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Posted by juliette
the woman is in panic and of course she got a bit of a medication, probably. she never worked in her life, doesn't know english, stole a speech, has a reputation of a gold digger, people google melania porn, i mean i would ask for opium. she didn't sign up for this butter. only for $ $ $ $


I was talking about Michelle
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oh sorry

why do you have to "take" her right away??? why don't you go where she is and spend some time with her? i mean what you are suggesting screams of i can't be alone, i need a replacement. what about her job? i wouldn't move anywhere unless i find i new one.
the woman is in panic and of course she got a bit of a medication, probably. she never worked in her life, doesn't know english, stole a speech, has a reputation of a gold digger, people google melania porn, i mean i would ask for opium. she didn't sign up for this butter. only for $ $ $ $
populism is not bad per se, but unfortunately, most of dictatorships in history and now were founded on it. it will all be clear soon. idk
Posted by Deedee86
She already stated that her platform would be helping poor and disabled children.
We can argue her looks and intelligence but nobody can argue that she is a good mother. I admire her for staying in NY so her son can finish his school year. She put his needs first. I would have done the same.

yes, first lady does everything it has to do with traditional view on female roles, nurturing the one in need, and the male does the rest, put the meat on the table.

first lady in my country embarrassed her self so many times, she has even done something that is illegal without even being aware of it lol which was related to some humanitarian activities, so now she is nowhere to be seen lol.

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Since when does the First Lady HAVE to do anything politically/socially relevant to be considered a good First Lady? Every first Lady will do whatever the hell she wants to do according to her individual set of skills (or lack thereof) ambitions or goals, nobody needs another Michelle Obama. I think some people are getting ahead of themselves on this thread..



Since the Americans dictated it to be so.




Where is this written? Enlighten me please.

it is not written but you see that it is expected. both of them to play an act of highly moral dedicated people. that model is adopted by many other countries.




So basically it is a false belief/expectation.

Since it is not mandated, the First Lady can in theory do whatever the hell she wants and no one has the right to tell her otherwise.

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yes. she can sit on her ass and do nothing. but she will be probably be highly pressured to do something.

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Since when does the First Lady HAVE to do anything politically/socially relevant to be considered a good First Lady? Every first Lady will do whatever the hell she wants to do according to her individual set of skills (or lack thereof) ambitions or goals, nobody needs another Michelle Obama. I think some people are getting ahead of themselves on this thread..



Since the Americans dictated it to be so.




Where is this written? Enlighten me please.
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it is not written but you see that it is expected. both of them to play an act of highly moral dedicated people. that model is adopted by many other countries.

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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Okay look Melanie might be smart in certain areas, but how is that going to help America. I don't want to see the presidents wife sitting and looking like a botoxed duck.

I want to see something real. Hopefully she finds a cause.

America needs leadership and the first lady has an important job


What exactly would be the first lady's "job"? As far as I'm aware it isn't defined by any official papers or statements. It's only a title. Chill. She can do whatever she might choose with it.
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saving the poors in chanel costumes, protecting women rights...

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I don't care for her, but you have to have some level of intelligence to be able to speak and learn different languages.



Indeed. I can confirm that, since I speak 6 languages fluently.


I wonder just how many languages the Melania-haters on this thread speak?


Probably just "American"

hahahaha i mean really. if there's no one to tell how intelligent i am, i will LOL. some people are just not interested in learning foreign languages. so you say italian people are less intelligent than the rest? lol

i have no idea about her education or iq and it's pretty much irrelevant.



It's very relevant as a first lady she needs to get some projects going
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she will do what the team behind them tell her to do, and try to portray her as good as it is possible. though she already embarrassed herself once that i know of, with steeling michele's speech. i wonder if it was on purpose.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Ok juliette dear, now go back to the teenagers' message board..

Oh, I don't think we have that one yet on dxp

i will ask for one, thanks for the suggestion wink wink wink.

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Posted by Plague
I don't care for her, but you have to have some level of intelligence to be able to speak and learn different languages.



Indeed. I can confirm that, since I speak 6 languages fluently.


I wonder just how many languages the Melania-haters on this thread speak?


Probably just "American"

hahahaha i mean really. if there's no one to tell how intelligent i am, i will LOL. some people are just not interested in learning foreign languages. so you say italian people are less intelligent than the rest? lol

i have no idea about her education or iq and it's pretty much irrelevant.



You are lost, dear.

The case made on this thread was not that people who don't speak more than one language are not intelligent, it is actually that it requires intelligence/skill to be able to speak several languages. Which is a good point considering how a lot of people are accusing Melania of being dumb.

I think there are more fitting message boards on dxp for your display of inferiority complex
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it takes a certain level of intelligence and you gave yourself as an example. if that is not funny i don't know what it is. even if you are. so you lost my point. wink wink wink sweety bla bla.
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Posted by Plague
I don't care for her, but you have to have some level of intelligence to be able to speak and learn different languages.



Indeed. I can confirm that, since I speak 6 languages fluently.


I wonder just how many languages the Melania-haters on this thread speak?


Probably just "American"
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hahahaha i mean really. if there's no one to tell how intelligent i am, i will LOL. some people are just not interested in learning foreign languages. so you say italian people are less intelligent than the rest? lol

i have no idea about her education or iq and it's pretty much irrelevant.

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by juliette
So bottom line, people should find hobbies. In lack of imagination the easiest thing to do is to find someone on the side. Adrenaline can rise from so many different things.


They have hobby! Sex!
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What about paragliding?
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Keep it going you guys, I'm enjoying the reading material

Good for you, i'm getting a headache.
Op are you going to kill him? I'm getting weird vibes from you.
Do you have a cancer mars?
So bottom line, people should find hobbies. In lack of imagination the easiest thing to do is to find someone on the side. Adrenaline can rise from so many different things.
Posted by Gemitati
Just saw this title of the book in Promotios section.

Chuckled thinking ok they don't love you. They just want sex. Then they got it and want it again. And again. And it's going in like they can't have it anywhere else because you know he just don't have time for more considering his schedule!

So years go by and he still doesn't love you but for some reason he still wants to Fk you! Like is it maybe love now?
Or why wouldn't he explore other opportunities?
Let's pretend we are 100% sure he doesn't do anyone else because you have unprotected sex...otherwise he would be worried.

I am LMAO. Just thinking what are your opinion on this will be...

Maybe it's some crazy perverted sex which he knows not many women are into it. And he craves it. Idk.

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Happens all the time.

My ex-husband had an affair with a co-worker that was also married with children.


Wow so gross. Is that why he's now an ex? Or was it just the straw that broke the camels back...


It was the start of it. The months leading up to me finding out, he was doing weird stuff with his cellphone. Changing his PW, angling the phone away from me, that kind of stuff. After a few months of this behavior, on Christmas Eve, I checked our cell phone records and saw the same number pop up over and over, and the nights he was "working late" he was on the phone with her for hours. Only time the calls/texts stopped was when he was out of town for work, and they were actually physically together since they worked on the same project. I confronted him on Christmas Eve, and he let it all out. I made him call her in front of me and tell her it was over, then I found her husband on facebook and let him know. After about a year of trying to make it work, and heavy fighting, we decided to part ways.

Edit: He is a Corporate Executive. So I would say that environment seems conducive to illicit affairs amongst co-workers.


What have you lacked that he was looking for in other woman?
Hours in the phone doesn't happen in happy marriages.


You are biased because of your current situation. You are actively in an adulterous relationship, which completely jades your perception on this particular subject. You would rather blame the women for not being good enough, then to actually look at it in a neutral way, and instead want to blame me, the wife, as lacking something. It had nothing to do with me, and everything to do with his perception of himself.

He was the one that felt like he was too good for me, because he was the one that thought he contributed more to our family. He was the one that became annoyed, that "his money" was being spent "unwisely", and that he was not able to "spend it the way he wanted" on superficial things. Because he delegated all of our household responsibilities solely to me, since he was out of town 2 weeks out of every month. I was the one left unable to work a full time position in order to take care of our toddler son, pay the bills, clean the home. I was forced to be a stay-at-home mom for years, eventhough my own aspirations were the same as his. We had long agreed not to have our son grow up like we did, shuffled from daycare to daycare, essentially raising ourselves. When he reached his pinnacle, it would then be my turn to reach for my dreams. He was the one that turned that agreement against me, and thought he was "too good" for me. He called me stupid a number of times in front of our son, because HE thought he was better. It had NOTHING to do with me lacking anything.

I reached those goals without him, after our divorce. And he now sees me as the women he fell in love with in the first place. The career minded woman, that is intelligent. He himself, lost sight of me. He himself realized that "his money" was budgeted well, and the bills that it took to maintain everything.

He was the one with the warped sense of worth, not me.


YOU agreed to marry him!
I am sure no one is that perfect as you just described yourself. You seem have that attitude 'know it all thus holier than others'.
From thread to thread you are perfect!
Not buying it.


Who said anything about being perfect? Perfection doesn't exist. Humans are fallible. Deflecting and trying to state that I stated I was perfect is just a means for you to try and condone what you are actively doing. What I stated was actual verbiage my ex-husband used directly to me, when we spoke during our AMICABLE divorce. Cause you know, people can have amicable divorces without attorneys.

However, I am black and white when it comes to what I perceive as right and wrong. Sleeping with a married individual is one of those things I find wrong. Period, point blank to me.

If an individual is unhappy in a relationship for their own reasons, then that person has the responsibility to verbalize that to their partner. Or to leave if the relationship is not living up to what they want. You aren't being forced to stay in a marriage. And guess what? He agreed to marry me too. It was a decision BOTH of us agreed to. Not just I.



I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a butter about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...


I read that people don't get divorced for infidelity. #1 reason is finances.

Money talks loudest I guess.
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#2 is house chores. no joke

Posted by Hare
The problem isn't Trump. And the problem wouldn't have been Hillary. Or whoever was elected.

The real problem is the power the POTUS has.

Citizens shouldn't fear the president. The president should fear the citizens.

that's what i keep telling, but i have no idea why people fail to see it.