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Posted by capitalism
I read your posts and you try very hard to earn respect, to show everyone on DXP that you're doing well at life.


DAYUM. Someones jelly. You mad?
Posted by capitalism
Posted by LadyNeptune
My 26% Cap vs your 19.8%


I read your posts and you try very hard to earn respect, to show everyone on DXP that you're doing well at life.

That's cool and good for you, I'll give credit where it's due.

But...

We "cat lady" astrology caps don't have do that butter. We speak softly and carry a big stick. That stick is competence and that we let our actions speak for themselves.

In other words - GODS
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In other words COPE with your 19.8%
Posted by WildatHeart


If it hasn't happened in 7 years and you are in the same town/state whatever...then he just isn't that into you. Sorry but dudes go after what they want. I suspect you've been looking at him as a backup plan and he at you.

Cut out the comfortably familiarity and open yourself up to something new.


I do appreciate your concern and advice, and I always respect your honesty in threads but in this instance I am going to have to disagree at least in part. This is definitely not a case of "he's not that into you", I have no doubt about how he feels. What holds me back is that I will change my life to let him in and it won't work out. Been there, done that...don't need anymore sad t-shirts.
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Sorry but its already changed your life. You've been holding onto this for the last 7 years.
How much more time and energy are you going to give him?
Posted by Ravishing
Posted by LadyNeptune
Are you on grinder?

YES lol
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Ok so is it really as popping as my gbff makes it seem?
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Ravishing
Posted by LePetitFisk
Are you "out" to your friends and family? How old were you when you told them? Did they seem surprised or just kinda knew all along and just waited for you to say something?

I was 16. I never planned to come out. I went on a date with a girl, tried to have sex with her but I couldn't get hard. I was treetrunked up on ecstasy. That day I had a realization... I can't sleep with women no matter how hard I try and I can't live this life. I knocked on my bff's boyfriends door and asked my bff to take a walk with me. I came out to her. Then I went home and came out to my family. My mom cried. lol. And no, they didn't expect it. They always knew I was "feminine" but being gay is not really a "thing" in my family. It was surprising to hear it but not really. My grandma knew all along. My mom just worried if something bad would happen to me because I'm gay.


what if it was just the ectasy an you're not really gay?
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Ummmm...have you ever done E before? Obviously not cause then you would know it makes you super horny.
Posted by Juliiette
Posted by LadyNeptune
Are you on grinder?

what the hell is that.

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gay version of tinder
Bull butter.

Aquarius sun with a leo mars in 5th will be the exact opposite of 'cold'.
Posted by WildatHeart
Posted by LadyNeptune
What is the nature of your interactions/communications. In person? Online??
Also is this long distance or are you both local?



We live in the same town and work at the same place. Over the years it has been both in person and through text or IM. That being said for the last year it has been mostly via text.

He asked me to go out for a drink with him on his birthday (that went over my head until the next day when he explained himself because he didn't ask very directly) and then he very directly asked me to go out with him a few days later. Both times I had obligations to my daughter and couldn't go. Then I asked him if he wanted to get together in November. He wanted to meet immediately but again I had an obligation to my daughter and I suggested another time. He said that he was afraid he would overthink it before then. I told him to let me know. That time came and went and even though we were talking regularly he never brought it up again and I didn't want to pressure him so I didn't bring it up either.

And then came a conversation that I think we both overthought and we haven't talked in a week.
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If it hasn't happened in 7 years and you are in the same town/state whatever...then he just isn't that into you. Sorry but dudes go after what they want. I suspect you've been looking at him as a backup plan and he at you.

Cut out the comfortably familiarity and open yourself up to something new.
This isn't something we talk about. We've talked about past relationships, sure. But not how many.
Come at me bro.
What is the nature of your interactions/communications. In person? Online??
Also is this long distance or are you both local?
Ewww. treetrunk this person!
I'm crowning myself the new GOD of Capricorns. @capinc is stepping down now that he/she's been exposed as a secret sag.
How the mighty have fallen lol
Posted by AriesCScheer1980
I must have said something through text message, because he went to work and alleged I was sexting him to our boss.


Find another dick to treetrunk your husband over on. This scorp doesn't want any part of you.