Jalent

Love crime, documentaries, non-cheesy romance (like one fine day, eat pray love), based on true story, disney

Avoid psycho, horror, toilet humour

Prefer netflix to going to the movies

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cap are better irl

I don’t think I’ll ever see him in real life since it’s been 3 days without hearing from him and if I reach out only gonna annoy him I guess as my gut is telling me he found another lady or ladies to keep him entertained ☹️ Ah well

lol chill caps are slow

Please shed some more lights to my direction? I’m like a zombie right now don’t know wth am I doing lol

I think u might have a better chance than me......caps are just slower every step of the way......but if theres a connection, he will come ard

Well i just read if a taurus leave u on read (3wks now).....then its done 😓
I guess i screwed up when i told him i miss him in my last msg, pobably caused him to back away.....maybe he is unsure plus being too busy at work

I thought caps are consistent not flaky? If they are flaky and MIA whether caps or not means the guys just not into the woman? Ah well, I’m gonna expect the worst now that’s he has another candy to entertain I’m just a history...it’s over ☹️ But it’s okay when it was good it was really good at least I know what being loved feels like for short while ❤️

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I guess we r like taurus.....we are not flaky once we are decided.....
💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻We will get there together

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cap are better irl

I don’t think I’ll ever see him in real life since it’s been 3 days without hearing from him and if I reach out only gonna annoy him I guess as my gut is telling me he found another lady or ladies to keep him entertained ☹️ Ah well

lol chill caps are slow

Please shed some more lights to my direction? I’m like a zombie right now don’t know wth am I doing lol

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I think u might have a better chance than me......caps are just slower every step of the way......but if theres a connection, he will come ard

Well i just read if a taurus leave u on read (3wks now).....then its done 😓
I guess i screwed up when i told him i miss him in my last msg, pobably caused him to back away.....maybe he is unsure plus being too busy at work

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Sun in Taurus, Moon in Leo. Taurus Rising, Aqua in the 10th, Scorpio in the 7th.

My sun is in the 12th and my moon is in the 3rd.

I come across as aggressive and scattered to most people thanks to heavy gemini influence in my chart. Also Mars is in my 1st house.

I will fight to death if anyone harms someone I love. I'm ambitious, bossy, and can smell bullbutter miles away. I can't stand truly mean individuals or harm against the helpless: children or animals. I've fought for human rights campaigns for decades and began supporting anti-human trafficking causes in my city too. I was elected class president in my MBA program and my entire platform was to spur greater diversity and inclusion.

But you want to hear this: I'm arrogant, aggressive, a bully, rude, dramatic, and didactic. And it's all true. I'm all of those things. My dark side is powerful and useful, actually. I embrace it when required. I will slice at the jugular.

I'm also passionate, deeply inspired, obsessed with trying to live ethically, and creative. I'm not the smartest but I read daily, enjoy documentaries, and keep up with world events. In a relationship I give my all and then some, but I remain independent. If I don't see someone trying to improve a bit each day, I get dissapointed. If I see folks who lack self-esteem, I try my best to bring a smile on their face. I'm the friend who can be an absolute c**kiemonster, but will still be by your side - especially when you're in the pits of despair. You're a part of my pride. For life. And when you succeed, I look you straight in the eyes and say I'm PROUD of you. I feel YOUR achievement in my veins - that's pride done right.

Yeah, I get the hate against leo moons. I do. We can do some dumb butter that hurts folks. We can be insensitive and over-the-top. The ego is a downfall for humans in general, but it's expressed worse in Leo Moons.

I've been truly hated before - in particular by a Scorpio moon. This person was my senior manager. She truly hated me. I hated her too. I hated what she was. At the soul-level. One day, she laid me off. The next day, I had 60+ co-workers reach out to me saying she's a tyrant and that they were sad to see me go as I was "one of few with integrity." No worries, I charmed myself into a promotion at a competing firm. One day I saw her resume come across my desk as we had a position open - it was handed to me in a stack by my recruiter. I got word that she was moved into an individual contributor role at my last firm after yet another ethics investigation. I took her resume in my hands and I ripped it slowly in half, then in quarters, and threw it into the trash. I then continued with my work day.

Cheers

Hi, how are you like wrt love?

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@Jalent99 I did think may be he’s waiting for me to text but I notice lately each time I reached out his reply getting shorter and shorter and usually fairly quickly ending the chat or I have to change the subject if I wanna carry on. May be these are red flags as well. I won’t blame him since he said he’s only started a week on the app when we first chatted, so this is definitely like a candY shop to him knowing he’s only officially divorced 11 months at that time...(or may be all these are lies? No disrespect, but I don’t think Capricorn men who still men anyway never lied?) I hope I will be over him sooner than I think, as this pain is not nice at all.

On the other hand, I really hope Hongs do work out for you

This popped up during my run https://g.co/kgs/VZfPuA

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

Not to ride but Why would you wait for a stranger. He was rejecting you lightly hoping you would catch the hint. Telling him you will wait isn’t sexy, it’s annoying. You better get three men to date and when he calls tell him if you even have time to respond. Also him telling you ahead of time he will be busy is GAME.

Cause u cant rationalise why u like someone.....and we shared a few kisses. I told him i cant kiss him then date another, doesnt work like that for me.
The waiting is to pick up where we left off to see where this might go, not expecting an immediate r/s.....

That’s the thing it won’t pick up. You showed a lack of respect for yourself when you said you would wait for him, you did yourself no favors and lowered your perceived value.

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Well i just think from my perspective. Cause i am an earth sign (like he is).....i like someone stable. So if i told him ok i will date someone else in the meantime, this would be going through my mind - 1) she will easily kiss any other guy 2) maybe i dont mean soo much to her.....

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

Not to ride but Why would you wait for a stranger. He was rejecting you lightly hoping you would catch the hint. Telling him you will wait isn’t sexy, it’s annoying. You better get three men to date and when he calls tell him if you even have time to respond. Also him telling you ahead of time he will be busy is GAME.

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Cause u cant rationalise why u like someone.....and we shared a few kisses. I told him i cant kiss him then date another, doesnt work like that for me.
The waiting is to pick up where we left off to see where this might go, not expecting an immediate r/s.....

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Only 2 months and a bit...I am using WhatsApp on my laptop at work so I can see him online slot and long time each time then I can’t stop myself from thinking he met another better one lol yes we met on an app he said I was the very first one he sent messages to 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am having trust issues now as well as my overthinking plus insecurities kicking in 😭 I feel so overwhelmed right now 😭😭😭😭

You are right. Find a way to hide his activity, since it’s bothering you for nothing....this person is not your future boyfriend. His actions are speaking deafening loudly!

Thank you 🙏🏻 I already deleted the conversation on whatsapp out of sight out of mind...it’s not the first time. First time was 5 days without anything no reply either and he popped back saying he’s been swamped with work and I took it as okay...I did this to myself allowing him to coming and go 🤦🏻‍♀️ Looks like moving on is the only answer I don’t like confronting him as we are not official but a little closure saying it met someone’ or ‘ I can’t see this is going further’ from him would be nice since I don’t want things to end but I have to accept it now tears down the face as I replying omg I can cry now woohoo been bottling up this long! Thank you xx

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Awww dont assume.....maybe like u said wrt the taurus not replying me.....he is just busy.....
Have u met him? Maybe meeting up would help move things along.

Oh and cap man are sometimes soo complicated!

I mention this in another post before. But just to give u ladies an idea. I was dating one 5yrs ago, 3mths later realise he didnt want marriage down the rd (he is divorced), it was hard but i walk away. 3yrs ago he got in touch and pursued. I asked if anything change abt his long term plan, he said no. I walked away.

Recently he is back.....i straightup told him that we r both similar in personality and stubborn in long terms goals in life. I dont think it will ever work.....his reply.....i think i might have changed

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Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Hi x
I'm a Capricorn woman and I like a man to reply relatively quick. It shows he likes me. It doesnt have to be straight away but within 5mins.
I'm chatting to a guy on Bumble right now but he's taking up to 12 HOURS to reply to my messages!
Its bothering me!
And to me its like he's only replying out of politeness yet he puts 😉😎 on his messages to me.

Anyway..
What I'm trying to say from a Capricorn point of view is that if he is like me then he probably wanted a quick reply from you!
10mins is ok so it may mean that he is - worst case - offended you didn't reply sooner. Or - best case - he felt relieved/happy and carried on with his busy schedule.

If I were you, I would text him "Are you ok? x"
And leave it there...see what he says.

Hello! Thank you for your reply I guess I haven’t got the guts to do this to be honest...my feeling is telling me a very nice woman is keeping him happy now if my message pops up may only kill his mood he text me on Sunday to say morning sweets (afternoon on his side due to time zone) and as soon as I woke up I replied good morning hun with a smile, and nothing ever since...(about half an hour after he sent the message I woke up). I really don’t know why I’m so scared of making a move with him, may be he didn’t see anything like I see, I’m only just a friend? But the things we been talking about and all defo more than friends...omg my overthinking is killing me. Since I haven’t been myself lately, the happy playful lighthearted me (the one he first met) is now gone even I find my replies are so dull, may be that’s why he did a runner? I guess he’s gone now he dropped me like a hot cake😭

The taurus man used words like baby too....i used to ask if he is that sweet to everyone.
Anyway, as a cap......i am cautious abt being given sweet names before a r/s......maybe its just me 😵 too serious

Me too.....my replies have been dull too. I mean i know how to be lighthearted and fun. But knowing he is busy i didnt want to load on and overshare about my life.....and i prefer sharing my life face to face or a phone call. Also.....with the covid.....i kind of feel that he frowns upon me hanging out with friends.....though they are the same grp and i probly meet them once per week......but cause we msg less and when we do i send him photos of the meetup of that week, i feel that his impression is that i am too outgoing......(red flag for taurus?) 😓

This is actually really strange, it feels like I’m talking to my reflection now lol you and me are in exactly same situation with exactly same mind of thinking and issues/struggles. I hate expressing my feelings and I don’t normally have pet names for anyone unless I’m in r/S but he’s a Capricorn and calling me sweets all the way (after few weeks of chatting first) even up til Sunday just gone he still calling me sweets though not heard from him for 2 days now...I can express myself way better in person im a very practical person.

Anyhow, personally I love receiving pictures from the person I like, it feels like I’m part of their daily life if it makes sense though I won’t say it but deep down I’m over the moon... I’m very outgoing and life of a party to be precise. Never dull around me but text wise, between friends I’m playful and always make them laugh so hard to the point they wet themselves but with the person I had feeling towards to...I’m a chicken as I don’t wanna make a silly move and lose him?

I admire outgoing people, may be I’m one. Did I ally group pics really lighten my day lol don’t worry about too much (but I can’t do it myself lol) give him til end of the project, 3 weeks without contact while we are swamped with work is nothing tbh sorry for being so flat out but I rather tell you how I feel as a Taurus but I can’t speak for all at least she’s some lights to you

I still debating inside if I should forget about this Cappy man and move on

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How long has yours been going? I am not sure if a cap man is similar to a cap woman, but i take at least 3-6 months of being ard the person to kind of be sure that he is here to stay.....guys who dont stick ard that long, i would be thinking well at least i didnt waste my time with him.

Assuming we r similar, well i have a taurus moon. I told my taurus too.....i dont need to date anyone else cause i m not wanting a r/s for the sake of wanting one for the moment. I want someone i can really connect with, feel comfortable ard, complimentary to me in ways and go on adventures together, someone whom i can be there for and he for me. * i wasnt that articulate when i say this to him but essentially what i feel.

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Cappy man disappeared for few days and reappeared! Lol brief few messages and told me what happened over the long wknd and boom! Suddenly a text message (times difference between us I was still asleep) Saying he miss me 😨 when I got up saw the message I replied morning I miss you too...wish you were here and my phone went dead as I pressed the send button (ffs) then charged it thought it was sent but nope, I have to type it and send again. He read it 10 mins later and not heard anything since...have I made a mistake? Or he made a mistake now doesn’t know how to reply to my message? Confused AF lol ah well I’m doing better than last post now, those days he disappeared I just get on with life and I was too busy to think about why and what. And bang! He came back! Now I feel like I done so mmm etching wring and pushed him away like saying it kiss you too’ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any thoughts? Any Cappy can chip in your 2 cents? Many thanks

Hi x
I'm a Capricorn woman and I like a man to reply relatively quick. It shows he likes me. It doesnt have to be straight away but within 5mins.
I'm chatting to a guy on Bumble right now but he's taking up to 12 HOURS to reply to my messages!
Its bothering me!
And to me its like he's only replying out of politeness yet he puts 😉😎 on his messages to me.

Anyway..
What I'm trying to say from a Capricorn point of view is that if he is like me then he probably wanted a quick reply from you!
10mins is ok so it may mean that he is - worst case - offended you didn't reply sooner. Or - best case - he felt relieved/happy and carried on with his busy schedule.

If I were you, I would text him "Are you ok? x"
And leave it there...see what he says.

Hello! Thank you for your reply I guess I haven’t got the guts to do this to be honest...my feeling is telling me a very nice woman is keeping him happy now if my message pops up may only kill his mood he text me on Sunday to say morning sweets (afternoon on his side due to time zone) and as soon as I woke up I replied good morning hun with a smile, and nothing ever since...(about half an hour after he sent the message I woke up). I really don’t know why I’m so scared of making a move with him, may be he didn’t see anything like I see, I’m only just a friend? But the things we been talking about and all defo more than friends...omg my overthinking is killing me. Since I haven’t been myself lately, the happy playful lighthearted me (the one he first met) is now gone even I find my replies are so dull, may be that’s why he did a runner? I guess he’s gone now he dropped me like a hot cake😭

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The taurus man used words like baby too....i used to ask if he is that sweet to everyone.
Anyway, as a cap......i am cautious abt being given sweet names before a r/s......maybe its just me 😵 too serious

Me too.....my replies have been dull too. I mean i know how to be lighthearted and fun. But knowing he is busy i didnt want to load on and overshare about my life.....and i prefer sharing my life face to face or a phone call. Also.....with the covid.....i kind of feel that he frowns upon me hanging out with friends.....though they are the same grp and i probly meet them once per week......but cause we msg less and when we do i send him photos of the meetup of that week, i feel that his impression is that i am too outgoing......(red flag for taurus?) 😓

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

I can relate to this, I know it sounds dumb but I do that all the times. I get stressed and worked up so easily specially when it comes to projects. I don’t wanna be distracted and as selfish as it sounds, once I’m texting again I’ll be distracted and not getting things done. Worst of all I’m a perfectionist so I would t want my project be a piece of trash. I said things like go find someone/leave then etc at times but it’s actually opposite to what I really mean. I know it’s stupid but for me I don’t want that person to go. If I want you to leave, I do the opposite, I won’t be vocal or dropping any hint at all. I won’t ghost you but I turn stone cold until either I tell that person to get lost or get the hint and leave. Cowards I know that’s why when I come to think of it I guess this Capricorn man is telling to leave him alone in subtle way.

Don’t think too much, when this Taurus done with the project he’ll be back in your life in a jiffy. I’m very insecure not sure about him but sometimes I need a lot of reassurance. But just don’t flat out on me, I can’t take it lol I hope he’ll realise you’re there all the way, but don’t love your life around him, enjoy what you do, go out with your friends, this definitely make us wonder why you’ve been quiet

Good luck and I’m here if you need to talk

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Has been 3 weeks since i last heard from him. But as a cap, my communication on expressing emotions is terrible. I wanted to tell him i admire what he has done soo far and he is amazing. But i didnt.
My last voicemessages were - i realise i didnt express myself well in my replies frm before and sound unconcern but actually i do care and just wanted u to know.....soo he didnt reply to this.

Well.....happy to stick ard and in mid may i will be away for a month.....sooo till then.

*knowing me i will still think too much and circle back to ask for advice, pls bear with me till then 😂

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Awww Jalent99... guess what he just text told me just got home from work with 😭 emoji. Think I’m kinda used his behaviour (even though still overthink ALOT!) one day he could be so chatty and conversation goes on all day then when he said good night I told myself ‘wow what just happened? I guess I won’t hear from him much again tomorrow’ 😂😂 we are not dating as we can even meet up, defo not exclusive or Official so I finally convinced myself just see it as a normal friendship, this way I can be myself and things will be easier. Anyway what do you wanna know about Taurus? See if can chip in my 2 cents?

Well I usually take a while to warm up and want a r/s too.....in the range of 3-6mths typically 😂

So my story - Met the taurus and we went out a couple of times in feb.....then he got on a project end feb and i didnt see him but we still text regularly......then end of mar he disappeared.....read but no reply to my last msgs. I didnt send him more after.

Previously in mid mar he told me he is overwhelmed with the project and though he likes me but he cant meet me and he feels guilty. He suggested i meet other guys (we met on an app) and if i like him at the end of the project thats good. I told him i am not going to do that and am happy to wait.

I know apr is the peak of his project, but given the no reply....:/ i dunno what to think.

🙏🏻Well....i will hang in there for now......

I think a cap guy would just be smiling that u feel the same.....and went on his own stuff....
😉i think a lot too....overthinking abt a taurus atm 😂

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Def not Capricorns coz i know they were always (trying to) go back to their exes

I actually never reconsider any of my ex, always think thoroughly before a breakup and once i get there i never look back

Giving him space......not getting in touch for now....though i show some anxiety here, not letting him see or know any of this......
Taurus man typically behave differently from the others?

Sooo strange....i met a Cap man 6 years ago, we dated for a few months and when sharing long term goals he didnt want to get married (he came out of a bad divorce many years before we met) and didn't want children. I being Cap too, know what I want, despite the Chemistry, I cut him off totally.

2 years after we met again, went out on a few dates, chemistry was there (didnt sleep together) but he hasnt change his mind about what he wanted in life. I did the same thing, walked away.

Anyway 2 months ago we started messaging.....i met him, told him we can hangout as friends....sometimes when we have talk about certain topics he says stuff that might be borderline crossing the friends threshold for me.....ie ohh i can give u a massage.

I told him I dont want to be presumptuous, but I know we are both stubborn and our life goals will not change. I am not interested in anything more than a friendship. He continued asking me out and told me that things might have change for him, he is open to what I want now.......anyway, I have been keeping him at arm's length. *we have never been fwb so he is not sticking ard for that too.

Maybe.....Cap men have decided to change this year? After all, this year is big about changes for a Cap.

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He got super busy for some reason??

He told you the exact reason and you keep ignoring that part

I do understand, thus frm msging daily to twice a week last week to no reply this week. I didnt react to any of this infront of him. I m just perplexed about him not replying at all as I never encounter such a person before......