Posted by boxcarmirnta
Do the men now!
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by NewAstrologyStill good info to discussPosted by SkeletonPosted by NewAstrology
Hello Guys 1st post here.
I have this aspect with a girl I'm currently seeing. I'm a male taurus sun and she's a pisces sun. In synastry we have venus opposition pluto (she has pluto in scorpio 25 degreee while i have venus in taurus in 15 degree) I also have pluto sagittarius 4 degree while she has venus in aries in 20 degree which would make us have venus trine pluto in a wide degree. Regardless the connection that i have with this girl is mind blowing. Everything that is described venus opposition pluto is true. However what I'm confused is who is actually pluto and venus in the relationship. What i mean is that I often identify both with venus and pluto in the relationship. I identify with pluto in that I am often very possesive of her and fascinated by her to the point where I want to have her all by myself so that I can make love to her mind body and soul over and over again and possibly heal of her past traumas. I often do get jealous of her flirting and talking to her male friends but i try not to act on it too much. I identify with venus in that i often feel like I'm trapped in the relationship like even if I want to leave I can't for some reason. It also doesn't help that I'm a virgo rising and I have her sun on my 7th and 8th house cups.
My question would be is it possible for the roles to be reversed, exemple I am the pluto and she's the venus in this case ?
I really hate to break ya, but it not an aspect since its to wide for each other. It has to be under 9 orb aspect connection (like 5 degree moon and 8 degree sun for example, they're 3 orbs away toe ach other).
Yours is out of it.
What you can do is to go to astro.com, go to extended chart, create 2 profilw for u and that pisces girl and then set up to synastry chart at the chart type and voila.
Oh I see so it must be an aspect under 9 degree. It probably means that we don't have any aspect to our venus and pluto.. sucks lol. Its just that I identified so much with the venus opposite pluto description in our relationship.
Anyway I'll try to post a complete synastry chart with the correct orb connections.
Really sorry about that kinda new to astrology..click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by jeane
The definition of beautiful is time sensitive.
I got that venus belly circa 1510 lol
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Posted by Pgurl94Posted by jeane
He calls you at 3am?
Yes !!! After he came back from his work !!!click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977
She's a Cancer...
It's never "I."
It's always "you made me...feel this...do this...say this...."
You will get your man back when he stepped up his 'money game'...he may throw in love/hate sex as part of the bonus package. As of now, with his financial insecurities, and your guilt trips and pressuring ways....a reconciliation isn't happening any time soon.
Posted by Lovebug
@jeane thank you for sending that!
It’s not like I can talk really I would just run away leading to what can appear as erratic emotions.
My ex fiancé(Scorpio) and I used to be friends until recently. He told me that he found it very difficult being only friends. Seeing me and not being able to be as close. Because he was so honest, I got angry with my bull for being around for so long and not just speaking up but bulls generally aren’t as open, so instead I was getting very suspicious, thinking he wasn’t being very honest when I would talk to him. I was expecting him to invite me out with other friends thinking that maybe in a group he would behave differently. But clearly he doesn’t want to and prefers it just being the two of us but because the trust is broken from before he no doubt doesn’t want to rush anything. I finally get why he would say be patient. I was just thinking that we are friends right now so patient for what?!
Your posts have been such a great help and really calmed me down!!💕
Posted by Lovebug
@jeane actually yes it does! And coupled with what you said before, unless I’ve misunderstood it seems quite clear that until they are sure you are not going anywhere and trust you they would tend to err on the side of caution as not to give too much away regarding his feelings. If I got it right...?
That is the part I need to build with him again as everyone is older and it would be the second time around. My airy way made me think he was just being dramatic but I understand better now.
Posted by SagittariusInLove
The great thing about Taurus men is that they’re open about their feelings, so you don’t have to wonder what they’re really thinking or feeling behind closed doors. Dating a Taurus man means he’ll let you know how he feels right away, simply because he wants to be sure that you’re both on the same page. He also wants to define the relationship as soon as possible so you both know you’re not messing around or wasting each other's time.