Yeah Leogal....the challenge! Any woman with a weaker personality than mine and I lose interest very quickly. What scares me though is that even the ones I think I could NEVER break down (what I mean is subdue themselves to me....) eventually do and then 3 years down the line I'm getting bored....I think I need therapy.
But hey...don't let the stars dictate who you should and shouldn't date! They're more fun than anything...follow your heart! PS > I'm Leo and I don't mess around - so go figure....starsigns don't necessarily maketh the man!
My Aqua finds all thecapswe know (and we know quite a few) boring. And funny enough all the Male Caps in our social circle are married to Taurean Woman and they all have happy marriages. I swear Cap male and Taurus Female were made for each other. In my poker club of 4 couples we're the only non-Cap/Taurus couple.
I see you hid all your comments....feeling a little trodden on??? As for giving advice....I wasn't at all. Your "type" always know better even when they're the laughing stock. I was simply pointing out your pathetic character flaws and why you possibly thrive on the attention, albeit of an unsavoury nature. And if that's how you accept "better" advice then you seriously need to either learn some manners (perhaps it's breeding?) or get your head read. Calling your adviser (Lady_M) every insulting name under the sun just screams of immaturity. Basically you've defended yourself so much and contradicted yourself so badly that you're now backed in a corner. This is usually the part where any sane, non-melodramatic human being backs out graciously. Basically what I'm trying to say is that you're just a bloody marker and I don't think your 'RACK' is nice...they're grossly fat and outa shape if you know what I mean. Big difference between having big firm knockers and fat droopy knockers. I definately wouldn't pride myself on that picture. Suggestion....get yourself an Avatar and save yourself the embarrassment of looking "cheap".
Well firstly I feel it a bit disrespectful that he thinks it's ok to start texting and messages things of a sexual nature. He met you once and since then it's been telephonic conversations only - I'm not saying it's wrong...just seems a little cheeky and soon? Perhaps he thinks because of that one night..... I don't know but I personally wouldn't entertain it. Seems a bit presumptuous. I??d say don??t expect anything??_that way if it pulls off great but you haven??t been hurt if it doesn??t??. Chances are it won??t ??? long distance is long distance and whilst some work most don??t.
Nope. Only if the guy's a major irritation and you don't have the heart to tell him. But not all Leo's or woman are the same. Perhaps she does have a nasty streak. She may even be testing your feelings....she insults you, you go back, she sees it as being in the game. Try be nasty back then - may put her in her place. Give what you give dammit. Don't be a walk-over.
Urgh, read all of this. Arianne, you're way to defensive and way too aggresive. Jeezo chick calm down to a panic ok?! I tend to agree with many people here....if the guy stalked you and you're convinced he's a psycho why the heck are you 'FORGIVING' him and inviting back into your life? Perhaps you enjoy the attention? I'd imagine so because clearly it's all DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA in you life.
My ex was psycho beyond repair - literally. I could write a book and trust me...when I finally got rid of him (court restraint) there wasn't any way in hell I would ever allow him back in. I even went so far as to change my number, my address and even the company I worked for. So......what I'm trying to say is, if it's as bad as you make out you'd have stayed clear of him, but instead you 'FORGAVE' (bless your cotton socks) so best you suck it up.
and furthermore to Lady_M's response, if you're in a committed relationship why the bloody hell are you off visiting your stalker ex and entertaining his phone calls? I'm pretty sure my man would get seriously pissed off with me if I was entertaining my ex's butter and he certainly wouldn't believe me if I pretended it bothered me?
The friends thing is only for so long....once the relationship turns to "committed" I think that whilst the Aqua still wants the two of you to be friends above all else, he now views the two of you as more of a couple. A relationship with an Aqua is like no other really (duh) but in the sense that it's all UPHILL in the beginning. You never know what he's thinking, or whether he even likes you? You don't even know when next you'll see him, and then suddenly when he decides you're right for him or maybe when he acknowledges he's in love it ALL changes. Then it's easy sailing...he stops that crap about being secretative and myseterious. He can be quite a wonderful and committed boyfriend actually...I'm Leo though so for dramatic affects I just tend to find things to complain about...fortunately he knows this and usually turns these moaning sessions into a playful tease.
I agree with all the others with regards you getting a man in your own town...Aquas and probably men in general get bored easily...so having you so far away isn't exactly stimulating ALL of the time, oh and whilst they like their space (or in my experience any way) they too like to have company 70% of the time so yes....he's probably socialising with other woman (they truly don't see sex when it comes to friends) but don't preampt that he's necessarily involved with them as such... I'd just ask him straight out. I'd say hey, you pretend to be so unwanted but yet you've got all these chicks befriending you on Myspace? It doesnt' matter that you've snooped through his friends list - you don't think he's snooped through yours? It's public if you allow it to be isn't it?
I don't think it's just Aqua Females....Aqua Males too. I live in Africa so with 1 in 3 people being HIV, you HAVE to be careful about who you sleep with. When Aqua and I first started sleeping with each other we were both quite fanatical about contraception. I wasn't on the pill so we used condoms, every time without fail. No condoms, no sex. After about a year or so I started relaxing a bit about it and after comments from him about sex never being spontaneous having to always find a condom I decided to go on the pill. I had to trust that he wasn't carrying on dreaded disease (but I was pretty certain since he'd had a test rather recently for an insurance policy on the bond) and knew that I wasn't. Even though I'd been on the pill for some time and was probably 100% protected it still took some convincing for him to abandom the condoms (go figure since HE was the one moaning about them). Eventually he did and God forbid I should ask him to wear one now because I've been throwing up with a stomach bug or on antibiotics.... For him though, I think he was fanatic about it because of disease but moreso about an unwanted pregancy - he wasn't committed and wasn't about to force himself into it (typical Aquarian). For me it wasn't so much a pregnancy (I wouldn't mind) but rather catching a disease! Now he's casual about...we went on holiday and forgot to pack my pill. We were in the bush miles from nowhere for 3 days and I was pretty adament that we should drive into the nearest town to get another packet. He wasn't too bothered, told me to chill and we had sex all over the place!! Even on the deck in the open when the rest of the family went game viewing!!!
Well whatever he meant so be it. I'm happy with who I am. I replied saying that I fell for him because he had lovely dogs. And I DID HONESTLY! I loved them long before I even liked him! Ha ha...and now 3 years later they love me more than him!! ha ha ha
So I'm Leo and he's Aqua. We've been together for 3 years now. He often says that I was a challenge and that's what attracted him in the first place. The chase. Now last night we were sitting and having an open casual chat about our ex's. He mentioned what he liked and disliked about the significant ones in his past and so the convo went on.... He's pretty fussy about a woman's looks - turned down a beautiful girl (well in my opinion anyway) simply because she had a mole with hair growing out of it on her chin!? I don't think I come even close to her in beauty so I asked him why the heck he fell for me....surely not my looks if you could turn HER down??? With a grin he said yip, I fell for your wit and intelligence. As a LEO this is like a bit of ouch. But then again perhaps from him it's more of a compliment?