Posted by LadyNeptune I would ask him to go house shopping with me. Instead of asking him to move in. Exactly what I did actually and it played out nicely. Like leading a horse to water.
that's a great Idea... and its definitely something I want him to be apart of because I want to share my excitement. this is a proud moment for me and deep down I want him to be impressed and proud as well. sometimes TIME really ticks me because I know I just have to allow time and the unknown to play out but I really hate being unprepared.
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Well maybe that’s part of it. Do you make more $ $ than him? You have more assets ie your current house. Some men get an ego about wearing the ‘provider’ hat.
One pillow chat about lease end doesn’t really count for much. When you asked for exclusivity (because let’s be real, thats what it was) he avoided the topic and then avoided you. I think your way more into him than he is into you.