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I didn't think I'd have to make a thread, but there's a Scorp that's been pursuing me but I thought he would've gotten bored already.
But I think he just made it very clear he's not backing off

Pls help, send help



are you a bossy woman??

you don't seem like it. they love bossy women. lol



No I'm not bossy. I know what I want though. But not bossy :/


http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-leo.shtml

MOON or VENUS in LEO

The type of woman who attracts you is one you feel proud to be seen with - one who makes you look good and wins admiring glances that can reflect admiration onto you.

A woman who's gorgeous or dramatic or regal or aloof turns you on. Looks lie, yet glamour gets you. You may choose a partner more for good looks or popularity than for real compatibility on all levels.

It is particularly important to feel you can admire and respect your mate, and feel admired and respected in return.
You expect loyalty, and need to feel appreciated and - above all - NOTICED. Feeling ignored or unappreciated makes you feel insecure, so you can be enticed by a woman who flatters you with praise or attention.

You could be attracted to a woman who is "the boss" at work - perhaps to a "bossy" woman. Passion or "drama" helps too.

(continued) ©2001 by Michael Star


To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in the Sign of Leo. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which best indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.





I can be aloof but I'm not sure about the other 3.
I'm not bossy, but I can sometimes be the leader in things as I would like to think I know what I'm doing in certain things.
I have Leo Venus myself.
He also has aqua rising which my sag rising loves 💘💘😭😭
But idk


are you beautiful??


Fire moon men love LOVE beauitiful women...


same with Aries moon and Sagittarius. that's why a lot of them, marry models or similar.

people in astrology call it shallow....

but it is how it is...

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My Taurus has a sag moon and I have a Leo moon... "it's goodness gracious great balls of fire"....

OP. I have noticed a lot of scorp moons are up the arse of a Leo moon.. They are obviously attracted to the fire, but this is not w good pairing... Scorp moon too intense, secretive and moody
I need lots and lots of space. I always have plenty of admirers and make friends very easily (Leo rising and moon ), but I am really really choosy with regards to the company I keep. I watch people and their behaviour whilst doing an "assessment". If I something in their behaviour that is duplicitous, I will slowly but surely "fade out".. I would rather keep own company than bask in the sun of falsehood......
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I am a Pisces . And we been together for about 4 years . Our relationship is passionate . Full of ups and downs and we love hard but when we bump heads we really bump . Throughout our 4 years we broke up a few times over petty arguments but always ended back together after a couple days . We never went more than 1 week without being together . Just a couple months ago back in November . He found out I was texting my ex boyfriend and when he asked me about it I lied to him because I didn't want to hurt him which is wrong I know and before he asked me about it I had end all ties with the texting . It was only texting and it never got further than that . He expressed that I hurt him but didn't break up with me at the moment and I told him it will never happened again which it didn't . Everythin seems ok afterward and just a week ago we got into an argument over something small and he told me he doesn't want to be with me no more that this is the last straw and that he loves me and cares for me but he doesn't trust me and he can't do it anymore ..


Typical Pisces.... I don't blame him. Let him be. He will eventually find someone worthy who will not be two faced and lie. Typical fish... Slippery
You are such a typical Leo... Always the "side chick"...

I'm beginning to wonder if Leos are commitment phobes that just like cheap sex...

Why on earth would you have sex with him or even entertain him for that matter when you know he has a Woman that he prefers to you and has only told you it will be just sex and he is rude and disrespectful.

Cut the damn cord now and tell him to FO and find your pride because right now... It's missing
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I've never seen an angry bull I usually treat them like sheet... So.


I've never really witnessed their anger cause Im highly insensitive anyways.

Like they're not going to convince me of anything so


I can be too, aquarius mercury. Fortunately they accept my poor behavior as temporary insanity on my part and don't judge me harshly for it.


Lol I mean when they're angry do they throw stuff around that would be funny

I think I'd like to see that kind of anger just to laugh and point fingers


My Taurus neighbor kicked her ex Cancer husband in the face when he kept yelling at her and calling her names. He tried to get her to come out of the car as she wanted to leave and bam right in the face.. Busted his lip and everything.. Don't push those buttons too much...


I have "right hooked" a neighbour in the face ; I have made another neighbour cry in front of her boyfriend and her own party...

I am calm until someone pushes too far and waves a red flag in my face...

My Taurus SO creates the bombs and I press the detonator but we do recover the body parts, put them back together again and normality is eventually resumed 😂😂😂😂😂😂

And your proud of this behavior?! You sound classy af.
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Self defence!

You are a "fish" so I can imagine your idea of "classy" is cookiemonstering about people behind their backs like the pisces that I know instead of confronting the person. Weak.....

I'm totally classy but can and will also defend myself.
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Hmmm a Taurus sun with a Leo moon. Is he outgoing ?
I'm intrigued 🤔


Yes, but he will be picky with his friends, his image and his surroundings. You don't chose him.. He chose you. Only the best of the very best will be good for this moon.

It's a "royal" moon...
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Ok so he's Taures sun, Leo moon, cancer Venus, taures mercury, cancer mars.

We work together and I cant figure this out. Out of the blue he started trying to do nice stuff for me like hide pies that wernt really either of ours so I could eat it later and we would share each others candy and just overall started being super cute and thoughtful and I started to get kind of a crush on him.

Whenever he would walk by he would just Stare at me and wouldn't look away when I caught him and every now and then he'd come come in and look at me with weird different expressions like I had told him something or he had heard something about me.

So one day I had to have a guarantor on my place when I moved in and the rumor was my friend who was a guy who did it was going to move in with me.

When this happened taures guy got cold and when he found out I was living there alone he was nice again but not like before.

I know his dad who lives with taures guy and he is super interested in my dating life and seems to know about things I never talked to him about but I did mention to taures guy. And taures guy brother well I see him around a lot but I think it's because his g/f lives 2 doors down from me.

I also notice taures guy hangs out in areas where it's easy to hear what me and my boss talk about during breaks.

Anyway even before the Co sign thing I've tried to invite taures guy to like a million things and he never showed up. He's never asked me out he didn't even give me a Christmas present back when I bought him candy (he did ask for more candy tho after I had given candy to everyone else too)

He also never initiates contact (the only time he ever did before was to make sure I heard him say good morning and bye)

Is this guy just messing with me or just being nice or what?





He is only being friendly. He has my sun and moon. People are very attracted to us. Even those we do not notice. When we are just being friendly, thoughtful and polite, people probably get the wrong impression and think we fancy them.

He is just being friendly. You will know when a Taurus fancies you. He will ask you directly even those with water moons. It has happened as to me 4 times in my life. My SO is also a Taurus with a sag moon.

He is just friendly. If he has turned down your invites, he is not interested in more than a friendship and we try not to mix Business with pleasure or butter on our own doorstep eg. You work with him.
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You need to set boundaries and stick to it.. Make your "yes" mean YES and your "no" mean NO. I had a Gemini ex of many moons... He thought he was smarter than me (poor sod). He got "blindsided"... Mess with a bull and you get the horns...

Sags are too bze being "people pleasers"... They do tonnes of stuff and then moan about it after instead of putting their foot down and standing their ground... Door mats.....


LMFAOO what typa sags do you know?
Sag Suns usually just don't care.
Like really don't care. Just like their gem opposites.
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I know plenty of sag suns and moons... At least dealing with earth signs that are door mats from what I can see.
You need to set boundaries and stick to it.. Make your "yes" mean YES and your "no" mean NO. I had a Gemini ex of many moons... He thought he was smarter than me (poor sod). He got "blindsided"... Mess with a bull and you get the horns...

Sags are too bze being "people pleasers"... They do tonnes of stuff and then moan about it after instead of putting their foot down and standing their ground... Door mats.....
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How can you even say he abandoned you?
He said he wanted to leave again and again and you chose to stay behind on multiple occasions.

If I didn't want to get left behind I would say okay babe you want to leave lets go because I'm not staying here alone. Then I would deal with the problems once I'm home safe. Don't be dumb.


Why would he leave in the middle of the night.

I would not have gone.

That's irrational

I'm not going to treetruk up my sleep cycle for a man child.

I'd ask him to stay and just chill and try to calm him down

Maybe give him a massage turn on a cartoon

But I woould not leave

He can go treetruk himself at that point


I tried to turn the situation around many times that night. Sometimes I feel like when people are that angry and they feel you ... like you hug them or grab their arm gently and let them know its fine and to calm down thats all they need to calm down the situation. I tried doing that 2 times and he was just ANGRY like the BULL that he is...he wasn't having it.


Because you pushed his buttons and you wouldn't stop.....

My Gem ex used to push all my buttons until one day when he said during an argument "that's it I'm leaving" to his surprise I replied "great idea. You have 4 weeks to pack your bags. I want you gone"... He never saw that coming.... And I NEVER changed my mind..

Your bull came back to you a few times...

You are just as childish and just as much to blame. what wait till your guy is inside you then you decide to stop him mind way then you bring up the girl which means you were sneaking through his phone.. I would have been as mad as hell too.

Mess with a bull, you will face the horns...

I suggest you try NC for a while and allow things to calm down from both ends..


Hi John I know I was and I am also at fault here and I see that. When we used to have sex and he would cum inside he would always tell me he's going to..and we had a talk about him holding off for awhile the night before on friday. That's why i was just unsure what he was going to do, and i just slowed down/stopped him for a second just to ask what he was going to do, I know that sounds stupid now but the conversation was fresh in my head..and I was sensitive that night. The thing with the phone and girl I only know about he doesn't..we never brought that up. I think no contact is the way to go right now. Are you a taurus? Can you maybe explain what his thoughts are and the likelihood of us making up?
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I suggest you use NO CONTACT (NC) to put your emotions in check and give him time also to cool down... With a Taurus man if they feel that they can't make you happy and you wish to leave, they will give you what you wish for... You wanted him to finish with you and that is exactly what he did...

I suggest no contact and give him and yourself space...
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How can you even say he abandoned you?
He said he wanted to leave again and again and you chose to stay behind on multiple occasions.

If I didn't want to get left behind I would say okay babe you want to leave lets go because I'm not staying here alone. Then I would deal with the problems once I'm home safe. Don't be dumb.


Why would he leave in the middle of the night.

I would not have gone.

That's irrational

I'm not going to treetruk up my sleep cycle for a man child.

I'd ask him to stay and just chill and try to calm him down

Maybe give him a massage turn on a cartoon

But I woould not leave

He can go treetruk himself at that point


I tried to turn the situation around many times that night. Sometimes I feel like when people are that angry and they feel you ... like you hug them or grab their arm gently and let them know its fine and to calm down thats all they need to calm down the situation. I tried doing that 2 times and he was just ANGRY like the BULL that he is...he wasn't having it.


Because you pushed his buttons and you wouldn't stop.....

My Gem ex used to push all my buttons until one day when he said during an argument "that's it I'm leaving" to his surprise I replied "great idea. You have 4 weeks to pack your bags. I want you gone"... He never saw that coming.... And I NEVER changed my mind..

Your bull came back to you a few times...

You are just as childish and just as much to blame. what wait till your guy is inside you then you decide to stop him mind way then you bring up the girl which means you were sneaking through his phone.. I would have been as mad as hell too.

Mess with a bull, you will face the horns...

I suggest you try NC for a while and allow things to calm down from both ends..


Also John what is the explanation for the taurus male to not even check in with me, to ask if i got home ok? isn't that just common curtesy?
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Sorry. But when a Taurus is MAD... We are seeing red mist.. We don't care by the time we have reached that point especially if we have returned to the person a few times but the person is stubborn and arrogant and refuse to come along, then we leave them to themselves... They can find their own way home..
We don't chase.... Men have no problem chasing me. But they are usually the "bold" types with air or Fire suns or earth with lots of fire like my Taurus 😀
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I need a man to accept my verbal abuse and my once in awhile plate throwing. I've never thrown a plate cause I'm a miser and think about cost alot but I think I want too...



My Leo moon doesnt "throw a plate" she throws a punch straight in your face..
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I've never seen an angry bull I usually treat them like sheet... So.


I've never really witnessed their anger cause Im highly insensitive anyways.

Like they're not going to convince me of anything so


I can be too, aquarius mercury. Fortunately they accept my poor behavior as temporary insanity on my part and don't judge me harshly for it.


Lol I mean when they're angry do they throw stuff around that would be funny

I think I'd like to see that kind of anger just to laugh and point fingers


My Taurus neighbor kicked her ex Cancer husband in the face when he kept yelling at her and calling her names. He tried to get her to come out of the car as she wanted to leave and bam right in the face.. Busted his lip and everything.. Don't push those buttons too much...

The women are tougher than the men. Seriously.

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This is true... Taurus men are very soft under the hard exterior... The women are much tougher... Harder to bend.
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I've never seen an angry bull I usually treat them like sheet... So.


I've never really witnessed their anger cause Im highly insensitive anyways.

Like they're not going to convince me of anything so


I can be too, aquarius mercury. Fortunately they accept my poor behavior as temporary insanity on my part and don't judge me harshly for it.


Lol I mean when they're angry do they throw stuff around that would be funny

I think I'd like to see that kind of anger just to laugh and point fingers


My Taurus neighbor kicked her ex Cancer husband in the face when he kept yelling at her and calling her names. He tried to get her to come out of the car as she wanted to leave and bam right in the face.. Busted his lip and everything.. Don't push those buttons too much...
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I have "right hooked" a neighbour in the face ; I have made another neighbour cry in front of her boyfriend and her own party...

I am calm until someone pushes too far and waves a red flag in my face...

My Taurus SO creates the bombs and I press the detonator but we do recover the body parts, put them back together again and normality is eventually resumed 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I've never seen an angry bull I usually treat them like sheet... So.


I've never really witnessed their anger cause Im highly insensitive anyways.

Like they're not going to convince me of anything so


U don't want to..... ITS FIERCE!
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Posted by GC01
How can you even say he abandoned you?
He said he wanted to leave again and again and you chose to stay behind on multiple occasions.

If I didn't want to get left behind I would say okay babe you want to leave lets go because I'm not staying here alone. Then I would deal with the problems once I'm home safe. Don't be dumb.


Why would he leave in the middle of the night.

I would not have gone.

That's irrational

I'm not going to treetruk up my sleep cycle for a man child.

I'd ask him to stay and just chill and try to calm him down

Maybe give him a massage turn on a cartoon

But I woould not leave

He can go treetruk himself at that point


I tried to turn the situation around many times that night. Sometimes I feel like when people are that angry and they feel you ... like you hug them or grab their arm gently and let them know its fine and to calm down thats all they need to calm down the situation. I tried doing that 2 times and he was just ANGRY like the BULL that he is...he wasn't having it.
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Because you pushed his buttons and you wouldn't stop.....

My Gem ex used to push all my buttons until one day when he said during an argument "that's it I'm leaving" to his surprise I replied "great idea. You have 4 weeks to pack your bags. I want you gone"... He never saw that coming.... And I NEVER changed my mind..

Your bull came back to you a few times...

You are just as childish and just as much to blame. what wait till your guy is inside you then you decide to stop him mind way then you bring up the girl which means you were sneaking through his phone.. I would have been as mad as hell too.

Mess with a bull, you will face the horns...

I suggest you try NC for a while and allow things to calm down from both ends..
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Very valid point...he brought her up bc i asked if there was any other person in the picture....he responded yes, and did say that he once thought he could see himself with her, but that doesn't mean that they are going to be together....he then said that they aren't having sex, "or anything", like there was nothing really going on with her....i didn't pry bc i honestly don't care in the sense of being insecure, but the reason why it crossed my mind is bc i don't compete with females for male attention...just not that desperate....but i do like him and don't wanna throw things away based upon an assumption....

Hi Jean, im more of a talk everyday type...when i am interested in someone i don't like days to go by without hearing from that person...im not saying that i need to be on the phone 24/7...just a call here, a text there...bc you make time for what you want, imo


A typical Taurus may not be for you then. They will become occupied with other things. They are fairly independent and I think from my experience, they expect you to be the same.

I speak to my partner fairly regularly but not everyday. There will be the odd days where he will get on with whatever he needs to deal with. Sometimes I will text and he might not respond for a few hours if he is busy. Its not personal. He's just busy.

Especially while you are only dating and not in a exclusive relationship you might need to change your expectations.


Jeanne
I am always admiring your wits BUT here I must chime in!
There no such thing too busy to text or call!
If he cares, loves you and all - there is no such busy mode!
I once said - I don't want to hear this nonsense! You go to the bathroom? Text me HI I am ok how are you busy will call later...or tomorrow...
And he does!!! Because he cares!!!
Otherwise I would doubt his feelings.
And you know I am talking about Scorpio! Who's mind can be changed...never! Lol


So are you saying that my partner doesn't love me?


For me that would be a huge problem!
Because when I love someone that person is on my mind all the time.
I am never too busy to forget his existence! I can hardly imagine what would I have to be doing to be too busy to not to want to hear his voice and have a few laughs together. 5 min conversation does wonders! WHO doesn't have 5 minutes?
And I am talking about crazy Scorp who makes himself busy if he can relax. Being relaxed is not natural for him. However there is always driving or being at the store or just finishing something and taking a break before starting something new to tell me what happened and what's is going to happen...
Seems just natural!


Hmm, maybe I should break up with him then...


It is just a talk we have here. If something that bothers me doesn't bother you - just do what you feels right for you.
But when advice given to the other person we both have a say. Don't we?
I just can not imagine him doesn't want to say hello. That would make me sad and wondering and paranoid. But it's me.


It really doesn't bother me. If he was calling me to tell me what is happening and what is going to happen, it would drive me up the wall. I don't need and frankly, am not interested in that level of detail. I'm not his mother. We can discuss the big events when we see each other.

And yes, he can get too busy. Juggling kids, businesses, customers and family issues - sometimes it gets to 2 in the morning when he finally stops, I don't want a phone call then to say hi.

I'm busy too sometimes working 16 hour days. I barely have time for the toilet at times, should I call him when he is also busy to discuss our day when deadlines are pursuing me?

It doesn't mean that we aren't thinking of each other, it just means we are focused on other things.

We are not the centre of each others lives. He is not of mine and I don't want to be of his.

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Amen to this ^^^^

I am not in the slightest bit "needy"... I am extremely independent and "low maintenance" on a guy... He will not get any unnecessary emotional dramas from me....
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Huh?

Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same. After that he came back again 'Twice' just to check 'how i'm doing with my life' he wanted me around; which i kind of rejected him twice because I just literally didn't want to have any communication with him and now his back again. I mean i did let him know that there's nothing for me and him to continue. Now his back again for the bloody 3rd time; Now he wants me to travel (since his travelling around for 1month now) wants me to go with him to my country which is very strange for me after all that rejection I gave like its nothing to him?

what does he really want 'SEX' i got nothing to give to people who are less deserving with my life! can just someone please give me some insights of why this Taurus Male keeps coming back to me? what did i do wrong huh? i just want him to apologise and just be gone.


P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male

Are you sure you're not giving him an idea that you're still into him?

If you've said nothing but "treetrunk off", I get it, but have you been less than absolute in your rejection? How explicit were you and have you really shut him down completely?




I am definitely sure! 100% rejected him twice. I can't pretend and lie to myself that i still like him. I don't. Look his nice and all that but he doesn't really wanna get too involved with me so why should I put myself in the situation when I know the fact he made it so clear that there's nothing serious between me and him- well at least that what i know of from 2 years ago. I'm not gonna have someone that moved back from London to Italy.NO.


The only questions I'm asking is what ticks them and why they still come back?


Then BLOCK him!

Why are you really here? For attention from us!

How can he contact you if you've blockaded every viable means of him contacting you?? But you haven't have you. You when kept all lines of communication open and you have been "subtlety" entertaining him... U are a "chicken tease" and you know but most of all HE knows it....



Only weak cookiemonsteres do the BLOCKING thing. I'm nice I don't block people because of attention etc.
You just think that way. so Zip it.
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Absolute tosh!