Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by KaraStroup
....I am interested in kissing him as i do like him a lot but at the same time i dnt want him to take advantage of me (i dnt mind if this is a fling, but i dnt want him to blow hot and cold with me as that makes me feel very uncomfortable since i am not the kind that does flings but at this stage of my life i would not mind). I donno if he actually likes me or is simply horny. I would really like to know from anyone who is willing to help. Thank u so much guys !
You're all over the place. "Hot and cold" comes with the territory if you're just having a fling, which you just stated you're okay with. As well, if its' just a fling, why does it matter if he's horny or really likes you....get my point? If you're not really okay with a "fling" that's it's okay. Just be clear about what you want.
What is it that you want? In other words, set your expectations and find a man (I'm sure there are tons of good looking men---maybe even a few Scorps) that will meet your needs. When you enter something not knowing what you want the other person set the ground rules, even if they are not clearly stated as such.click to expand