Plus, too much porn is bad. Idk about women, but guys who watch too much porn end up with difficulties getting one off when it comes to the real deal.
Also, one girl I was banging a bit back would complain to me how her very recent ex-boyfriend at the time always watched porn and couldn't get it up. She even complimented my "firmness" and all I could say in my head about that was "man, you poor girl. You've had limp weeny for how many years??!"
I basically got a participation trophy
To add, when I knew nothing about sex as a teen, I indulged too much in porn. When it came down to me having sex for the first time, there was a lot of unnecessary things happening and constantly changing positions because I thought they were cool and didn't realize it probably didn't feel that great for her. I also developed delayed ejaculation too! What I learned from actual sex? Not every woman wants to be full on japanese jackhammered, sometimes you get a star fish, sometimes you get a riding beast, some are grossed out by blowjobs, and etc., but I was visually spoiled by all that because of porn and I expected those to be normal and it throws you off when you find out you can't always get what you want.
I find that to be the most "dangerous" part of it all is the misaligning of expectations both yours and hers.
Posted by Ixi I think its a great way to pick up a lot of bad habits and treetrunked up mindsets for the amateur. For the veteran, it can be a way to pick up some ideas, sure.
So maturity and porn go hand = good outcome
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I don't think use and maturity correlate that closely (if at all) and usage certainly isn't a requirement for great sex. Lol I am sure a person can figure out other less graphic options for education on the act if they were looking for it.