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Posted by Krabss
i was in love with a taurus leo moon. leo moon! leo mooners stay away! @andrew!!!!
tho it's in my "nice memories" folder now.
Whats bad about that combo? Just curious
I only knew one Taurus sun Leo moon man he was traditional, shy, possessive and classy. I miss him lolclick to expand
exactly, i'm not traditional, shy, possessive and i'm certainly not classy. i miss him too.- post music
- but not here. thanks dxp.
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Why would you tell her to ‘calm down’ when she is already dealing with the situation? In what way should she have calmed down. She’s gonna put her child’s comfort first. That is never something she should ‘calm down’ over.
Because she was getting really worked up over it and I tired to tell her to calm down so we can sort it out together and she just went mental and took it out on me.
I know what to do for the future keep my noes out and let her get on with it lol.
If you want a woman to calm down don't say, calm down lol. Thats patronizing af.
She made a decision to take her child home. Insinuating that she 'isn't calm' for that choice is really foot in mouth syndrome.
This wasn't something for you to 'sort out together'. Its her kid, her choice on how to best deal with the situation.
if you want a PERSON to calm down, you can totally say calm down. it's about trust. wtf is these things with gender roles in 21 ct? or PC. he took care of her kids, while she was doing whatever. being pc is not important.
This has nothing to do with gender roles.
I’m guessing you’d also feel a certain way if someone tried to interfere in your parenting. I know I would!
He’s not the kids father. Period.
She said she’s taking the kid home. That’s that. It’s not his place to question her choices when it comes to her kids.
And yeah, being told to calm down is super patronizing. It implies that her choice on taking her kid home is emotionally based.click to expand
i would respond with more thought, but i got banned on another platform. for being the same like i am here. murica the world of free ppl.Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Krabss
40y
it's over. i feel it.
Dazed was right then, life is over at 42!!
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well ...
good thing is i don't care. my libido is zero.- 40y
it's over. i feel it. - first time i ever looked at the transits. cluster treetrunk of Saturn in my 7th house. instead of being carefree as a gemini mooner i became so hard on myself. 2 or maybe 3y of that butter.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Why would you tell her to ‘calm down’ when she is already dealing with the situation? In what way should she have calmed down. She’s gonna put her child’s comfort first. That is never something she should ‘calm down’ over.
Because she was getting really worked up over it and I tired to tell her to calm down so we can sort it out together and she just went mental and took it out on me.
I know what to do for the future keep my noes out and let her get on with it lol.
If you want a woman to calm down don't say, calm down lol. Thats patronizing af.
She made a decision to take her child home. Insinuating that she 'isn't calm' for that choice is really foot in mouth syndrome.
This wasn't something for you to 'sort out together'. Its her kid, her choice on how to best deal with the situation.click to expand
if you want a PERSON to calm down, you can totally say calm down. it's about trust. wtf is these things with gender roles in 21 ct? or PC. he took care of her kids, while she was doing whatever. being pc is not important.- ok so calm down is bad. like LOL
pc in it's worst! - i was in love with a taurus leo moon. leo moon! leo mooners stay away! @andrew!!!!
tho it's in my "nice memories" folder now. Posted by Centaur12
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I remember your previous threads about this Gem. I know you want advice but have you considered that maybe you two are just incompatible? Too much drama and clashing and I know relationships are hard work but it shouldn't be THIS hard to be with someone.
I know what your saying, we do have this insane conection though and I do love her alot.
When this stupid childish butter stops we are brilliant together I feel likes she playing a game I haven't got time for games.
Why isn't she contacting me like she usually does.
I can't remember your sign, are you a Cap sun?
Geminis are big communicators so if they're silent, it's best to leave them alone. The more you try to talk to them when they're emotional and broody, the more you're going to push them away. Give her space, I know it's hard and you're a bit anxious right now but just be open for whatever might happen between the 2 of you.
Sag Sun / Aqua moon
Honestly, have you considered she may be embarrassed and/or frustrated?
I've dated and been friends with single parents. You would be surprised.
You mean embarassed that her child has had a tantrum.
She has them all the time.
I do not doubt its hard and frustrating but it did not need to come to that.
tantrums are draining af. how old is the kid? also kids do it especially when they feel the parent is already stressed.
i ignored my kid heavily in that phase, it took 6 months and she stopped for good. but that's maybe another topic, or not. if she lets kids to control her life well ofc she is not thinking properly. on the other hand i don't know her side so who knows.
Her child is 4 years old she was all calm tbh until it came to bed time but she allows her to get away with stuff sometimes .
ok, tantrums are often, actually a rule between 2y and 3y. if not cut they stay and it gets harder and harder to eliminate it. kids are nervous, cranky when tired. you know that. i know so many parents that are completely drained by it.
are you a woman too? it's not that important, but ppl are still too deep into gender roles and you seem either feminine or dedicated idk.
No I am a sag male and yes I am dedicated especially to her.
ok cool. idk, be patient. and you know those dumb words, if you think it's worth it, then work for it.
do you have problems with previous partners?
Not really I mean we all have problems and difficulties that we must work at but not really.
ok, then post placements or charts if you have it.
do you know the site where I can find all this and i will happily give you it.click to expand
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Posted by LuxePurr
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by LuxePurr
I remember your previous threads about this Gem. I know you want advice but have you considered that maybe you two are just incompatible? Too much drama and clashing and I know relationships are hard work but it shouldn't be THIS hard to be with someone.
I know what your saying, we do have this insane conection though and I do love her alot.
When this stupid childish butter stops we are brilliant together I feel likes she playing a game I haven't got time for games.
Why isn't she contacting me like she usually does.
I can't remember your sign, are you a Cap sun?
Geminis are big communicators so if they're silent, it's best to leave them alone. The more you try to talk to them when they're emotional and broody, the more you're going to push them away. Give her space, I know it's hard and you're a bit anxious right now but just be open for whatever might happen between the 2 of you.
Sag Sun / Aqua moon
Honestly, have you considered she may be embarrassed and/or frustrated?
I've dated and been friends with single parents. You would be surprised.
You mean embarassed that her child has had a tantrum.
She has them all the time.
I do not doubt its hard and frustrating but it did not need to come to that.
tantrums are draining af. how old is the kid? also kids do it especially when they feel the parent is already stressed.
i ignored my kid heavily in that phase, it took 6 months and she stopped for good. but that's maybe another topic, or not. if she lets kids to control her life well ofc she is not thinking properly. on the other hand i don't know her side so who knows.
Her child is 4 years old she was all calm tbh until it came to bed time but she allows her to get away with stuff sometimes .
ok, tantrums are often, actually a rule between 2y and 3y. if not cut they stay and it gets harder and harder to eliminate it. kids are nervous, cranky when tired. you know that. i know so many parents that are completely drained by it.
are you a woman too? it's not that important, but ppl are still too deep into gender roles and you seem either feminine or dedicated idk.
No I am a sag male and yes I am dedicated especially to her.
ok cool. idk, be patient. and you know those dumb words, if you think it's worth it, then work for it.
do you have problems with previous partners?
Not really I mean we all have problems and difficulties that we must work at but not really.click to expand
ok, then post placements or charts if you have it.Posted by blackphvse
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by blackphvse
Every time you post about her, she sounds like a selfish brat.. why do you continue to put up with this?
I love her can't let go so easy and I know deep down she's worth it.
You're a rare gem of a dude. Nice to know some of ya'll don't quit so easily.click to expand
right? strikes me the same way.Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Krabss
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Posted by Lostthoughts
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Posted by LuxePurr
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by LuxePurr
I remember your previous threads about this Gem. I know you want advice but have you considered that maybe you two are just incompatible? Too much drama and clashing and I know relationships are hard work but it shouldn't be THIS hard to be with someone.
I know what your saying, we do have this insane conection though and I do love her alot.
When this stupid childish butter stops we are brilliant together I feel likes she playing a game I haven't got time for games.
Why isn't she contacting me like she usually does.
I can't remember your sign, are you a Cap sun?
Geminis are big communicators so if they're silent, it's best to leave them alone. The more you try to talk to them when they're emotional and broody, the more you're going to push them away. Give her space, I know it's hard and you're a bit anxious right now but just be open for whatever might happen between the 2 of you.
Sag Sun / Aqua moon
Honestly, have you considered she may be embarrassed and/or frustrated?
I've dated and been friends with single parents. You would be surprised.
You mean embarassed that her child has had a tantrum.
She has them all the time.
I do not doubt its hard and frustrating but it did not need to come to that.
tantrums are draining af. how old is the kid? also kids do it especially when they feel the parent is already stressed.
i ignored my kid heavily in that phase, it took 6 months and she stopped for good. but that's maybe another topic, or not. if she lets kids to control her life well ofc she is not thinking properly. on the other hand i don't know her side so who knows.
Her child is 4 years old she was all calm tbh until it came to bed time but she allows her to get away with stuff sometimes .
ok, tantrums are often, actually a rule between 2y and 3y. if not cut they stay and it gets harder and harder to eliminate it. kids are nervous, cranky when tired. you know that. i know so many parents that are completely drained by it.
are you a woman too? it's not that important, but ppl are still too deep into gender roles and you seem either feminine or dedicated idk.
No I am a sag male and yes I am dedicated especially to her.click to expand
ok cool. idk, be patient. and you know those dumb words, if you think it's worth it, then work for it.
do you have problems with previous partners?Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Krabss
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by LuxePurr
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by LuxePurr
I remember your previous threads about this Gem. I know you want advice but have you considered that maybe you two are just incompatible? Too much drama and clashing and I know relationships are hard work but it shouldn't be THIS hard to be with someone.
I know what your saying, we do have this insane conection though and I do love her alot.
When this stupid childish butter stops we are brilliant together I feel likes she playing a game I haven't got time for games.
Why isn't she contacting me like she usually does.
I can't remember your sign, are you a Cap sun?
Geminis are big communicators so if they're silent, it's best to leave them alone. The more you try to talk to them when they're emotional and broody, the more you're going to push them away. Give her space, I know it's hard and you're a bit anxious right now but just be open for whatever might happen between the 2 of you.
Sag Sun / Aqua moon
Honestly, have you considered she may be embarrassed and/or frustrated?
I've dated and been friends with single parents. You would be surprised.
You mean embarassed that her child has had a tantrum.
She has them all the time.
I do not doubt its hard and frustrating but it did not need to come to that.
tantrums are draining af. how old is the kid? also kids do it especially when they feel the parent is already stressed.
i ignored my kid heavily in that phase, it took 6 months and she stopped for good. but that's maybe another topic, or not. if she lets kids to control her life well ofc she is not thinking properly. on the other hand i don't know her side so who knows.
Her child is 4 years old she was all calm tbh until it came to bed time but she allows her to get away with stuff sometimes .click to expand
ok, tantrums are often, actually a rule between 2y and 3y. if not cut they stay and it gets harder and harder to eliminate it. kids are nervous, cranky when tired. you know that. i know so many parents that are completely drained by it.
are you a woman too? it's not that important, but ppl are still too deep into gender roles and you seem either feminine or dedicated idk.- and srsly what's wrong with "calm down"? ofc if the rl is bad and someone has a habit of dismissing someone feelings, yes it's bad. but op takes care of her kids, so there is some big trust there and saying calm down can mean we can solve this. kids are spoiled these days big time.
