Jalent99

Looks Tough.....look at sun-sun, moon-moon, mercury-mercury, his mars her venus, his venus her sun/moon for the basic connection.....
His 7th house(marriage & partnership) is in sag, hers in aries, dont see any major connection there too

Depends but am very generous to partners family and close friends.....
The cap i m dating pays for 90% of our dates, but we r both practical soo nothing too fancy

Go to my happy place

Intended name for my first kid ? Far from happening.....

Never smoked in my life.
Appear too strong and independent, wish i could show a balance.

I like justin bieber ?

I probably posted every 2-3wks previously but have less than 5 this yr.....just didnt feel like doing it

Venus Aqua - when in a relationship i m not detached at all.....i can be very passionate, expressive in my feelings, but some days i just need space ? I want some me time

@scarletvixen
I would love to do that....but the prob would be that he is soo busy and he is quite random in where he likes to go. Ie i wanted to go to this art exhi previously but he suggested another art exhi and we ended up goin to the other one.....

Then again we dont really spend weekends together soo its not easy ? Mostly weekdays evening only

Posted by scarletvixen
Dated a few Caps and I'm currently in a ~something~ with a Cap. Not necessarily hard to get. More so they gravitate towards those who already have busy lives and are naturally hard to get because they are in many places at one time.

I think they also need you to initiate something once they've clearly shown their interest. However, personally, I don't directly ask them out. My go to thing is to ask if he wants to join me in doing something and it's something that he knows I'm already going before I asked him to join me.

Ok let me try this! But I always feel that Cap men likes to wear the pants in taking decisions from where and when to meet, what to do etc, soo I always let him take the lead. Soo far i like what he likes thus its ok for me....

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Posted by Jalent99
Just curious, most men would treasure ladies that are hard to get....does it apply to Cap men too?

If Cap men are at a busy stage of their career, if u rejected their invitation without rescheduling, will they just give up or will they be intrigued?

If u were already seeing each other for a while, and the lady never proactively schedules for a date but always agree to every date u ask, are we too easy to go after? Or are Cap men more appreciative that we try to accomodate them whenever (not referring to booty calls), for a drink etc...

Honesty works better with them. Be playful not hard to get.

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Ok! Playful during dates and sometimes in text right? I happen to always be available when he asks.....ok maybe i had fo slightly reschedule some of my stuff to accomodate him.....i know i shd honestly tell him when i m unavailable but he is too busy and i do want to see him ?

Posted by pinkbird03
I can only speak from experience. I tried playing hard to get for a little while and it had the opposite affect. No Bueno.

I hv never tried.....but i always agree to dates he set. And it got me thinking have i been to easy

Just curious, most men would treasure ladies that are hard to get....does it apply to Cap men too?

If Cap men are at a busy stage of their career, if u rejected their invitation without rescheduling, will they just give up or will they be intrigued?

If u were already seeing each other for a while, and the lady never proactively schedules for a date but always agree to every date u ask, are we too easy to go after? Or are Cap men more appreciative that we try to accomodate them whenever (not referring to booty calls), for a drink etc...

I was cancelled on once by a Cap ast week, he rescheduled for the following day and though he finished work late, we still met up...

If its work, I will reschedule on the person. But if I m slightly sick, i will let the person know and if he is ok with meeting I will still turn up. That is valid only for someone I m into/intrigued by...

@myaaaya

Not all caps, i was in a r/s with one and that never happ in the 1.5yrs together.

As a Cap, I personally need time alone when i m stressed, cause i dont want to affect my partner and I believe i can shoulder everyth on my own....then again my aqua venus might be the domineering trait tht makes me retreat a little. My retreating is different, if he doesnt contact me, i wouldnt, but if he does i wouldnt ignore. It also depends on if i m into him.

Dont know abt guys, mayb they cant multitask like us thus when focus in work, we r not on their mind, and the work might take a while. That or cause Caps Takes time to realise that they like u, in the meantime we wont be anywhere near the top on his priority list, thus the disappearance.....

The top 3 signs tht take a long time to decide in r/s
1) Cap
2) Sag
3) Aqua

The thing abt the society nowadays, the more highly educated u r, the more difficult it will be for u to find work....unless in specialise fields like medical/legal.....

Anyway I digress.....the guy i date disappears for 2-3days, but when he comes back he intentionally/unintentionally explains why he didnt contact me.....

I dated a pisces previously, they disappear for weeks, comes back and pick it off where they left with no reasons where they went....if u ask, **pooffffff gone again

Anyway weirdly all signs men do the disappearing act, its only to what extend.....

I hv never considered fwb.....sun cap venus mercury 7th hse aqua

Maybe its my venus, r/s with virgo gets boring after 2yrs. And they r less ambitious than i would have liked. Having said that i loved my virgo ex.....

Mercury Aqua
Saturn Libra
Moon Gemini

Less patience and take ppl for granted in 20s. More patience and considerate in 30s. Always confident....know what i want and know what i need to do to get there.

Apart from love tooo (@Foreverloveme) ?

I can share a personal experience, was very in love with a ex, he was a Cap too. However he is much younger and I felt he wasnt stable. During the last few mths of our r/s we werent in the best of our r/s as he was stressed at work and communication wasnt my strength then. Taking the easy way, I looked out of the r/s.

Then I met someone more stable at work and rationally this other person would be better for me, thus I broke off with my ex. I deeply regretted this a few mths later, but whats done cant be undone. Sometimes Caps are too rational, we lay out reasons for being in a r/s or not and we act on it - find a solution tht we feel would be best for all.....

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Posted by Jalent99
@pinkbird03
Ohhh i didnt mean u guys are not compatible, i meant its easier for me cause i have similar behaviors given similar placements, wherelse u need more time to understand him. Good to know that u have great chemistry! ?
I love talking to u guys, everytime I do I m challenged to rem that I do behave in a certain way as well and yet at the receiving end of it I get all uncomfortable....
I like to think that Caps tries hard when its something they want! Well I can only be positive about his efforts....

Yes be positive. I know you feel like he doesn't like you as much, but he seems so interested!!

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Thank U! Hope urs work out well too!! ?