@krysrenee7 I re-read your response over and over again whenever he tries to lure me in. I finally made peace with the fact I was naive. I went to go visit his room mate the other day he thought I was there to see him and he tried to kiss me. Too think I wanted a relationship with this guy, he would've did the same thing to me. Poor girl she knows I exist yet she stays. When I look at her situation I realize how pathetic I was.
Well turns out he has another girl in a different city. At first I was upset but now that I think about it. I didn't love this man. Maybe this new girl will be what he's looking for. I'm finally free to move on and if he tries to come back to me like he always does I'll have this reason to keep me from falling back into his trap.
I've been seeing my cancer since march 8th last month. Beginning he was always trying to feed me, ask if I was comfortable, asked me if I was thirsty. We talk about everything. we both love cuddling, oddly he likes sex more than I do he cant keep his hands off of me, but then again hes really curious about lots of stuff. We non stop ask eachther questions and share our knowledge with eachother. So far no fighting has happened. He always asks me if something is wrong, its like if I am ever am upset he knows. If I don't want to talk about it he will say "okay you don't wanna talk about it, I will ask you another time if it is still bugging you". In a lot of ways he motivates me. He likes to get in my personal space but I don't mind. He still comes off really strong I kind of want to run away but hes fun, handsome, caring, generous and all together a really great guy. I never met anyone who could dream so big, even though hes a pessimist at times about stuff. He has this sparkle in his eyes that he knows that things may seem bad at the moment everything is going to work out perfect.
Okay sixth day hanging out. So far he's sang to me, we first kissed on a sunset, got stuck in a snowy ditch and laughed about it, cuddled, watched movies, went out for dinner, told our moms about each other, spend every time we got after work to hangout, share food, taught each other new things, shared our life experiences with each other. Everyday is something new. He asks so many questions it's adorable. Sometimes he does funny things like tickles me and I joke and say "stop I'll beat you up!" Then he will say "it's okay I don't mind" he's so strong I honestly thought he was muscley from the gym but he said "no it's from working on my fathers farm business back home" >.< how did I get so lucky ? This perfect human being that could probably have anyone in this city likes me. I'm so grateful for meeting this guy he makes me so happy and I've only known him a short while. Wow
Past five days we've been hanging out, omg I saw him with his shirt off I like Literally melted he's so muscley. I don't only like him for his appearance. Right now I think everything about him is perfect.
He tried to kiss me last night but I told him I want to take it slow, but in reality I'm waiting for the perfect moment to kiss him. I want it to be memorable not just some kiss on a boring couch. I hugged him though omg I wanted to hug him so bad for the longest time it was so cute, he comes off really strong and clingy exactly how I am but with him it's different I don't wanna be that way until we are official. I really like him I feel like rushing things would scare him away. I'm just worried. He's Indian I feel respect for his culture and beliefs. The only real problem is that we haven't met each others parents, his live in India and mind live many hours away. Like I think it's sweet he wants to take me out to the major city for a couple nights, but my mother is worrying and is conjuring up the worst scenerios in her head. He said his parents don't mind he is seeing me and his brother that lives here is very happy for him. Mlah I like him so much he's so handsome.
He told me he was just asking to see if I was still comfortable that's why. He literally asked me like every half hour if I was hungry or wanted something to drink lol he's coming over tonight you know maybe I'll lay off astrology abit and try not to over analyze this whole friendship. He's coming to visit again tonight to watch a movie again last night he stayed from 1 am until 5 am. We are both night people because our jobs are night jobs most of the time. So Third day In a row he wants to hangout I didn't even have to ask him he asked me, then tomorrow is both our days off and he asked me to hangout. we are going out of town to see some waterfalls together. I can think for myself you guys it's just I like to hear what they want so I can know the feeling of wanting to hangout is mutual. Even if he said I'm tired I don't mind I would have been fine with going home. Omg i just want to hug him ._. He's so nice but I'm shy.
liked me only after he told me to tell my cat he likes him then I was super smooth and said oh my cat likes you, but I like you more then he said oh I like you also. He was over last night we watched a romantic movie laughed super hard then after that he leaned on my shoulder as we watched videos on my phone. It's kind of like he was shy to try anything like hold my hand. So far he's already called me baby twice. He also invited to take me to the capital city of this province next week to go to the museum and to take me out to eat. So I think I'm gonna go with him he's so sweet. I showed him a pictures of my family and he always says sweet things about them. Even when I was on the phone with my mom he told me "tell your mom she has a kind and beautiful daughter who happens to be a good driver and smells really good" he also said I have beautiful eyes and a nice smile. He called me perfect. Anyways enough about how amazing I think he is, do cancer and leo work out? Is there anything I need to know about cancers that would help me keep this friendship evolving into something wonderful? Seriously I never met anyone so wonderful. I'm really infatuated with him.
I'm a leo. I finally hungout with my cancer friend I thought maybe we were just going to go hangout at his place and play video games. Instead we went for hot chocolate @8 pm after work, then we chatted a whole bunch about our lives. He's 22 and moved to northern Canada three years ago from India. At ten he asked if I wanted to go home and I said "do you want me to go home ?" Then he said no I could hangout with you for hours I really enjoy your company. So he took me for a ride out of town and we just looked at the city lights for a tiny bit until the gas light came on then we headed back into town. At the gas station he asked me if I liked boston pizza I said I like the beverages there so he suggested we go there. We ended up laughing for multiple hours and drank these really yummy slush beverages called orange creamsicles. It was the first time he ever tried it. After that he asked if I wanted to go home again it was 1am now. I asked the same question "why do you want me to go home" he replied of course not I'm a night person I never really hungout with any girl like this in a few years you're so fun to be around. Then we drove out to the lake to go look at the area and cabins for fun so that took up a couple hours. Then he asked me if I wanted to drive, I said okay and he complimented my safe driving then when we got out of the car it was really dark and we both stared at the stars for a couple minutes. When we got back into town he asked if I was tired and if I wanted to go home still I answered him with the same question and he said nope I want to drive around with you and talk more. We ended up getting two different veggie wraps and he took me to his restaurant after it was closed showed me around and we ate the wraps in the work office. By this time it was 3:30 am. We went out to the train station because he never checked out that area of the city so while we were there we saw the northern lights in the sky dancing and he was so surprised because he never experienced the view of aurora bourealis and That's when I taught him how to whistle with four fingers. We found a really quiet place to park the vehicle and we talked for an hour and a half. By the time it was five I decided to go home. Once I was home he texted me saying goodnight, and thanking me for hanging out with him. He told me I was very beautiful and nice. He said the night has been one of the best nights of his life. So far we message all the time, it took him a whole day to tell me he
Okay we didn't go for breakfast because we had some weird misunderstanding. Anyways he said I bailed on breakfast but I thought he was bailing on breakfast then he said we can hangout after he was done eating but he was too full to hangout so I went for breakfast with my best friend whos an Aries that I get along with well.
I wait so long for my ex fianc? to want me as much as i wanted him. I knew I loved him unconditionally, and that we could remain friends because I could never hate anyone it's not my nature. I forgive him, but I'm scared he'll turn into that same man i was losing touch with. I ran away because I knew if I stayed I would get back together with him just because I loved him so much. Then I met this new guy who I once accidentally told him I love him only because I asked him to grab me a cup and he was like no being lazy, then I was like common ..... I love youuuuuu!!! Then I caught what I said then that turned into me joking "hurry up please I'll love you forever" then he did what I asked. I mean he didn't push me away or ignore me.
I just get bored a lot with my free time. I like being around anyone not only him. I wouldn't mind spending more time with him. I have mentioned to him that sometimes it feels like he only wants to hangout when he feels like it and not when I want too. I didn't ask him how he felt about me and him hanging out. I want him to be just as crazy as I am about him. We're going for breakfast again in the morning when he gets off work. He was suppose to stop by my work today but he ended up grocery shopping more than he thought he would so he didn't have time. My ex fianc? finally talked to me and said he was sorry about everything. Sorry for being distant, choosing his friends over me, letting his family and family treat me awful not even sticking up for me when they said hurtful things about me telling him to leave me when they never even knew me. He told me if he could go back in time he would take back not fighting for me when I told him i was going to go visit my homecity and that I thought we should split up. He realized I was always there for him, gave him alot of love and affection, cared for him, wanted to spend so much time with him. And now that all his friends have moved away, or his family don't hangout with him as much. He knew I was right for leaving him and wished he could take every awful thing he said and did to me. He told me he wants to try work things out, and wants to grow old with me, and have cats (p.s we both don't want children) I'm so confused. Wow my life is all over the place.
He's usually not that affectionate if he is tired. I kind of make him sound more worse than he really is. But I'm a Leo I don't mean too but yeah we show we like each other in different ways. I smother him with undying attentions and wanna talk all the time. He just likes to fill my brain with random facts about life, wants to hangout with me on some of his free days & tells me that even without makeup I'm beautiful.
You're slap in the face is really helpful. I can't stop thinking about him. I thought he was younger when I met him, he thought I was older. It's just I'm dumbfounded. I'm a really nice person, I like to make the person I like feel like a billion dollars. I go out of my way without expecting anything in return. I'm nineteen, educated, I have a high paying job, I'd like to think I'm not unnattractve. When I'm cold to him he comes closer by wanting to hangout and do thing together I mean we don't always fool around. I can just go over, hangout then sleepover, wake up go home or vice versa he comes over. I mean we live 40 seconds away from each other. My family knows about him, his room mates and friends know I exist. My friends say its like you guys are dating but you guys don't even know it. I don't know I like him. I can't get him off my mind sometimes. I know he doesn't intentionally hurt me. He's really independent and hardworking. I might just have a lot of free time.