what the rest do.


Lol, you may misunderstand. I don't find you to be respectable because of your sexuality...matter of fact how you dress, and whom you treetrunk mean very little to me in my calculations on whether you are actually respectable.

What you do to others (whether that is shaming or not) and what you think and the energy you bring into the world....now that makes you respectable or not to me. Its a crucial difference.

Its funny that you indirectly tried to still make a linkage between respectability and sex, modesty, and all the above.

By the way none of this is said with a raging "OMG blackphase is a woman-hating slut shamer" but more like... blackphase you are drawing a false equivalency.


I get what you are saying. I don't disagree.. but on the topic of slut shaming it is done mostly in regard to appearance, making snap judgements about people you barely know sometimes even. You don't get to see how they treat others or their thoughts, that's why I was focusing on presentation. In no way am I trying to link respectable to sex.. I simply said it's not hard to present yourself respectably..


Dress does not (or rather should not) equate respectability in most instances. Context defines (or rather should define) whether someone is worthy of respect when it comes to the issue of outer appearances.

Context defines what respectability is in many ways...showing up to a funeral in a bikini for someone whose family is ultra-conservative judeo-christian (lets make it more scandalous a thong bikini), for instance, would cause someone to be less respectable.

Not because there is anything inherently wrong with thong bikinis (I personally like the effect ) but because it would distract from honoring the dead, disrespects the beliefs of the family, and brings pain to the people who are most affected by the death of the loved one because of the disruption. It would also show a lack of care and compassion in that specific incidence. Why dress matters there is because you are there for a purpose that demands a certain sobriety in order to avoid unnecessary pain.

However with the above likely being true all around...conversely there isn't a clear-cut reason why wearing a pencil skirt, or walking down a street in a crop top and booty shorts on a hot summer day isn't "respectable".

A woman walking down the street for her own purposes whether for attention or coolness is in no way at cross purposes (in an absolute sense) with anyone in the context of heading from point a to point b...even if feelings are hurt by her being scantily clad she is no way less worthy of outright and expressed respect for her person, even if you may dislike her style of dress you should respect her because she has done nothing to you or to society as a whole.

Why?

Because there is no one that she is or should be beholden to in the general public view at least not in this country where we do have a definite separation between moral codes of religion and the rules that society is allowed to place on us(at least in theory).




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One question to ask urself
What would jesus do ?
Didn't he take into his circle a prostitute
Not slut shaming
So can't stand those judge religious folk
On their high horse
Just saying
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Posted by Impulsv
I'd like to meet one like myself to see if I'd scare away by someone knowing my core.
I'd like to belive I'd be up for the challange


I think it all depends on what they do with that knowledge. All I want is to induce growth and free him from his fear of fear and then his fear's control over him.

All I want is for him to be happy, wise, and fulfilled. I want to give him all my metaphysical tools as he has given me. I want his music to be from the deepest, rawest part of him.

And I want to do it with a gentler touch than before.
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Can you do this with everyone or just him
I was able with just one other
I can't say I can with everyone

I'd like to meet one like myself to see if I'd scare away by someone knowing my core.
I'd like to belive I'd be up for the challange
Posted by Nlo
Posted by Arielle83
What kind of psychic?


The kind that just needs to look into your eyes and decifer the connections between your true will and your true expression.
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Empath
Posted by Whorpio
I'll go first.
I don't believe in karma. Every action has a reaction; simple as that. IF (and that's a big if) it is real, it dun't come from other creatures; it's more random like gettin rejected from a job or randomly getting a disease that you don't get from your environment; something beyond your or anyone else's control.
I believe we'll pay for our sins or negative attitudes/actions after we die, before we are admitted to heaven.
•Southern Baptist
•Generally liberal
•ESTP
•Jupiter dominant, Sagittarius Jupiter in 9th house, conjunct moon, sextile Mercury, square Saturn
•Southern USA culture

Karma defined every action is has reaction
Past life for south node
Nnd person is helping lesson learn to planet
Posted by Ravishing
THEY NEVER CARED

NOPE, NEVER DID

ALL THEY DO IS USE AND ABUSE U

THEY USE U UP LIKE A just like me ON THE SIDE OF THE STREET AND SPIT YOU OUT LIKE A PIECE OF GUM

ONE TIME I ASKED A SCORPIO OUT ON A DATE, HE AGREED, HE PAYED FOR OUR MEAL, TOOK ME HOME AND THE BASTARD DIDN'T treetrunk ME. I KNEW THEY WERE EVIL FROM THEN ON.

Lol
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Posted by Impulsv
Gangs of New York
Yeah pure butter
Notice sarcasm


I didn't really like him in that. DDL always steals the show


also Liam Neeson is always awesome
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But did Scorsese fail ?
Gangs of New York
Yeah pure butter
Notice sarcasm
You must be at one

Effortless

And others should ask are you mad
Ur not in
Until u got the resting cookiemonster face on point!