" http://youtu.be/25-JZp0CqsY"

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm curious.

How many ladies out there would date a guy with kids?


I don't mind kids
I'd love them like my own
I mind psycho exes
She'd have to be completely detached, not dependent on my man, on anew relationship, or him a widower
Posted by Sagiluv27
Fall deeply in love


Was going to say that lol
Well since we can list them, also hands, boobs, and sexy long legs
I'm glad to hear ands intention was to mirror Mona rather than racist
Still better ways but intention matters
I'm hoping he does. I like ands.but that was just wrong
And you're better than that type of come back
You really don't understand the horrible connatation of it?? That is bizarre
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Posted by DonJohn
The best part is CC diverting that insult to all black people.


she's calling black people monkeys by default.





Naw not at all. Monkey is a racist term that has been around for a very long time and has always been used to insult us as a whole. She was only referencing how low he went by using a traditional racist term
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Exactly this!!
Posted by brianafay
Posted by PossessionSt
Lol but I have used the same ape and compared it to nemesis who is white 😂


Real talk I could post a picture of a white dude right now who looks exactly like this monkey



Dead ass serious
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Bullbutter this was racist
Now trying to hide behind this
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Posted by Impulsv
Posted by Sagiluv27




Who when people are brutally honest with you and tell it like it is... it can come off as blunt/rude but meaning no harm.

or do you prefer when people are sensitive and sugar coat things to avoid being rude??


One can be truthful in a tactful way
No need to sugar coat yet to the point
On the other hand d blunt inconsiderate isn't negated because u think it's no harm
Words have a strong effect n one must know how to use them


The meaning blunt carries when paired with communication is - Direct and without attempting to disguise unpleasantness. I am fully capable of being both considerate and unpleasant with my honesty.

I'm not sure why people think being unpleasant always has to come off in a way that's displeasing to someone. /shrug. Maybe it's just me

Side note... I did have a haha after the first bit, but I think Grammarly ate it or something. lol
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Well it depends the outcome u want from the other
Cooperation, change, ect. Otherwise yes it doesn't matter
But u'll get more out of another if it's worded positively . Otherwise you may expect to be stonewalled most times
I need to rewatch series
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by Impulsv
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by Impulsv
Posted by Sagiluv27




Who when people are brutally honest with you and tell it like it is... it can come off as blunt/rude but meaning no harm.

or do you prefer when people are sensitive and sugar coat things to avoid being rude??


One can be truthful in a tactful way
No need to sugar coat yet to the point
On the other hand d blunt inconsiderate isn't negated because u think it's no harm
Words have a strong effect n one must know how to use them


Very true, I know I've offended people in the past for saying my opinion I have apologized for offending unintentionally but if they ask me I will always be truthful but sometimes they want different answers and I just can't tell them what they wanna hear.


That's were you learn to voice out ur truth in a diplomatic way
I used to come off angry when I voiced my opinions
That just losses its effectiveness n shuts people off
My libra stellium has helped curtail my Scorpio mars energy.


Never have voiced opinions angrily unless in an argument
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Well I don't feel it's angry but it comes off as strong. People confuse it to be angry when I'm passionate about it
Moving hands voice raised ect.
I'm trying to be gentler n tone it down

I lost the love of my life out of words

"Are you going to stand there or do something about it?"
Same could have been said
"I'd like to see a bit more enthusiasm lol"

Which way is more positive? Lol
Even in Buddhism thoughts n words carry karma
That's how important words are
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Posted by Impulsv
Posted by Sagiluv27




Who when people are brutally honest with you and tell it like it is... it can come off as blunt/rude but meaning no harm.

or do you prefer when people are sensitive and sugar coat things to avoid being rude??


One can be truthful in a tactful way
No need to sugar coat yet to the point
On the other hand d blunt inconsiderate isn't negated because u think it's no harm
Words have a strong effect n one must know how to use them


Very true, I know I've offended people in the past for saying my opinion I have apologized for offending unintentionally but if they ask me I will always be truthful but sometimes they want different answers and I just can't tell them what they wanna hear.
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That's were you learn to voice out ur truth in a diplomatic way
I used to come off angry when I voiced my opinions
That just losses its effectiveness n shuts people off
My libra stellium has helped curtail my Scorpio mars energy.
Posted by Sagiluv27




Who when people are brutally honest with you and tell it like it is... it can come off as blunt/rude but meaning no harm.

or do you prefer when people are sensitive and sugar coat things to avoid being rude??


One can be truthful in a tactful way
No need to sugar coat yet to the point
On the other hand d blunt inconsiderate isn't negated because u think it's no harm
Words have a strong effect n one must know how to use them
Wrong so wrong
Cc thanks for calling them out
Dj comments as well
Posted by Whorpio
Posted by OrGasMe
You focus on yourself. Focus on being a better you, a happier you, a more successful you.

Focus on loving yourself and realizing your value in this world.

But you have to have the intentions to do it for yourself. Not for anyone else. If you focus on being a better 'you' for someone else you will always be chasing your best self.
This ❤️❤️❤️❤️

But how do you even begin to realize your value in the world, when people just treat you like a piece of meat?
Even when I had my day job (at a snack stand) the men would still objectify me.

I feel like changing wouldn't benefit me much. It would only help me find a life-long partner.
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But the job u do is about treating u like a piece of meat so this is all ur seeing
Ur putting urself you yourself are objectifying u. Change come from n startsfrom u.
My sugar levels are dropping. Hypoglycemic