Posted by Nefertari
Gross? I think he's just being honest.

I have very loyal, sweet and reliable Taurus friends.

I guess it also depends on the character of the Taurus itself. And I heard about Taurus who are quite abusive or plain manipulative.


Thanks for the articles.

The third article was a very interesting read and very true...

We are Venusian... Alot of people will never get on our list...
Posted by SassyKiwi
The third link sums up everything

They're really gross


What's gross about it????

He is telling the truth!

Obviously you don't fit the "Taurus" check list and you are BITTER about that... Get over it!

It hurts I know, but you just dont make the graded requirements for a Taurus, we are PICKY...

Move on....
Posted by Gigiaqua
Posted by jane84
Posted by Gigiaqua
Hi, Im an aqua sun sag moon, taurus rising. My love interest is a taurus sun capricorn moon. Both 23.

I met him in November 2016 at the end of his 5yr relationship with someone else. She broke up (reasons unrelated to me) with him maybe a week after we began very mildly flirting by text. He said the relationship had been going through a long rough patch and was hard and said even though he loved her it wasnt gonna work if it hadnt worked after 5yrs because of all her issues. They had lived together for a year and he asked her to move out in August 2016.
We then started flirting and talking a lot (all initiated by him) and we were intimate once a few weeks after they broke up. We work on schoolwork together and he called me every night anyways. In December 2016 she turned up pregnant and he said it was never going to work out with her because he didnt trust her couldnt see a future cant marry her she wouldnt be a good mother etc. He was devastated that she might be pregnant and we had an assignment due the night he told me and I had to stay with him to finish it. When he told me she was pregnant he said to me "idk how you're gonna take this" but I didnt freak out just held his hand and rubbed his head and played Sade for him to fall asleep because he was literally distressed. He was going out and drinking and drinking but calling me every night anyways. (She's no longer pregnant as it wasnt viable.) He called me first thing Christmas morning and New Years morning as he went to his home state for the holiday and still called everyday. I threw a tantrum on him around the 7th of Jan because I heard he got back with the ex, he insisted he didnt and I apologized. Ive had a few arguments since then about him always having time for his ex to talk but being tired (which I understand because he does have sleeping problems Im just jealous when I cant get his time when I ask) and about a friend of mine whom he had drinks with alone. I always end up apologizing for being very angry but I get no resolution. One evening in January he was very down and I took him some beer and chips and went with him to buy weed to help him chill a bit. At the end of that night he told me he loved me.

We had another huge argument because he had done something terrible and he ended up apologizing. I thought then that it was time for us to have a convo about what we were doing. Im really not in a relationship rush because I really want to get to know him but a conversation to just be on the same page about what we were doing and feelings etc. He was studying and kept telling me he was busy then tired. On March 5th I called him and the ex was at his place (first day of retrograde ugh) but the following day he told me not be upset because she was just trying to makeup and he is only considering it because he loved her and it's been almost 5 years. Then he told me he loves me and I was important to him.

We had another argument about the ex again and he told me first that I was disrespecting the person he loved and that I was a good friend but passing my place then called me and said he's angry because I sounded like when she broke up with him. Ive since apologized and said let's work it out because I dont want to keep fussing about the same issue(the ex). That's been 2 weeks now and we're supposed to have a conversation about everything. Since Sunday he said he wanted to have the convo then Tuesday he said he was having a rough time so Wednesday then early Friday he said to me we need to have that conversation but then at a later time same Friday he said he's kinda avoiding the conversation.

We've become close as friends, he really trusts me with a lot of his secrets, he's admitted he sleeps better when he's around me, told me I give off waves of positivity. He hugs on me a lot, is always asking where I am, calls me frequently etc. He's offered to cook for me, offered to take me to lunch but the times havent matched up yet. He loves my brownies. I'm really supportive and protective of him and I do go the extra mile doing stuff for him because I really like him. I feel like we were going along well, nice and slow and easy and I just dont understand what's causing the gap now.

What have I got myself into? Is it the retrograde? What do I do? Can it even work? Do you think he has gone back to his ex? HELP.
How do I even move forward?


What sign is his Venus in?


Venus in Aries

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Ahhh! The thrill of the chase....


Aries loves the game of cat and mouse. Once the mouse is caught the cat will play with it for a while and once bored toss it aside and move on to the next challenge.

Look after your heart OP. Good luck.
Posted by Gigiaqua
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Look, regardless of suns, I would say to anyone looking for more than a one nite stand, casual sex/casual Fwb or to become the "rebound" NEVER get involved with someone who has just got out of a relationship.

There's obviously going to be residue from the last relationship.

Just be platonic friends nothing more for a good 12 months at least so that the other person can get rid of the emotions from the last relationship.

That's just plain common sense...


ughhhh - I don't wanna be common sense but I agree and I have been trying to keep it mostly platonic but we are very close as friends, like he tells me everything close, like he doesn't keep any secrets from me close. We haven't been intimate again and I really am just taking the time to get to know him as a person but I still have jealous feelings about the lingering ex I guess is the problem.
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U are going to get hurt...

I suggest you start widening your circle of friends...

He will more than likely go back to the ex...

You are just a distraction for now as he is only on a "break"..

I can assure you, they have not permanently split up.

You are setting yourself up for heartbreak
Look, regardless of suns, I would say to anyone looking for more than a one nite stand, casual sex/casual Fwb or to become the "rebound" NEVER get involved with someone who has just got out of a relationship.

There's obviously going to be residue from the last relationship.

Just be platonic friends nothing more for a good 12 months at least so that the other person can get rid of the emotions from the last relationship.

That's just plain common sense...
Posted by Princessluna
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by lostundersea
Taurus are the playboy sign of the zodiac, don't believe everything you read, don't respond most likely doesn't care honestly


Wrong...

They are the "pretty boys of the zodiac"....

The "play boys" are the Libras.....

Both are Venusian

As for your date going wring, that has nothing to do with sun signs.

As for him insulting you that could have been broken down via his Venus sign or moon sign... Not his Taurus sun sign....


He was pretty handsome I have to admit and I asked the same friend what his chart was and she said his venus is in scorpio and his moon is in Cancer

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He cannot have a Venus in Scorpio. The Venus is only two signs away from the sun in either direction
5 years is a long time...

Maybe your relationship it has come to the end of its shelf life and the Taurus is not ready to settle down yet.

These things happen. 5 years is a long time..

Heartbreak is hard to deal with. But on/off relationships basically mean it is a struggle for the couple to keep the relationship on an even keel, so maybe he has had enough of the constant battling as has come to acknowledge that it will not work long term and is now enjoying his freedom.

He is enjoying his time apart as a free person, you enjoy yours.

You had 5 years.... More than most.
My Taurus, AgentP911 and Jeane's Taurus are all really sweet. So not all tauruses are like that. They are generous, loving and loyal and would give the shirt off their back for you.

They are not playboys at all... Not like sags and libras.

But if you don't do your relevant homework, you will get played by an unevolved one.

Geminis too are not players.
Posted by lostundersea
Taurus are the playboy sign of the zodiac, don't believe everything you read, don't respond most likely doesn't care honestly


Wrong...

They are the "pretty boys of the zodiac"....

The "play boys" are the Libras.....

Both are Venusian

As for your date going wring, that has nothing to do with sun signs.

As for him insulting you that could have been broken down via his Venus sign or moon sign... Not his Taurus sun sign....
No. I'm a taurus... I always come first....
Posted by taurusgoddess
Yeah, I guess culture plays a huge role too. He's Greek and I'm German. hmmmmmmmmm


Mediterraneans are not huge drinkers... My Taurus is also Mediterranean, not big drinkers. They mainly drink with their meals.

But European and the British... Drinking like fish goes with those cultures.
Posted by uchiha
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Posted by taurusgoddess
Posted by breterpan
I like to at least have a beer or two a day. and same as your Gem with the dude I'm dating... he doesn't really drink and makes a comment every time I order a beer with food or whatever

any time I've ever seen him drunk or buzzed though (which is only a handful in 3 years), he doesn't seem to be able to handle himself so I think he's just projecting his inability to hang on me

he smokes pot every day though and I don't at all so we all have our thing I guess


Oh man, totally same scenario!! lol He likes his pot too, and I don't smoke it but don't care at all! I guess I'll just point that out and carry on. Like, it's not fair otherwise!

Earth and water signs like their chickentails I think. My ex pisces was a lush, so we were unhealthy combo. I don't need that, but I also don't need to be judged. BULL horns coming out!!!! lol


Smoking pot and any form of drug taking is bad too.. I could never date or hang with a person who smokes pot or takes drugs or drinks excessively..



Hence the name lol that weed will light up your life!!!
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My life is already lit and is on full power.. That stuff is not needed... Thanks!
Posted by SugarandSpunk
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by SugarandSpunk

then do you boo boo and continue with foaming b*tter out your mouth and don't let me stop your flow.






Then practice what you just preached and shut the treetrunk up.

You are here judging another person for how they are communicating when nobody asked for your approval. You just impose yourself onto that person with your critical and judgmental bullbutter ..... essentially making a treetrunking hypocrite out of yourself.

Furthermore, since you arrogantly brushed off your shoulder, this means that you're too stupid to even realize the fool you made out of yourself by doing exactly what you scolded a person for.

So, let's see if you can actually have honor and control yourself and act upon what is quoted above.


First of all sweetie, relax & slow your role. From your bio, I see you're older than me, so I'll respect my elders on this one & keep it short & sweet. Esp since this is a forum that I enjoy being on during my spare time.

Secondly, maybe you're not used to people like me and where I'm from, but most of aren't judgmental a-holes. More like blunt a-holes with sometimes good intentions whether you agree with it or not, just like NY'ers lol which is where I'm originally from. Do I care? Absolutely not. If I was truly scolding, this person would know & that person would come at me with their horns themselves since Tauruses don't fear anyone. Never came at her before or acknowledged her existence till today. Seen this person type reckless b*tter on too many occasions which I usually scroll on by, but today I felt the need to just quote this one time. My blunt-ness might come off a little too abrasive, but that's just how I speak/type. For the most part, no one ever has an issue with it. Anyways, The most mili-second moment they got from me is a "like" once in a blue moon on a response. So my response was more of a "telling it how it is" or "telling it how it is seen" since it's not the first time. Do I want her to change? No. Do I need her to? Could care less, hence why I said "don't let me stop your flow". Brushing my shoulders is me saying, I've said my response, now I'm dusting it off & keeping it moving, which I will since that's what life is all about. However, I am allowed to type how I feel and I'll be damned if someone older or younger than me is going to think they can come at me and believe they can shut me down over the one time I decided to be blunt and 100 about it lol. No one has to like what each of us has to say, but if we disagree or want to put in our 2 cents, then that's the beauty/liberty of clicking reply. If I was truly judgmental then the b*tter ton of friends I have would all disappear unfortunately. So other than that, keeping it moving I go. Good day to you
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P-A was totally correct in what she said..

The reason I did not respond to you is because 9 could not be bothered...

P-A said it all and predicted exactly what you would do next.. Nuff said..
Posted by SugarandSpunk
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Travel obsessed. Sag in 5th house. I have sun and mars in Taurus and both conjunct in the ninth house....


I wish I knew what this meant lol. I'm not that knowledgeable when it comes to "5th, 9th house" etc.

All I know what my sun & moon is thanks to my gemini bestie
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The 12 astrological signs have houses...

Your first house is your rising - Leo is mine.

5th house is the first relationship house (my 5th house is sag) so a person who has traits like s sag for example would be someone I like in a partner and my bf his moon in sag.

My sun sign is in Taurus and my mars (action) are both in Taurus...

The first house of the astrological signs is aries making the 9th house Sagittarius. So with both my sun and mars conjunct in the ninth house, as well as 2 other placements in the ninth house will make me like things like travel, philosophy, religion, different cultures, attracted to foreign people etc and this is definitely me. My Taurus is half Spanish and half Portuguese.

We are not just sun signs, or divisions of 12th astrological placement we also have our houses to consider too...

I hope the above made some kind of sense.

I am not expert but I like to dissect and analyse things... That could be my pluto/Uranus in Virgo at work...
Travel obsessed. Sag in 5th house. I have sun and mars in Taurus and both conjunct in the ninth house....
Posted by taurusgoddess
Posted by breterpan
I like to at least have a beer or two a day. and same as your Gem with the dude I'm dating... he doesn't really drink and makes a comment every time I order a beer with food or whatever

any time I've ever seen him drunk or buzzed though (which is only a handful in 3 years), he doesn't seem to be able to handle himself so I think he's just projecting his inability to hang on me

he smokes pot every day though and I don't at all so we all have our thing I guess


Oh man, totally same scenario!! lol He likes his pot too, and I don't smoke it but don't care at all! I guess I'll just point that out and carry on. Like, it's not fair otherwise!

Earth and water signs like their chickentails I think. My ex pisces was a lush, so we were unhealthy combo. I don't need that, but I also don't need to be judged. BULL horns coming out!!!! lol
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Smoking pot and any form of drug taking is bad too.. I could never date or hang with a person who smokes pot or takes drugs or drinks excessively..

Posted by Impulsv
It seems like earth signs need a drink to unwind?


Wrong...
Posted by breterpan
I like to at least have a beer or two a day. and same as your Gem with the dude I'm dating... he doesn't really drink and makes a comment every time I order a beer with food or whatever

any time I've ever seen him drunk or buzzed though (which is only a handful in 3 years), he doesn't seem to be able to handle himself so I think he's just projecting his inability to hang on me

he smokes pot every day though and I don't at all so we all have our thing I guess


I'm practically tea total... I'll be lucky if I can drink 4 units in one year.

I cracked open a bottle of champers on Tues as my bull came round and I only had one small glass and left half of that that...

My bull rarely drinks and my ex gem was also practically tea total and prefer to drink water like me.

A drink every night Imo is way too much..
Posted by Sagg101
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Early December... Hahahhahaha

I hate to burst your bubble sweetheart but it's only been three months... These two signs do not work long term

Either way the sag of either sex ends up cheating on the Virgo...


I would never cheat.

What are the problems that occur long term ?
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The sags are cheaters... Look at J-z and Bey; I have a sag acquaintance who is cheating on his long term partner of 12 years (they have two small children under age 6) who is a virgo with a married aqua; I have another friend who has a virgo friend in a long term ldr with a sag who believes the sag in cheating...

These two attract initially but they do not work long term...

U are only feeling the giddiness of lust and "newness"... When a new shiny object turns up you will drop him quicker than the speed of light ....
Posted by Mimi24
Few days ago, i was having intense conversations with my aqua bestie concerning relationships, love, friendship and confusing bonds & tensions between people.

She was actually explaining about her own relationship with her boyfriend that he brings for her stability and peace. Even though they dont agree on everything. He wasnt the type of guy she usually dates. He was different and yet she fell for him because he was consisten with her. She usually withdraw when someone is showing mixed signals..

However, she told me there was more than love to make this relationship work, there needs to be substance..love itself isnt enough to be in a relationship with someone.

What other aspects other than love do you think it requires in a relationship to truly make it work.


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