You're not wrong for not wanting to be in a stressful situation. Your husband needs to realize that his mother and grandmother are adults and can take care of themselves. His mother may be threatened by you and may fear that if he leaves a portion of their income will be gone too. As his wife you should come first! This may not be an option since you just started working and he gives a portion of his money to his mother but highly suggest counseling (individually and as a couple).
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@oxSunQueenxo what do you think?


I will respond as soon as I can. I've been such for about a month now and need to heal, lol.



No rush! Take care of yourself and I hope you feel well soon.


Could you do me a huge favor and input your birth data in astro.com and post the chart that comes up from there? It's much easier for me to read.






Do you have your birth data handy?


I'm sorry...my birthday? July 30, 1989



You also need birth time and birth town/city.
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Aw, sorry. Just realized I cut all of that off.

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@oxSunQueenxo what do you think?


I will respond as soon as I can. I've been such for about a month now and need to heal, lol.



No rush! Take care of yourself and I hope you feel well soon.


Could you do me a huge favor and input your birth data in astro.com and post the chart that comes up from there? It's much easier for me to read.






Do you have your birth data handy?
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I'm sorry...my birthday? July 30, 1989

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@oxSunQueenxo what do you think?


I will respond as soon as I can. I've been such for about a month now and need to heal, lol.



No rush! Take care of yourself and I hope you feel well soon.


Could you do me a huge favor and input your birth data in astro.com and post the chart that comes up from there? It's much easier for me to read.
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@oxSunQueenxo what do you think?


I will respond as soon as I can. I've been such for about a month now and need to heal, lol.
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No rush! Take care of yourself and I hope you feel well soon.
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It's different when someone has to deal with a "baby mama" than dealing with the mother of his child(ren). I think typical babymamas are jealous and cause drama. Me on the other hand, I want my daughter's father to find someone who loves my daughter and treats her well and as she would treat her own. Someone who isn't jealous of our relationship (becuase we have to have one for the sake of our child) and who helps him become a better person and father. I think dating someone with kids is always difficult when you have someone who acts as if they're the child or if the person you're dating doesn't know how to communicate and if there is jealousy amongst the adults. Where communication is and a schedule to adhere to and the adults acting as adults it makes things so much more easier.


THIS! That's what i call "grown"!!! lol i love it!

question for you...
do you feel like you should get to meet his girlfriend(s) before they come around your child?
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The younger me would've said yes but I have to trust him enough to know he wouldn't bring anyone around her that would cause her any harm therefore I don't have to but would like to. I would hope if he's serious about someome he would feel comfortable enough to do so.
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Can anyone help explain my chart and who would be a good fit romantically?

Sun-Leo 7°28'
Moon-Cancer 13°09'
Mercury-Leo 20° 27'
Venus-Virgo 7° 58'
Mars-Leo 27°33'
Jupiter-Gemini 29° 56'
Saturn-Cap 8°40' R
Uranus-Cap 2°00' R
Neptune-Cap 10°18' R
Pluto-Scorpio 12°24'
Lilith-Libra 19°16'
Asc node- Aquarius 25°43'

I can't seem to get rid of Aries. The problem I have with them is they love women (cheaters) and they take forever to settle down (the ones I know at least) but they will fight tooth and nail to keep me there and it's hard for them to let go.
My daughter's father, the most recent guy I was dating and I had a good bit of female aries friends.

I attract a lot of Libras but it hasn't worked out with us. As for the women, one of my closest friends is a Libra.

I love Sagittarius and their strong personalities but never was in a relationship with one. My mom and grandma are Sagittarius.

I have yet to meet any Geminis but my dad and brother are both gems. My dad and I have such a love hate relationship and my brother is so different from me (he's such an introvert and secretive).

I only listed signs that my sun sign is supposedly compatible with.


Do you have the actual chart/diagram image? It's easier to see your placements in that format, and I can see your ascendant and planets in their proper Houses.


I do but I'm not sure on how to post it. Do I have to go to the desktop view to upload an image?


Nope. You can upload it on imgur and copy/paste the URL on here.
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Can anyone help explain my chart and who would be a good fit romantically?

Sun-Leo 7°28'
Moon-Cancer 13°09'
Mercury-Leo 20° 27'
Venus-Virgo 7° 58'
Mars-Leo 27°33'
Jupiter-Gemini 29° 56'
Saturn-Cap 8°40' R
Uranus-Cap 2°00' R
Neptune-Cap 10°18' R
Pluto-Scorpio 12°24'
Lilith-Libra 19°16'
Asc node- Aquarius 25°43'

I can't seem to get rid of Aries. The problem I have with them is they love women (cheaters) and they take forever to settle down (the ones I know at least) but they will fight tooth and nail to keep me there and it's hard for them to let go.
My daughter's father, the most recent guy I was dating and I had a good bit of female aries friends.

I attract a lot of Libras but it hasn't worked out with us. As for the women, one of my closest friends is a Libra.

I love Sagittarius and their strong personalities but never was in a relationship with one. My mom and grandma are Sagittarius.

I have yet to meet any Geminis but my dad and brother are both gems. My dad and I have such a love hate relationship and my brother is so different from me (he's such an introvert and secretive).

I only listed signs that my sun sign is supposedly compatible with.


Do you have the actual chart/diagram image? It's easier to see your placements in that format, and I can see your ascendant and planets in their proper Houses.
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I do but I'm not sure on how to post it. Do I have to go to the desktop view to upload an image?
It's different when someone has to deal with a "baby mama" than dealing with the mother of his child(ren). I think typical babymamas are jealous and cause drama. Me on the other hand, I want my daughter's father to find someone who loves my daughter and treats her well and as she would treat her own. Someone who isn't jealous of our relationship (becuase we have to have one for the sake of our child) and who helps him become a better person and father. I think dating someone with kids is always difficult when you have someone who acts as if they're the child or if the person you're dating doesn't know how to communicate and if there is jealousy amongst the adults. Where communication is and a schedule to adhere to and the adults acting as adults it makes things so much more easier.
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Yes that is the Libra with the cancer moon. You may have read everything about him, who knows. Lol. I was just giving a little background on our situation. I am able to view things from other's point of view but the issue was he never said he needed alone time (I know he doesn't owe me an explanation but I personally wouldn't just leave without letting the person know I need time to myself). I'm okay with giving someone space as I need space too. I just don't like being ignored and believe in communicating. If he went MIA but came back and addressed the reason for his disappearance I'd prob be okay with that too but to come back as if nothing happened and after I explained how it made me feel and him still do it was the issue. His communication sucked. But maybe you're right...maybe I should've been patient and once he was ready to talk about it he would've. @seleukos


Understandable, it's very hard to draw a clear line that is truly just.
Patience can a virtue or a curse.
It helped me to just focus on other things and give the other person time and space.
I only cut the ties if things keep happening the same way even after I've spoken with said person about it.
People make single mistake. That's human but when it starts to become a pattern it's time to leave.
That's my rule of thumb.


It all boils down to respect at the end of the day. It's said to treat people the way you want to be treated which in actuality it should be treat people the way THEY want to be treated.


Words of wisdom.
Hope you are able to figure things out with your Libra.
You might to have to push him from time to time. A Libra Mars isn't the most proactive one.
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I wouldn't mind being his friend again one day but he has a lot of growing up to do. He recently got himself in some trouble. I checked on him, he asked me to pray for him and that was the last time we spoke. He definitely needs some pushing. I tried to help him find a better job prior to his run in with the law but I think I may have been helping too much. I can't help but admit that I'm disappointed in him. I see so much potential and it's sad when people get involved with the wrong type of people.

I hope your ex gives you some answers or realizes her wrong doing and comes back if it's the best for you both. If not, I hope you find someone that makes you happy.
Yes I would. I have a child and it's nice to to talk to someone who can relate. I'd much rather date men who have kids because the one's who don't seem to forget that I can't just get up and leave my house at the drop of a dime and they have to plan things if they really want to date me. 2 kids would be the max (btw only have one).
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Yes that is the Libra with the cancer moon. You may have read everything about him, who knows. Lol. I was just giving a little background on our situation. I am able to view things from other's point of view but the issue was he never said he needed alone time (I know he doesn't owe me an explanation but I personally wouldn't just leave without letting the person know I need time to myself). I'm okay with giving someone space as I need space too. I just don't like being ignored and believe in communicating. If he went MIA but came back and addressed the reason for his disappearance I'd prob be okay with that too but to come back as if nothing happened and after I explained how it made me feel and him still do it was the issue. His communication sucked. But maybe you're right...maybe I should've been patient and once he was ready to talk about it he would've. @seleukos


Understandable, it's very hard to draw a clear line that is truly just.
Patience can a virtue or a curse.
It helped me to just focus on other things and give the other person time and space.
I only cut the ties if things keep happening the same way even after I've spoken with said person about it.
People make single mistake. That's human but when it starts to become a pattern it's time to leave.
That's my rule of thumb.
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It all boils down to respect at the end of the day. It's said to treat people the way you want to be treated which in actuality it should be treat people the way THEY want to be treated.
I will try and try but once I'm disrespected (calling me names, verbal and mental abuse) I'm leaving with no questions asked. I wasn't always this way but I learned the hard way. My daughter's father broke me down so bad and now I refuse to ever put myself I'm a situation like that again.
Failure is a part of growth/success and it's okay not to be in control of everything.
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Can anyone help explain my chart to me and who would be a good fit romantically?

I can't seem to get rid of Aries. The only problem I have with them is they love women (cheaters) and they take forever to settle down (the ones I know at least) but they will fight tooth and nail to keep me there and it's hard for them to let go.
My daughter's father, the most recent guy I was dating and I had a good bit of female aries friends.

I attract a lot of Libras but it hasn't worked out with us. As for the women, one of my closest friends is a Libra.

I love Sagittarius and their strong personalities but never was in a relationship with one. My mom and grandma are Sagittarius.

I have yet to meet any Geminis but my dad and brother are both gems. My dad and I have such a love hate relationship and my brother is so different from I am (he's such an introvert and secretive).


Post your chart and I'm sure there will be some who are willing to help.
Edit: Uploding the picture at imgur would be the easiest way.



Lol, I thought it posted. I updated it. Thanks!


Depending on teh exact placements I would say go for me.
But back to topic:
Sagittarius might work or an earth sign with some essential aspects in Sag.

I'm no expert though, so take it with a grain of salt.



Lol, what's your sign? I added the placements. Can you tell me about my chart from what you've read? Lol, well I'm sure you're better than I am but will do. 😉

Aqua Sun, Sagittarius Moon/Mars and Venus in Capricorn. I'm also used toe deal with women that have a Leo Mars.

Okay,
late Gemini or early Cancer might work due to your Jupiter which would ease some of the negative tensions you Sag pluto can generate towards Gemini, namely power struggles.
Otherwise, yeah early Sagittarius with a bit of earth in form of Venus. Uranus, Neptune will be in Capricorn for most of your age group.
Same for early Aquas due to your Mars ate the end and not beginning of Leo. Aquas and Leos can work suprisingly well under certain conditions.
Late Leo/early Virgos could work due to your Venus.


Very interesting. Thanks for your help! Based off of my chart of course, why do you think it hasn't worked for Aries and Libra?



Might be the Cancer moon and Virgo Venus.
You would need someone who has at least a couple of placements that enables him to be nurturing, supporting as well as giving you the feeling of being protected. Yet, he would need some fire keep up with you/not be intimidated by you.
Arie is the caveman of the zodiac signs and Libra needs someone to support them too as they are sittings ducks otherwise and don't know what to do. They can also be very boring.


Omg this is so true! I find a lot of men intimidated by me and yes, me feeling protected and supported is a must. This all makes sense. The Libra men of my past can be boring and extremely lazy. Aries is fun and exciting but not as supportive and nurturing as I'd like.


What is your Chiron?


I believe it's Cancer.


Damn, you truly are a very similar to the Gemini I had to deal with for seven years.
If your partner has a Jupiter that is in Cancer and is close enough to your Chiron it's believed to be able to "heal" that wound.


Lol, that you had to deal with? Why does that not sound like such a good thing? Haha. What happened?


She ghosted me after seven years but besides that I loved her and will do so until my dying day.
I have my Chiron in Cancer too by the way. So nothing bad with it besides the fact it's Chiron.
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That's sad. Does she know how you feel about her? Do you know what caused her to distance herself? Maybe that has everything to do with her Gem sun...? I'd never ghost anyone. I'm too blunt. I say how I feel and then leave if need be. The Aries that I was dating and who I still have feelings for...I told him it would be best for him to focus on himself and that I had to do what's best for me and then I left. I don't understand how someone could care about someone so much but then leave without a word.



Yes, she knows/knew.
No, I have no idea what made her do it. I can only guess.
I also would never ghost anyone.
Gemini's just vanish from time to time and then come back just like us Aquas or Libras.
Which is a shame because her moon had a very comfy place between my Venus and sun.
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If you don't mind me asking how old are both of you?

I know you said you love her but would you give it another chance if she returned?

I can't take being ignored or the fact of not knowing. So if someone leaves with no explanation it'll drive me crazy (maybe because it's a bit of a bruise to my ego). I'd think I did something wrong and would want to fix it. The first signs of someone ghosting me would result in them losing me. The Libra friend went MIA on me for about a week. I explained how I felt when he did it and asked if something was bothering him to please talk about it instead of going MIA. He did it again and I ended up cutting the friendship off completely.
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Can anyone help explain my chart to me and who would be a good fit romantically?

I can't seem to get rid of Aries. The only problem I have with them is they love women (cheaters) and they take forever to settle down (the ones I know at least) but they will fight tooth and nail to keep me there and it's hard for them to let go.
My daughter's father, the most recent guy I was dating and I had a good bit of female aries friends.

I attract a lot of Libras but it hasn't worked out with us. As for the women, one of my closest friends is a Libra.

I love Sagittarius and their strong personalities but never was in a relationship with one. My mom and grandma are Sagittarius.

I have yet to meet any Geminis but my dad and brother are both gems. My dad and I have such a love hate relationship and my brother is so different from I am (he's such an introvert and secretive).


Post your chart and I'm sure there will be some who are willing to help.
Edit: Uploding the picture at imgur would be the easiest way.



Lol, I thought it posted. I updated it. Thanks!


Depending on teh exact placements I would say go for me.
But back to topic:
Sagittarius might work or an earth sign with some essential aspects in Sag.

I'm no expert though, so take it with a grain of salt.



Lol, what's your sign? I added the placements. Can you tell me about my chart from what you've read? Lol, well I'm sure you're better than I am but will do. 😉

Aqua Sun, Sagittarius Moon/Mars and Venus in Capricorn. I'm also used toe deal with women that have a Leo Mars.

Okay,
late Gemini or early Cancer might work due to your Jupiter which would ease some of the negative tensions you Sag pluto can generate towards Gemini, namely power struggles.
Otherwise, yeah early Sagittarius with a bit of earth in form of Venus. Uranus, Neptune will be in Capricorn for most of your age group.
Same for early Aquas due to your Mars ate the end and not beginning of Leo. Aquas and Leos can work suprisingly well under certain conditions.
Late Leo/early Virgos could work due to your Venus.


Very interesting. Thanks for your help! Based off of my chart of course, why do you think it hasn't worked for Aries and Libra?



Might be the Cancer moon and Virgo Venus.
You would need someone who has at least a couple of placements that enables him to be nurturing, supporting as well as giving you the feeling of being protected. Yet, he would need some fire keep up with you/not be intimidated by you.
Arie is the caveman of the zodiac signs and Libra needs someone to support them too as they are sittings ducks otherwise and don't know what to do. They can also be very boring.


Omg this is so true! I find a lot of men intimidated by me and yes, me feeling protected and supported is a must. This all makes sense. The Libra men of my past can be boring and extremely lazy. Aries is fun and exciting but not as supportive and nurturing as I'd like.


What is your Chiron?


I believe it's Cancer.


Damn, you truly are a very similar to the Gemini I had to deal with for seven years.
If your partner has a Jupiter that is in Cancer and is close enough to your Chiron it's believed to be able to "heal" that wound.


Lol, that you had to deal with? Why does that not sound like such a good thing? Haha. What happened?


She ghosted me after seven years but besides that I loved her and will do so until my dying day.
I have my Chiron in Cancer too by the way. So nothing bad with it besides the fact it's Chiron.
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That's sad. Does she know how you feel about her? Do you know what caused her to distance herself? Maybe that has everything to do with her Gem sun...? I'd never ghost anyone. I'm too blunt. I say how I feel and then leave if need be. The Aries that I was dating and who I still have feelings for...I told him it would be best for him to focus on himself and that I had to do what's best for me and then I left. I don't understand how someone could care about someone so much but then leave without a word.