Dreamer @ heart yet I'm too earthy to be up in the clouds for too long... capaquapisces

Sun: Capricorn

Moon: Pisces

Colour I love looking at : Peach, light warm colours like light yellow and light blue

Colours I love wearing : A lot of white, blues here and there, and grey. I can't stand browns or black

Hair style : I'm a natural babe, and I get bored a lot so I'm always changing my hair. A lot of times I'm rocking twist outs, wash and gos, I'll straighten my hair here and there, or get some braids done. Usual style = a side fro

Make-up style : I hardly wear any. The most I wear when I go out to a fancy place is eyeliner, mascara layered on and a little foundation, I trust maybelline but yeah, I hardly wear make up. I've stopped doing beauty pegeants and I've worn it like 4 times this year

Apparel style : I love a clean look, natural, simple but cute. Not too heavy, just rocking pumps most times with leggings and a long shirt, or jeans and a cute flowery tsirt , boots in winter love rocking long ones with my jeans. I'm just a simple jeans typa girl. The only time I wear dresses and skirts is when I'm out on a date or having a girls night, otherwise, I can't stand wearing them at skul, really gets unecessary attention that I'm just not prepared for.

Jewellery: I love wearing something that has sentimental value...cute charm bracelets or elegant chains, studs studs studs. I am over long ear rings. Silver is my 2nd skin. Cute rosy studs, pearls, flowers or heart studs, in silver, peach and soft pinks.
My motto: simple, smart and clean. But irresistebly cute. Smart but sexy and respectable.
I love you caps!!
I've never met such a loyal sign like caps...loyal to their own kind! That's for sure...

I can spot a cap a mile away...something about their energy...its very oozing lol and only some people can pick it up...

When two caps meet, they either really like each other, or fear each other...because they know each other like the back of their hands...

We only fear those with true potential, which is usually other caps. But no matter what, they will always stand by each other.
Cap attitude = we love depth, meaning and truth. Make us look dumb, you're off the list.
Act all shallow and ur off the list.

Met this guy a few days ago, we had a cool vibe and I knew he was cap. Talked and talked for hours. Haven't felt a vibe like that in a long time...when someone has the right mix of thinking with the heart and the brain...when everything they do puts you at ease, when they are patient with you because they understand, life is too good to let it run by you!
I love love caps.

Why do you love caps?
I love you caps!!
I've never met such a loyal sign like caps...loyal to their own kind! That's for sure...

I can spot a cap a mile away...something about their energy...its very oozing lol and only some people can pick it up...

When two caps meet, they either really like each other, or fear each other...because they know each other like the back of their hands...

We only fear those with true potential, which is usually other caps. But no matter what, they will always stand by each other.
Cap attitude = we love depth, meaning and truth. Make us look dumb, you're off the list.
Act all shallow and ur off the list.

Met this guy a few days ago, we had a cool vibe and I knew he was cap. Talked and talked for hours. Haven't felt a vibe like that in a long time...when someone has the right mix of thinking with the heart and the brain...when everything they do puts you at ease, when they are patient with you because they understand, life is too good to let it run by you!
I love love caps.

Why do you love caps?
I don't think he wants you around...
I don't think he wanted to see you...

Ontop of it all he is going through, you are always around, as you say, to 'support' him, but it's STILL all about you. You talk about him like he owes you something...
Kinda like 'okay since I did this and this for you, you should do this for me!' Its not about that. I feel like you are suffocating him and are basically making all these demands.

Love is not about being owed or entitled to something which is what you feel, now that you are not receiving the attention you feel you are entitled to, you wana leave.
You know what, you should leave.
Love and giving are supposed to have no conditions, no extra terms and you my friend don't love him unconditionally, you have certain conditions he must meet.

To get into your shoes, I would also be very upset if my bf cancelled on me last minute to talk to anyone! But the focus of hurt would not be 'AFTER ALL I DID FOR HIM,ThIS IS HOW HE REPAYS ME??'
It would be focused on ' I've missed you terribly throughout the month and now I won't get to see you?' But in the end, you calm down about it, and you understand.

Its as if he has a debt to pay everytime he comes to see you, its how you feel, and caps pick it up, its all written in the way you do things for him.

He knows you are not doing it from the heart. Leave him and let him be.
Since your precious loving self has been taken for granted, leave.
I don't think he wants you around...
I don't think he wanted to see you...

Ontop of it all he is going through, you are always around, as you say, to 'support' him, but it's STILL all about you. You talk about him like he owes you something...
Kinda like 'okay since I did this and this for you, you should do this for me!' Its not about that. I feel like you are suffocating him and are basically making all these demands.

Love is not about being owed or entitled to something which is what you feel, now that you are not receiving the attention you feel you are entitled to, you wana leave.
You know what, you should leave.
Love and giving are supposed to have no conditions, no extra terms and you my friend don't love him unconditionally, you have certain conditions he must meet.

To get into your shoes, I would also be very upset if my bf cancelled on me last minute to talk to anyone! But the focus of hurt would not be 'AFTER ALL I DID FOR HIM,ThIS IS HOW HE REPAYS ME??'
It would be focused on ' I've missed you terribly throughout the month and now I won't get to see you?' But in the end, you calm down about it, and you understand.

Its as if he has a debt to pay everytime he comes to see you, its how you feel, and caps pick it up, its all written in the way you do things for him.

He knows you are not doing it from the heart. Leave him and let him be.
Since your precious loving self has been taken for granted, leave.
She just came out of a deep relationship that ended badly. And it was with her first bf u said?

She is not ready at all. She might have feelings for you, but to really be in a committed relationship again, feels like its too soon. She is not ready. You guys could get together, but over time, all her baggage and stuff will resurface, but this time it will be projected onto you. You will end up having to literally lose your dignity in getting her to really trust you again. Even if you did nothing wrong, if it feels like you did something wrong to her, you did something wrong.

She likes you, but the fact that she's hesitant tells you a lot! Don't push, don't be worried about some guy getting her first, cz she's not ready.
The best thing to do would be to really talk about this with her...

What you both want, and take your time getting there...
She needs to work onherself and nourish her soul for a while, and you deserve a woman who is able to be there for you wholeheartedly without always looking out the back door because she hasn't dealt with her past.
She's still really hurting. And she needs to focus on self-growth. As a man, you could be there for her in a healthy way, don't take anything from her, I mean emotionally, because she has almost nothing to give.
She just came out of a deep relationship that ended badly. And it was with her first bf u said?

She is not ready at all. She might have feelings for you, but to really be in a committed relationship again, feels like its too soon. She is not ready. You guys could get together, but over time, all her baggage and stuff will resurface, but this time it will be projected onto you. You will end up having to literally lose your dignity in getting her to really trust you again. Even if you did nothing wrong, if it feels like you did something wrong to her, you did something wrong.

She likes you, but the fact that she's hesitant tells you a lot! Don't push, don't be worried about some guy getting her first, cz she's not ready.
The best thing to do would be to really talk about this with her...

What you both want, and take your time getting there...
She needs to work onherself and nourish her soul for a while, and you deserve a woman who is able to be there for you wholeheartedly without always looking out the back door because she hasn't dealt with her past.
She's still really hurting. And she needs to focus on self-growth. As a man, you could be there for her in a healthy way, don't take anything from her, I mean emotionally, because she has almost nothing to give.
Well I mean if you come up to me with such a question, I will tell you I'm boring. Why? It's such a na??ve question, seriously.

It's almost like you're saying since some people think caps are boring, we should spring into action and prove that we are not.

When I'm asked to go left, I'll go right.
A cap is only free in a no expectations environment. When a person exoects something from me, I will not give it to them. Why? Cz I simply do not want to. Like answering this bogus question.
Well I mean if you come up to me with such a question, I will tell you I'm boring. Why? It's such a na??ve question, seriously.

It's almost like you're saying since some people think caps are boring, we should spring into action and prove that we are not.

When I'm asked to go left, I'll go right.
A cap is only free in a no expectations environment. When a person exoects something from me, I will not give it to them. Why? Cz I simply do not want to. Like answering this bogus question.
Uhm...cancer.
He rocked, just at times he got so emo and weird!
Thanks a lot guys...I really feel better knowing its not just me...

Well, I talked to him about it...and we're gonna try and fix everything...
There was a point we really expressed what we felt from the heart...its been a crazy month of my cap sun blocking him out for so long...and his aqua sun not understanding it all...fights and the whole hot cold war thing going on...
So we're sorting things out...
We both let our pride down...and let go of all that went wrong...
we're starting a new leaf...and we're really talking again...its slow but it'll get there...
and yes...if it doesnt work out...I know what to do. If it's not enough,....i KNOW WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE*

tHANk You sistAHs...
Pisces have you ever felt that at the beginning of a relationship this person you're dating really inspires you and helps you grow...or rather that both of you grow beautifully together...and then there's that point where the inspiration fades away and you feel trapped within a cage?

Im pisces moon, he's cap moon...

I feel like I'm drowning...

He used to inspire me...now he's just a block of meat and bone, with no energy or vibe...and he won't stop talking...about nothing...(aqua sun)

I can't talk to him about deep stuff...I can't talk to him about the secrets of the universe, what his true hearts desire is...I wana reach in and really talk...see his soul naked and vulnerable,,,but he has nothing inside. I'm drowning...he talks alot...about his sex fantasies, tells me unecessary things about irrelevant things lol
I have lost interest. I get no vibe...and he has no emotion. I wana cry...because when I'm with him, I feel lonely the most...
He's so empty...has no sense of empathy...not even an ounce. Now he's always going on about us getting married, and having kids. But i don't want it with him...atleast he should get a soul first *cries*

pisces...I am drowning...in my own sorrow...
Have you ever been here...?
Promised we would never walk away...
how do I tell him how I feel without hurting him...?
This guyis a jerk. Seriously...and I am so sorry for what you went through babes. Trying to mould him?? I'm sorry, but in a relationship, if you have a problem, you tell your gf about it...he's just not something you can even call a relationship...

the whole 'I love you'thing but we can't be together is an attempt to leave an open door for future prospects just in case he wants to come back...and all these girls popping up everywhere...it's just too much for a cap because you two never really got to know each other and build a proper foundation of trust...

You sound like you need a man...not this excuse of a man.lol okay that's mean, but still. Even the way he approached you just says alot!
oh. and if we're dating for like 6 months and you haven't said the L word...I will fall deeper even more*

Caps...I'm the complete opposite of what y??ll are saying....

I told him I loved him after 3 months...
but I knew I loved him from day 1...

I can't date a person...if I just know that it's not headed anywhere...
I won't date a person who doesn't have the same values as me...who is on the opposite side of the world when it comes to our personalities...but when you know, you know.

You meet that one person whom you would shoot the moon for. and you just know it. when both of u know you will never walk away cz ur prepared to work ur butts off to make it work...
when things are horrible but as long as ur together u know u will get through it...
when you know, nobody comes close to him. when u know he's ur home.

If I don't feel a thing at the beginning...there will never be anything...
aqua venus here...

pisces moon

cap sun...

my emotions can change in a heartbeat...from good to bad...
I can go from being so committed and in love...to feeling like I wana be on my own!!! It feels like my emotions are changing all the time and I don't really know what's the real one...
am I in love with this person...cz most times we're together its horrible. I have a mini outburst and he's mad cz I cannot control my emotions...and Im mad at him for trying to control every little thing I do, even the way I breathe! But im more mad at myself for having that outburst. But he's annoying me, yet I don't want him to leave, when he does leave I feel like breaking down, and then he calls and he's like 'are we okay?' and all I wana do is hold him, but I wana run from him at the same time....

I wana hold on tight...but I wana leave at the same time...
My emotions don't flow when I'm with him...it's like any sign of an actual emotion makes him uneasy and he's there telling me 'baby please calm down'and all I wana do is express myself...whether its good or bad as long as its genuine and not because I'm trying to make him happy...

Everything is in a little box...and I feel like im drowning...i feel like I'm deep under water...

at the same time...I know I love him through and through...

do i need a break or what...
Posted by JTG1984
Well that's what I'm unsure of. When I'm ready to go they come back and it starts all over.


this wrings a bell for me...and I know exactly what u feel
When ur ready to go they wana hold on!! And it drives me insane...
Posted by DazedScorp
No, no... NOOOOOO!!!!

What's next? Saturn in Sag????

Fuuuuuuck that.


loooool was thinking the same thing
This recently happened with an aries friend of mine that I recently put in the acquaintance department...I got to know her, and now I just dont wana be close to her. She's a good person...but for some reason I just am so tired of the constant fire feeling...idk how to say it...but around her I need to be awake like awake and it annoys me...that I need to give so much, and pick up so much more without asking for it!!lol there's so much unsaid, and it rushes in me, guess its my pisces moon, but it is exhausting!! damn.

Its been happening with my boyfriend too. I don't know how to go about telling him I need space, but I put it in the 'we should make time for our friends'department...and things were getting better...BUT on Friday I had another ?_ce cold relapse'...i just switch off. so moody and detached, saying anything and everything thats on my mind...for some reason I wana c real emotion from him...I wana c him freak out, n get passionate about us!! But he just sits there talking n when he realizes I switched off...he says stuff like 'you know what, I'm not even gonna bother'omg i felt like screaming!!!! Guess thats the reason I love him...he's my match...I never get what I want with him...cz he knows exactly what I want, and what I need. buttt yesssss i lose interest with almost everyone.

If I start feeling like im being obligated to see them, to keep in contact and all...imma bounce!