Got too much sauce. Virguy.

As a native new-yorker, all I gotta say is Uh huh to the above.
I never start from a place that assumes folks will act or even think like I do. I find it helps me be more loving and accepting of non-bigoted folks overall and takes some of the sting out of people acting in ways that are just butterty.
I like women, even women of different races. What can I say? I'm cool like that.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I think earth signs wear the Pisces moon best.


Earth Energy serves as a sea wall...holds back the most disruptive aspects of it in my experience.
Lol I don't think most pisces moons even like each other.
evaluate your dress
Something more frontal will help, eval ya dress.
She said "woo me lovely"
to a gent around the way
never knew he only moves to lay
So She put jewels and tight denim on display
Not to disappoint he pulled her strings like cosplay
More contortion sure than cirque du soleil
banging in soft   Read more
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I have a gaming rig:

A watercooled monstrosity:

GPU: GTX 1070
CPU: core i7 6700K @4.00ghz (4 Cores, 8 logic processors)
RAM: 16 gigs of DDR4

I have been making my way through the Witcher 3, Dragon Age Inquisition, Fallout 4...and just got Mass Effect Andromeda yesterday
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Posted by AllegoryAddictX
My ethnic background consists of Afro-Cuban, French, Chinese, Puerto Rican(my father who, by appearances, was considered black)...and my mother is Lebanese and Mexican. But she doesn't reek of strong perfumes, I swear.

I'm not averse to dating people of different ethnic backgrounds from my own. Actually, I welcome it. I love learning about new cultures. My ex-husband is white, of both German and French descent. His family wasn't as welcoming, though.

I've been single for some time, and whenever I decide to try my chances again at dating sites, which happens about once a year, I've experienced variations of this with white men: "Have you ever been with a black guy before? Because if you have, I'm sorry, but that's a deal breaker for me. I'm just grossed out by it."

Give me her address and I'll cut her.





There was a white woman who had a long standing crush on me going back to our teen years...last year we had a bad falling out when she told me she couldn't sleep with me "because you have dated and slept with Chinks and Gwalla Gwalla People (referring to people of south asian descent)". I butter you not it took everything in me not to show tf out right there.


We stopped talking for months...she apologized vehemently and I forgave her but rest assured I have her on full 'you got bout one more time to treetrunk up before I I cut you off for good' watch.


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Easy there Rambina lol
*I'm uncomfortable, that they are uncomfortable sweep it under the rug* is what they just said.
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Posted by OHNOXoxo
Hello peeps! Been long was busy with my new Virgo i met last month at a friends party. Yes the same charmer who couldn't keep quiet for a moment and charmed off everyone around men and women! Sigh.

So yes, i thought we could have something worthwhile because he gave me few strong stares and smiles and kept initiating conversations. I mean im a social person but if i get a crush i kind of get shy not overly but little. So i was only responding to his questions. We met again a second time but instead of a large group we were only four of us. He told me im sweet and so smart a few compliments here and there. Then he started texting me good morning and good night messages! I must say nothinh serious just casual. But i have started developing feelings for him 🙄 we hardly meet because hes a working man so hes mostly busy!
Sometimes when he calls or messages i feel he likes me too and when he doesn't he's gone for two three day's!


Live on. He is there, things are fine, just live, he seeks you out just let what will be, be.
Posted by EmotionalAries
Posted by Ixion
Posted by EmotionalAries
Posted by Ixion
Posted by AllegoryAddictX
My ethnic background consists of Afro-Cuban, French, Chinese, Puerto Rican(my father who, by appearances, was considered black)...and my mother is Lebanese and Mexican. But she doesn't reek of strong perfumes, I swear.

I'm not averse to dating people of different ethnic backgrounds from my own. Actually, I welcome it. I love learning about new cultures. My ex-husband is white, of both German and French descent. His family wasn't as welcoming, though.

I've been single for some time, and whenever I decide to try my chances again at dating sites, which happens about once a year, I've experienced variations of this with white men: "Have you ever been with a black guy before? Because if you have, I'm sorry, but that's a deal breaker for me. I'm just grossed out by it."







There was a white woman who had a long standing crush on me going back to our teen years...last year we had a bad falling out when she told me she couldn't sleep with me "because you have dated and slept with Chinks and Gwalla Gwalla People (referring to people of south asian descent)". I butter you not it took everything in me not to show tf out right there.


We stopped talking for months...she apologized vehemently and I forgave her but rest assured I have her on full 'you got bout one more time to treetrunk up before I I cut you off for good' watch.


I'm sorry, but that's just sad.


Nothing to be sorry about lol, the sentiment was horrible, she even copped to that.


I'm glad she owned up!
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I'm more interested in her character over time. trtrk that apology I'm looking for receipts of change.
Posted by EmotionalAries
Posted by Ixion
Posted by AllegoryAddictX
My ethnic background consists of Afro-Cuban, French, Chinese, Puerto Rican(my father who, by appearances, was considered black)...and my mother is Lebanese and Mexican. But she doesn't reek of strong perfumes, I swear.

I'm not averse to dating people of different ethnic backgrounds from my own. Actually, I welcome it. I love learning about new cultures. My ex-husband is white, of both German and French descent. His family wasn't as welcoming, though.

I've been single for some time, and whenever I decide to try my chances again at dating sites, which happens about once a year, I've experienced variations of this with white men: "Have you ever been with a black guy before? Because if you have, I'm sorry, but that's a deal breaker for me. I'm just grossed out by it."







There was a white woman who had a long standing crush on me going back to our teen years...last year we had a bad falling out when she told me she couldn't sleep with me "because you have dated and slept with Chinks and Gwalla Gwalla People (referring to people of south asian descent)". I butter you not it took everything in me not to show tf out right there.


We stopped talking for months...she apologized vehemently and I forgave her but rest assured I have her on full 'you got bout one more time to treetrunk up before I I cut you off for good' watch.


I'm sorry, but that's just sad.
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Nothing to be sorry about lol, the sentiment was horrible, she even copped to that.
Posted by AllegoryAddictX
My ethnic background consists of Afro-Cuban, French, Chinese, Puerto Rican(my father who, by appearances, was considered black)...and my mother is Lebanese and Mexican. But she doesn't reek of strong perfumes, I swear.

I'm not averse to dating people of different ethnic backgrounds from my own. Actually, I welcome it. I love learning about new cultures. My ex-husband is white, of both German and French descent. His family wasn't as welcoming, though.

I've been single for some time, and whenever I decide to try my chances again at dating sites, which happens about once a year, I've experienced variations of this with white men: "Have you ever been with a black guy before? Because if you have, I'm sorry, but that's a deal breaker for me. I'm just grossed out by it."







There was a white woman who had a long standing crush on me going back to our teen years...last year we had a bad falling out when she told me she couldn't sleep with me "because you have dated and slept with Chinks and Gwalla Gwalla People (referring to people of south asian descent)". I butter you not it took everything in me not to show tf out right there.


We stopped talking for months...she apologized vehemently and I forgave her but rest assured I have her on full 'you got bout one more time to treetrunk up before I I cut you off for good' watch.
Posted by LePetitFisk
... and how old are you? Please state sun and venus signs.


3 so far I'm 26 going on 27 next month

1st: Nearly 2 years
2nd: 1 and a half
3rd: 1 and a half

Virgo Sun, Leo Venus
Posted by AntiSocial
Hello,

Just wanted some inputs, of course sex is great and all that. But I was just wondering how much sex is too much sex or do you guys think having too much is healthy or an unhealthy habit ?

Appreciate the comments, replies, and opinions as always!


Its considered unhealthy if your sexual behavior is compulsive and not voluntary.

I pulled this info up from you that serves as a general summary of what an unhealthy sexual drive looks like:

Patrick Carnes proposed the following as diagnostic criteria for sexual addiction: (Source: Wikipedia)

Recurrent failure (pattern) to resist impulses to engage in extreme acts of lewd sex.

Frequently engaging in those behaviors to a greater extent or over a longer period of time than intended.

Persistent desire or unsuccessful efforts to stop, reduce, or control those behaviors.

Inordinate amount of time spent in obtaining sex, being sexual, or recovering from sexual experience.

Preoccupation with the behavior or preparatory activities.

Frequently engaging in violent sexual behavior when expected to fulfill occupational, academic, domestic, or social obligations.

Continuation of the behavior despite knowledge of having a persistent or recurrent social, academic, financial, psychological, or physical problem that is caused or exacerbated by the behavior.

Need to increase the intensity, frequency, number, or risk of behaviors to achieve the desired effect, or diminished effect with continued behaviors at the same level of intensity, frequency, number, or risk.

Giving up or limiting social, occupational, or recreational activities because of the behavior.

Resorting to distress, anxiety, restlessness, or violence if unable to engage in the behavior at times relating to SRD (Sexual Rage Disorder).

Dr. Aviel Goodman, director of the Minnesota Institute of Psychiatry in St. Paul, USA, proposed a maladaptive pattern of behavior, leading to clinically significant impairment or distress, as manifested by at least three of the following, occurring at any time in the same 12-month period: (Source: Wikipedia)

Tolerance, as defined by either of the following:

a need for a markedly increased amount or intensity of the behavior to achieve the desired effect
markedly diminished effect with continued involvement in the behavior at the same level or intensity
Withdrawal, as manifested by either of the following:

characteristic psychophysiological withdrawal syndrome of physiologically described changes and/or psychologically described changes upon discontinuation of the behavior
the same (or a closely related) behavior is engaged in to relieve or avoid withdrawal symptoms

And the following:

the behavior is often engaged in over a longer period, in greater quantity, or at a higher intensity than was intended

there is a persistent desire or unsuccessful efforts to cut down or control the behavior
a great deal of time spent in activities necessary to prepare for the behavior, to engage in the behavior, or to recover from its effects

important social, occupational, or recreational activities are given up or reduced because of the behavior
the behavior continues despite knowledge of having a persistent or recurrent physical or psychological problem that is likely to have been caused or exacerbated by the behavior
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Ixion
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Ixion
I'm Jamaican and African-American ethnically, I do consider myself black as well (the three categories are not exactly the same while all being related)

I date everyone, for the most part, race, religion, backgrounds levels of political tolerance (so long as it is a variety of progressive liberal)...I tend to educate women of similar education levels, but not intentionally they just tend to be the ones I have the most access to but I'm open for the most part...except for bigots...which I don't really need to worry about as most of those wouldn't touch me with a 10 ft pole anyway being a black man lol.

Funnily enough, I spent most of this morning looking up research on Online dating stuff. Despite people stating openness to other races and such OKCupid blew the lid off of the "reality" of racial and ethnic preferences in dating. It's dismal.

I included the articles below:

https://theblog.okcupid.com/how-your-race-affects-the-messages-you-get-39c68771b99e
https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060
https://psmag.com/social-justice/why-are-asian-men-less-eligible-on-tinder
https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-real-stuff-white-people-like-66b131aa3ac8


The Native American pact lol


are there membership cards ?


I meant in the first link, where Native American to Native American was the only response rate that exceeded the average lol

And membership cards, there actually are! My godmother is 1/8th and applies for the Native American fund they have in the US.

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too good.
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Ixion
I'm Jamaican and African-American ethnically, I do consider myself black as well (the three categories are not exactly the same while all being related)

I date everyone, for the most part, race, religion, backgrounds levels of political tolerance (so long as it is a variety of progressive liberal)...I tend to educate women of similar education levels, but not intentionally they just tend to be the ones I have the most access to but I'm open for the most part...except for bigots...which I don't really need to worry about as most of those wouldn't touch me with a 10 ft pole anyway being a black man lol.

Funnily enough, I spent most of this morning looking up research on Online dating stuff. Despite people stating openness to other races and such OKCupid blew the lid off of the "reality" of racial and ethnic preferences in dating. It's dismal.

I included the articles below:

https://theblog.okcupid.com/how-your-race-affects-the-messages-you-get-39c68771b99e
https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060
https://psmag.com/social-justice/why-are-asian-men-less-eligible-on-tinder
https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-real-stuff-white-people-like-66b131aa3ac8


The Native American pact lol
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are there membership cards ?