The human mind - easily. Depression, how we handle things, nightmares, our worries and concerns. The things we miss, the things we should notice.
I sunk into such self pity after a nasty break up that my body started to change, I lost weight, I had tummy butterflies all the time that made me feel poorly, it was my mind not coping with grief, and my body reacting to that. I was hungry but my head told me I didn't want food. My friends took over, as did my family, kept my mind active, got me doing stuff and I got better quickly. I slept better after that :o) xxx
I want to believe in soulmates, I think you do click with certain people, a click so strong that it makes you stick around through bad days, worse days and all the other fantastic days. Deep down you just know it's right, or so they say.
You never know, your current love could be teaching you lessons you need for when you meet your soulmate, everything happens for a reason, so go with what feels right
Aww, maybe he's still hurt after what happened with his ex? Taking his time before going into the next relationship is a wise choice, you wouldn't want to carry baggage into something new. Stay friendly but keep your options open, you don't want to wind up disappointed if he isnt interested in progressing...Make sure he doesn't lead you on.
Aww, just be honest with them, tell them - sweetly - you're not interested in dating right now, especially people who you work with, (atleast that's what it sounds like? Might be wrong...) that could get complicated if things go wrong...
Say you're flattered though, It'd be nice to reassure them :o)
You'll find someone nice who'll catch your attention 100% , don't settle for somebody if your hearts not in it. Hope this helps a little? All the best. xxx
Hehe, wow that was a really interesting thread to read back on, I seemed to get called stuck up a lot... Buuttt I guess they don't know me yet, and not everyones gonna like what they find hehe My fingertips are so cold... winter is on the way :o)
This is a question for all star signs out there. Do Leo's on first appearances appear stuck up? It's silly, but when I asked a few close friends what they thought of me before getting to know me at work, they all replied with ?You're a lot different when I got to know you, but when I saw you around work it was like you were glaring at me, you seemed really stuck up?
I was gob smacked, but I've been called stuck up a few times, is it a facial expression when climbing ladders at work? Or me personally appearing stuck up? Or is it Leo's in general? :o)
I'm very open with him, we had a huge bust up of an argument and we got a lot out in the open recently. I told him I felt a bit smothered and nagged, and he told me my happy ups and my extreme downs bother him, and that my tempers awful. Which I can accept and work on.
What confuses me is before our relationship, he was with a girl ten years, thats a marriage - though... not married. he's 31, maybe he's wanting to settle down, and I'm 21, settling down scares the **** out of me still. But by the sounds of it, him and his ex saw eachother one night a week, and she bugged the hell out of him when they lived together for two years. Why's he a fuss pot with me?
1. What I'm sure of right now is we make eachother laugh, and other then a lot of misunderstandings and mixed signals we're capable of making eachother happy and supporting eachother. Which is good. 2. But I also understand we are soo very very different in how we act and react to things, and that will cause fights.
Until one of those two ^ above ^ facts weigh eachother out, I'm just going to go with it. :o) But thank you for everyones help!!
You know it'd be a lot easier to make up something, but no, nothings happened. Theres no black
The big turning point, was me sitting him down and softly explaining to him his words made me feel a bit smothered. That was the turning point. I could of happily sat quietly, make up excuses to go home all the time, and get annoyed but keep it in and we'd be as happy as we were.
I didnt sit quietly, told him straight out I felt smothered. Honest to god Nothing happened It just changed
Yeah, he is. I don't really know if it's a plan, I'm not sure. To me, it feels like some form of trying to control me. Reminding me all the time he loves me, that if he left he'd be devastated. Who was I talking to, where was I going. What was I texting. I dunno
Honestly, its just all upsetting now... I like this guy soo much, but it seems difficult. I'm loyal, have never cheated in my life, I've given him no reason to feel insecure.. But it seems like he checks up on me, reads my Facebook walls, ask me about males who I talk to, doesnt like me going out dancing but never directly told me not to. Questions my feelings whenever I'm quiet.
I know I can be pigheaded and selfish sometimes, but I try not to impose that on him, I wander off, cool down and return to the conversation in a positive way. I understand he cares... meh
The question I have a question for Leo ladies I guess are;
1) Are you somehow sad when you're single? I admit fully I find it hard to be single, but not sad
2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why? My mind cant seem to multi task, I sometimes obsess with something, going out partying, working too much or seeing my boyfriend too much. Balance is difficult and I end up worse off.
3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc... Um.. a few months tops, awful huh? heh..
4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship? My girlfriends might judge my relationship... they're like that.
Oh my dear good god... help. I'm dating an older Pisce male. I'm a leo lady. For all the Pisce out there... Im so so so sorry, I don't understand you. Help
We've been dating 6 months, woop, it was all great, but then I suddenly got a bit smothered. He started going on about how I was the most important thing he had, how I was wonderful, blah blah blah, all lovely stuff, but I heard it every single day, at every silent chance he had. It drove me insane. I quietly explained it felt a bit much...nicely. sweetly.
He wasn't like this before, he was confident, dark, chickeny, sarcastic, romantic sometimes... but enough to keep me sweet. Now he whimpers if I dont want to spend the night together, or I'm busy. Since then our relationship has been mixed up signals and arguments.
I want to make this work, but I feel like I'm too blunt and impatient for this guy... I call it as it is, no mind games needed because I'm too honest and straight to the point. And he wants to argue - as every leo out there knows, I hate to lose a fight... Help