Posted by saggurl88Posted by KaryB21
I know he’s hurt and guarded. He said he’s tired of giving me chances and it’s the same thing. I really want this to work between us but I just keep digging myself into a hole. He reads my messages and doesn’t say anything and that just frustrates me the more. He said our sex was passionate but not enough to make him stay
Because it’s not about sex. There needs to be an emotional connection and you keep hurting him.
What are you actually doing to hurt him?
There are a bunch of Cancer moons here who can be honest and help you out but you seem to want a quick fix to whatever you’re doing.
And that’s not how it works with Cancer moons. You have to show us that you actually are working on it, so the trust can be built.
Right now it seems like you’re bringing him towards you just to keep pulling the rug from under him when he’s trying to build trust with you and create a bind with you.
No one wants their emotions played with like this.
It’s like putting your hand in a fire over and over again and always getting burned.click to expand
Posted by ozzzy
Ofc that it is possible, but most of the time, the feelings will be one-sided, and the person hoping for something more will end up being hurt or disappointed. But that's the risk that the person needs to take. I just think that when the two right people find each other, then things spontaneously lead to something more serious over time, because they realize how much they enjoy being with each other, and caught themselves thinking more often about the other person when they are not close to them, they start missing that person, and so on. I know a lot of success stories out of fwb thing, so anything is possible.