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Ladyleo18
joined August 02, 2018
  • Posted by tiziani
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    It could be that he just likes being in control too. Could be anything but that was mainly my reason.

    Do you hold back blowing as well?


    I don't actually know what means but it sounds too filthy to even give an answer to! Am shocked

    Ok sorry. Didn't mean to offend or be rude


    I was just playing, I honestly do not know what that means. Please don't take me seriously.
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    To cum or orgasm. I think it might be an Aussie term if you don't know
  • Posted by justagirl
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    I know females can often feel this way if their partner seems to put a big emphasis on sex and having their peen sucked, but if it was reversed and the female was the one being sexually demanding and fixated would you feel used? Or feel like you weren't appreciated enough as a person for your personality and other qualities...


    I think you should adf to this: and you rarely if ever get to cum when having sex with a woman for your entire life, while the women always comes and often many times. Would that make you feel used?

    'Cause I think many women feel used, because we end up feeling like a human dildo.. just a thought.


    I have the opposite situation. He goes down on me and makes me cum and he doesn't. He makes me stop when he's about to...


    How is he making you stop? This would irritate me and I'd make him let me finish. I would fight him for it lol It's mine and I worked hard for it! Tongue

    He'll like put his hand in the way and say stop stop because he wants to keep going


    What???? I don't get it. He tells you to stop cause he wants to keep going? He finishes his self off? Is that what you're saying?

    He most likely doesn't want to cum in her mouth.


    Nah he doesn't want to at all. Maybe he doesn't want to give me anymore power of him because I have him pretty whipped already. I'm not really sure about the psychology of it. I should google it lol

    It's been a month with you 2 correct? it's really not that unusual tbh, some men just don't like to cum in front of or in someone's mouth, just like woman are weird having their first O with a man if he is watching. You guys don't really know each other yet and if you want to look at it from an astro stance, crab men , heck crabs in general ( most) bond via sex.

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    Yeah 1 month but we talk every day and see each other and he keeps buying me gifts so I assume he's bonded pretty good. Like he even gave me something that belonged to his mother who passed away last year. So I think he's pretty serious. So I don't get it but you're probably right about the sex bonding thing. I have cancer in mars and my sun is 4th house so maybe I'm a bit like that too. I rarely orgasmed with guys until i was with the aqua late last year, then I learned to let go and with this one it's magnified and I let go way more. Maybe he doesn't know if I'll eventually dump him so he holds back til he's certain I'm not going anywhere to avoid too much attachment
  • Posted by tiziani
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by tiziani
    It could be that he just likes being in control too. Could be anything but that was mainly my reason.

    Do you hold back blowing as well?


    I don't actually know what means but it sounds too filthy to even give an answer to! Am shocked
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    Ok sorry. Didn't mean to offend or be rude
  • Posted by justagirl
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    I know females can often feel this way if their partner seems to put a big emphasis on sex and having their peen sucked, but if it was reversed and the female was the one being sexually demanding and fixated would you feel used? Or feel like you weren't appreciated enough as a person for your personality and other qualities...


    I think you should adf to this: and you rarely if ever get to cum when having sex with a woman for your entire life, while the women always comes and often many times. Would that make you feel used?

    'Cause I think many women feel used, because we end up feeling like a human dildo.. just a thought.


    I have the opposite situation. He goes down on me and makes me cum and he doesn't. He makes me stop when he's about to...


    How is he making you stop? This would irritate me and I'd make him let me finish. I would fight him for it lol It's mine and I worked hard for it! Tongue

    He'll like put his hand in the way and say stop stop because he wants to keep going


    What???? I don't get it. He tells you to stop cause he wants to keep going? He finishes his self off? Is that what you're saying?

    He most likely doesn't want to cum in her mouth.
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    Nah he doesn't want to at all. Maybe he doesn't want to give me anymore power of him because I have him pretty whipped already. I'm not really sure about the psychology of it. I should google it lol
  • Posted by tiziani
    It could be that he just likes being in control too. Could be anything but that was mainly my reason.

    Do you hold back blowing as well?
  • Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Ladyleo18
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    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    I know females can often feel this way if their partner seems to put a big emphasis on sex and having their peen sucked, but if it was reversed and the female was the one being sexually demanding and fixated would you feel used? Or feel like you weren't appreciated enough as a person for your personality and other qualities...


    I think you should adf to this: and you rarely if ever get to cum when having sex with a woman for your entire life, while the women always comes and often many times. Would that make you feel used?

    'Cause I think many women feel used, because we end up feeling like a human dildo.. just a thought.


    I have the opposite situation. He goes down on me and makes me cum and he doesn't. He makes me stop when he's about to...


    How is he making you stop? This would irritate me and I'd make him let me finish. I would fight him for it lol It's mine and I worked hard for it! Tongue

    He'll like put his hand in the way and say stop stop because he wants to keep going


    What???? I don't get it. He tells you to stop cause he wants to keep going? He finishes his self off? Is that what you're saying?


    I think so after he leaves to fall asleep. I don't know what it is exactly but he is more concerned with pleasing me. It's really strange because I've never not made someone cum.


    That sucks. I wouldnโ€™t be able to stand it. But Iโ€™m a major pleaser. My ego would get the best of me and I wouldnโ€™t want to do it at all if heโ€™s not gonna cum. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ #LeoMarsPride
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    It feels like I'm that selfish guy lol. It bothers me but he said when we stop using rubbers it will be different. So I'll see what happens later on. He pulls himself a few times a day so I don't think it's me.
  • Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Ladyleo18
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    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    I know females can often feel this way if their partner seems to put a big emphasis on sex and having their peen sucked, but if it was reversed and the female was the one being sexually demanding and fixated would you feel used? Or feel like you weren't appreciated enough as a person for your personality and other qualities...


    I think you should adf to this: and you rarely if ever get to cum when having sex with a woman for your entire life, while the women always comes and often many times. Would that make you feel used?

    'Cause I think many women feel used, because we end up feeling like a human dildo.. just a thought.


    I have the opposite situation. He goes down on me and makes me cum and he doesn't. He makes me stop when he's about to...


    Why would he do that Leo?๐Ÿค”


    I'm not sure. I told him it's not right for me to orgasm and him not. And I've asked why he doesn't let me keep going. He said he's only blown 3 times in front of a girl and I think one of them made fun of how he orgasm. So maybe he has a complex or he's just a huge control freak when it comes to that


    Does he turn his back on you when he finishes? He's gonna have to get over it. lol Do it in the dark where you can't see anything and ask him to let you finish him off. This would bug the hell out of me and I would throw a fuccing fit.Laughing Is he only doing it with oral or with both?
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    Both. I've never seen him orgasm and we see each other 2 times a week. So I don't know what happens when he does.
  • Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    I know females can often feel this way if their partner seems to put a big emphasis on sex and having their peen sucked, but if it was reversed and the female was the one being sexually demanding and fixated would you feel used? Or feel like you weren't appreciated enough as a person for your personality and other qualities...


    I think you should adf to this: and you rarely if ever get to cum when having sex with a woman for your entire life, while the women always comes and often many times. Would that make you feel used?

    'Cause I think many women feel used, because we end up feeling like a human dildo.. just a thought.


    I have the opposite situation. He goes down on me and makes me cum and he doesn't. He makes me stop when he's about to...


    How is he making you stop? This would irritate me and I'd make him let me finish. I would fight him for it lol It's mine and I worked hard for it! Tongue

    He'll like put his hand in the way and say stop stop because he wants to keep going


    What???? I don't get it. He tells you to stop cause he wants to keep going? He finishes his self off? Is that what you're saying?
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    I think so after he leaves to fall asleep. I don't know what it is exactly but he is more concerned with pleasing me. It's really strange because I've never not made someone cum.
  • Posted by six4six
    Not *used* there have been a couple times I wanted to finish watching the movie tho

    Lol. I'm guilty of ruining movies
  • Posted by starlord
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    I know females can often feel this way if their partner seems to put a big emphasis on sex and having their peen sucked, but if it was reversed and the female was the one being sexually demanding and fixated would you feel used? Or feel like you weren't appreciated enough as a person for your personality and other qualities...


    I think you should adf to this: and you rarely if ever get to cum when having sex with a woman for your entire life, while the women always comes and often many times. Would that make you feel used?

    'Cause I think many women feel used, because we end up feeling like a human dildo.. just a thought.


    I have the opposite situation. He goes down on me and makes me cum and he doesn't. He makes me stop when he's about to...


    ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ‘€ never heard of that before. Why?
    I think the lying decieving to get sex is also a part of feeling used, I might add.
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    It's weird... I'm not sure exactly.
  • Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    I know females can often feel this way if their partner seems to put a big emphasis on sex and having their peen sucked, but if it was reversed and the female was the one being sexually demanding and fixated would you feel used? Or feel like you weren't appreciated enough as a person for your personality and other qualities...


    I think you should adf to this: and you rarely if ever get to cum when having sex with a woman for your entire life, while the women always comes and often many times. Would that make you feel used?

    'Cause I think many women feel used, because we end up feeling like a human dildo.. just a thought.


    I have the opposite situation. He goes down on me and makes me cum and he doesn't. He makes me stop when he's about to...


    Why would he do that Leo?๐Ÿค”
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    I'm not sure. I told him it's not right for me to orgasm and him not. And I've asked why he doesn't let me keep going. He said he's only blown 3 times in front of a girl and I think one of them made fun of how he orgasm. So maybe he has a complex or he's just a huge control freak when it comes to that
  • Posted by earlorg16
    yes, when i was newly single and trying dating apps for the first time, i met a girl that only liked to meet me up on fridays for some reason. so there were 3 fridays in a row where i'd go to her place, we'd do the business, and that was that. we'd kick it at her place, rarely go out which was a bit odd to me. her roomie also seemed to hate her guts.

    every saturday morning, she claimed to "have work to get to" so she'd always ask me to leave before noon. one saturday however, i had left my phone there by accident, and didn't realize it until i got home so i shot her a facebook message asking if i can go pick it up to which i got no response. i ended up just driving back there, thinking it wasn't a big deal, and her roomie opened the door to see me and had the biggest smile on her face. i told her that i left my phone and needed to go into pick it up, so she happily let me in and told me to visit her room.

    once i got there, a naked black dude opened the door and was wondering who i was, and the girl i was seeing had this look of horror on her face. her roomie started cracking up, and said, "you've been caught you cuuuunt! yeah, so she sleeps with a different guy on rotation. so friday is asian night, saturday is african night, tomorrow is latino night... etc" anyway, me and the other guy got the idea, so i grabbed my phone and he got clothed and we both left the house. he and i kinda started talking when we left, and i asked him how long he's been seeing her for. he dealt with it for over a month and was also really weirded out by only seeing her for only a few hours on saturdays.

    Well that's an interesting one. It's pretty gross that she was talking to people in the same day though
  • Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Ladyleo18
    I know females can often feel this way if their partner seems to put a big emphasis on sex and having their peen sucked, but if it was reversed and the female was the one being sexually demanding and fixated would you feel used? Or feel like you weren't appreciated enough as a person for your personality and other qualities...


    I think you should adf to this: and you rarely if ever get to cum when having sex with a woman for your entire life, while the women always comes and often many times. Would that make you feel used?

    'Cause I think many women feel used, because we end up feeling like a human dildo.. just a thought.


    I have the opposite situation. He goes down on me and makes me cum and he doesn't. He makes me stop when he's about to...


    How is he making you stop? This would irritate me and I'd make him let me finish. I would fight him for it lol It's mine and I worked hard for it! Tongue
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    He'll like put his hand in the way and say stop stop because he wants to keep going
  • Posted by saggurl88
    No, I usually end up making the guy feel used. I don't know why. Maybe I'm too open about wanting it a lot. I'm not much for conversation when I see you. I'd rather spend real time with you lol


    Talk is cheap. Actions is where it's at lol
  • Posted by Antiochus
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    Yup, although I think it was mostly for other reasons like checking their market value etc.
    In general it's mostly more of a feeling that is based on your subjective, and therefor inherently flawed perspective, than factual, though.
    So, take it with a pile of salt.

    If it was someone you were dating and knew liked you heaps would that negate that feeling


    Those weren't dating situations.
    I don't date.
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    Seleukos is that you?
  • Posted by Antiochus
    Yup, although I think it was mostly for other reasons like checking their market value etc.
    In general it's mostly more of a feeling that is based on your subjective, and therefor inherently flawed perspective, than factual, though.
    So, take it with a pile of salt.

    If it was someone you were dating and knew liked you heaps would that negate that feeling
  • Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
    ........once or twice.

    But not by a gal.


    Was it someone you were actually dating or a fwb or one night stand?
  • Posted by Ariqua
    Cancer men, yes.

    My cancer says it's hot when I ask for it. But I guess I make him feel ok in other ways like making him food and being sweet
  • Posted by Waterbearerwearer

    I was immediately turned off when I was asked to โ€œcome get itโ€ one time.

    Gross

    As a female, I probably would be to. But I want to know if guys do.. because I want it all the time
  • Posted by brianafay
    If you ask my husband he will say yes, I only keep him around for the D and to pay my bills ๐Ÿ˜‚

    Someone play the violin for him

    Lol. Does he actually get upset about it?