Posted by scarletvixen
Dated a few Caps and I'm currently in a ~something~ with a Cap. Not necessarily hard to get. More so they gravitate towards those who already have busy lives and are naturally hard to get because they are in many places at one time.
I think they also need you to initiate something once they've clearly shown their interest. However, personally, I don't directly ask them out. My go to thing is to ask if he wants to join me in doing something and it's something that he knows I'm already going before I asked him to join me.
Posted by InstantkarmaPosted by Jalent99
Just curious, most men would treasure ladies that are hard to get....does it apply to Cap men too?
If Cap men are at a busy stage of their career, if u rejected their invitation without rescheduling, will they just give up or will they be intrigued?
If u were already seeing each other for a while, and the lady never proactively schedules for a date but always agree to every date u ask, are we too easy to go after? Or are Cap men more appreciative that we try to accomodate them whenever (not referring to booty calls), for a drink etc...
Honesty works better with them. Be playful not hard to get.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03
I can only speak from experience. I tried playing hard to get for a little while and it had the opposite affect. No Bueno.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Jalent99
Ohhh i didnt mean u guys are not compatible, i meant its easier for me cause i have similar behaviors given similar placements, wherelse u need more time to understand him. Good to know that u have great chemistry! ?
I love talking to u guys, everytime I do I m challenged to rem that I do behave in a certain way as well and yet at the receiving end of it I get all uncomfortable....
I like to think that Caps tries hard when its something they want! Well I can only be positive about his efforts....
Yes be positive. I know you feel like he doesn't like you as much, but he seems so interested!!click to expand